NoVA SugarBabies

**PickyMonger** · 10-26-20 19:12

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

I know that is the case but what I was getting at is that when I was still active with my premium account that would happen to me from time to time. In fact, there were times when I would get a message from some hottie out of the blue and unsolicited and 24 hours later it would just disappear. TBH, that seemed to happen around the time my premium account was about to expire and I'm convinced it was a not-so-subtle ploy to get to renew my premium account.

I believe that a message thread will disappear when other person has been banned. That happened to a girl I was talking to once. Her messages reappeared and she said she had been "on probation" until she provided proof she was over 18. Turns out she was a pic seller anyway so I reported her.

**CoolPix** · 10-26-20 18:56

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Literally verbatim had the exact same experience, told me her brother came over LOL. She's actually flaked on me 3 different times now. I've stopped wasting my time with her. She's sent a couple follow up texts but I've not bothered responding back.

Well, isn't that interesting? I wonder if she actually ever meets with anybody or if this is just a way for her to get her kicks. SMDH.

**Dimples572** · 10-26-20 12:23

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

I traded texts with her about a year ago and tried to meet. Had a meet scheduled and she flaked. Later told me her brother came over unexpectedly and wanted to reschedule. Hey, I get it, shit happens. But it became a pattern. Never could get our schedules to align and I just gave up. As I recall, she had a pretty high expectation for the allowance (500?) and I had other solid options for far less.

I don't mind the "thrill of the hunt," just expect results within a couple of weeks of the initial contact.

Literally verbatim had the exact same experience, told me her brother came over LOL. She's actually flaked on me 3 different times now. I've stopped wasting my time with her. She's sent a couple follow up texts but I've not bothered responding back.

**CoolPix** · 10-26-20 12:11

Originally Posted by GolfMan57 [View Original Post]

Messages drop off after 180 days.

I know that is the case but what I was getting at is that when I was still active with my premium account that would happen to me from time to time. In fact, there were times when I would get a message from some hottie out of the blue and unsolicited and 24 hours later it would just disappear. TBH, that seemed to happen around the time my premium account was about to expire and I'm convinced it was a not-so-subtle ploy to get to renew my premium account.

**CoolPix** · 10-26-20 12:07

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any info on this one? I chatted with her about a yr ago but never pulled the trigger and then she disappeared but she's recently popped back up on SA. Those huge tits have once again peaked my interest LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f5946...4-7fa3bdfa7668

I traded texts with her about a year ago and tried to meet. Had a meet scheduled and she flaked. Later told me her brother came over unexpectedly and wanted to reschedule. Hey, I get it, shit happens. But it became a pattern. Never could get our schedules to align and I just gave up. As I recall, she had a pretty high expectation for the allowance (500?) and I had other solid options for far less.

I don't mind the "thrill of the hunt," just expect results within a couple of weeks of the initial contact.

**GolfMan57** · 10-25-20 20:37

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

While I haven't been on the site for probably three months, that has happened to me as well. Usually it was a conversation with a POT that was new to the site, so I took it to mean that they ghosted me for one reason or another. Are these long conversations that have disappeared with current or former SBs? I logged on the other day just to check something out and saw that many of my PMs were still there, I just couldn't read them because I stopped my premium account.

Messages drop off after 180 days.

**Rudy Wellz** · 10-25-20 13:30

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

Fun once you get past her bit of awkwardness. Very submissive and a freak. 200/ per.

Thanks and interesting. She quoted me a much higher number ($500). Perhaps she's been reading SB forums and seeing the astronomical amounts that SB's are asking for.

**FogHorn1** · 10-25-20 12:42

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Anyone else noticing message threads with SB's on the SA site are suddenly deleted? I've noticed half a dozen or so just in the past day that I know for a fact were not deleted by me that are no longer there, its showing no message thread at all. And they're not archived or anything either. It's weird.

It's happened to me as well. No rhyme or reason to it that I can see, just sometimes conversations just vanish.

**CoolPix** · 10-25-20 11:26

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Anyone else noticing message threads with SB's on the SA site are suddenly deleted? I've noticed half a dozen or so just in the past day that I know for a fact were not deleted by me that are no longer there, its showing no message thread at all. And they're not archived or anything either. It's weird.

While I haven't been on the site for probably three months, that has happened to me as well. Usually it was a conversation with a POT that was new to the site, so I took it to mean that they ghosted me for one reason or another. Are these long conversations that have disappeared with current or former SBs? I logged on the other day just to check something out and saw that many of my PMs were still there, I just couldn't read them because I stopped my premium account.

**JonFisher** · 10-25-20 10:47

https://www.seeking.com/member/2a436...9-a00208d46efa

Asking 600, can't host, good butt and ok with anal, ok with BBFS, you may be able bring her ask down. I passed because she is a A cup.

**BookerTNelson** · 10-25-20 05:19

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Looks cute and sexy. Frequently online. We've chatted on the platform. Any intel would be appreciated.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9b505...5-e317db187962

Fun once you get past her bit of awkwardness. Very submissive and a freak. 200/ per.

**TinyTim123** · 10-24-20 21:51

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Natural too? Has anyone done the two-hand squeeze verification?

Having given 'them a good squeeze, they're not real sadly. But it's good work by whatever lucky surgeon did it, as they feel very pleasant indeed for what they are.

**OliverNP** · 10-24-20 20:38

Originally Posted by TinyTim123 [View Original Post]

One of the most bizarrely unusual and disappointing experiences I've ever had, but figured I'd better warn you all. If you want to hear a crazy tale, here it is.

Had an M&G over drinks, and she actually came across as very down to earth and while a little heavier than her photos, still had great legs and a very pretty face. Said she was only interested in one SD at a time, and had recently ended her last relationship and was hoping to find a new one for a longer-term situation. Good conversationalist and we talked for maybe two hours until the bar closed down and was time to call it a night. Offered to drive her home and she said she actually was still up for continuing if I wanted to, if there was a place to move things private. Brought up her allowance preferences, which was to have a monthly of $1800-2000 to meet once or twice a week. A little higher, but not crazy high by any means. And she looked good. So I said sure is she cool with that being paid out weekly as I tend to avoid upfront lump sums for monthly until we know each other for a while, and she said no problem.

All sounding pretty darn encouraging right? It's kinda late at night at this point, so ask whether she's sure she's up for something now or should we meet again over the weekend to start things off with private time. Says she's definitely still feeling good. And has the whole day to herself tomorrow so can stay out late. We get a nice hotel room nearby and she lays down on the bed and begins stripping down. Again, all encouraging right? Asks about the allowance, and I suggest I put it on the desk and we leave it there until we part ways. No problem. She asks if I can get her a snack from downstairs and say sure -- now at this point I know what you're all thinking, don't leave her in the room with the money. LOL. And I didn't. I took it with me.

But here's where things took an unexpected turn I've never experienced before.

I get back to the room maybe 5 minutes later and she's laying naked on the bed but on her side and her eyes closed. Thought maybe she's asleep? So gave her a gentle nudge and she said she was sorry, didn't realize how tired she really was until she was laying down. Granted, that's not unreasonable when it's midnight. So I suggest why don't I drive her home and we can try things another time. No need to rush. We'll start the arrangement next time, and go from there. She says she feels bad I've already gotten the room, and apologies for being tired but suggests since she's got nothing going on the next day why doesn't she just stay overnight and and we'll have the fun in the morning instead? Well. Why not, right.

So here's the thing: she did indeed stay all night! No intimacy but we both slept next to each other at the hotel. Then in the morning when we wake up, she says thanks for being a gentleman and not pushing me to play when she was too tired. Says she can't wait to make it up to me. Asks if we can get a little coffee and a muffin or something to perk up. So I say sure and go downstairs to get some.

When I come back, she's gone. And so is the money. I text and call her, no answer. Log in to SA, and sure enough she's blocked me.

Now granted, it's my fault for leaving the allowance where it was while going down for coffee -- but once she'd already spent all night sleeping beside me and seemed genuinely cool and sweet, suppose I gave her the benefit of the doubt. That's a lot of time and effort to put in just to essentially cash and dash. But fell for the long con clearly. And found myself genuinely bummed out, as I didn't see it coming. Really liked her too. It would be one thing if she wasn't feeling the vibe to begin with, but then why suggest we move to the FC at all, and then why play tired and then stay overnight and promise morning fun, unless it was all her method for doing exactly what she did to me and get me to relax around the 4 benjamins sitting on the desk. (Still confused tbh, why didn't she just leave while I was sleeping? Guess I'll never know.).

Anyway I can't post the link because she blocked me after making off with the cash, so if someone else has it and wants to share for the group? But watch out for this one. I try to be skeptical but she really won me over thinking it was all real and then was blindsided because I let me guard down. Live and learn.

Any sort of attempt to ask for money before you've fucked them is a scam. Just say no to anyone that asks for it up front. The key to staying on top of the game with women is to always keep them striving for something. Paying them / putting the money where they can grab and go takes away the motivation and the very excuse they needed to give themselves to justify acceptance of random cock. Simple female psychology 101.

**Dimples572** · 10-24-20 14:37

Anyone else noticing message threads with SB's on the SA site are suddenly deleted? I've noticed half a dozen or so just in the past day that I know for a fact were not deleted by me that are no longer there, its showing no message thread at all. And they're not archived or anything either. It's weird.