Seeking Arrangements

**EuHunter** · 10-10-20 18:08

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

She has been on and off this site using different profiles (and some other sites) for at least a few years now. Do a search on Cassandra or Cassandraa. You will find plenty of information there. I saw her early on before the demons took over. She had a nice body then. She used to be a Pilates instructor. Some mongers reported being robbed. I would stay away. Drugs are bad.

I seen those just wasnt sure she was the same person because you can't see the ads.

**Spike77** · 10-10-20 13:27

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Never desirable to do video chat in SA. She can record the chat and use it for nefarious purposes. And never in all my years on SA had a request to see my cock size. Also the first post I ever read about such a request. Block and move on.

I had someone not only ask to see it but wanted my face in the photo too. They couldn't have made it any easier for me to figure out their attentions.

Blackmail aside, no one wants to see your junk. If you are thinking of sending one, don't. Women find dick pics disgusting and instantly reveal you are a total creep.

**Spike77** · 10-10-20 13:19

Originally Posted by EuHunter [View Original Post]

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

She has been on and off this site using different profiles (and some other sites) for at least a few years now. Do a search on Cassandra or Cassandraa. You will find plenty of information there. I saw her early on before the demons took over. She had a nice body then. She used to be a Pilates instructor. Some mongers reported being robbed. I would stay away. Drugs are bad.

**HounDog3** · 10-10-20 12:32

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

Never desirable to do video chat in SA. She can record the chat and use it for nefarious purposes. And never in all my years on SA had a request to see my cock size. Also the first post I ever read about such a request. Block and move on.

**Chuchunga** · 10-09-20 21:40

Originally Posted by EuHunter [View Original Post]

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

Requires a cover so I declined. If she ever goes raw I'll let you know.

**Bran001** · 10-09-20 21:02

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

That happened to me recently. Not sure if it was her or not. And I immediately blocked. I've met SO many women from online over the years, and I cannot think of ONE who said 'I need to see the size of your cock to know if I want to meet you. ' So it was a scam, a gay guy, or a blackmail setup.

**EuHunter** · 10-09-20 20:36

Seen a report about this one on the escort forum for 130 hhr.

Any of you guys partake?

https://www.seeking.com/member/480cb...6-b8b89810801a

**Joe1223** · 10-09-20 11:27

Originally Posted by Style20 [View Original Post]

But don't you guys use a text app to text these girls? So if they don't have his real number then he can send dick pic since I'm sure all dick look alike unless he have a tattooed on it.

I'm amazed that some guys use their real names and or contact info. There are so many tools out there that can help eliminate some of these risks. Also I never send pics other than what I already have on my profile pages. All of my social media accounts are fake and have pics that are unassuming and not to revealing. Yeah it takes a little upfront work to put these in place and manage but I have enough info on these sites that shows I do really exist and if the girls need more I require a M&G. Never allow the girl to control the messaging if you are worried about being blackmailed, just move on.

Also you need to do as much recon on the girl during these early talks and if you meet. The girls I chase on SA are the ones that need as much discretion as I do. These girls are in college, live in somewhat normal households, have jobs, etc. They don't want anyone to know they are "hooking" for side work. If the girl seems a little sleazy and needs all this info upfront just put your dick away and move on.

I had a blackmail attempt one time back in the BP days. I countered with a text telling them I would call DSS. I scanned the apartment when I went in and noticed a bunch of children's pics on the walls. I knew she had children so she was vulnerable to having them taken away. Usually a BF or pimp driving this behavior anyway so just stay away.

**Style20** · 10-09-20 08:47

Originally Posted by Dash [View Original Post]

I have a phd friend who sent dick pics, and he later paid blackmail to stop the girl from using Facebook to send the pictures to his wife, daughters, etc.

No female really wants to see dick pics or videos, unless she has an evil motive.

But don't you guys use a text app to text these girls? So if they don't have his real number then he can send dick pic since I'm sure all dick look alike unless he have a tattooed on it.

**Dash** · 10-09-20 01:56

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

I have a phd friend who sent dick pics, and he later paid blackmail to stop the girl from using Facebook to send the pictures to his wife, daughters, etc.

No female really wants to see dick pics or videos, unless she has an evil motive.

**Satine** · 10-08-20 23:42

I know sometime it is desirable to do a video chat in SA message to make sure the other end is the person that appears in the profile. But this one bluntly asked me to take my cock out and said she would rub her pussy in video for me. Just to see the size of my cock before determining whether to meet me or not. I chickened out.

Anyone has done this before? This couldn't be common, could it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b35ab...0-eb8b5776a838

**Chuchunga** · 10-08-20 23:12

Originally Posted by JoeParkers [View Original Post]

What was that fee.

400.

Was the damage.

**PaulRew** · 10-08-20 20:37

This girl used to be hot a couple years ago obviously Covid has been unkind.

Anyway, saw her a few times at $200 iirc and nothing was off limits. I DP'd her, fisted her and throat fucked her. Seriously no limits that I could find. Too big for me now but wanted to share.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9a126...7-735d7bf74fd7

**LoveOralNs** · 10-08-20 09:33

Originally Posted by Alejhenry [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

I had a similar dismal experience. We had occasional texts over several weeks and she had sent me a confirmation photo that she wasn't a fake. We seemed to get along fairly well and I finally had time for a date. We agreed on a time and place. I texted before leaving Boston to reconfirm and she said yes. I texted again 30 minutes before arriving and she confirmed that she would be there. I arrived and let her know that I was there—- nothing. Waited 45 minutes and sent a few more texts—- nothing. Since then she hasn't responded to any of my texts or messages on SA although I can see that she read them. Side note: not long after I arrived at the address she gave me two young guys in separate cars pulled in side by side and blocked the street. At that point I was thinking set up. Fortunately it was a nice night with several people out walking. The guys left after about 3 minutes. I'm still unsure if it was planned as a robbery or if she was just catfishing me. Either way I would recommend proceeding with caution.

**Bran001** · 10-08-20 07:59

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Yes it is against the terms of agreement but SA will not kick them off. A year or so ago they solved the SD end of this problem by setting in motion that if you report a girl you and she automatically block each other. What this does, on paper, is makes it impossible for you to see if SA followed thru enforcing the rules. If you think I am wrong, report a girl and then check if she still has an account from your second account.

Interesting. I won't bother reporting. And there are too many of them anyway.