Seeking Arrangements

**Spike77** · 10-13-20 10:47

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

That's the "type" one should block immediately. Very explicit messages to someone with no public photo is a bad sign on SA. Buyer beware.

Her photos were viewable to me. But yeah, unless you are desperate and willing to roll the dice I would avoid.

**Bran001** · 10-13-20 08:11

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

I can't link her profile because she either blocked me for not responding to her or deleted her profile. She hit my profile (my photo isn't public) and she was very explicit and to the point. She wanted to meet right away. She said "I could do anything I liked. " Not my type of girl but thought I would post here in case people were interested.

That's the "type" one should block immediately. Very explicit messages to someone with no public photo is a bad sign on SA. Buyer beware.

**Spike77** · 10-12-20 21:37

I can't link her profile because she either blocked me for not responding to her or deleted her profile. She hit my profile (my photo isn't public) and she was very explicit and to the point. She wanted to meet right away. She said "I could do anything I liked. " Not my type of girl but thought I would post here in case people were interested.

**EuHunter** · 10-10-20 18:08

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

She has been on and off this site using different profiles (and some other sites) for at least a few years now. Do a search on Cassandra or Cassandraa. You will find plenty of information there. I saw her early on before the demons took over. She had a nice body then. She used to be a Pilates instructor. Some mongers reported being robbed. I would stay away. Drugs are bad.

I seen those just wasnt sure she was the same person because you can't see the ads.

**Spike77** · 10-10-20 13:27

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Never desirable to do video chat in SA. She can record the chat and use it for nefarious purposes. And never in all my years on SA had a request to see my cock size. Also the first post I ever read about such a request. Block and move on.

I had someone not only ask to see it but wanted my face in the photo too. They couldn't have made it any easier for me to figure out their attentions.

Blackmail aside, no one wants to see your junk. If you are thinking of sending one, don't. Women find dick pics disgusting and instantly reveal you are a total creep.

**Spike77** · 10-10-20 13:19

Originally Posted by EuHunter [View Original Post]

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

She has been on and off this site using different profiles (and some other sites) for at least a few years now. Do a search on Cassandra or Cassandraa. You will find plenty of information there. I saw her early on before the demons took over. She had a nice body then. She used to be a Pilates instructor. Some mongers reported being robbed. I would stay away. Drugs are bad.

**HounDog3** · 10-10-20 12:32

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

Never desirable to do video chat in SA. She can record the chat and use it for nefarious purposes. And never in all my years on SA had a request to see my cock size. Also the first post I ever read about such a request. Block and move on.

**Chuchunga** · 10-09-20 21:40

Originally Posted by EuHunter [View Original Post]

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

Requires a cover so I declined. If she ever goes raw I'll let you know.

**Bran001** · 10-09-20 21:02

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

That happened to me recently. Not sure if it was her or not. And I immediately blocked. I've met SO many women from online over the years, and I cannot think of ONE who said 'I need to see the size of your cock to know if I want to meet you. ' So it was a scam, a gay guy, or a blackmail setup.

**EuHunter** · 10-09-20 20:36

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

**Joe1223** · 10-09-20 11:27

Originally Posted by Style20 [View Original Post]

But don't you guys use a text app to text these girls? So if they don't have his real number then he can send dick pic since I'm sure all dick look alike unless he have a tattooed on it.

I'm amazed that some guys use their real names and or contact info. There are so many tools out there that can help eliminate some of these risks. Also I never send pics other than what I already have on my profile pages. All of my social media accounts are fake and have pics that are unassuming and not to revealing. Yeah it takes a little upfront work to put these in place and manage but I have enough info on these sites that shows I do really exist and if the girls need more I require a M&G. Never allow the girl to control the messaging if you are worried about being blackmailed, just move on.

Also you need to do as much recon on the girl during these early talks and if you meet. The girls I chase on SA are the ones that need as much discretion as I do. These girls are in college, live in somewhat normal households, have jobs, etc. They don't want anyone to know they are "hooking" for side work. If the girl seems a little sleazy and needs all this info upfront just put your dick away and move on.

I had a blackmail attempt one time back in the BP days. I countered with a text telling them I would call DSS. I scanned the apartment when I went in and noticed a bunch of children's pics on the walls. I knew she had children so she was vulnerable to having them taken away. Usually a BF or pimp driving this behavior anyway so just stay away.

**Style20** · 10-09-20 08:47

Originally Posted by Dash [View Original Post]

I have a phd friend who sent dick pics, and he later paid blackmail to stop the girl from using Facebook to send the pictures to his wife, daughters, etc.

No female really wants to see dick pics or videos, unless she has an evil motive.

But don't you guys use a text app to text these girls? So if they don't have his real number then he can send dick pic since I'm sure all dick look alike unless he have a tattooed on it.

**Dash** · 10-09-20 01:56

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

I have a phd friend who sent dick pics, and he later paid blackmail to stop the girl from using Facebook to send the pictures to his wife, daughters, etc.

No female really wants to see dick pics or videos, unless she has an evil motive.

**Satine** · 10-08-20 23:42

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838