"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**HollowGuy** · 03-17-20 08:00

Originally Posted by StayActive [View Original Post]

Dear fellow mongers!

For those with regular SBs are you still actively seeing them?

For those actively seeking, are you still actively meeting anyone?

I wonder if some of these women will start accepting.

Reasonable prices vs being gps.

There should be a vast increase in the SB population now that this virus is shutting everything down. Hooters and college girls are already discussing joining the site to get bills paid.

This is the perfect time help welcome and teach these girls the right way and balance the rates.

**Member #6704** · 03-17-20 05:39

Dear fellow mongers!

For those with regular SBs are you still actively seeing them?

For those actively seeking, are you still actively meeting anyone?

I wonder if some of these women will start accepting.

Reasonable prices vs being gps.

**DArrow404** · 03-17-20 00:11

https://www.seeking.com/member/9c380...e-7c98186a15e9

https://www.instagram.com/_sydneyraines/

I don't have any intel on her except that I know she is real (unless someone created a fake profile). She's friends with one of the bartenders at the sportsbar I hang out at and have seen her in person several times. Her profile says she works night shifts at a hospital. That hospital's name is Tattletales or at least it used to be.

I've thought about contacting her but I know it's going to be GPS big time. Her IG is full of her taking trips to nice places so I don't think she is desperate for cash. She probably already has a daddy or some good regulars at the club. Though if the govt shuts down restaurants, clubs etc who knows.

If someone is able to score on that please share your glory here.

**HollowGuy** · 03-16-20 19:16

So the following SB said someone tried to kidnap her Sat at a restaurant. She said she was out dining with some friends when a guy approached her about trying to see her when she was in ATL. She told the person she was in an arrangement where he offered her 3 k for a date. She indicated she turned him down. He proceeded to get really loud and embarrassing so they stepped outside to talk. The guy then trying to drag her intomamford mustang with two asian men waiting. She yelled and scream but two guys walking out of the restaurant helped her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/875bf...-8f1f1df26096.

I'm curious anyone here about this?

**BearsBuddy** · 03-15-20 08:55

I started chatting with this via text. Sounded good until the old "I need a deposit" came up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/82915...a-508b9a491be2

**Jims2321** · 03-12-20 18:07

Originally Posted by Shyzai [View Original Post]

$15/ week? Hahahaha. I should have tried this with the picture sellers before I deactivated my account, but I was too timid. But aren't you afraid they might report you?

Well that negotiating was via text. I was very polite and only responded to her request about compensation for photos and chatting.

**WillDuff** · 03-12-20 18:01

Originally Posted by SugarDaddio [View Original Post]

Great review WD. I checked out her profile and was going to wait for all the traffic you predicted to calm down before I contact her. Lo and behold she messaged me because I had looked at her profile. This may be my lucky day. I will keep you informed on my progress with her.

SD.

Look forward to hearing your encounter. I predict a fun time ahead for you.

**SugarDaddio** · 03-12-20 17:26

Originally Posted by WillDuff [View Original Post]

Had a great visit with Rachael this past Monday evening. 41-year-old 140 lbs very nice perky C cups, never guess she has a 20 something daughter (and brand-new grand baby). Very easy set up at the home she rents in Carrollton with roommate (she tells roommate she needs the house which is nice). Inside home is very nice and clean, landlord really needs to some exterior work, however. She doesn't like driving the Atlanta scene so you will need to either get a room Douglasville to Newnan (live nearby) or go to her. Got there just before 6 PM (she has a M-F 9 to 5 about 15 minutes away and said weekends typically are full of family and things so I gather she is evenings only weekdays.

Met her at the door after petting her friendly outside puppy. She was freshly showered, hair somewhat wet as she had advised me on my way and wearing a little "sexy something" I had requested. She got us each a beer, sat at the bottom of the bed and got to know each other about 15 minutes. Finishing up the 1st beer I told her now I wanted to see under the robe and get a 5-minute BBBJ warm up. Told her after the warmup I wanted to watch her play alone a few minutes. After all, that's what attracted me to her ad in the first place. She complied willingly and proceeded with an absolute stellar BBBJ. Just the kind I love. Passionate, enthusiastic not once coming up for air and really loving it. Ranks right up there if not above Heather, Leah, Missy and like.

Reluctantly I moved her greedy mouth off Junior and said now I want to watch "the show that got me here in the first place". I continued downing half the second beer for several minutes holding junior with my spare hand as she performed an erotic masturbation scene with her favorite vibrating dildo to climax (my demand once again, very submissive if you haven't figured that out yet). Next, I set my beer down and started some lengthy DATY (that was what she said she enjoyed in your earliest exchange). After a few more minutes and bringing back the toy, she enjoyer her second release and made the sweet comment of "I should be paying you". Love to here that anytime.

I climbed on top entered her dripping pussy and for the next hour plus switched between that velvet mouth and several standard positions.

Overall, a two-pop night CIP, CIM and as always YMMV. Great experience for me, even considering my 72-mile drive from North Atlanta. $300 all in.

She asked me to pass along the great time to my buddies and provided me this photo she took yesterday to share here. You are welcome to PM me for her number and tell her you saw the post by Will. I am quite sure after this review her SA messages are going to go crazy 75,100 or more hits. Final comment. She "prefers" 40+ year old, white, and she is just limited ass play, not a real Greek Goddess if that is a must for you.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7208f...3-223f13980e5c

Great review WD. I checked out her profile and was going to wait for all the traffic you predicted to calm down before I contact her. Lo and behold she messaged me because I had looked at her profile. This may be my lucky day. I will keep you informed on my progress with her.

SD.

**NoStringsGA** · 03-12-20 14:27

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

Be willing to ask for a confirmation pic before meeting, unless its a very convenient meeting place that won't be a huge waste of time if she looks different than her pics. Ask for a pic of her holding up her pinky, touching her nose, 2 fingers etc etc. I've been kittenfished so many times over the years (on regular dating sites) that doing this has started saving me a lot of wasted time and embarrassment. For me, refusal to provide a confirmation pic means no meet.

Ask their name & snap / kik / ph# when you are ready to communicate off SA. Use this info to search for them on FB and other places. You can often confirm their identity before meeting.

Don't talk $ on SA. Mentioning pay per meet can get your account suspended, better safe than sorry. Talk $ off SA.

When talking about $, I mention a range that worked in past arrangements, and ask their thoughts about it. I do this before meeting, to avoid wasting time. Their response will tell you if it's something to pursue. Many women, especially those new to this or non-pro's, are uncomfortable talking $ and will avoid negotiating. If they make a counter offer, consider how much you want to raise your amount. Don't feel like you have to pay more than you're willing. There's a constant stream of new options.

Be fucking polite. Act mature. Treat them with respect when communicating. This more than anything will get you far. Almost all of them will talk about how guys their age are assholes, and older men are nicer. Don't be the dick exception to the rule. Don't act entitled, bug the shit out of them, make crude requests or send dick pics. Many of them will be playing you, even attempting to scam you. Don't take it personally, just move on when you realize it. They're usually broke young women who are in a shitty spot. Which leads to:

Never send large amounts of $ before meeting. Never, never, never. I've learned this the hard way, as have others here. If you want to send a small gift, or thank you for pics etc, for me that's a cost of doing business risk I'll take. But I only send unsolicited gifts in small amounts. The minute they start asking for gas money, phone $, baby food etc. (before meeting) I move on. 90% of the time those women never intend to meet.

**WillDuff** · 03-12-20 10:51

Had a great visit with Rachael this past Monday evening. 41-year-old 140 lbs very nice perky C cups, never guess she has a 20 something daughter (and brand-new grand baby). Very easy set up at the home she rents in Carrollton with roommate (she tells roommate she needs the house which is nice). Inside home is very nice and clean, landlord really needs to some exterior work, however. She doesn't like driving the Atlanta scene so you will need to either get a room Douglasville to Newnan (live nearby) or go to her. Got there just before 6 PM (she has a M-F 9 to 5 about 15 minutes away and said weekends typically are full of family and things so I gather she is evenings only weekdays.

Met her at the door after petting her friendly outside puppy. She was freshly showered, hair somewhat wet as she had advised me on my way and wearing a little "sexy something" I had requested. She got us each a beer, sat at the bottom of the bed and got to know each other about 15 minutes. Finishing up the 1st beer I told her now I wanted to see under the robe and get a 5-minute BBBJ warm up. Told her after the warmup I wanted to watch her play alone a few minutes. After all, that's what attracted me to her ad in the first place. She complied willingly and proceeded with an absolute stellar BBBJ. Just the kind I love. Passionate, enthusiastic not once coming up for air and really loving it. Ranks right up there if not above Heather, Leah, Missy and like.

Reluctantly I moved her greedy mouth off Junior and said now I want to watch "the show that got me here in the first place". I continued downing half the second beer for several minutes holding junior with my spare hand as she performed an erotic masturbation scene with her favorite vibrating dildo to climax (my demand once again, very submissive if you haven't figured that out yet). Next, I set my beer down and started some lengthy DATY (that was what she said she enjoyed in your earliest exchange). After a few more minutes and bringing back the toy, she enjoyer her second release and made the sweet comment of "I should be paying you". Love to here that anytime.

I climbed on top entered her dripping pussy and for the next hour plus switched between that velvet mouth and several standard positions.

Overall, a two-pop night CIP, CIM and as always YMMV. Great experience for me, even considering my 72-mile drive from North Atlanta. $300 all in.

She asked me to pass along the great time to my buddies and provided me this photo she took yesterday to share here. You are welcome to PM me for her number and tell her you saw the post by Will. I am quite sure after this review her SA messages are going to go crazy 75,100 or more hits. Final comment. She "prefers" 40+ year old, white, and she is just limited ass play, not a real Greek Goddess if that is a must for you.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7208f...3-223f13980e5c

**Hal1957** · 03-12-20 08:28

I have 2 SA accounts, one that I use for fishing and one that I use to reel them in. I've had a regular SB for the last year and have only used the "reeling" account a couple of times in the last year, I took the photo down and reduced the message on the profile to one sentence that says I'm not currently in the market. About 2 weeks ago I started getting views and favorites from SBs in my area, then yesterday I got an invitation to renew for 30 percent off. Anyone else have this experience? I'm thinking they're fishing for SDs with multiple accounts.

**Shyzai** · 03-12-20 05:06

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

This one is just a picture seller and online only prospect. When we moved to texting, she asked what I would pay for just pictures / online chatting. Told her $15/ wk. She immediately wanted to know how to up that amount. So I told her what my expectations were, and she got attitude. We will see if she changes her mind, when the bills for school and living away from home hit her.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...7-3b69967cb37f

Jim.

$15/ week? Hahahaha. I should have tried this with the picture sellers before I deactivated my account, but I was too timid. But aren't you afraid they might report you?

**Darmour88** · 03-12-20 04:11

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

My guess would be creeping LOL.

**The Bobster** · 03-11-20 21:35

Good questions. Here is what I recommend, and it has worked quote well for me. 1) do not be demanding with what you expect, it's all about compromise. The one thing she will want above all is to feel safe and secure. So if you go off the rails and demand BB or fulfillment of some obscure kink, then all bets are off, 2) be willing to meet in public first, Starbucks is ideal if you can find a place to make small talk without those around you listening in, 3) be respectful. Nothing kills the deal quicker than an overall lack of respect. Pay for everything, open doors, do what you have to do. Regarding hosting, the large majority cannot, so you will have to be willing to spring for a hotel or a car date. I have a very large van that serves our purposes quite well, and it adds an element of risk to the whole thing. Regarding negotiation, I make a preliminary offer before meeting, and then finalize the deal when you meet face to face. Be sure to set expectations then to make sure there are no surprises.

In closing, I have made quite a few really great connections, mainly from students at a large university. And to be honest, I have a few experiences I would rather forget. Regardless, the positives have definitely outweighed the negatives. And I qualify for AARP, so go figure. Relax, be chill, and enjoy your time. Life is way too short.

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

**Aafakljgadkg** · 03-11-20 10:59

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

It's all a part of her act. She has been on Seeking for months, and think this is her second profile, so probably longer. If your freaking out / scared, you don't leave your profile active, you delete it.

Nobody would expect your personal info to be posted on a forum and get creep on by bunch of horny dudes though. Wonder if OP sold us out when he talked to her.