The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**VincentCor74** · 06-24-20 21:37

Originally Posted by DfwPussyEater [View Original Post]

Vincent,

When I finalize a meeting it means a "meeting on the couch". All 14 of them placed hoo hoo dilly into cha cha. (I need to add care less for the SA membership fee but I wonder on time invested and rate of the success matches? So if I do the math correctly; 260 SB per 30 days is averaged to 8.66 ~ 9 SB per day. I spend an average of 1 hour (15 min greetings + 45 minutes interview) means 9 hours of per day. Now, I have been on vacation for last 2 months but that is a lot hours. And thats why I say the ratio is low for that much of effort.

The alternative is no hoo / hoo, cha / cha — or are you thinking another route is time better spent?

From experience. SA has the highest volume of candidates compared to the other sugar sites- which mostly suck, imo.

Granted. You are probably only interested in a percentage of those based on look, profile, vibe, etc.

Tinder? - if you don't have to worry about a significant other snooping thru your phone, maybe that's a more successful rate?

"Off-line" of the sugar sites- ie: trolling Instagram like I do. The ratio is way lower than your current action.

I might send 100 DMs a day (some previous connections / some new) and on a good day get 10-20 responses.

Out of those responses. An actual sugar conversation maybe with 2 or 3? (And I'm pretty chill / have a decent amount of game / rap).

Out of those 2 or three MAYBE I get a meet and greet or two that week.

So, time spent is probably half of yours but with a much lower success rate. Of course, those girls are just chilling online and not actively looking for SDs- except when you just stumble on them and recognize them from SA.

Not sure if any of that is even relevant or helpful to your current state. LOL Just my two Euros.

**DfwPussyEater** · 06-24-20 20:21

Originally Posted by VincentCor74 [View Original Post]

Are you saying you bagged 14? If so, I'd say that's successful, imo. And well worth the investment.

Met 14? Only conversed with 14?

Need more info.

Vincent,

When I finalize a meeting it means a "meeting on the couch". All 14 of them placed hoo hoo dilly into cha cha. (I need to add care less for the SA membership fee but I wonder on time invested and rate of the success matches? So if I do the math correctly; 260 SB per 30 days is averaged to 8.66 ~ 9 SB per day. I spend an average of 1 hour (15 min greetings + 45 minutes interview) means 9 hours of per day. Now, I have been on vacation for last 2 months but that is a lot hours. And that’s why I say the ratio is low for that much of effort.

**VincentCor74** · 06-24-20 19:42

Originally Posted by DfwPussyEater [View Original Post]

I decided to do a math on my success for a 30 days Time-period on SA. To see, if it has been worthy Of my time, membership fee renewal or do I need to do some tweaking. So, I went ahead and counted all my contacts that I had made In 30 days and Calculated a ratio that appears low to me. It's at 0. 05% ratio. This does not include those that I blocked off or deleted them for time-wasters or scammers. I counted all those contacts (from sent folder) which I had found being potential SB for 30 days. So, here was the math: contacted 260 SB and I had only 14 success cases in 30 days, (0. 05% I Feel I am on a low end for the time I have put into this. Any inputs or encouraging pointer whether I am on a low percentile and maybe I need to notch it up! Appreciated. (More power to all).

Are you saying you bagged 14? If so, I'd say that's successful, imo. And well worth the investment.

Met 14? Only conversed with 14?

Need more info.

**DfwPussyEater** · 06-24-20 17:39

I decided to do a math on my success for a 30 days Time-period on SA. To see, if it has been worthy Of my time, membership fee renewal or do I need to do some tweaking. So, I went ahead and counted all my contacts that I had made In 30 days and Calculated a ratio that appears low to me. It's at 0. 05% ratio. This does not include those that I blocked off or deleted them for time-wasters or scammers. I counted all those contacts (from sent folder) which I had found being potential SB for 30 days. So, here was the math: contacted 260 SB and I had only 14 success cases in 30 days, (0. 05% I Feel I am on a low end for the time I have put into this. Any inputs or encouraging pointer whether I am on a low percentile and maybe I need to notch it up! Appreciated. (More power to all).

**Skins755** · 06-24-20 15:50

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

I am looking for ideas of things I can gift my SB.

1). Skydiving (I am not jumping).

2). Gift card to a spa.

Any ideas will be helpful.

I always gave lingerie or shoes, great for a second or third date, and then they can model for you.

Or I had one in Knoxville that I gave a North Face jacket and some Uggs, she was a UT coed and Hooter's girl, probably the hottest I ever met on sd4 me, ah the good times.

Skins.

**VincentCor74** · 06-24-20 14:53

Originally Posted by Ral613 [View Original Post]

The Umstead gift card is always a hit, but keep in mind that some SB's can be intimidated and concerned about SPA etiquette at a high-end spa (the staff is great and will put them at ease). Not to compete with the big "gift", don't sleep on a generous gift card to a regular nail shop. Being able to go whenever they want, or perhaps even treat a friend, is a nice every-day perk.

If they are into that - 3 months worth will only run you like 100 bucks.

**DfwPussyEater** · 06-24-20 13:49

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

I am looking for ideas of things I can gift my SB.

1). Skydiving (I am not jumping).

2). Gift card to a spa.

Any ideas will be helpful.

(This may get posted back to back but something went wrong posting first time so I am Re-trying).

I suppose you buying a gift to handed it in and you don't mean a virtual gifting. So, my suggestion is always gift a tangible present. It will leave a reason for her to remember you by it rather than a gift for spa (not criticizing other suggestions only sharing my Personal view), second reason that tangible gift will lead to give a Feel of Traditional Dating when you keep seeing it on her. My suggestion is Jewelry. You can always go to clearance sections of in store like Belk. They have 75% to additional 10/15 % if you open a cc account. I have a tip if you were interested how to use that extra 15% over and over but you can DM for that later. So, you can pick up a chocked chain, bracelet, ankle chain from 350+ for 60 to 100 bucks. (instance, I bought a fossil watch at Belk 250 for 80 bucks after multiple discounts that was offer, and it appears a 400 bucks value to my SB). One last saying here: when you hand a Tangible gift right hand to hand you get a heftier kiss than you get when gift a gift card because women always, always get thrilled when they see a time and effort was put in selecting a gift than act as here is the money go get yourself something. More power to all.

**Ral613** · 06-24-20 13:44

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a0d3...6-a9a1937da270

I think this is a newer profile for someone I've seen on the site before. Anyone have any info?

**Ral613** · 06-24-20 11:37

The Umstead gift card is always a hit, but keep in mind that some SB's can be intimidated and concerned about SPA etiquette at a high-end spa (the staff is great and will put them at ease). Not to compete with the big "gift", don't sleep on a generous gift card to a regular nail shop. Being able to go whenever they want, or perhaps even treat a friend, is a nice every-day perk.

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

I am looking for ideas of things I can gift my SB.

1). Skydiving (I am not jumping).

2). Gift card to a spa.

Any ideas will be helpful.

**Usmc0819** · 06-23-20 23:49

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

I am looking for ideas of things I can gift my SB.

1). Skydiving (I am not jumping).

2). Gift card to a spa.

Any ideas will be helpful.

Favorite perfume? If you're doing spa, I'd do a spa day at the umstead.

**SmallAsianCock** · 06-23-20 21:51

I am looking for ideas of things I can gift my SB.

1). Skydiving (I am not jumping).

2). Gift card to a spa.

Any ideas will be helpful.

**Kirron** · 06-23-20 17:32

Originally Posted by Hiamey [View Original Post]

Any info on Kate.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4d391...c-8e06159d3ec7

Mentioned here - http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...gar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=4840359&viewfull=1#post4840359.

**Ral613** · 06-23-20 14:34

Originally Posted by Hiamey [View Original Post]

Any info on Kate.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4d391...c-8e06159d3ec7

I had a brief exchange. I could be wrong, but seemed more pro-like looking for something immediate vs. Someone lookin for an ongoing arrangement.

**Hiamey** · 06-23-20 13:50

Any info on Kate.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4d391...c-8e06159d3ec7

**Ral613** · 06-23-20 10:28

Originally Posted by Pubb69 [View Original Post]

Went down today, I can only imagine how nervous the owners of SA must be as they are about due.

IMHO they are far worse than these other sites and more hypocritical in their advertising, promoting arrangements as a non prostitution forum and encouraging girls as young as 18 to sponge off strangers. Their lawyers won't stand a chance against the fed, if they were wise they would shut it down now.

I sometimes wonder if the fake account and occasional blatant exchange that goes nowhere is someone collecting screenshot to state what the site is sometimes used for (not by this group of course).