NoVA SugarBabies

**FogHorn1** · 07-28-20 10:33

https://www.seeking.com/member/1a2b3...5-354ea811778c

Another scammer I suspect. Insists on starting with "paid online play" before she meets but promises that it will lead to better times when an in person meet finally happens. Claims this is the way her previous arrangements have been.

**FogHorn1** · 07-28-20 10:15

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

I chatted with her a couple of years ago, but it didn't go anywhere. She is pretty active, so either she is semi-pro, or just a scam.

Don't understand this one. Been trading messages for awhile but can't get her to commit to meeting. It's like she just enjoys the attention or something, hasn't even asked about allowance. Head scratcher for sure.

**Dimples572** · 07-28-20 09:53

Originally Posted by Chaucer1478 [View Original Post]

I got the same basic "I have to leave my apartment. " "I have no place to go. " "I'm kinda screwed!" story but without the death tales and the boob shot. She stopped speaking with me after I gave her some landlord-tenant advice. Dimples made it further down the line.

Lucky me!.

**FogHorn1** · 07-28-20 09:32

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I think since I say stats. It naturally and logically follows its a numbers game. Although I don't have stats. It would appear that if you are not picky about distance and age and looks, your hit ratio is likely to be higher. I have found that distance is a factor. As the radius becomes smaller. Your hit ratio plummets. I also find that age 26 to 32 gives the highest number of potential hits (assuming that you are OK with average looking girls).

Thanks Jon. It certainly could be that I'm just too picky. To your point, the average looking 26-32 year olds are the ones who reach out to me. That said, I'm on SA for things that are out of my reach and at least for now I can still pick up an average looking 26-32 year old the "old fashioned way" Haha.

**FogHorn1** · 07-28-20 09:24

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

I have had the same experience. Last year I kept track of my "success" rate for a month. I posted the results on this site. See post #1924 from November 15,2019. My experience is that it is a numbers game, with a 1% success rate. I'd be interested if others have kept real statistics.

Just checked out your post from 11/15/19 - good stuff. That seems to be what I am experiencing as well.

**RegularJoe1985** · 07-28-20 07:57

Originally Posted by AksWorld [View Original Post]

I didn't meet her. She said that she can stay for only 1 hour and not comfortable with doing it multiple times so I said that booking a hotel just for 1 hour isn't making sense and asked her to contact me when she is ok to stay for more than a hour.

Point her being a Pro.

Have had others also who want to do ppm and want on an hourly basis. WTF!!

Sorry your plans didn't work out.

**AksWorld** · 07-28-20 01:27

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

A report forthcoming. ?

I didn't meet her. She said that she can stay for only 1 hour and not comfortable with doing it multiple times so I said that booking a hotel just for 1 hour isn't making sense and asked her to contact me when she is ok to stay for more than a hour.

**Chaucer1478** · 07-28-20 00:21

I got the same basic "I have to leave my apartment. " "I have no place to go. " "I'm kinda screwed!" story but without the death tales and the boob shot. She stopped speaking with me after I gave her some landlord-tenant advice. Dimples made it further down the line.

**Dimples572** · 07-27-20 18:53

This one is a piece of work that idk what to make heads or tails out of. Really odd. Originally started chatting a few weeks ago after a couple days of normal back and forth she says she's not doing so great because her best friend had passed in a car accident and she'd gone to the funeral. Of course I express my sympathies, then literally in the same convo she starts telling my she bleached her hair (WTF). I ask if she wants to exchange pics, she says sure let me take a shower first. When she's done she sends me pics of her fresh out the shower with her hair in a towel, no makeup or anything.

A day or two later were texting and tells me she got more bad news and that her application was denied for an apartment and that she might be homeless in a few days when her lease is up unless she can get someone to co-sign on an apartment for her. Tells me she can't crash with a friend or anything because she's got an aggressive dog. So then she hits me up with the proposition that because she's so desperate that instead of the typical arrangement where she'd get monetary compensation she wants me to co-sign for her and in return she'll let me come over and fuck her whenever I want. So I'm thinking ok, maybe I can get some free pussy out of this but knowing damn well there's a snowballs chance I'm going to cosign for her and I tell her I'll consider it but I want to test-drive the pussy first before I commit to anything, make sure we vibe / have chemistry yada yada. She's not so sure she's comfortable with that so I'm like ok, best of luck.

A week later, the day before she's about to be homeless I hit her up to see if she's had any luck, she says no and I let her know my offer still stands. At this point she's game but if we fuck and I change my mind will I pay her instead. I said yes, I'll pay 200 which she's cool with. This whole time I keep asking for pics but she's not really given me much so I'm now being adamant about wanting to see what she looks like. I want a pic that shows her figure but she tells me she did a hard reset on her phone and all the pics were deleted and she doesn't store shit on the cloud. This chick is sooo full of excuses. I ask how she looks in a bikini she says she looks fine, that she's got great boobs. OK fine, so I ask if she can hookup that night. She says yes, we go back and forth and arrange time / place, so it's a Go. Then around 4:30 she texts me she just got MORE bad news and that she just found out her uncle died. So at this point I'm like OK this girl / guy / whomever this is is completely full of shit, and asks if we can maybe meet up later in the week. I tell her yes, of course blah blah blah, she then texts back that she could do Wed night in exclamation marks. I say yeah, cool. Well see, then when she gets home she sends me a couple selfies and one of her tits. Just really fucking odd behavior for someone that just lost a family member.

I tried texting once or twice later that week but no response, didn't hear anything on Wed like she'd mentioned. A week goes by and I get a text this morning saying she's been helping her Aunt with things (from the funeral I presume? But some good news is that she's figured out her living situation and no longer needs a co-signer (Doh!) and she's moving this weekend. So I ask since the arrangement we'd agreed upon was when she needed a cosigner was she still interested in hooking up for a traditional arrangement. She at first said she didn't know, but she still needs $1700.00 "Because my life fucking sucks, and I found out today that someone got into my bank account and took like $3,500 out. And chase said it could take a week to get my money back". Lmaooo! Needless to say after that text she was blocked. But man does she come up with some whoppers for stories!! LOL. Long story short, yes I would have loved to had played with those tits, but for the love of God don't waste your time with her like I did.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9e3d3...d-5d85ff48212f

**JonFisher** · 07-27-20 16:50

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

Just curious what others have experienced in terms of messages to returns. I was pretty optimistic about SA when I first started this month but I swear it seems for every 10 messages I send I get maybe 1 back. Of those, there's plenty of game players. Is this simply a numbers game? I would have assumed the ratio of men to woman on this site favored the men but as it is I'm thinking the traditional swiping sites may have just as good odds.

I think since I say stats. It naturally and logically follows its a numbers game. Although I don't have stats. It would appear that if you are not picky about distance and age and looks, your hit ratio is likely to be higher. I have found that distance is a factor. As the radius becomes smaller. Your hit ratio plummets. I also find that age 26 to 32 gives the highest number of potential hits (assuming that you are OK with average looking girls).

**AdcFellow** · 07-27-20 16:38

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

Just curious what others have experienced in terms of messages to returns. I was pretty optimistic about SA when I first started this month but I swear it seems for every 10 messages I send I get maybe 1 back. Of those, there's plenty of game players. Is this simply a numbers game? I would have assumed the ratio of men to woman on this site favored the men but as it is I'm thinking the traditional swiping sites may have just as good odds.

I have had the same experience. Last year I kept track of my "success" rate for a month. I posted the results on this site. See post #1924 from November 15,2019. My experience is that it is a numbers game, with a 1% success rate. I'd be interested if others have kept real statistics.

**FogHorn1** · 07-27-20 10:57

Just curious what others have experienced in terms of messages to returns. I was pretty optimistic about SA when I first started this month but I swear it seems for every 10 messages I send I get maybe 1 back. Of those, there's plenty of game players. Is this simply a numbers game? I would have assumed the ratio of men to woman on this site favored the men but as it is I'm thinking the traditional swiping sites may have just as good odds.