Escort Reports

[OkWhatever]

You are not alone in how you feel. I've had a similar argument / discussion with many people including women. Monogamy is unnatural for men. Full stop. I would even say it's unnatural for women, but its harder for them to be non-monogamous for a variety of reasons (emotional, society, shaming, etc).

I'd say more than 50% of the time people agree with me (including women). Often times people don't know how to respond and look confused which to me implies. They know I'm right, but won't admit it. Occasionally, I'll get an idiot to says I'm wrong and have no feelings.

Anyway, if you want to stay married, but see this as a problem. Then you need to deal with it. Given what you have been doing for years, I doubt you will able to keep it to twice per year. I would approach it differently, perhaps find a non-escort on the side that knows your situation and is OK with it. Perhaps she is in an open relationship. I don't know, just thinking outside of the box a bit.

Anyway, good luck. No need to create stress and anxiety in your life because you like having sexual variety in your life.

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

[BlackHoleSun82]

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

Interesting perspective. I can't do this if I'm in a relationship. No matter how safe we are, this is extremely risky behavior and there are probably bugs out there we don't even know of yet like COVID.

[ShadowFox198]

I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.

Bro clearly you are on her side for some reason. First I did not record without permission. I have the messages to prove she said no at first when I asked. Then I told her I will find someone else. Then she said yes and up charged me 80. I said ok, she specifically said I can record. Also I did not just hold on the money just to run, I showed her I had the full amount. As soon as she got the money from me shit went south. She stopped & used a code word to make her friend come in & try to intimidate me to leave. This is why you don't give money upfront.

[ConGorilla]

I don't mind showing the cash when I get there so they know I'm good for it but I NEVER pay in full up front.

If they ***** about it ill offer up half to start and half on completion. Keeps them a little more honest with better service in my experience.

I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.

[Hcat113]

Seems she's been posting since March. Might be real, consistency with the tattoos she's had since the first ad she posted. Pics might be old or maybe not hers, who knows? Please let us know if you do see her. Body looks nice, hopefully the face is the same.

Sent face pic. Not bad. Cute! Likes to party! She said "hard" stuff. I passed.

[Cropsey]

https://providence.skipthegames.com/...o/427974013722

Seems legit. She sent verification pic 150 1/2. 180 hr.

Seems she's been posting since March. Might be real, consistency with the tattoos she's had since the first ad she posted. Pics might be old or maybe not hers, who knows? Please let us know if you do see her. Body looks nice, hopefully the face is the same.

[Hcat113]

https://providence.skipthegames.com/...o/427974013722

Seems legit. She sent verification pic 150 1/2. 180 hr.

[MrPlow57]

This is the exact reason I will not get married. I enjoy life and all the things that come with it. Am I selfish or am I just me.

My job which has me traveling 80 percent of the year US and over seas (Current Pandemic has me stuck at home). With that type of job I could never settle down, and raise a family or keep a LTR going. I have friends who are married and they cheat on their wives all the time some don't. The ones that do explain it to me as men have needs and men with money can play. They would never pick up a street walker, or a cheap trick, but at a strip club or night club game on. The non-cheaters / players seem happy and they have gone to strip clubs but they just are not into it. Maybe some guys are wired differently who knows. I am in my mid forties and have been doing this since college days. I look normal, blend in with the crowd, but I just love all women.

This hobby good or bad has only one cure going broke.

Never judge a book by their cover. I look normal as well and also blend in with the crowd. I'm sure a lot of guys reading this look normal as well and you would never guess they see escorts on the side. Also, for what its worth. You said you have friends that never cheat on their girls. I'm not calling them liars but I will just say that I've been doing this 10+ years and not one soul knows about what I do. Its one thing if you're single and you tell a bunch of your guy friends, but if you are in a relationship and you tell your friends you fuck around with escorts then you're just dumb and sloppy and asking to get caught.

[Guyver73]

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.

This is the exact reason I will not get married. I enjoy life and all the things that come with it. Am I selfish or am I just me.

My job which has me traveling 80 percent of the year US and over seas (Current Pandemic has me stuck at home). With that type of job I could never settle down, and raise a family or keep a LTR going. I have friends who are married and they cheat on their wives all the time some don't. The ones that do explain it to me as men have needs and men with money can play. They would never pick up a street walker, or a cheap trick, but at a strip club or night club game on. The non-cheaters / players seem happy and they have gone to strip clubs but they just are not into it. Maybe some guys are wired differently who knows. I am in my mid forties and have been doing this since college days. I look normal, blend in with the crowd, but I just love all women.


This hobby good or bad has only one cure going broke.

[MrPlow57]

Good luck with tha. Like any addiction you either feed it or cold turkey. Having a taste now and then is never enough. If it wasn't for my dick I would be driving Lamborghinis.

Honestly it's not even satisfying as of late. It's not fun like it used to be, it feels like I'm merely just scratching an itch. Getting my hit. I don't want it, I NEED it. That kind of thing. I think a big part of it is probably the quality of the girls as well. I'll be the first to admit I'm definitely picky and have high standards, and the price range I've been playing at is very difficult to find good looking girls. I feel better mentally just knowing that while it'll only be twice a year, At least the two girls will be top shelf quality. Ushering in a new era I suppose, quality over quantity.

And as for the feeding the addiction comment, yes I agree it'll be difficult. But I do believe discipline is like a muscle, the more you train it the stronger it becomes.

[New One]

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.

So I'm choosing option 3. If I'm getting older and I want to keep this hobby, and also remain married, there has to be rules. I have to be smart about it. How I have been approaching escorts has always been kind of the same- once I have enough money saved (like 150 or so) I let it overtake me and its all I can think about- I'm a junkie getting a fix and its all I can think about. And then it happens. And there's a cooling off period where I'm ok. Until the urges start over again. It's nice to have a little secret and a stress reliever, but its obvious this is crossing a line and is doing more harm than good (financially, psychologically, etc).

The solution: I will now only see an escort twice a year. Once in November (birthday month) and the other time in June. I think this is a healthier option because I don't cut it completely from my life. I still have these two days to look forward to, and the experience will feel more rewarding (I assume) once complete. I think what I will do is create a new secret bank account and will direct deposit a small percentage of my paycheck to this account every week, very small amount where it won't be noticeable to the wife. (like 3 to 5% of paycheck). I'll be saving money overall because I won't be constantly seeing different girls every few weeks / months. It would just be twice a year.

An added bonus to doing this: I can now see top tier girls. No more $150 girls. No more big bellies or stretch marks or ghetto girls. And since its only twice a year I can make it a special occasion- maybe drive to NY or something if there's a top tier girl that I can now afford.

Good luck with tha. Like any addiction you either feed it or cold turkey. Having a taste now and then is never enough. If it wasn't for my dick I would be driving Lamborghinis.

[MrPlow57]

Hey so this hoe sometimes posts in the Rhode Island area too so here was my encounter.

So I set everything up with her. Went in and I had the donation in my pocket, she started talking to me but I just told her to get naked and on her knees. She asked for donation, I showed her & that's how I fucked up. I was gonna put it back on my pockets but I was naked already. Got distracted & put it on the table. She started giving me head & I was recording everything. Then she stopped & said I can't blah blah. I told her yes you can come on. She went to use the bathroom & when I looked the donation was gone. She said some code words & woman comes by & asks if everything is OK I said yes. Then she is still in the bathroom I said let's go. A dude comes out, he tried to scare me but I was not with it he was a pussy. I pushed him out the way & went to the back room with her & the friend counting my money. I said give me some back she said no her uncle is a cop blah blah. I snatched a 20 and she started bugging saying I recorded her without her permission. I said first off hoe I got everything on tape so your lying. Told her I will show everyone the video & snitch on the forum. She texted me back saying she had my license plate & will tell police. Ya right hoe.

https://brockton.skipthegames.com/fe...n/778953374524

I don't think you come out squeaky clean based on all this. Give the girl the donation before the services. Always. What kind of guy holds off on the donation until after the session is done? That just instills doubt in the girl. If I were her I would think you would just cum and run off with the money. Also who records someone without permission? Yeah I get it she's just a hooker blah blah but that's still really shady. Just cause she's a working girl doesn't mean you can do shit without her consent.

[MrPlow57]

I have been more of a strip club person because it just works out better with my schedule and I have found plenty that are just plain horny! Some are wet as can be and make a mess and others just can't seem to slurp up enough!

I was a strip club guy before I graduated to escorts. I could never fuck in a strip club now. When I see a girl I want to relax and enjoy the moment, not feel rushed or be nervous about being caught. Same reason why I'd never do a car date. Different strokes for different folks though.

[MrPlow57]

I'm working thought what will probably be option 4 after this BS is over. Occasional AMP HJ visits, maybe monthly, and once or twice a year FS with safe, clean escorts or AMP girls. I have been having similar thought and your commentary helped. Thanks.

Best of luck to you. It's definitely a tricky situation once you're married and the flood of guilt starts to wash over you. The way I rationalize it though it's not like I'm having an affair- there is no love or emotional aspect to it. It's not like I'm meeting a girl at a bar and we fall in love and my marriage is ruined. I do it for fun, it's sexual of course but there's zero romantic feelings.

As long as you're safe and don't let it seep into your personal life then what is it really besides a harmless dirty little secret.

[JoeMuckInFutch]

For context I am mid 30's and have been in this hobby since I was about 21. Recently got married and I struggle with the "guilt" of doing this on the side. I question whether I'm a bad person or if I should burn in hell etc etc. Maybe some of you that are married feel the same way, or maybe some of you that are married hate your wife and couldn't care less about fuckin escorts on the side? Either way I will say my wife is a good egg. I don't hate her and I want to continue being married to her. It's just that when it comes to sex I don't like just being with one person. The idea of remaining monogamous and only having sex with one person for the rest of my life kind of overwhelms me- I feel like I'm trapped and I start to panic. I guess you can relate it to someone asking an alcoholic to stop drinking- their immediate thought would be they couldn't picture going on without alcohol in their life. That's how I feel about sex. Throughout the years though its obvious that what I do is now a bit like an addiction instead of a hobby. I let it take the reigns and its kind of spiraling of out of control.

So with this there are three options- 1. Stop completely 2. Let the addiction take control and watch my money / sanity disappear 3. Try to shape it into something I can control.
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I'm working thought what will probably be option 4 after this BS is over. Occasional AMP HJ visits, maybe monthly, and once or twice a year FS with safe, clean escorts or AMP girls. I have been having similar thought and your commentary helped. Thanks.