"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Sgt Soros]

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

This is terrible, I wish there was a way to out this creep.

[BearsBuddy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e876e...d-aad374f3852d

Starts at $750/ meet. Trying to get some details but too much for me.

[TheFiveHole]

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

Yeah. Hockey asked me about this as well. And from what she said there was a guy that send her pics of her family and some really creepster shit. Scared the girl quite a bit. And it's not that she's opposed to sharing her info or meeting new dudes, however this dude went too far when she said no. Really pissed me off too as Hockey is a great time. Clean fun giving and smart not to mention that mouth. Though maybe a bit too trusting / naive to how some dudes can be. IMHO. However still one of the best I've met on SA. Hope this doesn't scare her off.

[GoneForGood97]

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

Sorry I should've been more clear. If someone asks me for a girls number, and I were feeling inclined, I would text the girl, work up a bit of conversation, then ask. If she says no, I reply back on the board "Sorry, she doesn't want to share her number. " If she says yes, then I'll respond to them with the info, or send the mongers info to her.

My main point is that if someone asks, I don't automatically say no.

[The Bobster]

When someone on this board that ripped off one of my friends writes about getting ripped off themselves. Karma's a *****, huh dude?

[SoonerFan72]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

I'd say its one of two scenarios.

One, I highly doubt that they are both on SA, and don't know about each other being on there. If they are close, its not a coincidence. If that's the case, they arent going to care that you have been out with the daughter. And two, if they don't know each other is on the site, they daughter isn't going to out herself in front of mom if she sees the two of you together. In fact, if they don't know that you know they are related, just play dumb, like how would you know anyways? Either way, just go see if they will do a threesome with you. LMAO.

[Jims2321]

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

[Jims2321]

Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.

And if opportunity knocks for mom / daughter threesome, well its was fated to be!

[YeOldHornDawg]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.

[BearsBuddy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4716...4-1ad063efb2e5

Pic seller and time waster.

[HuksAlot]

The daughter is not going to say shit to her mom about seeing daddies.

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

[BrownSugaTwo]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend.

[BoJackSugarman]

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

[NewAnonymousName]

My experience was just the opposite. She decides to make a grab and dash. Got $100 of my money and immediately blocked everything.

Thanks for the info. I haven't seen her in a month. I won't try to see her again despite my prior good experiences. She went downhill fast, apparently.

[Harley32]

Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.

Exactly. Once you've met and been with one of these women, you can figure out what they're in it for. If someone is looking to make some more money, I'll offer to pass on her number. It's totally her choice. I would never just give out someone's number. As well, you don't want to disclose that they're being reviewed on a site. The bad ones, fuck them. Those reviews go up right away.