Seeking Arrangements

**Satine** · 10-17-20 15:37

Texted with her for a while, decided to meet. She delayed the meeting an hour before the agreed time. I agreed to push the meet for 2-hours, allowing her to finish her stuff. Then she wanted to cancel it again 30 min before the 2nd agreed time, wanted me to go to her place instead. I suspected it is a setup and refused to go. She called several times, sent me her address, and sent me a video with her rubbing herself. Now it really smelled like a setup. At the end of the day, hours after all these. I actually drove to her place. It is an apartment complex. I texted and called her saying I want to see her now. No response. Two days later she texted / call me again, want me to go see her.

Man, am I paranoid or this really feels bad. Would not talk to her again.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1537...c-d47ca429707c

**TheList00** · 10-17-20 14:10

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

I saw her back in July after my sugar baby and I stopped seeing each other. My sugar baby got a bf so we both agreed to stop. Anyway, I was in the Westford area and reached out to Sicilian. We chatted back and forth she can be standoffish at times but it had been a month since I'd seen anyone so I was willing to put up with it. She told me she was trying to reach a goal (later found out it was implants). She is my type petite, blonde and skinny so I said 300 to 400. She said no way 500. I said ok if it was for 2 hrs which she said ok. I asked if BB was ok and she said yes. After I am done my business in Westford I get the hotel and she comes over, she can't host. We end up talking for 1. 5 before we move to the bed. Then she starts giving me some trouble over BB, until she decides I am a nice clean professional man and says ok. Kissing was so so. DATY nice clean tasting kitty. BB was well she's not that tight, though I searched later and she has 5 kids including one recent. Her butt looked very tight and she said shed be ok with greek next time. Would I repeat yes but not at 500 at 300 yes and for greek. And there would have to be less talking and more action. She has a lower budget look I like, kind of like Blake Lively in the movie The Town.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bddfc...6-2a7a6f74a0ae

You should have asked for info before you met her because she's been a pro on fetlife and craigslist for years and off and on escort sites. I first contacted her on craigslist in 2016 and we are still fetlife friends and where she posts her pics and status in that lifestyle. That's the problem with seeking, to many professional cum dumpsters trying to come off as a normal single mom needing help.

**Big Stu** · 10-17-20 13:43

I saw her back in July after my sugar baby and I stopped seeing each other. My sugar baby got a bf so we both agreed to stop. Anyway, I was in the Westford area and reached out to Sicilian. We chatted back and forth she can be standoffish at times but it had been a month since I'd seen anyone so I was willing to put up with it. She told me she was trying to reach a goal (later found out it was implants). She is my type petite, blonde and skinny so I said 300 to 400. She said no way 500. I said ok if it was for 2 hrs which she said ok. I asked if BB was ok and she said yes. After I am done my business in Westford I get the hotel and she comes over, she can't host. We end up talking for 1. 5 before we move to the bed. Then she starts giving me some trouble over BB, until she decides I am a nice clean professional man and says ok. Kissing was so so. DATY nice clean tasting kitty. BB was well she's not that tight, though I searched later and she has 5 kids including one recent. Her butt looked very tight and she said shed be ok with greek next time. Would I repeat yes but not at 500 at 300 yes and for greek. And there would have to be less talking and more action. She has a lower budget look I like, kind of like Blake Lively in the movie The Town.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bddfc...6-2a7a6f74a0ae

**PaulRew** · 10-17-20 09:53

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

This one just favorited me. Is she fucking kidding?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ffeca...4-cf75f390a830

She apparently moved to OK yesterday and popped up a new profile LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5d3bf...0-53f78d408d23

**PaulRew** · 10-16-20 21:26

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

You missed the point. This is a world where someone thinks this is acceptable behavior. It's a social commentary more than anything. Try writing something similar from a guy's perspective and see how you wouldn't dare post it.

"I need a girl to service me for free whenever I need to because I have a difficult job and I'm a great dad. ".

I got your tongue in cheek response, it was actually funny. BTW not surprising but her profile is gone. My guess is the guys in her area shamed her out. At least I hope.

**EvilTmp** · 10-16-20 20:21

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

Thanks for your infinite wisdom. All of us "losers" were just about to contact her and you saved us! LOL.

You missed the point. This is a world where someone thinks this is acceptable behavior. It's a social commentary more than anything. Try writing something similar from a guy's perspective and see how you wouldn't dare post it.

"I need a girl to service me for free whenever I need to because I have a difficult job and I'm a great dad. ".

**Spike77** · 10-16-20 14:45

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

What you losers don't understand is that what we as men need and want is not important, it's actually irrelevant. What she needs and wants is all that matters in the world. She's a motherrrrrr, she needs a *real* man to step up and save her. As for you, the provider, who gives a shit. Certainly not her. Who ever plays the *real* man in her life and provide will be rewarded with her contempt and ridicule behind your back. What a dupe and a sucker! After you drop off the weekly groceries she will ask you for the small favor of watching her daughter for an hour or two while she meets her 'friend' Chad because he's been 'sick' and needs a quick visit from her.

Thanks for your infinite wisdom. All of us "losers" were just about to contact her and you saved us! LOL.

**Joe1223** · 10-16-20 14:22

Has anyone seen her? Been talking but she dropped the line her last arrangement let her have his CC and she returned it when it ended. Not sure we will ever get to that level LOL but if she is willing to compromise I may try her out??

https://www.seeking.com/member/153dc...9-4f0379b97e7d

**EvilTmp** · 10-16-20 10:34

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

This one just favorited me. Is she fucking kidding?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ffeca...4-cf75f390a830

What you losers don't understand is that what we as men need and want is not important, it's actually irrelevant. What she needs and wants is all that matters in the world. She's a motherrrrrr, she needs a *real* man to step up and save her. As for you, the provider, who gives a shit. Certainly not her. Who ever plays the *real* man in her life and provide will be rewarded with her contempt and ridicule behind your back. What a dupe and a sucker! After you drop off the weekly groceries she will ask you for the small favor of watching her daughter for an hour or two while she meets her 'friend' Chad because he's been 'sick' and needs a quick visit from her.

**Longjblues** · 10-16-20 09:22

I don't know, I have never done anything other than paying per meeting. We hadn't gone so far as discussing paying in lump sum for month, which I would never do.

I was thinking more on the order of 200 per meet, 3 meets a month equal 600/ month.

Originally Posted by RandomChance72 [View Original Post]

When you do a monthly arrangement like this how often do you meet up?

**RobbrKing** · 10-16-20 08:16

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

This one just favorited me. Is she fucking kidding?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ffeca...4-cf75f390a830

Jeez, she should just start a go fund me page. How is it that she doesn't understand what a SB / SD site is all about! Smh.

**RandomChance72** · 10-16-20 00:20

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

This one seems fairly nice and somewhat reasonable. Indicated was looking for 800 plus per month, but indicated 500-600 per month would work.

Unfortunately can't host, which basically eliminates me from pursuing.

Here is link and pic.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8ab32...6-ae73d50a5015

Sexxysunshine.
35 Female Peabody, Massachusetts, United States.
Pretty single mom.

When you do a monthly arrangement like this how often do you meet up?

**PaulRew** · 10-15-20 21:45

This one just favorited me. Is she fucking kidding?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ffeca...4-cf75f390a830

**Alejhenry** · 10-15-20 20:39

Originally Posted by RandomFragment [View Original Post]

This stint on SA I seem to have been approached by women in close sequence (all within a few hours of each other, as if it was coordinated) who seem to be trying to pull details out of me to try to pin down who I am, where I work, etc. It's possible that paranoia has gotten the best of me, but the conversations I was having seemed so staged to pull specific background out of me I just started blocking them. If you're not acknowledging my own general questions and asking me questions like "how long have you lived there?" and "where did you live before that? And "what's your title at your current job? How long have you been doing that?" I'm shutting that down.

I'm noticing a much higher rate of scam attempts than I did when I first tried it.

Agreed! I first joined about a little more than a year ago, and it seems a lot more straight forward. I generally will do a month at a time every three or four months. Most of the time, I'm only on there for a couple weeks until I meet a handful of women. This most recent time, it was a ton more scammers on there, and I actually stayed on for the entire month. It's become a lot more work sorting out the scams / fakes from the genuine ones.

**RandomFragment** · 10-15-20 19:47

This stint on SA I seem to have been approached by women in close sequence (all within a few hours of each other, as if it was coordinated) who seem to be trying to pull details out of me to try to pin down who I am, where I work, etc. It's possible that paranoia has gotten the best of me, but the conversations I was having seemed so staged to pull specific background out of me I just started blocking them. If you're not acknowledging my own general questions and asking me questions like "how long have you lived there?" and "where did you live before that? And "what's your title at your current job? How long have you been doing that?" I'm shutting that down.

I'm noticing a much higher rate of scam attempts than I did when I first tried it.

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

If they are smart, they can take little clues you give and find you. That happened to me years ago. I had said enough over the course of 5 or 6 dates. . . Then WHAM the blackmail. She had been totally sweet and sexy up until that. I'm way more guarded now about things; I lie a lot more about real-life details, and avoid them if at all possible.

It's really us vs. Them. Having to lie is a shame but it's self-preservation if you're susceptible.