Seeking Arrangements

[GlennDoyle91]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1cb6f...5-3fd91bf24f40

That's the SA account. Added are pics that was sent. I've seen that face in some porn before, I just can't put my finger on it.

[CuriosWankah]

Whats annoys me on seeking besides the online shit. Is that I've messaged like 15 woman yesterday afternoon and as of noon today there all in delivered mode and unread. But these woman have been active today. Why do these woman not read there messages or are they just bots.

Honestly they might be seeing your messages but what they'll do is just view it from the messages page so they catch the latest thing you write without giving you the read receipt which makes them feel obligated to respond. Besides that they have a bunch of dudes messaging them all the time you're probably getting drowned out among everyone elses messages or you just don't hold their attention enough to warrant a response from them every time they log on.

[GlennDoyle91]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.
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You only really need to confirm 1 hr before meet. Maybe a little if the lag time is greater than 1 day, ie, initial was Monday, date set for Wednesday. Confirm Tuesday, then an hour prior.

[Joe Parkers]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

Yeah it's a bad time right now to sign up. I have paused the account since March, best thing I have done and will resume it in August. Yes, I have a bunch of messages I can't read but I don't really care for now. Very few girls are really looking to meet right now. You are literally throwing away money at this point.

[TheList00]

Whats annoys me on seeking besides the online shit. Is that I've messaged like 15 woman yesterday afternoon and as of noon today there all in delivered mode and unread. But these woman have been active today. Why do these woman not read there messages or are they just bots.

[JohnB22]

Exactly. If one person start selling pics and vid on SA. Others will follow

Most of the girls I've talked to are video chat only.

[HounDog3]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

It's been a very long time since I was ghosted at a meet & greet. Maybe I'm just lucky, I don't know. Can you please post links to their profiles so we know to avoid.

SA has an abundance of women seeking online only, scam artists wanting money upfront, occasional fake photos, and other bullshit, but I suspect it's far less than other sites from what I read on the boards here. If you have the patience to weed through it, I find the payoff to be well worth it. To each his own.

[GlennDoyle91]

Well, it's too late. It started long ago and it's too late to stop it and SA doesn't want to stop it. It's like fighting gravity; good luck!

Generally, I'm okay with it, if it's the person. I'm less okay if it's just dudes catfishing.

[Bran001]

Exactly. If one person start selling pics and vid on SA. Others will follow.

Well, it's too late. It started long ago and it's too late to stop it and SA doesn't want to stop it. It's like fighting gravity; good luck!

[Style20]

There are other sites for pics or vids than SA. Seeking is for arrangements where you meet the girl in real life. You want that other stuff? Fine, go where it belongs, that's not on SA. The site even has 'online only' as a category to report a girl, which goes to prove my point. IT DOESN'T BELONG THERE.

Exactly. If one person start selling pics and vid on SA. Others will follow.

[JohnTies]

Been back on for less than a week and already dealing with complete bullshit!

Scheduled four meets, one Sunday, one Monday, Two today. None of them were new to the site.

Sunday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Monday no showed, even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday first meet no showed even though they confirmed they were coming.

Tuesday second meet, never confirmed they were coming, so I did not go.

She sent a nasty message to me bitching me out for wasting her time for going and I am a rude piece of shit for not telling her I was not coming.

Explained to her that she never responded to me confirming she was coming. She told me we had definite plans.

I fucking quit! Can't win with these fucking!

Add in all the online only, online for now until Covid 19 is over, buy my pictures, etc, etc, etc.

Complete waste of ninety fucking dollars!

[PaulRew]

You can still report them. I know I do. I thought they got rid of the category, but it's still there.

You can report them but nothing happens with their profile as SA does nothing and doesn't really care. Look, SA's best interest is to have as many girls on the site as possible. A couple years ago you could report a girl and circle back to see if SA did anything, now you can't because as soon as you "report" they block access to her profile while insincerely thanking you. Similar mindset concerning the block feature, years ago you could block a girl and then unblock her, no more.

[Bran001]

IMO if a woman needs to use a filter on her profile pic she must be not so attractive in person. Just my 2 cents.

This filter thing seems pretty popular with the young girls. A turn-off for me, definitely.

[Bran001]

You can still report them. I know I do. I thought they got rid of the category, but it's still there.

I didn't see that category (online only) in the report menu. Where is it?

[Gianni Versace]

Saw this on SA today. Really? WTF?

IMO if a woman needs to use a filter on her profile pic she must be not so attractive in person. Just my 2 cents.