Seeking Arrangements

**Bran001** · 09-12-20 15:06

Originally Posted by Cutebi26 [View Original Post]

Hi guys. Long time monger, first time poster. I have been seeing bandbexplore a couple times per month since June. She is a sexy redhead, definitely girl next door type which is my thing. Definitely submissive, I know a couple of you expressed she didn't really know what she was doing. You're not wrong. She does give the best BBBJ I have ever received in my life, which keeps my coming back for more. Everything is on the table. I have been doing 500 to keep her in rotation. She's one of the good ones, let's all take care of her.

She's a nice lady, and I'm glad you're having a nice time. Just not worth it for me, given her being too passive for me. For less I can get a lot more, at least more of what *I* like. She's finally stopped messaging me.

**Cutebi26** · 09-12-20 07:13

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

At Bran sorry I meant to ask this question to JakeRabbit.

I am planning to see her next week she is asking 500 for PPM and for 90 minutes. You did mention it was 400 PPM how long did she stay for? Because at 400 PPM I want her to stay at least for 2-3 hours LOL.

Hi guys. Long time monger, first time poster. I have been seeing bandbexplore a couple times per month since June. She is a sexy redhead, definitely girl next door type which is my thing. Definitely submissive, I know a couple of you expressed she didn't really know what she was doing. You're not wrong. She does give the best BBBJ I have ever received in my life, which keeps my coming back for more. Everything is on the table. I have been doing 500 to keep her in rotation. She's one of the good ones, let's all take care of her.

**StoneMattt** · 09-11-20 20:14

Originally Posted by StoneMattt [View Original Post]

I hit her up and setup something for Saturday. She agreed to meet in a nearby hotel. Seems real enough from the verification pic I asked for.

I'll report back. If anyone has tried her out and wants to warn me, please do LOL.

Reporting back. After texting for a little she said she would take 200 for an overnight visit BBFSWCIP. Should've known it was too good to be true. I told her to take the train to a station near me because I didn't want to drive round trip to pick her up. I gave $9 via cashapp for the train but then she proceeded to beg me for money for hours. Eventually I just ignored her because she obviously wasn't coming.

**Bran001** · 09-11-20 11:19

Originally Posted by JrKoff [View Original Post]

I am thinking of joining SA, but was wondering how married guys handle the verification process. I know they ask for a picture. The likelihood of being discovered by someone you know is probably low, but is still within the realm of possibility and you only need one person who know you are married. Any advice from you married guys on how you handle SA and meetings would be appreciated and help me make my decision.

The women on SA who fully understand it know that they need to have a public photo, and that men don't. You have to weigh the risks. You can always back-out photo access to someone later. But if they've screenshotted it already, they have it.

One tip: DO NOT USE A PHOTO you've POSTED ANYWHERE ELSE ONLINE. Instagram, LinkedIn, etc. Photos are reverse searchable. Not sure about FB.

Now when face recognition searching gets more widespread, we'll have more issues. To come.

Coffee meet and greets. Have to be done in public. I pick a place where its unlikely someone who knows me will see me. If they do I'll just say it's my daughter's friend from college who wants grad school tips. Yes it's a risk. Again, weigh the risks.

All my other activities are in hotel rooms or in their places. I don't do dinners, day trips in my city, etc.

**OkWhatever** · 09-11-20 10:43

I know a guy who was married and on SA before his ex-wife found out. One of the women he met with was an acquaintance of his ex-wife through a mutual friend. He got divorced like 6 months later, but from what I understood, his marriage was already in the dumpster.

The odds of this happening are low, but it's possible.

One way to protect yourself is to use a pre-paid credit card. Regarding pictures, your main one can be with you wearing a hat and sunglasses. And maybe one shitty private pic if needed. But as you can see, it just takes a random acquaintance to get burned.

Originally Posted by JrKoff [View Original Post]

I am thinking of joining SA, but was wondering how married guys handle the verification process. I know they ask for a picture. The likelihood of being discovered by someone you know is probably low, but is still within the realm of possibility and you only need one person who know you are married. Any advice from you married guys on how you handle SA and meetings would be appreciated and help me make my decision.

**PaulRew** · 09-11-20 09:04

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

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Coming to Wanderlustgoddess she is very fun and a awesome person. The pics on the profile are at least 30 pounds lighter than the current self. But she is trying to get back to shape and she is very much fun. Again, YMMV but I spent almost 2 hours with her. She hosts in a very beautiful apartment. Her oral skills are awesome. Depending on what mood she is, she could either be submissive or take charge. Great head game and a lot of spit. Just the way I liked it. Then doggy style and spanking and she loved it. Finished with a CIP twice. I will be seeing her again. PM if you want to know more details.

CIP finish? Every report, public and private, indicates she wants a hat for the deed. If she has changed her tune I will 100% reconsider seeing her.

**JakeRabbit** · 09-10-20 22:05

Originally Posted by Enyce210 [View Original Post]

Is SA worth the 90 $? I was thinking of signing up but was not sure if it's filled with spam. I have an account but can not message. I'm an agency kinda guy but was thinking of trying out SA. Without reading threw hundreds of past posts just wanted someone's opinion. Thanks all.

See my earlier post on my results in one month. Politely and uniquely reach out to 100, chat with 25, screen for ppm without typing ppm, SMS or Kik or Snap with a few and make arrangements happen.

In a couple months I've met the kinkiest sub ever for 300, a fantasy redhead for 250, and a hot wife for 350.

Infinitely better than the awful options here in Metro West or the twice as much costs in Boston.

**Spike77** · 09-10-20 19:07

Originally Posted by JrKoff [View Original Post]

I am thinking of joining SA, but was wondering how married guys handle the verification process. I know they ask for a picture. The likelihood of being discovered by someone you know is probably low, but is still within the realm of possibility and you only need one person who know you are married. Any advice from you married guys on how you handle SA and meetings would be appreciated and help me make my decision.

I try to be a bit discreet. I keep all my pictures set to private so no one I know can spot me while they are browsing. When I choose to reach out to someone I usually make my pics visible to them by clicking on "Share Private Photos" on their profile. That way the only people that can see you are the ones you choose to and you can always unshare your photos with them at any time. The downside is you will get few women reaching out to you because they can't initially see your pics but I still find it worth it for me. Hope this helps.

**StoneMattt** · 09-10-20 18:32

Originally Posted by Patriarchist [View Original Post]

I first messaged with her on a different profile with different pictures. She didn't have a ride and couldn't host. I asked for a photo verification which she complied with and I can confidently say none of the pics she uses are hers. She didn't look awful in the picture she sent me, but also not someone I'd seek out. Maybe a 5/10. Freckles, brown eyes and kind of chubby face. She looked young. Maybe too young. I know this profile is hers too because she messaged me on it and when we started texting, it picked up from a conversation still saved on my phone.

I hit her up and setup something for Saturday. She agreed to meet in a nearby hotel. Seems real enough from the verification pic I asked for.

I'll report back. If anyone has tried her out and wants to warn me, please do LOL.

**SpicyPrince** · 09-10-20 14:46

https://www.seeking.com/member/86222...b-a493494276c9

This was my second SA meeting but the first with her. I think I am learning the ropes of this SA games. The first one cost me 500 + 100 dinner + 150 hotel. But she was awesome. I will post that later on.

Coming to Wanderlustgoddess she is very fun and a awesome person. The pics on the profile are at least 30 pounds lighter than the current self. But she is trying to get back to shape and she is very much fun. Again, YMMV but I spent almost 2 hours with her. She hosts in a very beautiful apartment. Her oral skills are awesome. Depending on what mood she is, she could either be submissive or take charge. Great head game and a lot of spit. Just the way I liked it. Then doggy style and spanking and she loved it. Finished with a CIP twice. I will be seeing her again. PM if you want to know more details.

**Jr Koff** · 09-10-20 11:03

I am thinking of joining SA, but was wondering how married guys handle the verification process. I know they ask for a picture. The likelihood of being discovered by someone you know is probably low, but is still within the realm of possibility and you only need one person who know you are married. Any advice from you married guys on how you handle SA and meetings would be appreciated and help me make my decision.

**Apothecary** · 09-09-20 23:00

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I have not renewed so my page offers a 25 percent discount at the top of the page.

You should check your email as well.

**RobbrKing** · 09-09-20 22:29

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

It's a VERY different experience than using an agency. Agency is "sure thing" - you know pretty much exactly what you'll get. With a pro.

SA is totally different from individual to individual. You can find some BP girls there. You can find single moms. You can find undergrads; grad students. Young Professionals. Pro's who left BP and now just use SA. You need to figure out who each individual might be, establish a rapport with them, and maybe get to meet them. Do you want to put in that effort? If not, put your $90 towards an agency girl.

Agree with this 100%. It took me almost a whole month, but I know have a tight little bareback spinner who is cheap compared to BTT or TG. I am very happy with my month of premium, but it does take some work. In my opinion it is completely worth it.

**Enyce210** · 09-09-20 22:21

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

It's a VERY different experience than using an agency. Agency is "sure thing" - you know pretty much exactly what you'll get. With a pro.

SA is totally different from individual to individual. You can find some BP girls there. You can find single moms. You can find undergrads; grad students. Young Professionals. Pro's who left BP and now just use SA. You need to figure out who each individual might be, establish a rapport with them, and maybe get to meet them. Do you want to put in that effort? If not, put your $90 towards an agency girl.

Awesome thanks guys.