Sugar Daddy Sites

**HollywoodGuy** · 11-08-20 17:15

Originally Posted by Thanxxx [View Original Post]

Join some of the clubs on the HeX if on site there's clubs for that. Yes other sites offer this type of swingers style service as well. Or you looking to join in like with myself and a regular?

The two sites I have found are SDC and fet life. Non pros.

**Thanxxx** · 11-07-20 15:54

Originally Posted by MidnightDabber [View Original Post]

I really want to try a threesome, any info on sugar couples?

Join some of the clubs on the HeX if on site there's clubs for that. Yes other sites offer this type of swingers style service as well. Or you looking to join in like with myself and a regular?

**MidnightDabber** · 11-07-20 14:40

I really want to try a threesome, any info on sugar couples?

**Shyzai** · 10-29-20 17:08

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I was married twice. Once for 5 years and once for 15 years. Some of the best advice I ever heard was to "keep the sex dirty and the arguments clean". First wife was my best friend, very loving but sexually so so. Second wife, sex was super hot right up till the end, divorced over other issues. Marriage is mostly for having children IMHO.

If you are a freak and your wife is not, not going to work.

Agree on social issues and social status, career goals, etc.

Be able to talk about anything, sexual or otherwise.

Must have blind faith / trust in each other.

The problem above everything else is that in every 10 year span you will both change. If you change in the same direction then great. But if you move in other directions then not so great. You may still love each other but just have differeent interests at that point. I stayed friends with wife #1 till she died a few years ago. And still friends with wife #2 after 20 years divorced.

Thank you for the sage advice. I'll do my best. I am trying to go back to vanilla dating and surprisingly a lot of the women I have met also want a sugar boyfriend. Even the feminist ones don't have a problem with a man being a MAN. The hypocrisy, LOL.

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-29-20 13:16

Originally Posted by Shyzai [View Original Post]

Some youtuber made a video about a woman who was no longer sexually attracted to her husband, so I decided to follow the link to read the full story and comments therein. Good Lord! I don't think I want to ever get married. The women were just pouring out their hearts in the comments. Some women said that even though their husbands were "perfect" and did everything right that they felt no attraction to them. They complained about feeling disgusted at their husbands' touch, and feeling so nauseated that they couldn't even muster the courage to kiss them. WOW! One even said her husband was good-looking but she felt nothing. Some married early and they regretted not exploring. Some married late, but they compared their husbands unfavorably to the bad boys they dated previously. Some felt attraction in the beginning, but it waned. Others never felt it. A common thread was that the husband was loving, doting, an amazing dad, and an awesome provider, but there was no chemistry. What is going on? If you switched the genders, even I would complain that the men were callous. I know this site is about SBs but I do want to get married in the future, but is this what awaits me?

For those interested: https://offbeathome.com/not-attracted-to-my-husband/.

I was married twice. Once for 5 years and once for 15 years. Some of the best advice I ever heard was to "keep the sex dirty and the arguments clean". First wife was my best friend, very loving but sexually so so. Second wife, sex was super hot right up till the end, divorced over other issues. Marriage is mostly for having children IMHO.

If you are a freak and your wife is not, not going to work.

Agree on social issues and social status, career goals, etc.

Be able to talk about anything, sexual or otherwise.

Must have blind faith / trust in each other.

The problem above everything else is that in every 10 year span you will both change. If you change in the same direction then great. But if you move in other directions then not so great. You may still love each other but just have differeent interests at that point. I stayed friends with wife #1 till she died a few years ago. And still friends with wife #2 after 20 years divorced.

**EvilTmp** · 10-29-20 11:38

Originally Posted by Happtrav [View Original Post]

I was talking on snap, to a hot 21 yr old blonde off SD4.

Bad attitude. Red flags all over. Then she says I should read the SugarDaddyLifestyle forum on Reddit.

Cause I have no idea how to be a good SD. Apparently the forum says Sugaring requires no intimacy.

How would you respond?

Look at you! Trying to have an adult, logical conversation with a 21 old girl. That right there should be your obvious clue.

Listen, she's 21, a cute girl, and you expect her to have any insight into how the real world works? She's a lottery jackpot winner. She has guys as far as her eye can see lining up to tell her how pretty, funny, and smart she is. You think she'll believe anything you have to tell her? Especially something that doesn't benefits her. I. e. That she's so special that guys would want to pay her just to hang.

If you do try your hand at SBing her, I wouldn't invest too much.

**Cubico** · 10-28-20 15:02

Originally Posted by Happtrav [View Original Post]

I was talking on snap, to a hot 21 yr old blonde off SD4.

Bad attitude. Red flags all over. Then she says I should read the SugarDaddyLifestyle forum on Reddit.

Cause I have no idea how to be a good SD. Apparently the forum says Sugaring requires no intimacy.

How would you respond?

I would not bother to respond honestly. At least you met her on snap, if you ever encounter someone like that on Seeking, either block or move on right away, this kind of girl will report you if you mention anything close to "no honey no money". And being reported for something like that will get you banned quickly.

**Happtrav** · 10-28-20 14:30

I was talking on snap, to a hot 21 yr old blonde off SD4.

Bad attitude. Red flags all over. Then she says I should read the SugarDaddyLifestyle forum on Reddit.

Cause I have no idea how to be a good SD. Apparently the forum says Sugaring requires no intimacy.

How would you respond?

**Happtrav** · 10-28-20 14:21

Originally Posted by SWalkerRanger [View Original Post]

Just means you have to think of the wife as a sugar baby, and you are good to go. Who cares if she isn't attracted to you if you can have sex with her and she provides you with children.

Only in America is the false image of 1 woman+1 man hammered into peoples mind.

I have traveled the world. In other parts of the world, It is understood that a married couple is allowed to play around ie: Open Relationships to stay happy in life. All of Europe is that way. Singapore allows pay for play.

And some cultures allow up to 4 wives.

Look at it this way, A Toyota minivan is a wonderful, reliable daily driver, but you need a Wild Mustang to have fun on weekends.

But the key is you need both, to have a balanced happy life.

**SWalkerRanger** · 10-28-20 10:36

Originally Posted by Shyzai [View Original Post]

Some youtuber made a video about a woman who was no longer sexually attracted to her husband, so I decided to follow the link to read the full story and comments therein. Good Lord! I don't think I want to ever get married. The women were just pouring out their hearts in the comments. Some women said that even though their husbands were "perfect" and did everything right that they felt no attraction to them. They complained about feeling disgusted at their husbands' touch, and feeling so nauseated that they couldn't even muster the courage to kiss them. WOW! One even said her husband was good-looking but she felt nothing. Some married early and they regretted not exploring. Some married late, but they compared their husbands unfavorably to the bad boys they dated previously. Some felt attraction in the beginning, but it waned. Others never felt it. A common thread was that the husband was loving, doting, an amazing dad, and an awesome provider, but there was no chemistry. What is going on? If you switched the genders, even I would complain that the men were callous. I know this site is about SBs but I do want to get married in the future, but is this what awaits me?

For those interested: https://offbeathome.com/not-attracted-to-my-husband/.

Just means you have to think of the wife as a sugar baby, and you are good to go. Who cares if she isn't attracted to you if you can have sex with her and she provides you with children.

**Shyzai** · 10-27-20 18:45

Some youtuber made a video about a woman who was no longer sexually attracted to her husband, so I decided to follow the link to read the full story and comments therein. Good Lord! I don't think I want to ever get married. The women were just pouring out their hearts in the comments. Some women said that even though their husbands were "perfect" and did everything right that they felt no attraction to them. They complained about feeling disgusted at their husbands' touch, and feeling so nauseated that they couldn't even muster the courage to kiss them. WOW! One even said her husband was good-looking but she felt nothing. Some married early and they regretted not exploring. Some married late, but they compared their husbands unfavorably to the bad boys they dated previously. Some felt attraction in the beginning, but it waned. Others never felt it. A common thread was that the husband was loving, doting, an amazing dad, and an awesome provider, but there was no chemistry. What is going on? If you switched the genders, even I would complain that the men were callous. I know this site is about SBs but I do want to get married in the future, but is this what awaits me?

For those interested: https://offbeathome.com/not-attracted-to-my-husband/.

**JackMiles** · 10-26-20 20:08

Originally Posted by LookingForCfc [View Original Post]

Look out for this gps.

Babyalyssaa.

Wants 0. 5-1 k just for a M&G, crazy! Gave me some BS about we can meet for the first 2 times and have fun the 3rd time. Hahahha! I reported her. IMHO we should report all these "platonic" scammers to get them off that site.

Her profile states Platonic so there's that.

**RanManCan** · 10-26-20 12:05

Originally Posted by MacEatBright [View Original Post]

Because some girls would ask for ppm for the first time m&g that makes me confused.

If she's saying PPM when you discuss M&G, 95% odds she's rather experienced and is intending to start the adult portion of the arrangement immediately after the M&G. For those girls is just a 5 minute meet near the FC to ensure she's not a catfish, then you fuck her. Closer to a UTR.

**FarFarAway** · 10-26-20 11:20

Originally Posted by MacEatBright [View Original Post]

Because some girls would ask for ppm for the first time m&g that makes me confused.

Not exactly clear, but are you saying they want sugar for that initial (public) meet? Don't. Also, you need the primer on being in the bowl. Just read this thread for 3 days, and also consult Richmond VA, the de facto national thread. They have an archive of all the good posts.