Seeking Arrangements

[EvilTmp]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f294d...5-22beee8e3f7c

Looking to sell her virginity for 2. 5 k. Apparently has a 50 yr old roommate or something like that as well. While texting with her she gets extremely combative and complains that men in Boston are cheap. She's on multiple sites but basically thinks she's worth a million dollars. Says she gets 500 for just a BJ. I don't know who enable these girls but people have to stop cause it makes it horrible for the rest of us LOL. I'd stay away from this one for sure.

This one has a serious grifter vibe. A virgin? Sure honey, whatever you say. LOL. Wonder how many guys will think they're the "first".

[Guyver73]

I enjoy using the services of the ladies who advertise on SB, SA or WYP sites. Typically they are not drugged out, pimped out junkies who are looking at deaths door. All the ones I have been with across this country have been college girls needing financial help out of college girls who cannot find a job they want or single moms needing help. It is interesting that the longer you are with them the more they tell you about their lives and what is going on.

I try to keep at least 2 of them going at a time to fit my fancy and or needs. There is one I am seeing down in CT that is an older 40's lady that I normally would never be with but she can carry on a conversation and at a bar or restaurant we do not stand out (plus she is open to everything). The other one I am seeing is 22 year old red head that I met at a party that was full of ladies, every time with her I feel as I am about to have a heart attack.

If I have a want for something strange, strip clubs, escorts or massage parlor girls are always fun.

As things start to re-open I will most likely move on from the two I have and begin traveling for work again.

In the end I am a Guy, I love woman I love sex and I love waking up in the morning with a hottie. I do not want the drama of a girlfriend or wife. In twenty years I plan to retire to Thai Land with my fat 401K and live life to the fullest. Never looking back.

Happy Hunting and be safe.

[HounDog3]

Just for the record I typically don't do the one time meets. I am looking for a long term thing so over time I actually do get into their personal business. I'm done with the escort sites and now I am able to spend a few hours at a time with the Sugar baby girls I find. After many visits talking about the weather gets old. The girls I find actually like to be treated like a GF and talking with them over a bottle of wine or drinks, about themselves, is all they need. These young girls want it to be all about them so all you have to do is talk to them and build their egos. They love it and if done right they will tell you things about themselves that you would not expect. Remember most of the college girls don't view themselves as escorts so if you don't treat them like one you can actually build a relationship with many of them. I had one girl who would regurgitate her weekly sessions from her shrink. She had major daddy issues and needed an older guy to fuck her and slap her and inflict pain. This went on for months until she moved away to Boulder CO for her doctrine degree. Single mothers are so anxious for a mature conversation and affection it's very easy to get into a vibe with them. So don't assume we are all dreaming. I am very selective as to who I make an arrangement with now so I am able to be more selective. I'm living the dream after a few decades of banging someone different each time out. If you are looking for escorts on these sites you can easily find them but if you are looking for naive first timers they are plenty of them as well. Getting a 100 messages is a lot different than actually replying to a 100 messages. I have been very pleased with my arrangements but I only have one or two in the lineup at any time.

My experience is very similar to Joe's, not at all like what List suggests. My long term arrangements have all been more than a year or 1.5 years. I got to know quite a lot, intimate details, of their personal lives, their kids lives, about their families. You almost can't help but not in such a situation, spending hours together on a regular basis over drinks, meals, in bed. Yes, the women may have had another guy or two in their rotation, regulars, no different than we do but they were open about disclosing. They would keep their SA profiles active for the same reason we do: you never know when one of your regulars will flake or fall out of rotation and its good to stay current on alternatives / replacements that may be available.

[Bran001]

Just for the record I typically don't do the one time meets.

I never have the goal of a one-time meet. But life is short and if it's not my version of awesome then that's usually what happens; no second time.

But clearly there are men who ONLY want one-time things. The rest of us suffer from having to assure the women that that's not our goal, as it obviously discourages them. They know that's what they'll likely get from Tinder; a pump-and-dump fuckboy. I very often hear they are on SA for something different (and not just the funds).

[Bran001]

I actually agree with everything you said, except the part about my assuming that all men value pussy equally. If my comment came off that way, it was not my intention! Clearly, some men are looking for a quick fuck or a blow and go. Others may be looking for something more long-term, as Joe indicated, in the post below. Still others may be looking for something in between. My main point was, that sugar sites are not the only place to find nice women, whether for a quick pump and dump, or an ongoing arrangement. As opposed to scab covered drugged out skanks! My point in bringing up Renee was, that she's an example of an escort who also is a nice woman, as opposed to a used-up addict. I enjoy pump and dumps, but with NICE women, and not so much, with addicted, dangerous-thug-managed skanks. My point was that a hoe that knows she's a hoe (that is, an escort) will generally be a more economical option than many of the GPS princesses in the sugar sites. I've had some great "relationships" with NICE women who are hoes that know they are hoes (escorts) that went beyond just leaving a spermload in their cunnts, LOL! Often staying way overtime and hanging out just enjoying the company of said women for a while. Or even taking them to dinner in a nice restaurant after filling their vaginas with semen. (Back in the days when nice restaurants existed when you didnt have to provide your contact info and wear a goddam mask!) It's just that I prefer, after the fun is over, whether for the half hour, or for an extended date, I'd just rather pay them to leave! And I've found such women not only on SA, but also from escort ads and in strip clubs.

I appreciate that we all have our "things" - what does it for us and what we don't want.

I just think that posts in the SA forum that appear from time to time to (1) be critical of those who pay SA going rates in Boston and (2) advocate looking for less expensive women elsewhere, are not helpful to the SA forum discussion. Of course I'm free to ignore such posts. Those of us who do the SA thing are well aware that there are many other ways; we just have to see the titles of the other forums in Boston such as "street walkers," "escorts," "BTT. ".

Those may be "more economical" as you say. We get it. That's not what we're looking for.

There's a thrill of the chase. On SA, and on escort sites. You seem to enjoy finding nice women on the escort sites. Cool. Some of us enjoy finding our own types of gems on SA. Cool. Believe me, we all know about the other options and it sounds like we've all tried them over the years.

[KingOfFours]

Your comment presupposes that all men value all pussy equally. We do not.

Some men will pay a premium for being with, including but not limited to fucking, "non-pros" (and we can quibble about the definition). Why? Many reasons, each individual to each of us. I could list several.

One reason is how common "the drugged-out, pimp-managed, scab-covered STG skanks who post most of the escort ads these days" are. I'm fucking Harvard, BU, BC, Northeastern grad students. Tomorrow I'm again seeing a 2019 small liberal college grad. She's very sweet, about 5'8", and neither drugged-out, pimp-managed, or scab-covered.

I'm sure we can find a photo on the pro sites of anyone who looks like any of the college students or grad students I've fucked from SA over the past 5 years. Personally, I'd rather fuck the grad student once instead of the monger site girl twice. YM obviously V's.

I actually agree with everything you said, except the part about my assuming that all men value pussy equally. If my comment came off that way, it was not my intention! Clearly, some men are looking for a quick fuck or a blow and go. Others may be looking for something more long-term, as Joe indicated, in the post below. Still others may be looking for something in between. My main point was, that sugar sites are not the only place to find nice women, whether for a quick pump and dump, or an ongoing arrangement. As opposed to scab covered drugged out skanks! My point in bringing up Renee was, that she's an example of an escort who also is a nice woman, as opposed to a used-up addict. I enjoy pump and dumps, but with NICE women, and not so much, with addicted, dangerous-thug-managed skanks. My point was that a hoe that knows she's a hoe (that is, an escort) will generally be a more economical option than many of the GPS princesses in the sugar sites. I've had some great "relationships" with NICE women who are hoes that know they are hoes (escorts) that went beyond just leaving a spermload in their cunnts, LOL! Often staying way overtime and hanging out just enjoying the company of said women for a while. Or even taking them to dinner in a nice restaurant after filling their vaginas with semen. (Back in the days when nice restaurants existed when you didnt have to provide your contact info and wear a goddam mask!) It's just that I prefer, after the fun is over, whether for the half hour, or for an extended date, I'd just rather pay them to leave! And I've found such women not only on SA, but also from escort ads and in strip clubs.

[Chuchunga]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f294d...5-22beee8e3f7c

Looking to sell her virginity for 2. 5 k. Apparently has a 50 yr old roommate or something like that as well. While texting with her she gets extremely combative and complains that men in Boston are cheap. She's on multiple sites but basically thinks she's worth a million dollars. Says she gets 500 for just a BJ. I don't know who enable these girls but people have to stop cause it makes it horrible for the rest of us LOL. I'd stay away from this one for sure.

[Chuchunga]

Ok but do you really want to drop 500 on her? I hope she is hosting you. Just move on unless you have deep pockets. You can get some hot college girls for that amount all day long.

I passed. I just wanted to let people know she can be haggled down a bit LOL. I know better than to waste my time with that number for someone like her.

[Joe1223]

Keep telling yourself that your the ONLY guy there fucking for money? You people act like your there boyfriends or something. You meet these woman once and then you act like you know there personal life like the back of your hand. Noone here including myself is that fucking special where we meet a SEEKING girl with a very PUBLIC PROFILE and think we are the only one there meeting. I'm sure this chick got 100 plus messages with better offers than the amount you probably gave and I'm sure she turned them all down because she was babysitting or had school or because she met you and now she will meet none else because she told you that to make you feel good. Some of you guys need a HUGE reality check when meeting woman with public profiles advertising sex. Now you said you had your neighbour or a facebook friend that you found and convinced to have an arrangement for help then that is one thing but stop with the your the only sd with these seeking woman its embarrassing some of you actually believe.

Just for the record I typically don't do the one time meets. I am looking for a long term thing so over time I actually do get into their personal business. I'm done with the escort sites and now I am able to spend a few hours at a time with the Sugar baby girls I find. After many visits talking about the weather gets old. The girls I find actually like to be treated like a GF and talking with them over a bottle of wine or drinks, about themselves, is all they need. These young girls want it to be all about them so all you have to do is talk to them and build their egos. They love it and if done right they will tell you things about themselves that you would not expect. Remember most of the college girls don't view themselves as escorts so if you don't treat them like one you can actually build a relationship with many of them. I had one girl who would regurgitate her weekly sessions from her shrink. She had major daddy issues and needed an older guy to fuck her and slap her and inflict pain. This went on for months until she moved away to Boulder CO for her doctrine degree. Single mothers are so anxious for a mature conversation and affection it's very easy to get into a vibe with them. So don't assume we are all dreaming. I am very selective as to who I make an arrangement with now so I am able to be more selective. I'm living the dream after a few decades of banging someone different each time out. If you are looking for escorts on these sites you can easily find them but if you are looking for naive first timers they are plenty of them as well. Getting a 100 messages is a lot different than actually replying to a 100 messages. I have been very pleased with my arrangements but I only have one or two in the lineup at any time.

[RandomChance72]

Your comment presupposes that all men value all pussy equally. We do not.

Pretty clear that he's talking about his personal preferences.

[Bran001]

Maybe I shoud have moved this to the Escort Hoe section--but what the hey, they are ALL hoes anyway, LOL!

This Gina surely seems decent. But 250 seems a bit much for a BIG girl like that, by my lights. Even for more than an hour, because, if I can't muster a second pop that day, which is increasingly common now, at my age, I really don't want to hang around for much more that the half hour, anyway. Even though I do sometimes quite enjoy the big ones, LOL! Judging from her profile pics, this Gina appears to be built much like Renee, who I'm sure some of you know

Your comment presupposes that all men value all pussy equally. We do not.

Some men will pay a premium for being with, including but not limited to fucking, "non-pros" (and we can quibble about the definition). Why? Many reasons, each individual to each of us. I could list several.

One reason is how common "the drugged-out, pimp-managed, scab-covered STG skanks who post most of the escort ads these days" are. I'm fucking Harvard, BU, BC, Northeastern grad students. Tomorrow I'm again seeing a 2019 small liberal college grad. She's very sweet, about 5'8", and neither drugged-out, pimp-managed, or scab-covered.

I'm sure we can find a photo on the pro sites of anyone who looks like any of the college students or grad students I've fucked from SA over the past 5 years. Personally, I'd rather fuck the grad student once instead of the monger site girl twice. YM obviously V's.

[LatinXLuvr]

Definitely agreed, SA is such a melting pot of everything. Haven't had such luck of 50% being unpaid but a good number of girls aren't looking for PPM and the bar is set so low since so many people are asking them for that a mediocre amount of game and time investment can net way cheaper arrangements than just looking for a ppm.

[Discretion23]

Deeply incorrect. Probably 50% of my SA encounters have been unpaid, aside from the costs of doing business like meeting from drinks or dinner beforehand.

There are a lot of different experiences to be had on SA. If you look for hookers, you will find hookers. If you look for kink minded women looking for partners or adventure, eventually you will find that as well. You might not have the time or inclination to participate in those types of arrangements, but there is no need to be angry that other people do.

Totally agree, if you go in with an understanding there are many types of relationships found through SA, you can find moms, college women looking for more than throwing a couple hundred dollars at them and treating them like a hoe.

I have two "relationships" and it is about fun, friendship, erotic, tines.

[Herow]

You can't be fucken serious dude can you?. Seeking arrangements is a site where hookers (sex workers) sell there pussy. It's also a site for scammers. But it sure as hell is not a dating site where you get laid for free.

Deeply incorrect. Probably 50% of my SA encounters have been unpaid, aside from the costs of doing business like meeting from drinks or dinner beforehand.

There are a lot of different experiences to be had on SA. If you look for hookers, you will find hookers. If you look for kink minded women looking for partners or adventure, eventually you will find that as well. You might not have the time or inclination to participate in those types of arrangements, but there is no need to be angry that other people do.

[KingOfFours]

Met with Gina in Hudson. If you like bigger women she's excellent. Would repeat often except Hudson is some distance and I can't get away for long periods. Gina has a full-time job and works remotely from home, with kids, unable to host. Plenty of hotels in the area. Easy to find a good place with a reasonable rate. She can get away for 2 hours on the occasional weekday afternoon, otherwise it's evening and weekend availability. Great personality, friendly, educated, easy to talk to and get along with. Total GFE. Loved how her breasts got firm and nipples erect when fondled. Very wet naturally. Her preference is doggie but will do other positions. Seemed to be a little on the submissive side once we were into it. Damage was 250 which I consider an excellent deal given the 2 hours she spent with me, level of performance, and really great time I had. I only wish she was closer so I could see her frequently. Profile says married but looking, do not let that keep you away, it's absolutely not an issue. She's what SA is all about.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16feb...4-babc50a23eb5

Maybe I shoud have moved this to the Escort Hoe section--but what the hey, they are ALL hoes anyway, LOL!

This Gina surely seems decent. But 250 seems a bit much for a BIG girl like that, by my lights. Even for more than an hour, because, if I can't muster a second pop that day, which is increasingly common now, at my age, I really don't want to hang around for much more that the half hour, anyway. Even though I do sometimes quite enjoy the big ones, LOL! Judging from her profile pics, this Gina appears to be built much like Renee, who I'm sure some of you know:

https://escortindex.com/ad/providenc...53/39/80685/ff

My own pics of Renee below. If you like big girls, Renee is full GFE with all the bells and whistles, not a druggie, and was easy CIP for me in a generous no-rush half hour for just 100. And really quite a nice woman in general. The only reason I didn't repeat is that I rarely do. Renee was whoring right before covid, I think, but I'm not sure if she is currently? Anyway, you guys who like big girls: Renee is in an environment which is MUCH safer than the abodes of most of the drugged-out, pimp-managed, scab-covered STG skanks who post most of the escort ads these days. So you might want to check her out as a less pricey, yet a safe alternative to these so called "civilian" GPS sugar girls?! She was in Pawetucket when I inseminated her in her own place.