Arrangement Reports

**OnlyDreams** · 09-29-20 18:34

This is something that may help you avoid getting banned from that site. There's nothing 100% proof but this reduces the chances.

1. Don't get into arguments with any of the women there. Not even with the fake ones, trolls, scammers etc. Sometimes their stupidity may upset you and you end up saying some inappropriate words that gets you banned from the site.

2. Don't joke or make funny comments about their appearance, race, religion, creed, philosophy etc even if it may sound or look totally ridiculous. I know of a guy who got banned for making fun of a very chubby girl.

3. Never, ever talk about money, sex or qui pro quo transactions on the SA platform. Always try to get their number( or chat app such as kik, telegram, etc) sto talk about those things. Moreover, while on the platform, don't mention about alcohol, cigarettes or any recreational stuff especially if they are under 21.

4. Be always discrete and instead of asking her if she's willing to get physical, ask her if she's down to watch Netflix. It may sound silly, but it will avoid getting banned. If she's smart and if she's willing to meet you in person she knows what you mean by that and she also knows guys don't go on that site to get a woman just to watch Netflix. It will also help you spot online content sellers. They will say no to any form of get-together.

5. This is my golden rule. Whenever she gives you her number don't text / call her right away. I usually wait a day or at least a couple of hours. I know it might be tempting to text her right away, but it's better to wait. You may wonder why? This is my philosophy: If she's cute and hot, I bet many guys are chatting with her and getting her phone number. If you wait a couple of hours, she may not remember exactly who you are. She may ask you for your user / profile name and that's when you make up a name. Most likely she won't double check it. If she asks for pics, send her additional pics different from your profile pics. The secret is to blur her mind. Then you can ask her all kinds of questions and set up an arrangement. If something goes wrong and she is upset or feels hurt, she will not know who to report, she may be confused. If she's a scammer or fake, she can't report you either. I learned many scammers report guys when they don't follow their scheme.

As I mentioned before, nothing is 100% guaranteed but there's something you can do to reduce the chance. Sometimes, it's not only about the money you lose, but the headache you have to fo through to try to reinstate or set up a new account. I heard that site records your IP address and other stuff in order to prevent "offenders" from creating new accounts.

**ChiTown Reds** · 09-29-20 12:26

Originally Posted by OnlyDreams [View Original Post]

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.

Damn. Glad I posted. Thanks!

**ChiTown Reds** · 09-29-20 12:21

Originally Posted by Rxgolf [View Original Post]

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.

Did you try contacting the site? Happened to me, I emailed and they said to review terms and agree moving forward.

**ChiTown Reds** · 09-29-20 12:20

Pic Seller:

https://www.seeking.com/member/d0bc9...6-ba3724f21584

Possible pic seller. Arranging meetup but wanted to sext with pic and vids with paypal first. Still texting so not 100% sure:

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa53c...5-0a057b17fbab

**RoronoaZ** · 09-29-20 12:06

Originally Posted by Rxgolf [View Original Post]

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.

I've been banned before. Just change your email.

**Aman123** · 09-29-20 11:41

Originally Posted by DaMonger [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/39df5...9-7dc517709754

Nice convo. Setup a M&G, wants gas money 15 minutes prior. Needless to say I skipped out. I probably would have been ok to order an uber if she was upfront about it.

I messaged her a few days ago too. Quoted 300 but never answered my questions so never met.

**DickLongwood** · 09-29-20 11:39

Originally Posted by DaMonger [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/39df5...9-7dc517709754

Nice convo. Setup a M&G, wants gas money 15 minutes prior. Needless to say I skipped out. I probably would have been ok to order an uber if she was upfront about it.

Many of the women who ask for gas money or something similar at the last minute don't intend to meet at all. They just want to get a few bucks for nothing and wait until they think you will be accommodating.

**Rxgolf** · 09-29-20 10:56

I have been banned from Seeking Arrangement. Anyone have success with any other site? Looked at Secret Benefits but doesn't have much of a selection like S. A.

**TheArgent** · 09-29-20 10:35

Originally Posted by OnlyDreams [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f0500...7-0ebe4086001d

I was chatting with "her" for a couple of days and we set up a date. The pics "she" sent me and her profile pic were taken from the internet. When I had eveyrthing ready and was on my way to see her, I asked her some last minute questions and she finally revealed she's a TRANSEXUAL. So guys avoid this one unless if that's what you are looking for. I bet he's an ugly as hell guy, the pics look professional and different from each other. So it wasn't even the same person in all the pics she sent.

Why the Fcuk this loser doesn' state on his profile he's a Trans! ?? Or he should have told me before making all the arrangements! I hate those people! Once I read the logic behind is they hope the guy is super horny so he doesn't care it's a real woman nor not! No wonder this idiot asked me to bring booze so I get horny and drunk!!

I met up with a tranny from SA in Houston by accident. Very upsetting! I was doing the typical "travelling for work" messaging and this one girl had three full body photos with face, one another full body with face from behind in a bikini. Definitely a sold 8. 5. She worked at Victoria's Secret. We chatted a bit and I suggested getting sushi at a strip mall near my hotel downtown (God, Houston is awful to visit). She didn't have a car so I Ubered her there. When she walked in to the restaurant, I immediately new something was wrong. Instead of 5'10" she was 6'2". She was wearing a crop top with drop-crotch camo shorts. And her nose was bigger in person than it looked in photos. Wow, hands big too. "Wai. Wait. Oh GOD!

If we had met in a parking lot of something I'd have just turned around and left. But we were standing next to a host and I had a drink in my hand. I suggested eating at one of the outdoor tables next to a parking lot in the 102-degree heat rather than eating inside and I went ahead and ordered some sushi immediately to keep things fast. He was clearly troubled and I didn't want to cause a scene. I just wanted to get out of there in under 30 minutes. We chit chatted as you do on uncomfortable dates and he talked about being a cheerleader in small town Texas, working at Victorias Secret and how much he wanted to be a model (lots of cutting scars on his arms, so that wasn't happening) and the plastic surgery he wanted (no mention of wanting to lose the penis and testicles).

I ate a few bits of sushi, ordered him an uber and took off. This person had a mental illness and clearly wanted to be validated by men as attractive and feminine. I don't like it. And I was angry for 48-hours about letting myself get into that situation. But I've definitely become better at spotting profiles with secret testicles in them. 1) Masculine nose. 2) Photos that hide the adam's apple area, often with the camera. I suspect that they aren't always trying to do this consciously but simply like those photos the best. 3) Arms that don't look feminine, usually the elbow bends like a mans, not a woman's. 4) Height. Not usually--most tall women are tall women--but being 5'10" or taller AND having some other signs should cause you to think. 5) Photos that *consistently* hide the crotch. Just one in tight jeans or a swimsuit is probably all you need to see. 6) photos that consistently use angles that distort shoulder to hip ratios. 7) Big fingers holding the phone or hands being consistently cropped our or concealed.

**Da Monger** · 09-29-20 01:14

https://www.seeking.com/member/39df5...9-7dc517709754

Nice convo. Setup a M&G, wants gas money 15 minutes prior. Needless to say I skipped out. I probably would have been ok to order an uber if she was upfront about it.

**Hoffman Oliver** · 09-29-20 00:12

Originally Posted by OnlyDreams [View Original Post]

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.

Confirm your report regarding the hygiene. I saw her last year at her place in Old Town. Hygiene was terrible, decided to just go with oral. She has a thing for dads or married men, something about when she was babysitter.

**FightingFungus** · 09-28-20 21:42

Originally Posted by OnlyDreams [View Original Post]

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.

If there is one thing I can't stand it is bad hygiene. There are three types of girls on SA regarding hygiene.

Ones that smell like they just got out of shower (I will perform oral on them).

Ones were there privates don't smell but they don't taste fresh and I wouldn't eat them out.

Ones were there pussy straight up stinks. That is the worst of any experience.

I would say 20% of the girls on SA smell like they just got out of shower.

**Troy Akerman** · 09-28-20 21:11

I agree pics with her but probably 50 pounds ago. I was disappointed when I saw her as well. I saw her about 2 1/2 to 3 months ago

Originally Posted by OnlyDreams [View Original Post]

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.

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**OnlyDreams** · 09-28-20 17:40

Originally Posted by ChiTownReds [View Original Post]

Texting with this one. Curious any details: https://www.seeking.com/member/2da9c...e-0b13714b089a.

I saw her before COViD, She's been creating different SA but using the same pictures and story . I was intrigued by her "kinky "side and the pictures she sent me. She asked for a big allowance at first but then went down after a couple of days. It's her in most of the pics. However, in real life she's fat, and on the ugly side. She has a flat ass. Maybe those pics were taken from 3/4 years ago. She also sent me some nice private pics but clearly those pics were altered. And to upset me even more, she has a poor hygiene. Her private parts had a terrible odor that I couldn't stand. I was very disappointed. I didn't want to make a scene, so I considered it a loss and asked her kindly to leave. Avoid her, she's not worth it. You can easily find good talent for that price.