NoVA SugarBabies

**DCowboy77** · 04-28-20 23:49

So, with drinks, coffee and dinner pretty much out now, (I usually did drinks) I've recently considered chatting briefly with potential sb's with a video chat app like zoom, google duo, etc. I never used these apps before moving into the age of telework during COVID-19 but this non techy 47 y /o has found they are free and quite easy to download off of google play or whatever the I-phone equivalent is. I've done one video chat so far and it really helped me get a chance to see the gal and gauge comfort level. I haven't met her yet, but may soon. This helped me verify it was her and verify she didn't seem nutsy koo koo. . This is also creating perhaps a new redflag as I've brought this idea up to a few other girls and they quickly said, nah, let's just meet in person. Maybe I'm paranoid but to me that rings of, I'm not the girl in the pic and I don't want you to see that prior to meeting me. Note for purposes of this discussion these were all girls that had already given me their numbers and were texting. What do you all think of this option in lieu of our current situation. Anyone else tried it? Thoughts?

**Je2010** · 04-28-20 21:42

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Pulled the same trick on me too. 2 years back. Stay away.

She got you as well? Scared the hell out of me.

**Lobsid** · 04-28-20 21:27

She told me she was late because she was coming from Annapolis. She said that she has to meet a counselor tomorrow morning at Georgetown. She didn't have a car, and didn't want to pay Lyft for the back and forth. Me being the fool told her it was OK to stay for the night. She rack up $48.38 in extra charges to the room.

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

**PickyMonger** · 04-28-20 21:02

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

She's also a flake. I've tried a few times and have talked to a few others. She flaked on all of them.

So, odds are she would cancel or ask for help. But even if she shows it sounds pretty lame.

**Lobsid** · 04-28-20 20:26

We 1st agreed on 500, but on the day she tried to cancel saying she did not feel well. I already got the hotel and was out $120. I told her fine on her original price of 600 for her to come. That what happens when I let my little buddy call the shots.

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

**Grasshopping** · 04-28-20 20:05

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

I meetup with her, she was 90 minutes late. Yes, she has a nice face, her body is a little curvy. She has small tits, which isn't a big deal for me. Kissing, BBBJ and cfs were on the menu. She BBBJ was OK, but during cfs she laid there with not much reaction. Asked about allowance she wanted 4000. She told me her normal ppm was 600.

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

**Shinshi** · 04-28-20 19:38

Originally Posted by BookerTNelson [View Original Post]

The "with you" is silent when they're saying they don't want sex at all. That's it, that's the game. This is what really separates them from Pros and UTRs.

Oh, fair enough. I don't claim to be some Brad Pitt-lookalike sporting a 12-in shlong. If I'm not some girl's type, that's perfectly fine (though I'd also add that I'm no Chris Farley with a 2-in member either, haha). I don't ask questions or take it personal if a girl isn't attracted to me and won't force the issue. Plenty of fish in the sea. Where I start having problems is whenever they post pics or write in a manner which suggests they're 100% all about one-night stands before feigning offense no matter how tastefully the subject is apporached.

And whenever we negotiate a meet (or the meet actually occurs) and they express disinterest in a FWB arrangement while still asking for 300+, 400+, 500+, etc? That's another fucking problem. A total disconnect, delusions of grandeur, a severe case of GPS, take your pick. That kind of nonsense is something I have little patience for and also explains why my block / hide list is so extensive on that site.

**Lobsid** · 04-28-20 19:11

I meetup with her, she was 90 minutes late. Yes, she has a nice face, her body is a little curvy. She has small tits, which isn't a big deal for me. Kissing, BBBJ and cfs were on the menu. She BBBJ was OK, but during cfs she laid there with not much reaction. Asked about allowance she wanted 4000. She told me her normal ppm was 600.

Originally Posted by InSearch69 [View Original Post]

I got 400 her down to 400 but the minute she said she was in an accident and needed help getting to me I stopped talking to her.

**InSearch69** · 04-28-20 16:10

I got 400 her down to 400 but the minute she said she was in an accident and needed help getting to me I stopped talking to her.

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/c37ee...d-12a90e49c712

Would not budge from 500, plus I have to host. Her pics are verified although I noticed some of the non-face pics in her profiles don't belong to her from google search. But I think all the face pics are actually her.

I'm not willing to pay that much but she does look fine with a petite body so some of you might be willing to meet her at that price point. Good luck.

**DickLongwood** · 04-28-20 15:59

Any intel on this cutie?

https://www.seeking.com/member/7c12a...a-11d01fb9f364

**Grasshopping** · 04-28-20 12:01

https://www.seeking.com/member/c37ee...d-12a90e49c712

Would not budge from 500, plus I have to host. Her pics are verified although I noticed some of the non-face pics in her profiles don't belong to her from google search. But I think all the face pics are actually her.

I'm not willing to pay that much but she does look fine with a petite body so some of you might be willing to meet her at that price point. Good luck.

**BookerTNelson** · 04-28-20 11:36

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I agree with you both, paying that much for no sex is nuts. And for *her*, at that rate? Pfffft.

The other thing that baffles the mind is when a girl says she doesn't want sex at all despite having a profile pic posing in underwear, or tastefully nude, or clutching stuffed animals, or with lollipops / finger (s) in their mouths. Even more bizarre is when they claim to be seeking "FWB," only to walk that back within the first few messages (or if they have FWB and platonic listed).

The "with you" is silent when they're saying they don't want sex at all. That's it, that's the game. This is what really separates them from Pros and UTRs.

**Jsidd** · 04-27-20 17:16

Originally Posted by Mike77 [View Original Post]

I talked to her a while back and she wouldn't budge from her $400 ask at the time. When I compared her to a Honda Accord asking for BMW prices, she got salty and the conversation turned sour. LOL.

Msged her to see what would happen. The usual chitchat stuff, asked her how are things going for you in these crazy times. She got really salty. Asked that to others and on normal dating apps, never had such a reply. I'd avoid.

**JonFisher** · 04-27-20 16:13

Originally Posted by Je2010 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca300...0-1503d0181931

This is the one that pretended to be a cop and took the cash from me.

Long story, but stay away. She is a scam artist.

Pulled the same trick on me too. 2 years back. Stay away.

**Je2010** · 04-27-20 12:37

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca300...0-1503d0181931

This is the one that pretended to be a cop and took the cash from me.

Long story, but stay away. She is a scam artist.