"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Reman3289** · 11-23-20 16:26

Agree completely. Set up a M&G and see where it goes. There is every kind of lady in the sugar bowl. And my sense is most of these women decide within 5-10 minutes of meeting you if they want to do the deed. One lady as much as told me so, we had taken a couple sips of our coffee and I said something like – "I hope you are comfortable with me I am a really good guy" (which is true BTW) or whatever and she just said "I know, I can tell. Do you want to come to my place" - mission accomplished! And goes without saying of course, always show up clean and well dressed, woman like that you know, LOL!

The real SB's (unlike pros or utr semi-pros) definitely run hot and cold as mentioned. Quick example, I did a m&g about a month ago with a lady and told her up front that I was just getting over a cold, but we still agreed to meet for a drink. She walks in the bar and I am just blown away – 5'10" late 30's (perfect for me as I am late 50's) perfect body 10+, well done fake tits and good looking – her pics were nowhere close to what a package she was. One of the hottest SB's I have meet to date, which is north of 20. I sense after about 10 minutes she is ready to go do the deed, no talk of $$, but I know she is ready, and not sure the idea of me having a cold even in this Covid era bothered her?

Unfortunately, I had to get home and I didn't have the time that afternoon – and I was kicking myself for 3 days. Took me another 2 weeks to set up a meet with her, and it was worth it. Unicorn status in my book and can't wait to see her again. If you are not prepared to pull the trigger with them when you meet, you may not get another chance or it will be a PITA to schedule with them again, especially if they are hot. They show up, need your sugar and are maybe even horny – always a bonus, what more do you want? And the poster is spot on, once you develop a physical friendship with them, they will usually meet you again and again. That's how this works!!

**Ernest Ll** · 11-23-20 10:45

Getting good messaging traction with.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a891...a-65c438fa6761

And.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6bc27...e-b83cf20b65d8 -- says she is in RVA but lists Cville which makes me wonder if she isn't a scam.

Also.

https://www.seeking.com/member/61228...f-beef25cabfd9 looking to move to NYC in the spring.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ae639...9-e4384311b8bc

**Gyxser70** · 11-22-20 19:20

Originally Posted by BaldEagle [View Original Post]

I have been on S. A. Off and on for over 5 years. My past experience has been to get to a safe private meeting place as soon as possible. These girls are hot and cold. The non pros with a little wine will do things they may not do sober. Once you start a physical friendship its done. She will normally meet you in the future. You mentioned in you post that you reached out to her the following week that may have turned out differently if you had scheduled a next meeting the next day or gone to a room then. Many of the girls don't know what they want or what they will do. I have seen some that have no intention of a physical friendship and boom they are all in. It is about the money. Put a little urgency in your search I think you will have better results. Remember they are being hit with message after message from potential sugar daddys like you. The better looking she is the more they have to try to keep all the messages straight. Remember 50 percent of meeting don't happen somebody gets cold feet.

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We had met on a Wednesday around 7:15. By the time we were leaving, it was around 9:30-9:45. I had a 45.

Minute drive home and my alarm goes off by 4 everyday. It doesn't matter with her now, but I usually don't plan on sleeping with a POT after the first meeting. I'll definitely message them quicker in the future.

**Decadentme** · 11-22-20 14:59

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

Don't let that fool you. We fly $10/ hour employees in our corporate planes all the time so she can hang that up 😂.

Agreed. We have two private jets (large and medium). I would never take a picture with either one of them. Low key is always better.

**Rudy Wellz** · 11-22-20 14:09

Any intel on this SB? Exchanged a few messages and getting a pro vibe. Travels between Richmond and Northern VA.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0f79c...a-9b1831e57793

**Rudy Wellz** · 11-22-20 13:43

Originally Posted by LikItFun [View Original Post]

It's a busy morning for the SBs.

Getting a pro vibe from this one. Profile says she spends time in DC, RVA and Cville. She said she's in Cville for the weekend. Anyone else seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/947f8...1-c64dbf097bcb

There is a recent review on the Northern VA board. As I recall, she is legit. Big soft enhanced boobs. Semi-pro.

**CuddlesGood** · 11-21-20 17:14

Got another one already. She's in Williamsburg and claims to be 20. Her number is associated with a guy's Snapchat and his Instagram has a ❤65039;Malia in it. Definitely suspect. Blocked her so I don't have the link.

**CuddlesGood** · 11-21-20 16:59

That's great advice. Thank you. I'm pretty good at spotting scams online and already had my first. New 18 yo asked for $20 for dinner before even a m&g LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c8fcd...e-5e45a4dd6191

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Depending on what your looking for. I want a more GFE so I treat it like a normal dating site. I read the girls profile and write a introduction base on what she said, and what I'm looking for. You can just write what your looking for, and just cut and paste it to all the hot girls. I did that too in the past. It's easier and you can mass msg a lot of girls faster. You can also read back forum posting last 6 months, and just msg the girls that have positive reviews.

When your in a conversation with them and, you I feel like they are interested I would ask if they would like to be my SB or want to go on a date. If she say she interested, then I just ask them to msg me on my burner number. Reason I give to move there is I don't like talking allowance on the site. Most girls will understand. Once there I talk money and make sure that the girls know I'm looking for a physical relationship. Also just read a few months of postings. It will help you figure out how to catch scammers and other good information.

**LikItFun** · 11-21-20 11:20

It's a busy morning for the SBs.

Getting a pro vibe from this one. Profile says she spends time in DC, RVA and Cville. She said she's in Cville for the weekend. Anyone else seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/947f8...1-c64dbf097bcb

**Member #7176** · 11-20-20 21:05

Depending on what your looking for. I want a more GFE so I treat it like a normal dating site. I read the girls profile and write a introduction base on what she said, and what I'm looking for. You can just write what your looking for, and just cut and paste it to all the hot girls. I did that too in the past. It's easier and you can mass msg a lot of girls faster. You can also read back forum posting last 6 months, and just msg the girls that have positive reviews.

When your in a conversation with them and, you I feel like they are interested I would ask if they would like to be my SB or want to go on a date. If she say she interested, then I just ask them to msg me on my burner number. Reason I give to move there is I don't like talking allowance on the site. Most girls will understand. Once there I talk money and make sure that the girls know I'm looking for a physical relationship. Also just read a few months of postings. It will help you figure out how to catch scammers and other good information.

Originally Posted by CuddlesGood [View Original Post]

Hi all, long time lurker on the forum but just getting started in the sugar bowl. I was wondering what do you message the SB if you initiate and how do you get them over to Snapchat or text. Thanks in advance and can't wait to share Intel.

**CuddlesGood** · 11-20-20 15:26

Hi all, long time lurker on the forum but just getting started in the sugar bowl. I was wondering what do you message the SB if you initiate and how do you get them over to Snapchat or text. Thanks in advance and can't wait to share Intel.

**Ernest Ll** · 11-20-20 12:57

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

I agree I prefer rural girls more too. PA has been good to me. I'm starting to looking to VA and WV girls in more rural areas too. Not as hot as city girls, but they try harder, and less BS to deal with.

I know someone on SA that goes to Bristol regularly and he says its a non stop parade of 8's for all night fuck fest for $$.

**Member #7176** · 11-20-20 12:02

I agree I prefer rural girls more too. PA has been good to me. I'm starting to looking to VA and WV girls in more rural areas too. Not as hot as city girls, but they try harder, and less BS to deal with.

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I travel for work so I'm able to expense all my fuel / hotels / food. I consider it a perk of the job. As far as raising my ppm and seeing girls in this area, I have seen all the ones I'm interested in around here. I'm very particular and that limits my options. I find that I prefer the girls away from big cities. I've found that the NC and PA girls that live in more rural areas are better for me and I don't mind traveling to them.

**Shampoo55** · 11-19-20 20:25

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Lots of these vendors are non-US, and it can be difficult to pay for the membership discreetly, w / a prepaid debit card. I use a pretty secure / discreet email vendor, Hushmail. And they are in Vancouver. The standard OneVanilla doesn't work with them (I have their paid account, as it allows unlimited email aliases. I have two aliases I use for my profiles on SA, I can't use the proper email addresses, they've both been banned). Anyway, I asked Hushmail how to pay for my renewal, and they mentioned:

You could try a pre-paid credit card such as the one in this link.

https://www.mastercard.ca/en-ca/cons...gift-card.html

It is accepted internationally so there shouldn't be any issues.

Thanks for sharing that! IF memory serves one of the sites requires an international component to the prepaid payment for it to work. I'll book mark this for future use.

**ItsAHobby45** · 11-19-20 16:33

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

That's some driving. I do within 2 hrs drive, but I use my businessCC to paid for gas. If your going to spend that much on gas maybe increase your ppm to the ones who are closer to you.

Yes, the sooner you meetup the better, and a little alcohol always helps. I had only one girl not want to meetup with me again after the 1st date. We agreed on BBFS, but she got upset when I cip her. Other then that all the girls after the 1st date know that you have control of the situation. At that point you can slowly push the line on what these girls will do.

Ps no need to ask about the girl I cip. She off the site now.

I travel for work so I'm able to expense all my fuel / hotels / food. I consider it a perk of the job. As far as raising my ppm and seeing girls in this area, I have seen all the ones I'm interested in around here. I'm very particular and that limits my options. I find that I prefer the girls away from big cities. I've found that the NC and PA girls that live in more rural areas are better for me and I don't mind traveling to them.