Seeking Arrangements

[Gianni Versace]

For 35+, I have a few mature regulars (45-55) I give $100-200 too, BBFS.

Do agree on more girls using older / filtered pictures or bait and switching dates (I. E. Say they are GFE, and then refuse to kiss or BBBJ once alone). They are usually the semi-pro types.

Part of the reason I haven't been on these sites in a while because there are too many fakes (real and otherwise). Especially secret benefits. They literally have fake profiles using local girls' instagrams as pics, inflating the actual pussy stock, and getting you to "look" at the pic while spending your credits.

A Benjamin Franklin or 2 of them is more like it. I am starting to think maybe the mature regulars maybe the way to go LOL.

[Hobbyist420]

Also, I have noticed if you have verified your FB profile on SA and talk to a lady regularly on SA and she has FB eventually she will pop up in your friends recommendation for FB. For some of you married guys that could be really bad news. For me it's not a big deal and its nice to see if a girls actually legit and her non SA pics. But something to be wary of if you need discretion.

Yo, that's fucked up.

Another reason not to link FB to these sites. Shit, another reason to not have FB in general.

[Hobbyist420]

How about Mid 30's - 50's single moms? What do you give them? $150?

There are alot of girls on the site who are larger and simply unattractive and have no business being on the site.

For 35+, I have a few mature regulars (45-55) I give $100-200 too, BBFS.

Do agree on more girls using older / filtered pictures or bait and switching dates (I. E. Say they are GFE, and then refuse to kiss or BBBJ once alone). They are usually the semi-pro types.

Part of the reason I haven't been on these sites in a while because there are too many fakes (real and otherwise). Especially secret benefits. They literally have fake profiles using local girls' instagrams as pics, inflating the actual pussy stock, and getting you to "look" at the pic while spending your credits.

[Gianni Versace]

$300 - $400 is typical PPM for good looking college girls, grad students, girls in their twenties, for several hours with MSOG. Depending on the girl it can be pretty much unlimited. If she becomes a regular you see frequently, you may be able to negotiate a better arrangement.

How about Mid 30's - 50's single moms? What do you give them? $150?

There are alot of girls on the site who are larger and simply unattractive and have no business being on the site.

[HounDog3]

I don't believe it. The money they are saying is anywhere from $300-$500. Which I still think is crazy money.

$300 - $400 is typical PPM for good looking college girls, grad students, girls in their twenties, for several hours with MSOG. Depending on the girl it can be pretty much unlimited. If she becomes a regular you see frequently, you may be able to negotiate a better arrangement.

[Big Stu]

BarbieJo143 - https://www.seeking.com/member/3108b...2-4788b913179b I saw her a few months back. She can't host, isn't on the birth control but will allow BB. Fake tits. She was fun but we just didn't click the passion wasn't there. It was 200 for about an hour. She likes going out and having fun, so keep in mind she wants an arrangement that's more than just being physical but eating out or going out for drinks regularly. Took 2 meet and greets to get to the point of the hotel room.

The_Harliquinn - https://www.seeking.com/member/459c5...7-1027f420e735 Nice girl. She told me she was picky who she meets. She's a little larger than I like but she's not fat. I just like skinny girls. BB was fine on birth control. Wants between 300 and 400 I gave her 325. It was a little bit of a rush job we talked for 1. 5 but only did 30 min if that in bed. Just no sparks in bed.

Bratnee30 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b7346...0-06515d9b89c6 She is really pretty. Great body. Did a meet and greet really connected. She wants 400 to 500 each time. BB was fine, though she told me she is careful who she allows to go BB. But her kitty felt amazing to be inside bare. Making our schedules work has been tough so I kind of gave up, the time I saw her I had a day off work & my plans fell through & I think she texted me. But she was great, a lot of fun in bed, clean nice tasting kitty. Soft skin. Would definitely see again.

ExoticVic - https://www.seeking.com/member/951f2...e-051a3645136e Really nice girl, fun to be with, she's gorgeous. We have done 2 meet and greets. We talked about price and she said her old sugar daddy gave her 1200 each visit. I threw out 800 and she said she'd be comfortable with that. But I haven't really felt like spending that much. She has come back saying she wants to meet up for drinks and discuss a number that works better so I will probably end up seeing her if she comes down to 400 or maybe 500. Really attractive girl but I can tell she'll be high maintenance. Our 1st meet and greet she picked the place and I spent close to 160 for drinks & apps and it was half priced apps.

FitAsian99 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b9aa1...4-de6857bf0814 Cool girl, great body, really nice. We did a meet and greet some decent chemistry. Not on birth control though she said she was thinking of getting an IUD. She wants 500 & expects to be taken out for dinner also. I think with her, she doesn't need the extra money but she likes it so she can be firm on the price.

Akwardlyamusing - https://www.seeking.com/member/55f4c...5-9d1c2fc6392e Nice girl, a little thicker than I like but I still might see her. We did a meet and greet, got along well. Wants 300 for a visit with her. Can host.

Caseycowgirl - https://www.seeking.com/member/5f4d3...1-4648e9ccb276 Attractive girl, great attitude. We didn't talk numbers but she made it clear that she wanted to meet platonically for a few times until she was comfortable for more. We had a big activity in common. We texted for about a week after, even planned a get together & then she went dark a few days before. Later told me she decided she just wasn't interested. I think she decided our common activity had to much overlap & maybe found some friends in common so it was too big a risk for her.

Rosielovesaugar - https://www.seeking.com/member/d7a01...0-2f9559a9be08 has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, her old sugar daddy gave her 800 but she said shed do 500. I offered 300 once and she said no but a week later said come by for 500. Can host and will do bare.

SparkleSeduction - https://www.seeking.com/member/d10e1...3-0104c8c683df has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, can host wants 300. Not on birth control but will allow BB. I told her my pull out game was weak & she said not to worry she wasnt ovulating. LOL that's a little worrying unless she was being serious.

So I'm taking a break from seeking for awhile, I have found 3 ladies (I didn't write about) I really like and Brittany if our schedules ever work again. All 3 are about chemistry and the experience not just the money. Which works great for me, I like having a partner for snowboarding or hiking or going out to dinner. 300 for a whole weekend works great for me. Though I will probably have to whittle it down to 2, financially. One of them is looking to do a 3 some and to see other guys also so I'd consider sharing her link if you have a good trade.

Also, I have noticed if you have verified your FB profile on SA and talk to a lady regularly on SA and she has FB eventually she will pop up in your friends recommendation for FB. For some of you married guys that could be really bad news. For me it's not a big deal and its nice to see if a girls actually legit and her non SA pics. But something to be wary of if you need discretion.

[Gianni Versace]

All girls lie especially about money. Don't believe it.

I don't believe it. The money they are saying is anywhere from $300-$500. Which I still think is crazy money.

[HounDog3]

Guys I have been on SA for about 5 days now. Here are my observations. STOP OFFERING SB's crazy money. If you keep giving them crazy money than that is what they expect. I have interacted with so many women that have said that is what they are getting from you other SD's that they are not lowering their pricing. Come on guys. Supply & Demand. We can collectively set the pricing if everyone is paying the same thing. I mean honeslty how many of you guys can really afford to pay $500 per meet? Really guys?

All girls lie especially about money. Don't believe it.

[Gianni Versace]

Guys I have been on SA for about 5 days now. Here are my observations. STOP OFFERING SB's crazy money. If you keep giving them crazy money than that is what they expect. I have interacted with so many women that have said that is what they are getting from you other SD's that they are not lowering their pricing. Come on guys. Supply & Demand. We can collectively set the pricing if everyone is paying the same thing. I mean honeslty how many of you guys can really afford to pay $500 per meet? Really guys?

[Gianni Versace]

Funny this came up. I was talking to my main SB last week. She mentioned she was in line at Starbucks and there was a couple in front of her in line chatting. She overheard the guy blurting out "So how long have you been on Seeking?" Apparently the girl was a bit embarrassed seeing they were surrounded by people. Probably one of you dudes LOL.

That guy has no idea about being discreet. And yes I agree that getting coffee before or meeting somewhere is a must before any arrangement is established.

[Spike77]

I concur with bran! Coffee for meet and greets all the way. All girls who mention dinner I decline and tell them only if we get along and end up seeing each other. Let's grab coffee first to see if we have chemistry.

Funny this came up. I was talking to my main SB last week. She mentioned she was in line at Starbucks and there was a couple in front of her in line chatting. She overheard the guy blurting out "So how long have you been on Seeking?" Apparently the girl was a bit embarrassed seeing they were surrounded by people. Probably one of you dudes LOL.

[Lily1234]

I made a SA profile and paid for the subscription but everytime someone post a link to a girl and I click on it, it just says no match found? Also seems like theres not many girls when I do my own search. I am confused does this seeking site even work and is it legit?

You signed uo as Attractive member" instead of successful. Email SA and they will fix it.

[ActonMan]

These are trolls and believe me they are not reading your profile but just looking for a lonely man looking to spoil them with pics or vids for money. I just ignore them. I believe SA is based out of Europe and probably linked to some seedy under world activity. My CC was hacked instantly the first time I signed up so using a prepaid card is advised anyway. Focus on the local talent as that can be a challenge in itself don't get distracted by the noise from South America girls looking for your attention, they are not

Usually you get 2 at a time favoriting you and many times it happens when you first log in I think Seeking has a bot that sends you those and they do it to make sure it looks like someone is interested in you.

[Joe1223]

Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.

These are trolls and believe me they are not reading your profile but just looking for a lonely man looking to spoil them with pics or vids for money. I just ignore them. I believe SA is based out of Europe and probably linked to some seedy under world activity. My CC was hacked instantly the first time I signed up so using a prepaid card is advised anyway. Focus on the local talent as that can be a challenge in itself don't get distracted by the noise from South America girls looking for your attention, they are not.

[Joe1223]

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

I did one dinner date early in my SA journey and never again. I went on one lunch date and never again. Now it's always coffee or a drink so it's an easy in and out if it doesn't go well. It can get awkward quickly if your "date" isn't interested or gets cold feet and you are stuck with the bill typically. I actually don't want to ever meet for dinner or lunch anyway after establishing an acceptable arrangement. I try to be very discreet and not leave a trail to my real life. If you spend too much time conversing vs fucking you can end up reveling to much about yourself or being caught in a little white lie if you are trying to keep your personal life private.

Tell the girl your intention during your communications before actually meeting and if she insists on a dinner date I would just take a pass. She should know of and be OK with the real intention here and if she puts up too many roadblocks she is probably just looking for a few breadcrumbs vs actually giving up the goods. If you do go on a "date" then keep the discussion on SA and what it is for and that your experience / expectations are sexual. I like to be upfront in an effort to get out of a time wasting conversation as fast as possible. Always bring the conversation back to SA and why you are on there. Sex. You can do this bluntly or with hints or subtle reminders but keep control of the conversation and don't be embarrassed to suggest a hotel or even better have dinner at the hotel.