Seeking Arrangements

**HounDog3** · 04-01-20 00:31

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

That site is a f**king joke. I was banned again!

I'm almost sure it was because of one of the women I was chatting with.

Sexy40.

She's in NH and looks like a pro. She started quoting dollar amounts in the message before we got into anything specific.

I'm never going on that site again. Total fraud and scam.

You can try sending a message to support. Kiss their ass and ask to be reinstated. Point out you didn't violate terms of service, the woman propositioned you, you didn't reply and ignored the message. You didn't respond did you? Otherwise you've got no chance. I believe SA is located in the UK. They could be slow in answering depending on the time difference and situation over there. Last I read the entire UK was on lock down.

**EvilTmp** · 03-31-20 19:01

Wow. I'm guessing this girl grew up in a sea of thirst and thinks men are there for her pleasure and utility.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0b4a0...9-7c23a3074625

She's looking for guidance in all aspect of life, to use you to network for her benefit, an allowance, and travel!! Platonic! Couldn't care less about what she brings to the table. She's not there to make your life better but boy does she expect a lot out of the poor sap who wants to spend time with her. The sense of entitlement and the way these girls think is just unreal.

**OkWhatever** · 03-31-20 18:22

That site is a f**king joke. I was banned again!

I'm almost sure it was because of one of the women I was chatting with.

Sexy40.

She's in NH and looks like a pro. She started quoting dollar amounts in the message before we got into anything specific.

I'm never going on that site again. Total fraud and scam.

**JohnTies** · 03-31-20 14:49

Why do I get so many likes and messages from out of county and long distance girls on Seeking?

It is annoying, I do not live in Venezuela, Colombia, or Oklahoma, etc.

I assume it is all scammers.

Also been getting all kinds of like and messages from girls, women I have not even looked at or would be interested in.

If I do not look at your profile, like, or message them it is annoying. Lots of blocking.

**WongMichael** · 03-30-20 17:44

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

I was banned but re-joined. They had my previous e-mail and IP in their system. I created a new burner e-mail and number. Also using Opera as there is a built-in VPN.

I'm going to be really careful with what I say in messages this time around.

Stay safe everyone. Crazy times.

Sometimes some a-hole reports you for no reason at all and that's all it takes.

**OkWhatever** · 03-30-20 13:48

I don't even remember. I was always careful in the past. You can get banned for something they right and you respond to.

Always try and get them to text / talk off the site.

Originally Posted by BigIrishBalls [View Original Post]

What exactly did you write that got you banned? Are the private messages monitored.

**HounDog3** · 03-30-20 11:47

Originally Posted by BigIrishBalls [View Original Post]

What exactly did you write that got you banned? Are the private messages monitored.

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Based on an abundance of reports, messages are monitored via an automated process (scanned by software) and using certain trigger words or phrases is almost certain to get you banned, such as incall, outcall, hosting, pay per meeting, ppm, references to sexual acts (BBBJ, FS, etc), amounts of money, just to cite a few examples.

To late to edit the post, should have added, you want to take the discussion off SA to text or private messaging platform such as Kik, Google Voice, or others, as quickly as possible to have direct conversation and alleviate concerns about getting banned on SA for fear of triggering the scanner with the wrong words.

**HounDog3** · 03-29-20 18:18

Originally Posted by BigIrishBalls [View Original Post]

What exactly did you write that got you banned? Are the private messages monitored.

Based on an abundance of reports, messages are monitored via an automated process (scanned by software) and using certain trigger words or phrases is almost certain to get you banned, such as incall, outcall, hosting, pay per meeting, ppm, references to sexual acts (BBBJ, FS, etc), amounts of money, just to cite a few examples.

**BigIrishBalls** · 03-29-20 14:23

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

I was banned but re-joined. They had my previous e-mail and IP in their system. I created a new burner e-mail and number. Also using Opera as there is a built-in VPN.

I'm going to be really careful with what I say in messages this time around.

Stay safe everyone. Crazy times.

What exactly did you write that got you banned? Are the private messages monitored.

**GlennDoyle91** · 03-29-20 09:49

https://www.seeking.com/member/18546...3-4c0fc5605d48

Anyone tried this out yet?

**LaterGreen** · 03-28-20 22:49

Originally Posted by Rkol7 [View Original Post]

I just want a reliable way to pay and not be identified by the SB.

Its 2020 people can use Bitcoin especially 20 something girls.

**OkWhatever** · 03-28-20 13:46

I was banned but re-joined. They had my previous e-mail and IP in their system. I created a new burner e-mail and number. Also using Opera as there is a built-in VPN.

I'm going to be really careful with what I say in messages this time around.

Stay safe everyone. Crazy times.

**Bran001** · 03-27-20 13:53

Originally Posted by Rkol7 [View Original Post]

Thanks for responding to the question. It's not that I thought Cashapp wasn't anonymous; it's just that it was refunding all my payments to my SB. Well, I'm now trying venmo and hopefully that works for a while.

Why are they doing that? Maybe it's other transactions she's done with others that tipped them off that she's violating terms of service?

**Hobbyist420** · 03-26-20 11:42

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Yes -- in person encounters certainly are problematic right now. Some people will think with their sex organs and not their brains. Many of the women are social distancing; some, especially those who need the money badly, apparently will still meet.

I'm so tempted to see a regular or 2, but so far my brain is winning the argument and I'm distancing.

YES. Many old faces back online hoping that men will now finally pay for photos and videos. NO!

Yeah, this whole CV thing is just going to provide more opportunity for the cashapp / venmo scammers.

Which, in turn, will mean less men re-upping memberships.

SA even offering 33% off for this month LOL.

This virus might kill off these sites if it continues for a long time.