NoVA SugarBabies

[Zerry]

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[Zerry]

Has anyone had any luck with her? We've been texting off and on for about a month now and while she's smokin hot and all I'm not sure she's worth the headache. It's been sob story after sob story with her, I'm shocked she hasn't asked for money upfront tbh because those are the exact type of stories I'm getting, to where you can see the "ask for money upfront" coming a mile away. And she's terrible about texting, sometimes takes days to hear back. I asked about it once and got a nasty "I don't just sit around on my phone all day waiting for you to text" response. I called her babe in a text once and her reply was "I told you I'm not your babe". LOL WTF. So she seems like a bit of an uppity **** and I offered her 350 ppm and she shot it down. So I'm just wondering if anyone else has actually cracked her shell and if so is she worth the effort. Please pm with any info. Cheers.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7d91d...6-1c5ad1e27ff7

She will ask for $1 k and upfront, not in advance, but at the start of the date. Likely fake, or if she is actually real she's pulling a scam. She has had several profiles.

[Tyrex2]

Talked to her for awhile. Setup a M&G. She no showed, made up a lame excuse, and then continued the charade for a bit. Ghosted after. Waste of time.

Confirming same thing for me.

[Dimples572]

Has anyone had any luck with her? We've been texting off and on for about a month now and while she's smokin hot and all I'm not sure she's worth the headache. It's been sob story after sob story with her, I'm shocked she hasn't asked for money upfront tbh because those are the exact type of stories I'm getting, to where you can see the "ask for money upfront" coming a mile away. And she's terrible about texting, sometimes takes days to hear back. I asked about it once and got a nasty "I don't just sit around on my phone all day waiting for you to text" response. I called her babe in a text once and her reply was "I told you I'm not your babe". LOL WTF. So she seems like a bit of an uppity **** and I offered her 350 ppm and she shot it down. So I'm just wondering if anyone else has actually cracked her shell and if so is she worth the effort. Please pm with any info. Cheers.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7d91d...6-1c5ad1e27ff7

[FogHorn1]

Talked to her for awhile. Setup a M&G. She no showed, made up a lame excuse, and then continued the charade for a bit. Ghosted after. Waste of time.

Thanks man, good to know. We've chatted a bit and she seems nice enough but I don't have the time to set up meetings with no shows.

[InSearch69]

Basic safety. Meet in public first. If you can't or don't feel like it, get the room and have her come to you. Lots of rooms under 100. Isn't that 100 worth your safety? After you feel comfortable with her, then you could meet at her house or yours.

I would recommend that everyone in the hobby get their CHP, be well-versed in use of force laws and, learn a defensive martial art. I highly recommend Krav Maga as it assumes that you are the weakest and least well equipped to handle a fight. It is defensive in nature, aiming to give you enough distance to get away. Once you learn the basic technique, you can effectively deal with an armed attacker in nothing but your birthday suit.

Always remember to check all rooms in whatever location you end up, keep your head on a swivel and, keep the big head running the show as much as possible.

Safe Hunting.

[Shooter1701]

I would recommend that everyone in the hobby get their CHP, be well-versed in use of force laws and, learn a defensive martial art. I highly recommend Krav Maga as it assumes that you are the weakest and least well equipped to handle a fight. It is defensive in nature, aiming to give you enough distance to get away. Once you learn the basic technique, you can effectively deal with an armed attacker in nothing but your birthday suit.

Always remember to check all rooms in whatever location you end up, keep your head on a swivel and, keep the big head running the show as much as possible.

Safe Hunting.

[Shinshi]

I guess the next step is knowing what exorbitant cost is? I see many young girls so I have to expect higher prices. Also is it ok to keep your pic private? I actually saw someone on there that worked for my wife. So yeahhhh LOL.

Fair enough. Personally, I don't believe SBs are even remotely justified to charge professional escort prices. While they are indeed still a type of provider (they're giving it up for money after all), they're supposed to be amateurs. SA caters to that demographic or type of "lifestyle" if you will. Therefore, it's unreasonable for a SB to ask for 400+ when they're not even a pro. I've used this example in the past: would you pay the same price or more for rinkside tickets to watch minor league hockey over an NHL team? No, you wouldn't. One's a professional and the other is not. The same principle applies in the sugaring scene, though good luck trying to get a girl to accept that logic. Ultimately, we all have differing opinions of what constitutes as "exorbitant," so do what you feel is best without breaking the bank or encouraging their GPS.

And yes, all pics of your face ought to be blurred out until after establishing communication with a SB. Even then, I highly recommend that you not use ANY pictures which are already posted on social media. As for running into folks you or your wife knows on the site, you should definitely steer clear of that potential atom bomb.

[HellBoyX]

No prob, glad to help! It's one thing for a SB to ghost, pull a PBM scam, lose interest during meet-and-greets, make up last-minute rules to what's already been agreed upon, etc. That sort of thing happens all the time and is a learning experience we all go through. But for a SB / provider to have someone working for them who then beats others up in order to get away with said scam? That's beyond fucked up and is just another reason why I always have something on hand to defend myself (thankfully hasn't been needed yet).

In the future, I recommend having a pocket knife, brass knuckles, or something stowed away in your pocket. DO NOT pull out a weapon just to recoup your money if violence isn't first being used by the other party. A scam like that is NOT a valid reason to escalate said situation, and it would be better to cut your losses at that point. Now if someone's throwing fists & kicks your way? Cool, game on! Do what it takes to defend yourself, not be hospitalized, and get the hell out. The primary objective is to get home safe & healthy. It's just money after all and not worth the hospital bills or dying over.

Agreed, premium membership's price is a little steep. But it certainly pays off if you're patient about it and manage to find two or more SBs. Once you have their numbers, just rotate through the ones you've got and allow the membership to become basic again (which is free).

The only reason I haven't done so is because I've suddenly become inundated with so many potential prospects last month. So long as you play it smart while not giving in to exorbitant demands or any PBM (advance payment) nonsense, then you just might have yourself a good time which will cost far less than seeing a professional escort. Cheers!

I guess the next step is knowing what exorbitant cost is? I see many young girls so I have to expect higher prices. Also is it ok to keep your pic private? I actually saw someone on there that worked for my wife. So yeahhhh LOL.

[Shinshi]

Hmm, how about that. I really appreciate you making the effort, man, that's cool of you to help offer support for me. Was a scary freakin experience.

For me the report I filed myself with SA is still "pending" all I've gotten is a form response that says we're investigating if you have any evidence you want to share send it to this email inbox they provided. Did that, so we'll see. If her profile is still up then I guess they're not going to do anything, which is not encouraging.

Well at least learned a big lesson for the future, here's to more promising and carefully vetted SB adventures from here on on out.

No prob, glad to help! It's one thing for a SB to ghost, pull a PBM scam, lose interest during meet-and-greets, make up last-minute rules to what's already been agreed upon, etc. That sort of thing happens all the time and is a learning experience we all go through. But for a SB / provider to have someone working for them who then beats others up in order to get away with said scam? That's beyond fucked up and is just another reason why I always have something on hand to defend myself (thankfully hasn't been needed yet).

In the future, I recommend having a pocket knife, brass knuckles, or something stowed away in your pocket. DO NOT pull out a weapon just to recoup your money if violence isn't first being used by the other party. A scam like that is NOT a valid reason to escalate said situation, and it would be better to cut your losses at that point. Now if someone's throwing fists & kicks your way? Cool, game on! Do what it takes to defend yourself, not be hospitalized, and get the hell out. The primary objective is to get home safe & healthy. It's just money after all and not worth the hospital bills or dying over.

I'm still learning about this world and it seems more miss than hit. The site is also kinda expensive foR a membership. But supply and demand I guess. Thanks again!

Agreed, premium membership's price is a little steep. But it certainly pays off if you're patient about it and manage to find two or more SBs. Once you have their numbers, just rotate through the ones you've got and allow the membership to become basic again (which is free).

The only reason I haven't done so is because I've suddenly become inundated with so many potential prospects last month. So long as you play it smart while not giving in to exorbitant demands or any PBM (advance payment) nonsense, then you just might have yourself a good time which will cost far less than seeing a professional escort. Cheers!

[Dimples572]

This one "doesn't have sex with her sugardaddies" so if that's your thing you might enjoy long annoying phone calls and needy texts from her LOL. Next please.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d558c...f-fba8d89ff82f

[HellBoyX]

Talked to her for awhile. Setup a M&G. She no showed, made up a lame excuse, and then continued the charade for a bit. Ghosted after. Waste of time.

I had her favorited. I'm still learning about this world and it seems more miss than hit. The site is also kinda expensive foR a membership. But supply and demand I guess. Thanks again!

[PromisedLand]

Hmm, how about that. I really appreciate you making the effort, man, that's cool of you to help offer support for me. Was a scary freakin experience.

For me the report I filed myself with SA is still "pending" all I've gotten is a form response that says we're investigating if you have any evidence you want to share send it to this email inbox they provided. Did that, so we'll see. If her profile is still up then I guess they're not going to do anything, which is not encouraging.

Well at least learned a big lesson for the future, here's to more promising and carefully vetted SB adventures from here on on out.

Well, well, well, seems the site admins do look at reports against pages after all (just not the ones advertising online-only, I guess). Though it seems rather copy-and-paste and still won't result in any consequential actions taken against her, at least she's on people's radar. The following was written by the admin a couple hours ago:

"Dear Member, thank you for contacting us. We have received your report about the member Kattt2020. We are sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation and appreciate the time you took to bring this to our attention. If you have been the victim of any type of assault, please contact your local law enforcement immediately! Please keep in mind that we may not suspend / delete a member's account immediately, unless we have all the necessary proof. Our fraud team will promptly and thoroughly investigate this account and make a decision based on our findings.

Please send an email and attach any additional information you may have which will help expedite the process, including: photos, emails, screenshots of text messages, links, and / or a copy of the police report that you filed.

Thank you in advance for your assistance.

Regards,

SeekingArrangement.com Customer Support".

[RokurWorld]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cc717...3-ca91d0911c97

Anyone ever talk to this one? She seems legit and I could swear I have read something about her before but a search here didn't turn anything up.

Talked to her for awhile. Setup a M&G. She no showed, made up a lame excuse, and then continued the charade for a bit. Ghosted after. Waste of time.

[Shinshi]

I also filed a report on your behalf. Very unlikely that they'll accept it since it didn't happen to me. SA mods probably wouldn't take action anyway as my reports seem to have fallen on deaf ears within their company. But I'm glad you got out and really grateful for your detailed post. Hope you & everyone else is staying healthy, safe, and happy out there!

Well, well, well, seems the site admins do look at reports against pages after all (just not the ones advertising online-only, I guess). Though it seems rather copy-and-paste and still won't result in any consequential actions taken against her, at least she's on people's radar. The following was written by the admin a couple hours ago:

"Dear Member, thank you for contacting us. We have received your report about the member Kattt2020. We are sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation and appreciate the time you took to bring this to our attention. If you have been the victim of any type of assault, please contact your local law enforcement immediately! Please keep in mind that we may not suspend / delete a member's account immediately, unless we have all the necessary proof. Our fraud team will promptly and thoroughly investigate this account and make a decision based on our findings.

Please send an email and attach any additional information you may have which will help expedite the process, including: photos, emails, screenshots of text messages, links, and / or a copy of the police report that you filed.

Thank you in advance for your assistance.

Regards,

SeekingArrangement.com Customer Support".