NoVA SugarBabies

**RegularJoe1985** · 09-07-20 20:55

Originally Posted by FlakBait [View Original Post]

She charged a lot for a BBF and required that I showed her testing. I finished CIM. I might have overpaid with 8 but wow I really enjoyed it.

I take with a grain of salt now. My scam-o-meter is beeping hard. I could be wrong but this smells very fishy.

8 for this SB? Seriously?

Link here - https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8987-cf8c-4c42-9fb6-2d4eb2bea8a6

**MonkeyDoc** · 09-07-20 16:44

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

The fact that she is a new SB, joined a couple of days back and the fact that you are a new member, causes me to take a pause, perhaps there is nothing wrong but that feeling is there and will be there till more reports come in.

Has anyone else get anywhere with her?

**Shinshi** · 09-07-20 14:40

Originally Posted by DirteeBoy [View Original Post]

Hey guys, trying to figure something out.

I've noticed over the last few months on Tinder and SA, that there are a lot of Asians that will exchange a handful of messages and then want to go to Whatsapp. I usually play along for a day or two, most of them admit to being in China or Asia and plan on visiting the US. I usually tell them to message me when they get here. So what is their end game? Are they lonely Asians looking for love in the US? Do they eventually ask for money? Just trying to practice English? I really haven't been able to figure it out, I cut them off shortly.

I'd love to hear your theories.

Thanks.

Venezuela. Colombia. Canada. Russia. I've seen all sorts of user profiles from vast distances who'd "favorite" me. I used to get mildly irritated whenever favorited by folks from outside the DMV. But now I just block them and don't give it too much thought. Someone on these forums once explained how some foreign girls are desperate, hoping to meet their wealthy Richard Gere who will sweep them off their feet, fly them to the US, marries them or buys them shit, and either permanently or temporarily offers a reprieve from their current living situation. Others are indeed hoping to improve their English, or simply offering to sell pics & vids without any intention of ever meeting up (god knows we already have plenty of that crowd in the US on Seeking).

For me personally? I just straight up block a girl if her location is not the "United States" or if she messages that she's outside of this country. Why? Because what guy has the time & money--especially these days--to fly over to another country, see a girl for some fun, potentially fly her back with him, and so on and so forth? I mean, no, that's just not realistic.

And besides, I don't think anyone necessarily needs Seeking in order to get some strange overseas. Just save yourself time, block / hide the profile in question, and drive on. Cheers!

**FlakBait** · 09-07-20 12:04

Originally Posted by JasonCuse [View Original Post]

How much was the ppm? Did she allow BBFS?

She charged a lot for a BBF and required that I showed her testing. I finished CIM. I might have overpaid with 8 but wow I really enjoyed it.

**DirteeBoy** · 09-07-20 07:43

Hey guys, trying to figure something out.

I've noticed over the last few months on Tinder and SA, that there are a lot of Asians that will exchange a handful of messages and then want to go to Whatsapp. I usually play along for a day or two, most of them admit to being in China or Asia and plan on visiting the US. I usually tell them to message me when they get here. So what is their end game? Are they lonely Asians looking for love in the US? Do they eventually ask for money? Just trying to practice English? I really haven't been able to figure it out, I cut them off shortly.

I'd love to hear your theories.

Thanks.

**Dimples572** · 09-06-20 19:32

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

I can't she either blocked me or shut her account off again.

Must've shut it down, when you search that UN nothing comes up.

**InSearch69** · 09-06-20 16:50

I can't she either blocked me or shut her account off again.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Please post a link, so we know who your talking about.

**Member #7176** · 09-06-20 14:55

Please post a link, so we know who your talking about.

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

Real deal. Saw her off and on for over a year. 300 BBFS. Short, cute, blonde, too large tramp stamp. Really fun to be with. Only downside is sometimes it can be hard to get to see her and she will ghost you. I guess till she needs more money. I guess she is done with me as she has blocked me now. So have fun with her, she is a cool chick!

**InSearch69** · 09-06-20 14:39

Real deal. Saw her off and on for over a year. 300 BBFS. Short, cute, blonde, too large tramp stamp. Really fun to be with. Only downside is sometimes it can be hard to get to see her and she will ghost you. I guess till she needs more money. I guess she is done with me as she has blocked me now. So have fun with her, she is a cool chick!

**Zerry** · 09-06-20 10:09

Originally Posted by Zerry [View Original Post]

In this context pros are cheap.

They are both pros. Anybody who gets paid to work is a professional, SB's are hookers.

A2

Odd A2 didn't make the same addition to the OP comment. In the context of the OP, I personally have no interest in paying more for what OP is calling a "pro," because I wouldn't pay 50 cents for what OP is calling a "pro. ".

I don't know why people want to go back and forth about what makes a pro. Any girl on SA is a sex worker of some sort, even the ones that only sell pix. If you want everyone to call all SA girls pros, odd flex but okay. I agree they are all pros; however, when someone someone on this forum refers to a woman as a "pro" we all know what they mean, even they guys who want to say "actually. ".

**NavenRJohnson** · 09-06-20 00:03

https://www.seeking.com/member/7dbc7...0-73ebf08e01b4

Met up for what was supposed to be just a M&G because we both had plans later. She looked great in person and we chatted over a drink. A lot of her stories didn't seem to make complete sense. After about an hour it was time to leave so she could do her parent thing. About 5-19 minutes later she texts that she's free for a few more hours if I wanted to do something. She originally quoted 5 which is way high, especially since the limited time frame. Got her down to 3 and she said she could host. Said she wanted me to send money via PP etc prior to sending address, which I wouldn't do. Said we could meet at my place later in the week as we had discussed earlier. She then went off saying how I wasted her time and gas. She got angry when I called out her obvious scam. Avoid unless she's willing to meet at the FC and avoid upfront payment.

**RegularJoe1985** · 09-05-20 13:27

Originally Posted by FlakBait [View Original Post]

Saw this girl, Miss J for a PPM. She was amazing, really got intimate with me, and it was amazing. She was really nervous at first and a bit afraid but then when we started things really kicked off and we got right to business.

She was a little costly, but I mostly just look for quality anyways and she happened to be the type I like.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8...6-2d4eb2bea8a6

The fact that she is a new SB, joined a couple of days back and the fact that you are a new member, causes me to take a pause, perhaps there is nothing wrong but that feeling is there and will be there till more reports come in.

**JasonCuse** · 09-05-20 01:07

Originally Posted by FlakBait [View Original Post]

Saw this girl, Miss J for a PPM. She was amazing, really got intimate with me, and it was amazing. She was really nervous at first and a bit afraid but then when we started things really kicked off and we got right to business.

She was a little costly, but I mostly just look for quality anyways and she happened to be the type I like.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8...6-2d4eb2bea8a6

How much was the ppm? Did she allow BBFS?

**FlakBait** · 09-04-20 23:33

Saw this girl, Miss J for a PPM. She was amazing, really got intimate with me, and it was amazing. She was really nervous at first and a bit afraid but then when we started things really kicked off and we got right to business.

She was a little costly, but I mostly just look for quality anyways and she happened to be the type I like.

https://www.seeking.com/member/16ba8...6-2d4eb2bea8a6

**Zerry** · 09-04-20 21:20

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

Fair enough. Personally, I don't believe SBs are even remotely justified to charge professional escort prices. While they are indeed still a type of provider (they're giving it up for money after all), they're supposed to be amateurs. SA caters to that demographic or type of "lifestyle" if you will. Therefore, it's unreasonable for a SB to ask for 400+ when they're not even a pro. I've used this example in the past: would you pay the same price or more for rinkside tickets to watch minor league hockey over an NHL team? No, you wouldn't. One's a professional and the other is not. The same principle applies in the sugaring scene, though good luck trying to get a girl to accept that logic. Ultimately, we all have differing opinions of what constitutes as "exorbitant," so do what you feel is best without breaking the bank or encouraging their GPS.

And yes, all pics of your face ought to be blurred out until after establishing communication with a SB. Even then, I highly recommend that you not use ANY pictures which are already posted on social media. As for running into folks you or your wife knows on the site, you should definitely steer clear of that potential atom bomb.

In this context pros are cheap.

They are both pros. Anybody who gets paid to work is a professional, SB's are hookers.

A2