"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Darmour88** · 03-12-20 04:11

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

My guess would be creeping LOL.

**The Bobster** · 03-11-20 21:35

Good questions. Here is what I recommend, and it has worked quote well for me. 1) do not be demanding with what you expect, it's all about compromise. The one thing she will want above all is to feel safe and secure. So if you go off the rails and demand BB or fulfillment of some obscure kink, then all bets are off, 2) be willing to meet in public first, Starbucks is ideal if you can find a place to make small talk without those around you listening in, 3) be respectful. Nothing kills the deal quicker than an overall lack of respect. Pay for everything, open doors, do what you have to do. Regarding hosting, the large majority cannot, so you will have to be willing to spring for a hotel or a car date. I have a very large van that serves our purposes quite well, and it adds an element of risk to the whole thing. Regarding negotiation, I make a preliminary offer before meeting, and then finalize the deal when you meet face to face. Be sure to set expectations then to make sure there are no surprises.

In closing, I have made quite a few really great connections, mainly from students at a large university. And to be honest, I have a few experiences I would rather forget. Regardless, the positives have definitely outweighed the negatives. And I qualify for AARP, so go figure. Relax, be chill, and enjoy your time. Life is way too short.

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

**Aafakljgadkg** · 03-11-20 10:59

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

It's all a part of her act. She has been on Seeking for months, and think this is her second profile, so probably longer. If your freaking out / scared, you don't leave your profile active, you delete it.

Nobody would expect your personal info to be posted on a forum and get creep on by bunch of horny dudes though. Wonder if OP sold us out when he talked to her.

**PeteAppleSeed** · 03-11-20 09:39

Saw her a few times about a year ago before SA got messed up. $$. 50 DATY, LFK, BBBJ, BBFS, no CIP nice convo beautiful face and body (back then) she keeps texting me after a while but I got fed up with SA girls.

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Have anyone seen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/65781...e-311b882bfd48

I'm looking some extra intel, before making the arrangement.

**Jims2321** · 03-11-20 09:05

This one is just a picture seller and online only prospect. When we moved to texting, she asked what I would pay for just pictures / online chatting. Told her $15/ wk. She immediately wanted to know how to up that amount. So I told her what my expectations were, and she got attitude. We will see if she changes her mind, when the bills for school and living away from home hit her.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/arc...7-3b69967cb37f

Jim.

**Jims2321** · 03-10-20 23:39

Originally Posted by Aafakljgadkg [View Original Post]

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

It's all a part of her act. She has been on Seeking for months, and think this is her second profile, so probably longer. If your freaking out / scared, you don't leave your profile active, you delete it.

**Aafakljgadkg** · 03-10-20 18:54

I need some beginner advises on how to stay safe.

What do you guys ask and check before going forth with the arrangement meeting place.

Negotiate?

If they host, do you ask if they have roommates? Etc.

**Legeran** · 03-10-20 18:05

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3c90...2-4974edb14e8a

She wanted to go to kik immediately. Okay, fine, not that big a deal. On there, she almost immediately gives me a price menu. That's a flag. A large part of the menu involves pics, but includes $100 meetups for 2 hours. Maybe.

She wants to send me pics tonight. I tell her that I don't do pay apps.

"I've almost been kidnapped way too many times. I always ask for 1/2 before. ".

Nope, not happening.

**Jims2321** · 03-10-20 15:01

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I thought you meant you passed on her at 300 pounds. I was like, these boys like um thick. LMAO.

ROFL, I was trying for brevity on my response, guess I should of read it for clarity.

**Aafakljgadkg** · 03-10-20 14:51

Originally Posted by Lono73 [View Original Post]

I just talked to her on Snapchat and she is getting scared because so many people are hitting her up and she doesn't know who they are. She is kinda freaking out.

Yeah. I'd freak out too, but are you guys actually hitting her up for an arrangement or just creeping?

**SoonerFan72** · 03-10-20 14:27

Originally Posted by Jims2321 [View Original Post]

Damn she has packed on some poundage since I last saw her on Seeking. I took a pass on a date with her at 300, because of too many don't and wouldn't.

I thought you meant you passed on her at 300 pounds. I was like, these boys like um thick. LMAO.

**Lono73** · 03-10-20 12:15

Originally Posted by Jeffinnatlanta [View Original Post]

Her snap is jessicaa_a1.

I just talked to her on Snapchat and she is getting scared because so many people are hitting her up and she doesn't know who they are. She is kinda freaking out.

**DRickGiver5** · 03-10-20 11:22

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

If all the pictures on the SA profile are also on the social media site, be aware you may have an identify thief working you. Asking for the 3 fingers or finger-on-nose photo as verification is a really good idea.

But the pic I'm talking about is of the more revealing kind. The ones that ends up on a premium snap. However I do tuink her man is involved in the scam. The fingers holding the drivers license look like male fingers.

**Machintosh** · 03-09-20 20:23

Originally Posted by Machintosh [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cfc11...7-efaa356fa276

Is this Ashley Skyy?? She's in ATL right so maybe? Retired and now has a kid??

Any intel here?

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/...ashley-chapman

Looks like someone is using her identity as she passed away awhile back.