Seeking Arrangement

**MichiganMan686** · 12-13-20 07:06

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

My thought process is a little different, but perhaps it's because I am looking for something a little different. I try to avoid the semi-pros, UTRs, etc. I actually prefer something that will be relatively long-term with someone for whom SA is not a career. I've been very fortunate and have had several long-term arrangements (as long as 2 years). All of my best arrangements have been with girls who asked for pictures. In fact, if a girl commits to meeting without having requested a picture, I view that as a substantial negative. I'm not looking for someone who is willing to commit to sex with someone when they haven't even seen a picture. For the same reason, I never offer to send a picture, because I want it to be their idea.

Thanks. I'm just I guess always cautious not to get into a bad situation. TY for the opinion. I'm a long time hobbiest but been on SA for about 30 days. Definately learning still. I do want what you describe. Long term nsa arrangement too. One of my holdups is finding hotels that will have a room checkin during daytime hours. Like 1 pm or so. Any help on that would be appreciated. Happy hunting my friend. Mm686.

**LoVecchio** · 12-12-20 16:09

Originally Posted by MichiganMan686 [View Original Post]

Been on SA for about a month still tryin to land a few cause my work has been crazy busy. I've been asked for a face pic a couple times. Wondering if it was for blackmail too. I never sent cause I'm not the one selling mygoods here. 2 of them kept afte me about it. I moved on from them. Doesn't matter to me cause I'm divorced and single. MM686.

My thought process is a little different, but perhaps it's because I am looking for something a little different. I try to avoid the semi-pros, UTRs, etc. I actually prefer something that will be relatively long-term with someone for whom SA is not a career. I've been very fortunate and have had several long-term arrangements (as long as 2 years). All of my best arrangements have been with girls who asked for pictures. In fact, if a girl commits to meeting without having requested a picture, I view that as a substantial negative. I'm not looking for someone who is willing to commit to sex with someone when they haven't even seen a picture. For the same reason, I never offer to send a picture, because I want it to be their idea.

**Gyxser70** · 12-12-20 07:50

I've been a paying member on Seeking now for the past 2-2.5 months and have yet to find someone who's halfway decent for something ongoing. My type is SB's who are newer to sugaring, more of an UTR. Women around 24-32 appeal to me the most.

When I first joined, I was putting a lot of effort into messaging women; I'm always direct but never pushy or aggressive. I try to get off of the site as quickly as possible to text or many ask if I have SC.

After a few texts I always ask what their schedule is so we can meet for a coffee, etc. At this point, this is where 8/9 out of 10 girls usually do the same thing- some form of they will let me know, or some type of low interest response. After that I usually tell them to reach out when they figure it out. In most cases I never hear back from them and I don't like to reach back out again when I put the ball into their court. If things do make it to the actual day of our M&G, many will flake or something always comes up. I do all the leg work to find a time, place, somewhere that's close to them all they have to do is show up LOL!

So far, though, I have met two POT SB's since I've been on there for a M&G but one ghosted after we had an arrangement made and the other I could tell was going to be more of a headache long term than what it would've been worth.

With that being said, I've received lots of messages on there- the usual scammers, undesirables, awful communicators who don't seem all there in the head.

I'll give it a little longer, but I'm getting close to giving it a break for awhile.

**MichiganMan686** · 12-12-20 06:16

Originally Posted by BrandoM [View Original Post]

Why are you trading pictures with a provider. They seriously don't care what your dick looks like as they've seen hundreds and only want to see stacks of money. And no need to get pics of them either unless they randomly send them to you. Its a fake profile thing when they constantly send you pics.

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Been on SA for about a month still tryin to land a few cause my work has been crazy busy. I've been asked for a face pic a couple times. Wondering if it was for blackmail too. I never sent cause I'm not the one selling mygoods here. 2 of them kept afte me about it. I moved on from them. Doesn't matter to me cause I'm divorced and single. MM686.

**Power69** · 12-11-20 12:39

Originally Posted by AnanaMo [View Original Post]

I pay for spokeo. Works well and even sometimes gives you the link to their social media.

I loved having reverse search engines for a while. Best deal I thought was Intellius. Spokeo was better but more expensive. BeenVerified gave the most information but it was less up to date.

Then look their names up on Mugshots.com, OTIS and county courts like Wayne County Third Circuit.

Its very enlightening. If they have substance charges, remember don't overpay.

**BrandoM** · 12-11-20 05:34

Why are you trading pictures with a provider. They seriously don't care what your dick looks like as they've seen hundreds and only want to see stacks of money. And no need to get pics of them either unless they randomly send them to you. Its a fake profile thing when they constantly send you pics.

Originally Posted by ILuvThisTown29 [View Original Post]

So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active.

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**AnanaMo** · 12-10-20 21:58

Originally Posted by ILuvThisTown29 [View Original Post]

I was actually really thinking about investing into whitespages does it really give you a detailed report?

I pay for spokeo. Works well and even sometimes gives you the link to their social media.

**ILuvThisTown29** · 12-10-20 21:10

Originally Posted by Jay23 [View Original Post]

Step 1: Look up their phone number on https://www.whitepages.com/, if nothing shows up or it's showing up as a VoIP run.

Step 2: If it's a valid number, Pay the 15 bucks or whatever on Whitepages and pull a detailed report. Any criminal records. Run.

Step 3: Ask for a FaceTime or Zoom call. If they make some excuse. Run.

I was actually really thinking about investing into whitespages does it really give you a detailed report?

**Jay23** · 12-10-20 19:50

Step 1: Look up their phone number on https://www.whitepages.com/, if nothing shows up or it's showing up as a VoIP run.

Step 2: If it's a valid number, Pay the 15 bucks or whatever on Whitepages and pull a detailed report. Any criminal records. Run.

Step 3: Ask for a FaceTime or Zoom call. If they make some excuse. Run.

Originally Posted by ILuvThisTown29 [View Original Post]

So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active.

**SlightlyHere** · 12-10-20 17:13

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**ILuvThisTown29** · 12-10-20 12:56

So this is why I encourage SD to always always talk to more then one SB. So I had been talking to Gemma for 2 weeks. Conversation started really casual and little more intense everyday. We start sharing pretty intimate details about each other. Then she disappear for a few days apologize then we continue to talk. Then again she disappear then come back. It was a pretty constant pattern with her. So after awhile I started looking for someone else. So she comes back for the final time and I asked if she like to talk and radio silences for half a day at the end of the night she started sending me some really explicit text messages. So I I recommended that we meet up at target there a Starbucks inside at the Shelby township location I was passing through anyways. Said around 2. So I get there around 1:55 waited 20 minutes nothing so I leave 15 minutes is my limit unless you text me you'll be late. So I text her on the way out the door got nothing back. Later on that night I get a SC request from a mystery Person I knew it was her because she the only person I made this fake Snapchat account for. They started posting pics of me at target all my explicit Pics I shared with Gemma13 and all of a sudden they told me if I didn't pay them 1500 via cash App they would put it all over Facebook. In which I respond IDGF = I don't GIVE A FUCK and laughed I told this * to get out my face and if anything that Dick pic going to Attracted more SB. So I block her dumb ass and reported her to SA. But again even with evidence SA has allowed her account to stay active.

**JoeLefty** · 12-09-20 21:59

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

Who do you mean?

Why aren't these links coming through? Either she removed her profile or I blocked her ass - I can't find her now. Blonde from Detroit living near 75 and Livernois.

**LoVecchio** · 12-09-20 19:10

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

She's a train wreck and won't meet in person.

Who do you mean?

**Jay23** · 12-08-20 20:53

Originally Posted by Michmo [View Original Post]

Messaged with this one, who said she was a student and a Muslim. She said she had been in an arranged marriage with a man in Africa, who died of old age. She added that she was a virgin, and had a previous arrangement where she sent pictures and videos to the guy in return for electronic payments. That's got to be the most obvious scam story I've heard in my time on Seeking.

https://www.seeking.com/member/36e1d...d-dcba094d5c52

I am going to hire a college kid who is majoring in journalism to document all these and make it to book.