"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[DWinthrop]

I look at it differently. I see it like when you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

If you approach profiles like hookers, that is all you will find. Women looking for more of a relationship will be scared off. If approach profiles like a normal dating relationship, women looking for a sugar relationship will be all you find and you will scare away the hookers.

A "sugar relationship" is just a more inconvenient way to bang the same hooker repeatedly. Be honest, they are hookers.

That's we are having this discussion on a website called USASEXGUIDE.

[BookerTNelson]

Maybe I'm just more particular and our ideas of what's a 9 or 10 are different. I'm a relatively decent looking and in shape guy and have no problem throwing more money at these girls than they probably deserve yet it's still virtually impossible to get them to commit to FC.

My search criteria is
18-22
White or Asian
Slim or Athletic
Up to 250 miles from my location.

Again, approach and overall vibe matter to that age range. Our search parameters aren't too different, I'm just saying all of this is dependent on You and how they perceive you.

[ItsAHobby45]

Again, It's highly dependent on YOU.

I'm not on there looking for semi pro's at all. I also don't seem to have the same workload or issues getting 18-22 why / o, 9's and 10's that are new or very low volume to the FC that is constantly spoken about on here. In 2020, if they're on the site then they know what it entails but they're always looking for an easy buck without spreading their legs. If they're pretending with you then they probably think they can turn you into an easy ATM run somewhere down the line.

Maybe I'm just more particular and our ideas of what's a 9 or 10 are different. I'm a relatively decent looking and in shape guy and have no problem throwing more money at these girls than they probably deserve yet it's still virtually impossible to get them to commit to FC.

My search criteria is
18-22
White or Asian
Slim or Athletic
Up to 250 miles from my location.

[Madaboutmax]

I look at it differently. I see it like when you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

If you approach profiles like hookers, that is all you will find. Women looking for more of a relationship will be scared off. If approach profiles like a normal dating relationship, women looking for a sugar relationship will be all you find and you will scare away the hookers.

More dependent on your approach as a consumer. The younger new babies are easy for me to get to the FC. But unlike many guys here, this is solely about sex to me. I couldn't care less about the girls, their problems, or their lives outside of my FC. That vibe comes through, and I don't hear much about their problems (although they clearly are pretty comfortable with me.) I don't do dates before the FC, except for the occasional coffee with a really green 18 yo. Never done a dinner, never will.

SB's are just h*okers that want to maintain the fiction they aren't. As long as they can maintain that delusion, they are usually happy to behave pretty much exactly like ho*kers.

[BookerTNelson]

Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.

Again, It's highly dependent on YOU.

I'm not on there looking for semi pro's at all. I also don't seem to have the same workload or issues getting 18-22 why / o, 9's and 10's that are new or very low volume to the FC that is constantly spoken about on here. In 2020, if they're on the site then they know what it entails but they're always looking for an easy buck without spreading their legs. If they're pretending with you then they probably think they can turn you into an easy ATM run somewhere down the line.

[DWinthrop]

Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.

More dependent on your approach as a consumer. The younger new babies are easy for me to get to the FC. But unlike many guys here, this is solely about sex to me. I couldn't care less about the girls, their problems, or their lives outside of my FC. That vibe comes through, and I don't hear much about their problems (although they clearly are pretty comfortable with me.) I don't do dates before the FC, except for the occasional coffee with a really green 18 yo. Never done a dinner, never will.

SB's are just h*okers that want to maintain the fiction they aren't. As long as they can maintain that delusion, they are usually happy to behave pretty much exactly like ho*kers.

[ItsAHobby45]

That was years ago, the game is much different today.

Once again, the experience in the sugar dating scene is highly dependent on your preference in sugar babies. If you don't mind the "semi pro" sb's then you really can have a pretty simple transactional experience without all the drama and bs. The ones that are harder to get and require more time and effort are the younger new babies. In my experience, the new young ones need the arrangement t feel more like a relationship which means you're going to hear all about their personal lives and the drama that typical 18-22 yo's deal with on a daily basis. There is a lot more work (read headache) involved in consistently getting them to the fc. For me personally, the chase is half the fun as long as I always see the target in the distance. My biggest gripe is the ones that pretend they are really looking for a sd and spend days / weeks talking to you only to disappear without any explanation.

[BookerTNelson]

I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.

That was years ago, the game is much different today.

[JaJunk]

Stay far, far away from this one. She is crazier than a loon and will lie about everything and nickle and dime you to death.

[Member #7176]

I enjoy cuddling, and listening to my SBs day and problems. It makes the whole experience more personal to me. Banging a girl and not knowing anything about her was in my 20's. Like my binge drinking days. Try to just drink as much as possible, but not fully trying to enjoy the experience. Now I like to slowly enjoy, and taking in the whole experience of being with that person. Like slowly sipping a single malt or red wine.

All my SBs don't bother me about rent or car payments. I quickly drop SBs that hit me up for money and gifts outside what we already agree. We all have different preferences. SB might not be for you, but I really enjoy it. Just tried of the scammers, but you deal with that with escorts too.

I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.

[Ibtreborz]

1. Women on SA wanting to "start off online".
2. Not putting platonic in their profile, then finding out through text that they want platonic.
3. Putting Virginia, Virginia or Downtown, Virginia as their location.
4. Women on SA wanting me to make a deposit to "show I'm serious" like I got Boo Boo The Fool written on my forehead.
5. Women who are clearly not even a solid 7 with GPS, asking for 500+ per meet.
Feel free to add to this list, but I had to vent.

I tried the whole SB years ago and it was way too much work. There were way to many more cons than pros. It took more of my time and energy to find that one. And to hear the bitching and complaining. It was like being in a real relationship at times. I do not want to snuggle and hear your problems LOL. I found it was better to just pay the 200 or so and find a escort and be done with it. Time is something I have little of and to waste it with some of the sugar babies aka con artists with an eye on your money and that's about all. I came across so many fakes that were like, oh I want to hook up twice a week and just take care of me became a struggle to see them once a month and all you hear is my rent is due, my car is broken my insurance is late.

[Geechie Dan]

1. Women on SA wanting to "start off online".

2. Not putting platonic in their profile, then finding out through text that they want platonic.

3. Putting Virginia, Virginia or Downtown, Virginia as their location.

4. Women on SA wanting me to make a deposit to "show I'm serious" like I got Boo Boo The Fool written on my forehead.

5. Women who are clearly not even a solid 7 with GPS, asking for 500+ per meet.

Feel free to add to this list, but I had to vent.

[MikeoDamerika]

And just how much of a sight-unseen donation would you be asking from us guys looking to participate to send to you, a complete unknown? LOL good luck with this scam.

I'm not asking for any financial help in this. I just ask that you pay for my gas to get there. 😂.

[CrimsonMan]

Hey guys,

I'm getting a big end of the year bonus this year and I've decided to spend it all in one night haha. I've got a work trip to Richmond the second week of December and think this will be the perfect time and place to do it!

Here is what I'm thinking.

- a couple of youngish fit guys from this forum.

- a group of hot, freaky, young sugar babies.

- a nice spacious hotel.

- alcohol.

That's what I've thought of so far.

Not living in Richmond I need some help getting the right girls. I'm willing to spend some serious cash on this event. Let me know if you want to be a part of this and help get the right girls involved.

I'm on SA and am currently talking to several girls there that might be a good fit.

And just how much of a sight-unseen donation would you be asking from us guys looking to participate to send to you, a complete unknown? LOL good luck with this scam.

[RavensFan2012]

I'm 90% sure I know who that was also, but I'm sure that there is more than one dude like that. There are some real Dennis Raider types. It's amazing what some dudes who pay for sex have to say about women. Funny and scary at the same time. I've earned the title of "some SB (hooker)" on this forum for being too much of a white knight I guess. Darn.

I'm obviously not everyone's cup of team but I've never had a woman tell me I didn't treat them with respect and kindness.