NoVA SugarBabies

**Lobsid** · 10-19-20 12:14

Only paid for M&G twice. Both times I asked if we can meet up with in hours. 1st time was with a current SB. I am her 1st and only SD. I got feeling that she was a newbie. Bonus she was 10 mins away from me. Had one of my regular SB cancel on me so I had the night off. She my booty call SB. I know her schedule, and normal can meetup with her with in hours of texting her.

2nd girl was last week. Had another girl ghost me. So 2nd girl msg and agree to date all on the same day. I meet up with her, and the date ended up in a hotel room for some fun. I'm not planning to see her again she has a beautiful face, but her profile pics were her when she was 20 lbs lighter. Will probably post a review in a few weeks of her.

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?

**FunGuy570** · 10-19-20 10:50

When you pay for a M at G you are not going to get to the FC, EVER most of the time. They are going to try and get as many meets as possible with nothing going down. Then they will ghost you if you stop the platonic paid meets. IF the girl cannot invest a couple of hours in getting to know you without being compensated, then it is not a girl worth your time. The best arrangements are based on mutual attraction and respect. The financial aspect is secondary, if that is a girls primary motive from the start expect to be disappointed even if you do get to the FC. IE poor rushed performances, lots of boundaries, lots of flaking, and blatant acts of disrespect.

Red Flags.

1. The girl asks you to buy her stuff or send her money prior to ever meeting in person. This includes the girl asking for gas or babysitting money upfront prior to meeting. If she needs transportation send an UBER on your account.

2. You set up a meeting and then after you set everything up, she asks about compensation shortly before.

3. You go on a meet and greet and then she asks for money after when nothing goes down other than food or drinks.

4. Even if something does go down, the girl constantly texts you asking for money even when you done meet.

5. YOU DENY ANY OF THESE AND THE GIRL GETS AN ATTITUDE.

1 out of every 3 of these will back down and still meet if you say no to these demands. Respect goes further than money.

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?

**BobDingle10** · 10-19-20 10:37

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?

C'Mon. Dude. You already know the answer to this. SA ain't that different from the escort game. And if you spent any amount of that time in that arena you know some dudes will pay for merely the company of a pretty woman. Just like some dudes in the spa game will get a HE only cause it's not really cheating on their significant other. Everyone has different turn ons and turn offs. Everyone isn't looking for the same thing. Just let people be.

**ChrisHansen92** · 10-19-20 10:05

I could be wrong but most probably do it in hopes it will build trust, show that they are serious or even that it will seal the deal that day. It usually results in none of those. The most I have spent is one cup of coffee or one cocktail. I limit my time to about 20 minutes and tell them I have to be somewhere after the meet. Lets be honest after 15-20 minutes we have both come to a conclusion. I do not pay for job interviews. If everyone stopped doing this the market might correct itself a little.

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?

**BookerTNelson** · 10-19-20 09:40

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Her and I've been texting off and on for a month or so. Wants a lunch meet and greet first time and fully expects to get paid the full ppm for it. Says if we vibe then we can go have fun afterwards, but I'm not sure I'm willing to take the chance that she might say she's not interested and wants paid the full ppm for just sitting down for an hour over a lunch salad.

So this isn't really aimed at you but since you posted it I'll ask.

For the guys who pay anything for a M&G. What do you get out of doing this? I ask because the basis of SA is to find something that is mutually beneficial and a trip to the FC is a win for both but paying them for a M&G, What is your benefit from doing so?

**Dimples572** · 10-19-20 09:39

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Please don't pay these women for a meet and greet. Just move in and find another

LOL, no worries. That's never going to happen.

**BuffBill75** · 10-19-20 09:35

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

Her and I've been texting off and on for a month or so. Wants a lunch meet and greet first time and fully expects to get paid the full ppm for it. Says if we vibe then we can go have fun afterwards, but I'm not sure I'm willing to take the chance that she might say she's not interested and wants paid the full ppm for just sitting down for an hour over a lunch salad.

Please don't pay these women for a meet and greet. Just move in and find another.

**Dimples572** · 10-18-20 23:52

Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]

Any intel on this SB. Exchanged a few emails and trying to set up a meeting.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bdf2...7-5b6281aa1a30

Her and I've been texting off and on for a month or so. Wants a lunch meet and greet first time and fully expects to get paid the full ppm for it. Says if we vibe then we can go have fun afterwards, but I'm not sure I'm willing to take the chance that she might say she's not interested and wants paid the full ppm for just sitting down for an hour over a lunch salad.

**Rudy Wellz** · 10-18-20 21:03

Any intel on this SB. Exchanged a few emails and trying to set up a meeting.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2bdf2...7-5b6281aa1a30

**CoolPix** · 10-18-20 18:34

Originally Posted by GolfMan57 [View Original Post]

If this is Andrea also know as Tigress, you cannot go wrong. Great Massage plus.

Yep, that's the one. Fantastic figure and attitude and services. I haven't seen her in quite some time, be playing in the bowl and have been very satisfied so no need to go the pro route.

**GolfMan57** · 10-18-20 17:34

If this is Andrea also know as Tigress, you cannot go wrong. Great Massage plus.

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

Not sure why you posted your question in the SB forum but if you want a great massage with a CMT who is easy on the eyes and will also provide extra, I'd recommend Andrea who is based in Woodbridge. You can find her on P411.

**Dimples572** · 10-18-20 09:27

Fake. Pics seller. Move along.

https://www.seeking.com/member/39030...d-f802700657f3

**LouisHernandez** · 10-18-20 05:40

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/81799...b-51f937d7da21

Scammer. Chatted, got offline, seemed innocent. Asked me to make an offer and was very happy at 300 (red flag) few other red flags which I probably overlooked. Asked for 20 $ for gas. Sent her by paypal. Then she started blackmailing and threatening. Did not realise that paypal has my real name. She gave me her IG which is keepingupwaleah_.

My experience with girls named Leah has been bad.

Don't ever send paypal period. Don't send anything electronic ever. Now they have your info. Cash only and cash is king anyway. But even more so never send a nickle before meeting. If they ask for any money whatsover it's a dead lead. Block, move on. Time is the more valuable than anything in this game. You'll burn out if don't get your filters set up right.