"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-31-20 20:54

Young asian sent me these photos. Her profile hides Her face so seeing if anyone has info before I take the bait.

**DWinthrop** · 10-31-20 20:42

Already had an 18 yo, 19 yo and a 22 yo. 3 in 3 days. All three hosted me. Lot of fun, SA works great if you have a little game and pick your targets right.

**Bran001** · 10-31-20 16:46

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

But I'd be amazed if the majority of us have a batting average above. 300 in the bowl.

Depends on what we're measuring. The percentage of positive online interactions that have led to sex, well less than. 300.

I've fortunately been stood up at a M&G maybe 3 times out of dozens. Never had a no-show at a hotel, but still first-time I do NOT check in until I see her. Given covid and extremely low occupancy, there is zero reason to make a non-refundable hotel reservation. I get on my Marriott app right from the hotel parking lot, or do Day Use which is fully refundable.

When I used to travel for business, the average of actually meeting up with those I'd planned to meet was about. 500. So I'd always double or triple book a week out; as the week progressed, often one would drop off and / or I'd lose interest.

**Member #7176** · 10-31-20 16:34

I would say that 30% if the SBs I setup dates with will ghost me the day before the date. Most get off SA all together. A lot of these girls chicken out, had one drive away after parking. I got her to come back for extra 100 and to a sit in her car date. Got FC, but she wasn't a keeper. She was worried that people she knows will be at the restaurant. Had another one make me do a M&G in the parking lot of the hotel to make sure I wasn't LE or crazy. Last new SB brought a knife and pepper spray for our 1st hotel date. Remember it's more dangerous for girls to meetup with guys. So no surprise if you get ghost.

Thinking of slowing down this month don't like the choices of girls on Seeking right now. Hopefully the holiday season will bring fresh blood.

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Don't get all worked up before it happens; that's something you'll learn after a time on SA. It's not a done deal until it's a done deal. Women can and will flake at ANY time.

I've been on SA about 5 years, met dozens of women. Some flake / ghost while chatting. Last week one ghosted me between texting me that she arrived at the coffee shop where we were going to meet, and me arriving there 10 minutes later. A few years ago one met me twice for drinks, we scheduled a hotel date, she arrived at the room, and 45 seconds later she flaked with "I can't do this. ".

Hope for the best, but always keep in mind that things can change rapidly. Less likely to get disappointed that way. ALWAYS keep your options open; never get complacent. And keep your guard up; don't leave your wallet in the room while you shower, etc.

**CoolPix** · 10-31-20 16:22

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Don't get all worked up before it happens; that's something you'll learn after a time on SA. It's not a done deal until it's a done deal. Women can and will flake at ANY time.

I've been on SA about 5 years, met dozens of women. Some flake / ghost while chatting. Last week one ghosted me between texting me that she arrived at the coffee shop where we were going to meet, and me arriving there 10 minutes later. A few years ago one met me twice for drinks, we scheduled a hotel date, she arrived at the room, and 45 seconds later she flaked with "I can't do this. ".

Hope for the best, but always keep in mind that things can change rapidly. Less likely to get disappointed that way. ALWAYS keep your options open; never get complacent. And keep your guard up; don't leave your wallet in the room while you shower, etc.

I can't agree with this more and will add that I've had SBs I've met several times ghost me on the way to another meeting at the FC. No rhyme, no reason. I've learned to never check into the hotel until I'm eyeball to eyeball with her unless it's someone who has demonstrated no flakiness. And even that's a stretch. Fortunately, I've found day use rooms so I can chill and if she doesn't show up, I never check in and never get charged.

But I agree with Bran, slow your roll a bit and wait until you get one or two of those gals in the FC for a few hours of uninhibited fun. It most definitely happens, for some mongers far more often than not. But I'd be amazed if the majority of us have a batting average above. 300 in the bowl.

**Bran001** · 10-31-20 16:09

Originally Posted by Gyxser70 [View Original Post]

I'm afraid I may have bit off more than I can chew.

Will post another update in time.

Don't get all worked up before it happens; that's something you'll learn after a time on SA. It's not a done deal until it's a done deal. Women can and will flake at ANY time.

I've been on SA about 5 years, met dozens of women. Some flake / ghost while chatting. Last week one ghosted me between texting me that she arrived at the coffee shop where we were going to meet, and me arriving there 10 minutes later. A few years ago one met me twice for drinks, we scheduled a hotel date, she arrived at the room, and 45 seconds later she flaked with "I can't do this. ".

Hope for the best, but always keep in mind that things can change rapidly. Less likely to get disappointed that way. ALWAYS keep your options open; never get complacent. And keep your guard up; don't leave your wallet in the room while you shower, etc.

**Gyxser70** · 10-31-20 14:24

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

The site has got to do better so many girls on here looking for online only. Out of the 50 messaged maybe 4-5 girls serious about actually meeting. Smh. And some of them want to build connections before meeting up at the FC! LOL you just got to stay active and wait for one who is financially struggling and has no other choice than to sell that pussy. It's a shame though because I stay clear of any experienced girls. I'm looking for the new sugars new to the game.

If I come across someone and their profile is older than 6 months, I automatically assume they're a pro by this point and that their expectations are not as realistic; they have some notches on their belt and have learned. With the younger generation growing on IG, FB their perception of reality is deluded.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-31-20 13:41

Originally Posted by Gyxser70 [View Original Post]

After asking a few questions here last week, and always reading about how so many have tapped Co-Ed's for cheap I finally decided to hop on and pay for a membership. I made a thorough and well detailed profile. I added two photos: one showing most of my face and the other 'private' one showing the whole picture. Many view me and message for access to see the private picture as well as the forever impressive "hey".

Within the hour, I was messaging quite a few women as well as receiving many profile views and being favorited. I like women in their early 20's to early 30's either finishing up their degree or already in a more professional job. If I can't see a pic of nice straight white teeth or pretty manicured nails it throws off a red flag for me. Is the norm on Seeking for almost every girl to have lots of tattoos? Anyway, once we exchange pleasantries and the "what're you looking for," I try to get off the site quickly; either Kik, Snap, or text.

It's usually pretty easy for me to find their FB once I get their number, etc. Call me a weirdo, but I think what gets me off most is seeing how a girls' FB posts make her seem so sweet and innocent- either posting food recipe links, or pictures of quotes on how they're so wise now from the people who hurt them in the past but within an hour of talking I've already gotten nudes, videos hehe.

One thing I'm very surprised about is the amount of girls who go silent when it comes to actually arranging to meet. I've talked to about 20-25 women so far and it's looking like 2 might actually follow through on meeting. Why give me your # and go through with all that then go silent after a few text messages? I'm not pushy or anything, I simply ask what their availability is.

Out of the two I'm possibly meeting, there's one who is an absolute knockout; she's a gorgeous girl. On top of her wide hipped 5'9" frame she actually seems very smart, punctual and just gets it. She has a demanding office job and isn't one for the traditional kind of dating per her profile. She's had two prior arrangements before. I'm afraid I may have bit off more than I can chew.

Will post another update in time.

The site has got to do better so many girls on here looking for online only. Out of the 50 messaged maybe 4-5 girls serious about actually meeting. Smh. And some of them want to build connections before meeting up at the FC! LOL you just got to stay active and wait for one who is financially struggling and has no other choice than to sell that pussy. It's a shame though because I stay clear of any experienced girls. I'm looking for the new sugars new to the game.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-31-20 11:39

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a0f1...6-b4b2b5d4db3d

I was messaging with this one. I gave my allowance price. She told me what her last SD gave her, which was higher than I offered. I said best of luck in her search. She then gives me her number and says let's talk offline. I text her and her response is "not interested".

I text back "so you ask me to text you offline just to say you're not interested?

She says " Leave me alone. Take rejection for once. ".

Now she text me saying:

" Report that profile. Because it's someone using my information as a man and scamming you men. ".

Crazy! I'd avoid that profile.

**ArtImperial** · 10-31-20 08:08

Might be less of a big forum / network, and more of a "one friend telling her other friend" sort of thing. We've all had girls who got into the bowl because their friend (s) told them about it. Once two or more friends are both talking (or more) to guys, I'm sure they trade info on who they interact with. It's understandable.

Originally Posted by Lodzvisiter [View Original Post]

Do you all know where the SBs are sharing information about SDs? Similar to this forum for us?

**Gyxser70** · 10-31-20 00:26

After asking a few questions here last week, and always reading about how so many have tapped Co-Ed's for cheap I finally decided to hop on and pay for a membership. I made a thorough and well detailed profile. I added two photos: one showing most of my face and the other 'private' one showing the whole picture. Many view me and message for access to see the private picture as well as the forever impressive "hey".

Within the hour, I was messaging quite a few women as well as receiving many profile views and being favorited. I like women in their early 20's to early 30's either finishing up their degree or already in a more professional job. If I can't see a pic of nice straight white teeth or pretty manicured nails it throws off a red flag for me. Is the norm on Seeking for almost every girl to have lots of tattoos? Anyway, once we exchange pleasantries and the "what're you looking for," I try to get off the site quickly; either Kik, Snap, or text.

It's usually pretty easy for me to find their FB once I get their number, etc. Call me a weirdo, but I think what gets me off most is seeing how a girls' FB posts make her seem so sweet and innocent- either posting food recipe links, or pictures of quotes on how they're so wise now from the people who hurt them in the past but within an hour of talking I've already gotten nudes, videos hehe.

One thing I'm very surprised about is the amount of girls who go silent when it comes to actually arranging to meet. I've talked to about 20-25 women so far and it's looking like 2 might actually follow through on meeting. Why give me your # and go through with all that then go silent after a few text messages? I'm not pushy or anything, I simply ask what their availability is.

Out of the two I'm possibly meeting, there's one who is an absolute knockout; she's a gorgeous girl. On top of her wide hipped 5'9" frame she actually seems very smart, punctual and just gets it. She has a demanding office job and isn't one for the traditional kind of dating per her profile. She's had two prior arrangements before. I'm afraid I may have bit off more than I can chew.

Will post another update in time.

**FarFarAway** · 10-30-20 16:12

This has come and gone on the site, it's back. Of course, I would never use this, it's got to be a rip-off. However, when I don't have a paid membership, I still like to browse, and like to arouse a POTs interest in me. I can share private photos (mine are all fake, so there's no risk), like them, and recently, I have been viewing their wish lists. They know I have done that, SA does too, they send me emails that so and so has updated her wish list. Even if I never ever intend to get her anything on that list, it makes her think I might because I viewed it. There was a whole set of posts a couple of years ago of how to tease a shopping spree with a SB, while banging her and never delivering.

Anyway, the contents of her wish list is often interesting. I do like to give little treats to girls at the M&G, and this is a window into their desires. I was surprised to see chocolates, as well as sneakers. I can get a gift card that addresses these interests of girls. No surprise lingerie is on there, jewelry too. Flowers showed up periodically. Interesting, sex toys are on there too. I find that funny, I read a profile today of a girl who said she wanted a platonic relationship, but her wish list has several different types of dildos / vibes.

Creating the mind frame in your POT that she's going to get all sorts of benefits is the way to get her to the FC, especially if she is a real NP.

FFA.

**BookerTNelson** · 10-30-20 13:21

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

Says she won't engage unless there's a connection. I've come across multiple profiles saying this and I'm targeting all of them. Simply because the chances of them being new or not passed around yet excites me. Nothings worse than the thought of diseases out here and catching something. And once I'm sure they're not seeing multiple guys I'm going in raw and giving them the whole 9 inches. I got two young girls I found who swear they won't have sex at all. I'm taking them out soon. And when I do I'm going to post here for all to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1f78...2-c4d968e2a2d7

This one is on the connection bullshit.

Of course, the other girls I have I won't post but if you guys find them try your best to hit. I get such evil thoughts thinking about how much I will enjoy smashing a hot young adult women who told me she doesn't do sex but then turns around and for a mere $250-300 let's me dig her guts out and blow my load all over her face. Of course, I work long hours so setting up meets is a chore.

This is most accounts though. The draw of Seeking to these women is that they think it puts them above hookers, escorts and other sex workers but for sub-200, I've had them all doing the same things. Either way I get the draw for you.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-30-20 11:04

Says she won't engage unless there's a connection. I've come across multiple profiles saying this and I'm targeting all of them. Simply because the chances of them being new or not passed around yet excites me. Nothings worse than the thought of diseases out here and catching something. And once I'm sure they're not seeing multiple guys I'm going in raw and giving them the whole 9 inches. I got two young girls I found who swear they won't have sex at all. I'm taking them out soon. And when I do I'm going to post here for all to see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1f78...2-c4d968e2a2d7

This one is on the connection bullshit.

Of course, the other girls I have I won't post but if you guys find them try your best to hit. I get such evil thoughts thinking about how much I will enjoy smashing a hot young adult women who told me she doesn't do sex but then turns around and for a mere $250-300 let's me dig her guts out and blow my load all over her face. Of course, I work long hours so setting up meets is a chore.

**BookerTNelson** · 10-30-20 10:04

Originally Posted by Dsprdo [View Original Post]

I have been curious about this as well, because I have had the same profile and user name on SA for a long time and sometimes I wonder if I should delete and create a new one. I went down the reddit rabbit hole and the main sugar forum is titled sugar life style. In its rules it specifically prohibits posting others identifying information and says that any "blacklist" type of post will be removed.

I'd switch it up. Personally I change them fairly often because honestly the profile is just a shell game and I get a new shot at SB's with a new profile. Same with the phone number.