NoVA SugarBabies

[DCowboy77]

So, with drinks, coffee and dinner pretty much out now, (I usually did drinks) I've recently considered chatting briefly with potential sb's with a video chat app like zoom, google duo, etc. I never used these apps before moving into the age of telework during COVID-19 but this non techy 47 y /o has found they are free and quite easy to download off of google play or whatever the I-phone equivalent is. I've done one video chat so far and it really helped me get a chance to see the gal and gauge comfort level. I haven't met her yet, but may soon. This helped me verify it was her and verify she didn't seem nutsy koo koo. . This is also creating perhaps a new redflag as I've brought this idea up to a few other girls and they quickly said, nah, let's just meet in person. Maybe I'm paranoid but to me that rings of, I'm not the girl in the pic and I don't want you to see that prior to meeting me. Note for purposes of this discussion these were all girls that had already given me their numbers and were texting. What do you all think of this option in lieu of our current situation. Anyone else tried it? Thoughts?

[Je2010]

Pulled the same trick on me too. 2 years back. Stay away.

She got you as well? Scared the hell out of me.

[PickyMonger]

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

She's also a flake. I've tried a few times and have talked to a few others. She flaked on all of them.

So, odds are she would cancel or ask for help. But even if she shows it sounds pretty lame.

[Grasshopping]

I meetup with her, she was 90 minutes late. Yes, she has a nice face, her body is a little curvy. She has small tits, which isn't a big deal for me. Kissing, BBBJ and cfs were on the menu. She BBBJ was OK, but during cfs she laid there with not much reaction. Asked about allowance she wanted 4000. She told me her normal ppm was 600.

Thanks for all your feedback. Totally not worth the price. Thanks for saving me 400 or 500 so I spend it on other SB that's worthwhile.

[Shinshi]

The "with you" is silent when they're saying they don't want sex at all. That's it, that's the game. This is what really separates them from Pros and UTRs.

Oh, fair enough. I don't claim to be some Brad Pitt-lookalike sporting a 12-in shlong. If I'm not some girl's type, that's perfectly fine (though I'd also add that I'm no Chris Farley with a 2-in member either, haha). I don't ask questions or take it personal if a girl isn't attracted to me and won't force the issue. Plenty of fish in the sea. Where I start having problems is whenever they post pics or write in a manner which suggests they're 100% all about one-night stands before feigning offense no matter how tastefully the subject is apporached.

And whenever we negotiate a meet (or the meet actually occurs) and they express disinterest in a FWB arrangement while still asking for 300+, 400+, 500+, etc? That's another fucking problem. A total disconnect, delusions of grandeur, a severe case of GPS, take your pick. That kind of nonsense is something I have little patience for and also explains why my block / hide list is so extensive on that site.

[InSearch69]

I got 400 her down to 400 but the minute she said she was in an accident and needed help getting to me I stopped talking to her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c37ee...d-12a90e49c712

Would not budge from 500, plus I have to host. Her pics are verified although I noticed some of the non-face pics in her profiles don't belong to her from google search. But I think all the face pics are actually her.

I'm not willing to pay that much but she does look fine with a petite body so some of you might be willing to meet her at that price point. Good luck.

[DickLongwood]

Any intel on this cutie?

https://www.seeking.com/member/7c12a...a-11d01fb9f364

[Grasshopping]

https://www.seeking.com/member/c37ee...d-12a90e49c712

Would not budge from 500, plus I have to host. Her pics are verified although I noticed some of the non-face pics in her profiles don't belong to her from google search. But I think all the face pics are actually her.

I'm not willing to pay that much but she does look fine with a petite body so some of you might be willing to meet her at that price point. Good luck.

[BookerTNelson]

I agree with you both, paying that much for no sex is nuts. And for *her*, at that rate? Pfffft.

The other thing that baffles the mind is when a girl says she doesn't want sex at all despite having a profile pic posing in underwear, or tastefully nude, or clutching stuffed animals, or with lollipops / finger (s) in their mouths. Even more bizarre is when they claim to be seeking "FWB," only to walk that back within the first few messages (or if they have FWB and platonic listed).

The "with you" is silent when they're saying they don't want sex at all. That's it, that's the game. This is what really separates them from Pros and UTRs.

[Jsidd]

I talked to her a while back and she wouldn't budge from her $400 ask at the time. When I compared her to a Honda Accord asking for BMW prices, she got salty and the conversation turned sour. LOL.

Msged her to see what would happen. The usual chitchat stuff, asked her how are things going for you in these crazy times. She got really salty. Asked that to others and on normal dating apps, never had such a reply. I'd avoid.

[JonFisher]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca300...0-1503d0181931

This is the one that pretended to be a cop and took the cash from me.

Long story, but stay away. She is a scam artist.

Pulled the same trick on me too. 2 years back. Stay away.

[Je2010]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca300...0-1503d0181931

This is the one that pretended to be a cop and took the cash from me.

Long story, but stay away. She is a scam artist.

[Shinshi]

HNE337 (https://www.seeking.com/member/ca76b...c-299c1ab496c1).

This one initiated the messaging and we had some decent conversation going for several weeks. We swapped pictures and agreed that any meet would have to be after the quarantine's lifted. Then about a week-and-a-half ago, communication just dropped off. I reached out again recently asking if things were good, which was read but no reply. Ah well. Maybe she lost interest, found someone else, who knows.

Smartie_party (https://www.seeking.com/member/c6cf9...4-41f90dbce027).

This one was a huge bummer as I thought again that some pretty good rapport had been established. Similar interests, hobbies, travels, etc. Last contact with her was nearly 3 weeks ago, so it's safe to say she also lost interest as well or found someone else that smooth-talked her better. But damn this one seemed like she'd have been amazing to meet.

BTW, no idea if either are DTF, prefer PPM, what their digits are, etc. The conversations never seemed to get that far (despite 30+ messages back-and-forth per user). Both had originally expressed a desire to wait until after COVID-19 with neither asking for any PBM nonsense. Guess they're both my own unsolved mysteries in this game, so maybe someone here will have better luck. Cheers!

[DickLongwood]

Reports of some duds at least from my experience. Advise you not to waste your time on these unless you are ok with what they offer (or don't offer):

Daddysgirl202.

https://www.seeking.com/member/43548...d-64aad4080f0f

Platonic only. Nothing physical.

Date Girl Sabrina.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fa9d...f-0f72b1073c5b

Sell pics and vids. I played along and she gave me her PayPal email address for payment. Pic on her paypal is not the one on the SA profile. So chances are whatever pic and video she sells is probably not of herself.

Annajes.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-5016498f9910

I texted with Annajes, but she didn't want to meet because of the pandemic. Says she lives with her parents, who are vulnerable.

Gave me her digits. Said hi and then ghosted.

Alice Grace 1.

https://www.seeking.com/member/25d37...d-237b81e962e4

Her profile is tuned off right now. 95% sure she's a scammer. Gave me her digits in the 1st message. I texted her couple weeks later testing her. I asked her where she lives and she in turned asked me where I live. I told her I live in Florida and she told me that she lives in FL as well in a place couple hours from where I am. Kept asking me to spend her my pics. I stopped responding. No time to waste.

An actual cat.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bc0b7...1-fee4abf7f919

Been chatting with her for a bit. Not getting anywhere. Haven't figured out what her M.O. is yet but I casually asked her what she did on a certain day. She replied that she was panhandling all day in the blistering heat. Well last time I checked weather in DMV has been very mild lately there was not a single day that would be considered hot. She's full of sh_t. She did look at my profile but never asked to see my private pics.

I texted with Annajes, but she didn't want to meet because of the pandemic. Says she lives with her parents, who are vulnerable.

[DWinthrop]

Sugarbear2052.

https://www.seeking.com/member/242b4...0-3f3ebf6a090d

I enjoyed Maddie this week. A word of caution, she turned 18 in Oct. So she's been illegally selling that snatch for a while.

Took a bit to connect, I initially messaged her a few weeks ago and she told me she wanted $1,200 for an intimate meet. I told her to get lost and hit me up when she's willing to be reasonable. A few weeks later she was horny and in need of money so she drove right to my FC in Alexandria.

She's a barely legal high school girl and looks it, I checked her I'd and she's been 18 for less than a month. Small boobs and a thin body, she looks her age which is a turn on for me YMMV. Good BBBJ with some deep throating and ball play. DATY on her fresh teen snatch. Once I was hard I pushed her back and entered her mish, she was pretty quiet and willing to take instruction and change positions as I directed. She never asked for a condom but did ask that I pull out as she isn't 100% in her birth control. I did and she quickly throated me for the finish.

If you like them young I highly recommend.

https://www.seeking.com/member/365fd...0-fd643a450418