"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Member #7176** · 11-12-20 18:36

It's all base off preference. I been with $20 SW to $1,500 pornstars. We all have different preferences if your not interested in SBs there are a lot of different options out there. I just don't see the point of you coming to this thread, if your not interested. Its like going to the escort thread, and complaining why the guys there aren't on SA. This site has lots of subsections for a reason. Not everyone has the same needs and wants, and our taste changes. I 1st came on here years ago to help plan a trip to Bangkok. Now I come here to get information on SBs.

Originally Posted by Ibtreborz [View Original Post]

I do not do the SB stuff anymore. If it works for you more power. I found out it was more of a hassle for me. Investing the time and money when I could just pay an escort. The last SB I was with took offense to something I said one time and said what do you think I am a hooker? LOL Well yeah but with that being said if you are chasing tail, taking them to dinners, movies, gas for the car, flowers, etc. Your still paying, with a hooker its just up front and you don't have to listen to them wine and complain, well some you do LOL. Relationships are hard and sometime I just want to pound out a cute girl with fake tits and a nice ass and go home and sleep.

**Ibtreborz** · 11-12-20 17:55

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

She still a hooker, if she was looking to get any financial benefit. Just means the John was causing problems. Which isn't cool with me. Anything that can lead to LE focusing on us is a negative for the whole community. Don't want LE to setup a SA account. Like they do on craigslist and other escort sites.

I do not do the SB stuff anymore. If it works for you more power. I found out it was more of a hassle for me. Investing the time and money when I could just pay an escort. The last SB I was with took offense to something I said one time and said what do you think I am a hooker? LOL Well yeah but with that being said if you are chasing tail, taking them to dinners, movies, gas for the car, flowers, etc. Your still paying, with a hooker its just up front and you don't have to listen to them wine and complain, well some you do LOL. Relationships are hard and sometime I just want to pound out a cute girl with fake tits and a nice ass and go home and sleep.

**Vince2000** · 11-12-20 16:36

Originally Posted by AS111 [View Original Post]

Thought of renewing my SA after some time and did what I'd done in the past.

Got OneVanilla visa card. Went to onevanilla site but this time they didn't any way to register a zip code. Didn't pay much attention.

Went to SA and used the card with a proper address (not mine) and account has been suspended. Should I ask SA to look at this.

Card has not been charged.

So, is it you have to register with your personal details and can't fake it anymore.

**AS111** · 11-11-20 21:33

Thought of renewing my SA after some time and did what I'd done in the past.

Got OneVanilla visa card. Went to onevanilla site but this time they didn't any way to register a zip code. Didn't pay much attention.

Went to SA and used the card with a proper address (not mine) and account has been suspended. Should I ask SA to look at this.

Card has not been charged.

**TheDude1** · 11-11-20 13:44

Originally Posted by Vince2000 [View Original Post]

What some advise. Can I use a vanilla card to register on SD site or it has to be your personal card. Don't like to use my real details on the site. Any advise from seniors.

Thanks.

Buy a One Vanilla card. Call the number on the back to register a zip code. Use the same zip on SA. Works great.

**Vince2000** · 11-11-20 13:26

What some advise. Can I use a vanilla card to register on SD site or it has to be your personal card. Don't like to use my real details on the site. Any advise from seniors.

Thanks.

**CrimsonMan** · 11-11-20 09:46

Originally Posted by WilliamsJJ703 [View Original Post]

Any of you gents met with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/14112...?&locale=en_US.

I like my SB's young but if I tried something different this would be it.

Her private pics are great and I've exchanged some messages with her but she's not willing to share a face pic and not willing to communicate off the SA messaging so something seems off with her and I stopped pursuing.

**FarFarAway** · 11-11-20 02:51

Concerning the general topic recently on this thread, there's a spectrum of girls on SA and related sites. BTW, sugar relationships have been around forever, we just now have a better way to meet up w / each other. I've been told by a few POTs that their first arrangement was from some guy approaching them, just out, on the street, etc. That's more hutzpah than I have, but then I am also married, so have to be careful about this stuff. Anyway, I am sure there are flat out hookers on SA, just as there are women who are really looking for relationships, or even just classy guys to hang with (mostly the middle-aged gals).

Anyway, I am all in favor of keeping (not LE) but legislators, etc. , out of the hair or Mr. Brandon Dude who started SA. We don't want it to go the way of back page and CL. That was because those were too blatant about being sites for connecting with hookers you'd otherwise find walking streets. I am NOT interested in anything like that, I have found several SBs from the site that weren't seeing others and truly were interested in (some) relationship elements, without the commitment of a real BF. I've also run into a few who needed their daddy kinks fulfilled. All great. If SA were to go away, there likely would be some replacement for it, but it is still far superior to the other sites out there now.

While those of you who just want to rent a girl for 20 minutes can find that from many different websites, I can only find what I want on SA. I just try to encourage people not to screw things up for those of us who are more dependent on SA. If there's someone too blatant on the site, don't message them, first, and consider reporting them. However, there are a few cases recently where people have themselves gotten banned for how they interacted with a POT, and things got twisted around. It is REALLY a pain to get banned, it can be nearly impossible to get back on the site, so avoiding this is imperative. Just blocking blatant prostitutes is safer.

**AssLuVA** · 11-10-20 14:17

Any of you gents met with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/14112...?&locale=en_US.

I like my SB's young but if I tried something different this would be it.

**Member #7176** · 11-10-20 12:26

She still a hooker, if she was looking to get any financial benefit. Just means the John was causing problems. Which isn't cool with me. Anything that can lead to LE focusing on us is a negative for the whole community. Don't want LE to setup a SA account. Like they do on craigslist and other escort sites.

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

Are the still hookers if someone writes them a bad check? They are tech not getting paid for sex at that point.

**Zerry** · 11-10-20 10:02

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

A "sugar relationship" is just a more inconvenient way to bang the same hooker repeatedly. Be honest, they are hookers.

That's we are having this discussion on a website called USASEXGUIDE.

Are the still hookers if someone writes them a bad check? They are tech not getting paid for sex at that point.

**Member #7176** · 11-10-20 08:52

I agree they are hookers, but a big group of these girls lie to themselves that they are not. Normally these are the girls just looking for 1 SD. I say half of my SBs fall into this category. I have one SB right now telling her friends that I'm her BF, and that she is just dating a older guy. I have no problem playing into the lie. I find that I enjoy the sex and time with the SB more, if she is having fun too. We're all fishing in the same lake. Each of us has their own preferences on fishing lure, and how we fish. At the end of the day we'll all trying to catch fish (hookers). I have no problems about how any of you guys treat these girls as long as it isn't violent, and you pay your SB what you agree. I'm for sustainable fishing, LOL.

Originally Posted by Madaboutmax [View Original Post]

I agree. Not an unexpected reply on this board. LOL.

I have no objection to hookers. I only object to some people scaring many women away by treating them all like hookers. They may all be hookers, but many don't think they are and can't be treated like one.

**Madaboutmax** · 11-10-20 06:19

I agree. Not an unexpected reply on this board. LOL.

I have no objection to hookers. I only object to some people scaring many women away by treating them all like hookers. They may all be hookers, but many don't think they are and can't be treated like one.

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

A "sugar relationship" is just a more inconvenient way to bang the same hooker repeatedly. Be honest, they are hookers.

That's we are having this discussion on a website called USASEXGUIDE.

**Geechie Dan** · 11-09-20 17:07

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

A "sugar relationship" is just a more inconvenient way to bang the same hooker repeatedly. Be honest, they are hookers.

That's we are having this discussion on a website called USASEXGUIDE.

He's not wrong.

**SailMan2** · 11-09-20 16:46

On SA there are girls that are scammers and girls that Know and accept sex is involved.

Of those that know sex is involved there are:

Girls that need money and will go straight to the fc. These are pros.

Girls that extra money will be helpful. Pretty easy to get to the fc. You can't approach them like Pros, its a bit like regular dating but instead of a few dates to get in bed you are getting in bed early on the first date even if its just a coffee date.

Then there are girls whose major motivation is they want to be bad. Money is a part of it, but not the major driver. So me want to be a hooker in private. Some want an ongoing thing, they get to be bad, but still in their comfort zone.

Figure out what you want and be honest about it. Do you want to pump and dump. There are girls there for that. Want a mistress you only talk to for sex. There are girls on there for that. Want to take a girl under your wing while you have a sexual relationship, there are girls on there for that.

The more complex relationship, the more time and effort you will need to out in.