Seeking Arrangements

[Lee1995]

I made a SA profile and paid for the subscription but everytime someone post a link to a girl and I click on it, it just says no match found? Also seems like theres not many girls when I do my own search. I am confused does this seeking site even work and is it legit?

[NewEngland]

Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.

Your not alone plus all the women from so american countries.

[Gianni Versace]

Does anyone else have the same problem as me with so many girls from other states making contact?? My profile clearly says no virtual arrangements. Just curious.

[Tribeca67]

I never do dinner dates. There is nothing worse than being 'trapped' at dinner with someone where 5 minutes into it you know you're not compatible. I always do coffee dates first. I explain why (it's low key, no commitment, we're not trapped together for 2 hrs). If they get all pissy because they want a nice dinner too bad they aren't for me. I never plan a hotel date immediately following coffee, but I must admit it's happened!

I concur with bran! Coffee for meet and greets all the way. All girls who mention dinner I decline and tell them only if we get along and end up seeing each other. Let's grab coffee first to see if we have chemistry.

[Malden Male]

Always looking for a hosting, mature woman that is extremely open minded.

https://www.seeking.com/member/300d9...8-c8fa1c1daa74

KitKat6769 was a very good time. Safe place on main street in Dot, clean as a button, great kisser, multi orgasmic with a great BBBJ, BBFS, and BB backdoor.

Will see again.

[Bran001]

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

I never do dinner dates. There is nothing worse than being 'trapped' at dinner with someone where 5 minutes into it you know you're not compatible. I always do coffee dates first. I explain why (it's low key, no commitment, we're not trapped together for 2 hrs). If they get all pissy because they want a nice dinner too bad they aren't for me. I never plan a hotel date immediately following coffee, but I must admit it's happened!

[JDeller]

I talk about everything and anything about what I am expecting. Some girls either go to hotel that day or another day shortly thereafter. I am 3/3. Two very hot young ebonies and one young looking very hot latina MILF.

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

[PaulRew]

I never met her but had tried. I ended up cancelling due to work and while we were rescheduling Covid hit. Danced around for a couple months with her claiming "at risk" people are around her. Keep in mind during that time she is cruising the site 24/7 so who knows. IF she is to be believed she lives in the Seaport and can host. Haven't seen her profile in a while.

https://www.seeking.com/member/71451...b-17bf09a101bf
Last active 4 days ago

[PaulRew]

Gra Smi is her profile name, Have been talking with her on and off for a little while now.

I can't see her profile there anymore, so not sure if she has blocked me or has taken her profile down.

Anyone know anything about her, met her, etc?

TIA.

I never met her but had tried. I ended up cancelling due to work and while we were rescheduling Covid hit. Danced around for a couple months with her claiming "at risk" people are around her. Keep in mind during that time she is cruising the site 24/7 so who knows. IF she is to be believed she lives in the Seaport and can host. Haven't seen her profile in a while.

[HounDog3]

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

Before Covid I'd usually meet for drinks or dinner first as standard procedure. You may want to set her expectations there is no gift (donation, allowance, whatever you call it) for dinner only. The sugar starts when you go behind closed doors. The only exceptions I'd make are covering a babysitter if she's a single mom or the cost of an Uber if she has no car. Sometimes we'd go from dinner to hotel or her place when she could host. Other times it would not happen until the second meeting or possibly not at all.

I prefer to wait for the girl to initiate negotiations rather than ask what she's looking for. Some girls don't like to talk money face-to-face. If we didn't go to a hotel after dinner then later that night or the next day or two, they would usually initiate the money discussion.

I prefer to have 2 or 3 non-pro's in rotation for long term which is why I use this approach. For mongers looking to cull the semi-pro's or pro's who advertise on Seeking, of course none of this applies.

[JohnTies]

Gra Smi is her profile name, Have been talking with her on and off for a little while now.

I can't see her profile there anymore, so not sure if she has blocked me or has taken her profile down.

Anyone know anything about her, met her, etc?

TIA.

[Spike77]

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

Just ask her to clarify the expectations of the first date prior to meeting. I don't think there is anything creepy about that. She already knows your desire of wanting to be physical(which she seems fine with) so the cat is already out of the bag.

[Cargin]

Met a few girls here and did the hotel room thing. Meeting a girl for dinner for the first time. I made it clear I am looking for a physical relationship, not just companionship and dates and she said she is fine with that, but wants dinner first. To anyone that first met someone for dinner, any tips on getting her back to a hotel after without seeming creepy? Anyone actually do it or is it dinner the first time and then negotiate more after. Just looking for some input. Thank you.

[Bran001]

Has anyone see this girl? She was my first SA hookup way back when but I lost her contact info. Not sure if she is still active but I liked her except she was unable to host. I burned thru a lot of hotel reward points seeing her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7934c...c-b4077c679fe7

That profile says last active Sept 1, 2020.

[Melo Yello]

Not sure if she had another profile but I've seen her recently. She hosted out of a hotel in Woburn, nice body, raspy voice, older looking than the pictures. $$ BBFS. Really quick session, ok time nothing stood out.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c88ba...0-d15e53bd3b42

I could have sworn this chick had a different SA account. She wasn't all that good. She was the girl that went by courtney. She posted on skip. Can anyone confirm this.