Safe Sex Information and Advice

**Marko Ramius** · 04-13-20 22:00

Originally Posted by VovaUkrainian [View Original Post]

I've been wondering since the day I've made my account of what exactly goes through the mind of a BBFS monger....

Funny, I've never thought of "BBFS monger" as a category or thought of myself as one. I don't exactly go looking for it and a girl that either openly advertises BBFS or is well-known to provide it is unlikely to get on my TDL.

I'm pretty picky about which girls I see, and when I find one I like and am comfortable with I tend to repeat, typically seeing them 3-4 times a month. In my experience if you are having repeat sessions with a girl BBFS will eventually be offered, either for a modest up-sell or just put out there gratis.

**SmoothNSimple** · 04-13-20 18:03

I've been at this game just under 4 years and it was a progression for me. I didn't even think BBBJ was an option, when I first started. After seeing a couple providers, I began reading forums and realized what I was missing out on. BBBJ became my standard, and DATY soon followed. I really wanted BBFS, but didn't try it for the first year, because I was worried about the risks. I finally worked up the courage and have been seeking it ever since. It's not a decision maker for me, though; sometimes I'll pick a girl solely on her looks and she doesn't offer it. In those situations, I know ahead of time what I'm getting into, so I'm not expecting it. That being said, my primary goal is BBFSCIP, which I don't think feels anything like CFS. Even more so from a mental perspective; for me, there's nothing more exciting / empowering / satisfying than dumping a load in a girl.

Originally Posted by VovaUkrainian [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

I've been wondering since the day I've made my account of what exactly goes through the mind of a BBFS monger. I've personally only done it twice so far and I did get seen afterwards extensively from my provider to rule out anything. When I come here it's fun to see you guys extensively talking about it and finding all providers who do it and I have to say that is fun to watch all of this. I had to say that having sex with a rubber has felt pretty much the same to me or at least with a minimal difference than uncovered sex. Time for coming has been pretty much the same and depending on how wet the provider is, it's sometimes blurry to realize that I'm wearing a rubber. Having a peace of mind is also great. This is getting long. What exactly goes through the mindset of many of you people? FYI. I got a degree in CSE and a minor in psychology so understanding many of these things are exhilarating for me. Thank you.

**VovaUkrainian** · 04-13-20 13:10

Hey guys,

I've been wondering since the day I've made my account of what exactly goes through the mind of a BBFS monger. I've personally only done it twice so far and I did get seen afterwards extensively from my provider to rule out anything. When I come here it's fun to see you guys extensively talking about it and finding all providers who do it and I have to say that is fun to watch all of this. I had to say that having sex with a rubber has felt pretty much the same to me or at least with a minimal difference than uncovered sex. Time for coming has been pretty much the same and depending on how wet the provider is, it's sometimes blurry to realize that I'm wearing a rubber. Having a peace of mind is also great. This is getting long. What exactly goes through the mindset of many of you people? FYI. I got a degree in CSE and a minor in psychology so understanding many of these things are exhilarating for me. Thank you.

**MongerSeeker** · 03-21-20 13:00

Just search on PrEP. My doctor told me that PrEP has roughly a 99% success rate. The CDC says that there is a 74% success rate. BBJ's are fairly safe, but I think engaging in BBFS or BB anal is foolish.

(https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/prep.html).

Originally Posted by Ablas [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

Recently decided to go BB with a few providers, and am now regretting it. Luckily, I am still within 24 h period and am considering going on PEP to reduce risk of HIV. However, it seems there is no real study on the effectiveness of PEP for HIV prevention. Does anyone know any good numbers around PEP's effectiveness with sources? The reason I ask is it'll cost me a bit over a thousand, and I've found very little proof that it actually does anything.

Secondly, while on PEP, is it a hall-pass to indulge in risky behavior while on the regimen?

Thanks.

**MongerSeeker** · 03-21-20 12:50

I am holding off until more is known or at least virus is more contained.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Effectively, this virus is also sexually transmitted. Given that most people don't know they carry it and are passing it as a result, what's a monger or SD to do in these trying times? I am effectively getting out of the sugar bowl for the moment, but am interested to hear other's approaches. FFA.

**Ablas** · 03-16-20 22:52

Hey guys,

Recently decided to go BB with a few providers, and am now regretting it. Luckily, I am still within 24 h period and am considering going on PEP to reduce risk of HIV. However, it seems there is no real study on the effectiveness of PEP for HIV prevention. Does anyone know any good numbers around PEP's effectiveness with sources? The reason I ask is it'll cost me a bit over a thousand, and I've found very little proof that it actually does anything.

Secondly, while on PEP, is it a hall-pass to indulge in risky behavior while on the regimen?

Thanks.

**FarFarAway** · 03-15-20 11:07

Effectively, this virus is also sexually transmitted. Given that most people don't know they carry it and are passing it as a result, what's a monger or SD to do in these trying times? I am effectively getting out of the sugar bowl for the moment, but am interested to hear other's approaches. FFA.

**TopGun9** · 03-11-20 19:12

Would you fuck a girl knowing she has HSV2?

Even if she's not having outbreak, and you use a condom?

Seems like this thing is transmitted with skin to skin contact.

Very tempting but damn, maybe best to find another sugar baby pussy.

**FourGears** · 03-10-20 08:34

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**Mister Fox** · 03-01-20 15:26

Originally Posted by NotCrazy1 [View Original Post]

Firstly thank you all for your contributions here. This is not a review, but a big call for help. I am worried and terrified as I write this. I don't even know if this is where I should post this but this is the only place I knew of the provider from. I did a big mistake and I have understood my mistake and am sure to never repeat again. I went bb with one of the providers reviewed here about a week back (not mentioning who) and today morning, I have started getting blisters down there and its itching as well. The itching started 2 days back, but it does not hurt yet. I have no clue what I have done to myself. I am getting worried as to whether this is herpes?

I am not even sure if this is where I should be asking this, but I am turning to this board, as you all have helped me when I needed you. I have a different login that I use here for my reviews. Looking for any kind of help, if any of you have had similar kind of experience. I am hoping at least one of you can help me.

Please pm me with whatever you have. Not sure how to move ahead, I would not like to say this to my doctor, as I am ashamed. Is there another way to get tested? And also has anybody else gone through what I am going through? Please do pm me with any kind of help.

You already got some good advice from others on this matter and yes it does sound like herpes. I also want to point out the fact that you could've gotten that from another provider that you didn't go bb with. With herpes, it doesn't matter if you used protection or not. That's why a lot of times, especially during car dates, I keep my boxers on.

**RoddyJohnson** · 03-01-20 15:02

Originally Posted by NotCrazy1 [View Original Post]

Firstly thank you all for your contributions here. This is not a review, but a big call for help. I am worried and terrified as I write this. I don't even know if this is where I should post this but this is the only place I knew of the provider from. I did a big mistake and I have understood my mistake and am sure to never repeat again. I went bb with one of the providers reviewed here about a week back (not mentioning who) and today morning, I have started getting blisters down there and its itching as well. The itching started 2 days back, but it does not hurt yet. I have no clue what I have done to myself. I am getting worried as to whether this is herpes?

I am not even sure if this is where I should be asking this, but I am turning to this board, as you all have helped me when I needed you. I have a different login that I use here for my reviews. Looking for any kind of help, if any of you have had similar kind of experience. I am hoping at least one of you can help me.

Please pm me with whatever you have. Not sure how to move ahead, I would not like to say this to my doctor, as I am ashamed. Is there another way to get tested? And also has anybody else gone through what I am going through? Please do pm me with any kind of help.

It sounds like an initial outbreak of herpes. I'd get it checked put but not much you can do about herpes except ride it out. The first outbreak is the worst with subsequent outbreaks being much milder. If you have a spouse you can always tell her that at least 1 in 5 Carrie's herpes. The truth is that while unlikely, you could've been carrying the virus for a long time before the symptoms popped up.

**DeboDee23** · 03-01-20 13:57

Originally Posted by NotCrazy1 [View Original Post]

Firstly thank you all for your contributions here. This is not a review, but a big call for help. I am worried and terrified as I write this. I don't even know if this is where I should post this but this is the only place I knew of the provider from. I did a big mistake and I have understood my mistake and am sure to never repeat again. I went bb with one of the providers reviewed here about a week back (not mentioning who) and today morning, I have started getting blisters down there and its itching as well. The itching started 2 days back, but it does not hurt yet. I have no clue what I have done to myself. I am getting worried as to whether this is herpes?

I am not even sure if this is where I should be asking this, but I am turning to this board, as you all have helped me when I needed you. I have a different login that I use here for my reviews. Looking for any kind of help, if any of you have had similar kind of experience. I am hoping at least one of you can help me.

Please pm me with whatever you have. Not sure how to move ahead, I would not like to say this to my doctor, as I am ashamed. Is there another way to get tested? And also has anybody else gone through what I am going through? Please do pm me with any kind of help.

Never go raw with any of them.

**DeboDee23** · 03-01-20 13:55

Originally Posted by RoddyJohnson [View Original Post]

I'm a nurse, can you attach a picture?

Don't attach a pic but go get check out and if you do have something then you should let us know the provider. But you are to blame also.

**TeeTime69** · 03-01-20 13:37

Originally Posted by RoddyJohnson [View Original Post]

I'm a nurse, can you attach a picture?

Confidential testing, doctor consulting by phone.

Stdcheck.com $200.

**RoddyJohnson** · 03-01-20 13:15

Originally Posted by NotCrazy1 [View Original Post]

Firstly thank you all for your contributions here. This is not a review, but a big call for help. I am worried and terrified as I write this. I don't even know if this is where I should post this but this is the only place I knew of the provider from. I did a big mistake and I have understood my mistake and am sure to never repeat again. I went bb with one of the providers reviewed here about a week back (not mentioning who) and today morning, I have started getting blisters down there and its itching as well. The itching started 2 days back, but it does not hurt yet. I have no clue what I have done to myself. I am getting worried as to whether this is herpes?

I am not even sure if this is where I should be asking this, but I am turning to this board, as you all have helped me when I needed you. I have a different login that I use here for my reviews. Looking for any kind of help, if any of you have had similar kind of experience. I am hoping at least one of you can help me.

Please pm me with whatever you have. Not sure how to move ahead, I would not like to say this to my doctor, as I am ashamed. Is there another way to get tested? And also has anybody else gone through what I am going through? Please do pm me with any kind of help.

I'm a nurse, can you attach a picture?