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[AlexXela]

I've mostly been mongering on HX / PD / Backpage when it was around, and am looking to try something new. Ik most of these girls aren't supposed to be pros but is it similar to talking to pros? Also when I mongered I prefered to go to an incall is that something the girls on SA usually have or is it a outcall only thing? Thanks for the help.

[BamBam]

I have tried different approaches over time. The most important thing for me is to make sure they are DTF in some form while chatting on SA. (I never discuss money on SA.) Then I move them to texting. While texting, I share a range. The range varies depending on how hot they look, their distance from me, my relative level of recent success and a few other factors. When we meet, I offer a specific amount. I have a list of excuses I can offer for any adjustments. I will low ball anyone I don't really want to see again. I might overpay for someone really hot. I do them once and then do not reschedule. If they ask me why, I say: "It wasn't really all that good was it?" I have been doing this almost seven years. I have learned a lot from people like Hollywood Guy. It is a numbers game and by now my wrinkled, old ass is impervious to any attitude the POT's might throw at me. Every day there are new ones eager to see me. When I make my offer, I am at my indifference point: if they say yes, I am glad. If they say No, I don't care; I move on.

With regard to Paypal, for several years I had a fully functioning sugar Paypal tied to my sugar gmail. I started it using a prepaid credit card. I was able to use it to send money direct or for gifts from Amazon to SB's. A few years ago, they started demanding a regular credit / debit card or a bank account. It no longer works for me and I have a few hundred stranded there. If anyone knows how to get it out, please DM me.

Bam.

Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.

[NeedaBBBJCIM]

Is there a lot of fake ads?! As I am seeing a lot of that like most dating apps and website as those numbers are higher and other social media etc!

[TylerDurd]

Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.

Here's the thing. I've tried to HG price point, and it can work but you could potentially be waiting around for months with nothing to show for it, just to save a couple $$. Keep in mind it sounds like he mostly goes for black girls and in my experience they will consistently take low balls. Other girls not so much. I make the offer before meeting in most cases, they usually won't even agree to meet until they get an idea of what you're offering. You can deviate from that and get some results, but imo its a waste of time to try to save a bit of money. The best strategy to try to save money is to give your best offers up front, do a couple of meetups, maybe a month or so, then after she gets to know you and trust you, try to lower the allowance.

[HollywoodGuy]

What kind of of girls take lowball offers?

AA girls are more likely to. But so will latinas and white girls.

Girls that can see something more in you than the $.

Girls in an immediate financial bind.

Girls that usually get far more but are just bored and with nothing to do for the moment.

Girls staying in motels. Girls that need a room.

Maybe you are adding a nice dinner to the date or an attractive location.

New girls that don't know any better.

Girls with low self esteem that are grateful that you even made an offer.

Girls you connect with on a kink level.

Girls that may not fit the prevailing standard of beauty.

Older girls that just got out of a relationship, want revenge, are bored, or just horny.

Just my 2 cents.

[HollywoodGuy]

Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.

I won't even do an M&G without a firm yes to my offer beforehand. As I prefer to do my sweet talking via messaging. I like to get the financials out of the way upfront so the only thing left to think about is the fun. And I am a low baller so even in a not so great outcome I am still gonna cum for a fair price. And many times I will be paying 50%-67% off of prevailing rates for a hottie. The down side is I will get a lot of turn downs. But I would rather get turned down via txt than face to face.

Many others wait till the M&G (as they may offer more or less depending on the perceived value). And some leave it a mystery until after the deed is done.

Try out a few different scenarios and see which one best suites your needs.

[SushiLover69]

Do you guys generally make an offer before the meet or after meeting? What is a reasonable offer to make to a thin, young latina in So Cal? Thanks so much.

[HollywoodGuy]

I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.

Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.

You are just going to have to wait it out. After some length of time it will fade away as most of these things tend to do. It's easy for me to say, but having been in similar threatening situations with SB's and GF's in the past, it's just normally what happens. I am sure every one on this thread is thinking, "There but for the grace of God go I" And good luck.

[Zman429]

So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?

Hmm that was 11 months ago thinking maybe a scam she probably did a text blast to all her numbers. That said if she could actually prove it is your child yes you're on the hook. You should block her number and cease all contact since nothing good can come of it and she tried to scam you.

[FarFarAway]

Nothing connected to a financial institution is truly anonymous. A Paypal account in another name is still funded by a transactional instrument such as a bank / card, etc.

Cash is king. Even in restaurants. I was plopped at a bar with a SB a few years ago, and when he brought back my AMEX, you know what he said. "Thank you Mr. RogerOver".

She looked at me and said, I'm going home and google "RogerOver" LOL. Had my speaking presentations and all next time I saw her. She was a good kid, so it was a laugh off. But you never know when good times become bad.

This has changed over time. A year + ago, I was able to buy prepaid cards and send $ to a SB by my sugar PayPal (to pay for the room she was getting for us). Like lots of these young ones, she didn't have a credit card, she needed $ on her debit card to get the transaction to process. But as I said myself, I don't think this will work currently. So, your first statement may or may not be true. Yes, I am very dedicated to cash whenever. I would never use my personal credit card around a SB. I also know all the security issues w / getting a hotel, that's why I like to have my SB get a room.

[RogerOver]

I recently thought I had a good way to get $ transferred that failed. I am lucky enough to have a PayPal with my sugar identity. They haven't require verification for it. I thought I would send $ from several of my old prepaid cards (with odd small $ on them, from paying for SA) through my real PayPal to my sugar me. That part worked OK, but over on my sugar PayPal, to 'save' that $ in my account (to aggregate it), I did have to have my account verified. Dang.

Nothing connected to a financial institution is truly anonymous. A Paypal account in another name is still funded by a transactional instrument such as a bank / card, etc.

Cash is king. Even in restaurants. I was plopped at a bar with a SB a few years ago, and when he brought back my AMEX, you know what he said. "Thank you Mr. RogerOver".

She looked at me and said, I'm going home and google "RogerOver" LOL. Had my speaking presentations and all next time I saw her. She was a good kid, so it was a laugh off. But you never know when good times become bad.

[RogerOver]

I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.

Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.

Well, no matter what the consequences, I wouldn't pay her. She'll always come back to that well if you do. You have to make sure she knows you're a waste of time to hit up for cash. If she threatens you with exposure, that's a crime. Might not be too helpful, but that's all I can really think of unless you're willing to make some threats of your own, which have the possibility of turning up the tension.

Hope it all works out. I'm assuming you're married or otherwise hooked up with a SO, or you could just follow Hollywood's advice: Block and forget.

[FarFarAway]

Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.

Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.

I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?

IDK anything about Venmo specifically, but essentially everything these days for financial transactions requires real personal info, precluding anonymity, and I presume Venmo is the same. So, in retrospect, that wasn't such a good idea to do, was it? Keeping my operational security (married and a professional rep to defend) is paramount. I don't believe anyone has discovered the real me in my 3+ years in the bowl.

Assuming that you had done that, the point about DNA is a decent one. Even if you aren't yourself in any DNA databases, if a close relative is, you could be implicated in something (by someone like LE who has the resources and authority to dig into databases). BTW, the most common retort to a girl saying preggo is 'who's the father? Not me, I've had a vasectomy'. If you'd been with her a bunch, she might know that not to be true, but for a 1-night stand, I can't imagine her info is that good.

You don't have to lose your burner if you've been using Google Voice, you just get a new number if you don't want to be pestered by this chick.

I recently thought I had a good way to get $ transferred that failed. I am lucky enough to have a PayPal with my sugar identity. They haven't require verification for it. I thought I would send $ from several of my old prepaid cards (with odd small $ on them, from paying for SA) through my real PayPal to my sugar me. That part worked OK, but over on my sugar PayPal, to 'save' that $ in my account (to aggregate it), I did have to have my account verified. Dang.

[Shyzai]

Block her number.

I already did, but she knows where I live. I will never make that mistake again. She also knows my real identity.

Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.

Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.

I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?

Yes, I paid her that way and she does know who I am and where I live.

[RogerOver]

So I received a request for $700 on Venmo with a simple message: Abortion! My mind raced, and I panicked. Whom did I impregnate and when? I looked into our history and realised that I had paid her $200 in February. We only rendezvoused once and she never intimated to me that she was pregnant all these months. I am assuming that she already had the procedure done, if she was ever really pregnant. I don't want to contact her at all. What am I supposed to do? Does she have any legal standing?

Based on those timelines, you're supposed to toss your burner phone and forget about it. If she had an abortion, there's no DNA to match at this point, and if she's pregnant in a time window that would be eligible for an early term abortion, it's not yours.

Do nothing, or ask her who the father is and why he isn't hitting her with $700.

I assume if she has your venmo, that you paid her that way and she in fact knows who you are?