"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FarFarAway** · 03-05-20 15:24

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

I currently have three SB's in rotation. Regardless, I continue to work the site for new ones. I have been seeing my most recent addition since last Fall. We see each other once or twice a week. She has a very tight schedule and lots of medical issues. She has a slight butterface but makes up for it with a very tight body and lots of enthusiasm during sex. I thought we were exclusive on her side but apparently not. I disconnected with her on Seeking when we started seeing each other. Recently, she started messaging me on the site and yesterday she favorited my profile. It seems she forgot who I was on there. Maybe she is looking to upgrade her allowance. Though I think I have been generous. If I say nothing, she may eventually figure it out in which case the situation could become more explosive. Any thoughts on how I should handle this?

Bam.

First, thanks for your reply to my posting. I also keep my profile hidden from search at all times. All of the POTs who viewed me were ones who I at least viewed if not favored or shared my private photo (which is similar to but not actually me, so it offers nothing to them other than a message in their inbox from me). I guess I could ask, but for me the past couple of days, SA has been down. I try to log in but my browser just grinds away.

About your situation w / your baby, it's tough. If I am seeing someone and wouldn't want her to know I was active on the site (say I was looking for a baby for a road trip), I'd just block her. In the old days this was super effective, because you could always reverse the block if you wanted. That's not now possible. Yes, if you continue to message w / her on SA, she'll put two and two together. If I were you I would block her. If you later find you need to contact her and you don't have a means, other social media or her #, it may also be likely she will get a new profile and you'll see her on the site. If you block from your main profile, you can always check on her from another profile. I have two on the site, most usually inactive, and only ever on with a paid membership. Considering the hassle people can get w / memberships, I think it wise to keep something that has stood the test of time. They are unlikely to kick off those profiles.

**BamBam** · 03-05-20 13:56

I currently have three SB's in rotation. Regardless, I continue to work the site for new ones. I have been seeing my most recent addition since last Fall. We see each other once or twice a week. She has a very tight schedule and lots of medical issues. She has a slight butterface but makes up for it with a very tight body and lots of enthusiasm during sex. I thought we were exclusive on her side but apparently not. I disconnected with her on Seeking when we started seeing each other. Recently, she started messaging me on the site and yesterday she favorited my profile. It seems she forgot who I was on there. Maybe she is looking to upgrade her allowance. Though I think I have been generous. If I say nothing, she may eventually figure it out in which case the situation could become more explosive. Any thoughts on how I should handle this?

Bam.

**BamBam** · 03-05-20 13:46

I don't deactivate so cannot test if that is happening to me. However, I have the settings on my account such that no information about my profile is visible unless I message them first. All activity is hidden meaning they cannot see if I view them or favorite them. Search and Dashboard are hidden so I never appear in searches. Other Profile Information is hidden so I do not share my profile join date or recent login location. If some one searches for recent active, I may show up but I doubt SB's are using that function much. Since I went to a stealth profile, I almost never get unsolicited views or messages. Which is how I prefer it. In your case, I wonder if they can still view your profile because you sent them an approach message. One other thought: send a message to the site admins and just ask them.

Bam.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

So, I have two profiles on SA, neither currently active. I deactivate when I don't have a paid membership, just to keep discretion. I log on from time to time to check out the talent, favoriting some to file them away for future consumption, when I don't have POTs whose numbers I am already using. SA claims when you deactivate that your profile is taken down and the pictures are archived. However, often when I log back in to check up, there will be girl's profiles listed on the Viewed Me part of during the time my profile wasn't active. How should I view this?

**Hungre1234** · 03-05-20 07:01

Originally Posted by Banger12 [View Original Post]

** also is the same day join date and one picture a tell tail sign of scam??

Thanks for any info.

I'd say yes and no. I'm always skeptical of it and usually avoid, but that said my last "fling" on SA was with a hot 19 year old with only one picture and a sentence bio. I shared her with a SM here and he had a good time with her too. Just go with your gut. I got her sm, felt her out a little and determined she was lazy with her SA account and didn't care whether she got into an arrangement or not. But we had a great time. So it depends.

**Madaboutmax** · 03-05-20 04:06

That's funny! Like a rinser would care what you put in your profile. It's like when I read SB profiles that say "no scammers".

Saying "no rinsers" or "no scammers" in a profile will do nothing to chase them away, but will tell everyone you have been rinser or scammed, are more likely to be vulnerable to it again and have a chip on your shoulder (which is also clear from your lost).

As much as I've had to deal with rinsers, scammers, gps, platonic only, online only B. S. , I've also spent quality time with some genuine beauties! This is a game not for the faint of heart.

I do agree with posting about bad experiences here. If we all did this, we could chase many of the pretenders away.

Originally Posted by MulchMan [View Original Post]

If I was still active on SA I would update my profile to include 'no rinsers'. Also, I would post a copy of their pictures here to save other SDs some time. I don't miss the huge amounts of time I wasted on SA. Although I did date a mixed 21 year old VCU student for 10 months before she graduated and moved away. Lots of great documented memories. My current focus is on reliable local escort talent. Good luck sifting through the scammers. Stay safe.

**FarFarAway** · 03-04-20 14:41

So, I have two profiles on SA, neither currently active. I deactivate when I don't have a paid membership, just to keep discretion. I log on from time to time to check out the talent, favoriting some to file them away for future consumption, when I don't have POTs whose numbers I am already using. SA claims when you deactivate that your profile is taken down and the pictures are archived. However, often when I log back in to check up, there will be girl's profiles listed on the Viewed Me part of during the time my profile wasn't active. How should I view this?

**MulchMan** · 03-02-20 13:26

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Everyone should know that cash upfront is always a scam. If you're so inclined, offer to give a small amount at M&G. If the excuses start pouring in and it has to be upfront, that's your confirmation that it was a scam all along.

SA has become scammer central. In my area I'd say more than half the profiles of cute young girls is some sort of scam. Money upfront, vid and pic sellers who will def meet you after you buy enough (yeah right...), and other rinsers. I wonder if there are that many simps on there or if it's a matter of SA being free for girls. It's litterraly just the cost of their time to try to trick guys into parting with $ for nothing.

If I was still active on SA I would update my profile to include 'no rinsers'. Also, I would post a copy of their pictures here to save other SDs some time. I don't miss the huge amounts of time I wasted on SA. Although I did date a mixed 21 year old VCU student for 10 months before she graduated and moved away. Lots of great documented memories. My current focus is on reliable local escort talent. Good luck sifting through the scammers. Stay safe.

**MulchMan** · 03-02-20 13:18

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

I noticed Bernie was in your fair city yesterday. Did anyone ask him if he could guarantee a Sugar Baby in every bed? Sex is a human right after all, correct?

'Sugar Babies for all', who cares about Medicare.

**BamBam** · 03-02-20 12:54

They are not always overseas. There are also men in prison running scams using contraband phones.

Bam.

Originally Posted by TomDickNHarry [View Original Post]

Zero chance you're wrong. It's one of the more common scams on SA now. You're actually talking to some dude in Russia or India.

**TomDickNHarry** · 03-02-20 11:41

Originally Posted by Nps787 [View Original Post]

Have been playing in the bowl on and off for a while.

Used to get lots of "favorited me" from ladies from outside USA and then a msg. Asking for money for live chat / videos or pics.

Lately getting "favorited me" from girls locally. Location would be state, state. Will start with nice chat and agree to meet and allowance later. But then would say she is 8 hours from me and needs gas money that I can send through various apps. Usually would be a nominal amount. Like 25-30. Happy and safe seeking.

Sorry no link because all 3 blocked me after I called their bluff and I might be wrong.

Zero chance you're wrong. It's one of the more common scams on SA now. You're actually talking to some dude in Russia or India.

**DrTravel2015** · 03-02-20 11:28

Originally Posted by Banger12 [View Original Post]

I'm not sure this was commented on before but.

Is there any validity when last active online date is ahead of the current date you are viewing a profile?? Is that a glitch in SA or it that automatically a sign if an foreign scam??

** also is the same day join date and one picture a tell tail sign of scam??

Thanks for any info.

The clock / calendar for SA may from somewhere East of the East Coast of the USA Last night, well before midnight on the East Coast, I saw activity on March 2.

I've become skeptical of the 1-photo girls who are very new. There's a high probability they are fakes or scammers, especially if the profile is only 1-2 sentences in length.

**Banger12** · 03-01-20 22:17

I'm not sure this was commented on before but.

Is there any validity when last active online date is ahead of the current date you are viewing a profile?? Is that a glitch in SA or it that automatically a sign if an foreign scam??

** also is the same day join date and one picture a tell tail sign of scam??

Thanks for any info.

**EvilTmp** · 03-01-20 19:14

Originally Posted by Nps787 [View Original Post]

Have been playing in the bowl on and off for a while.

Used to get lots of "favorited me" from ladies from outside USA and then a msg. Asking for money for live chat / videos or pics.

Lately getting "favorited me" from girls locally. Location would be state, state. Will start with nice chat and agree to meet and allowance later. But then would say she is 8 hours from me and needs gas money that I can send through various apps. Usually would be a nominal amount. Like 25-30. Happy and safe seeking.

Sorry no link because all 3 blocked me after I called their bluff and I might be wrong.

Everyone should know that cash upfront is always a scam. If you're so inclined, offer to give a small amount at M&G. If the excuses start pouring in and it has to be upfront, that's your confirmation that it was a scam all along.

SA has become scammer central. In my area I'd say more than half the profiles of cute young girls is some sort of scam. Money upfront, vid and pic sellers who will def meet you after you buy enough (yeah right...), and other rinsers. I wonder if there are that many simps on there or if it's a matter of SA being free for girls. It's litterraly just the cost of their time to try to trick guys into parting with $ for nothing.

**Nps787** · 03-01-20 11:07

Have been playing in the bowl on and off for a while.

Used to get lots of "favorited me" from ladies from outside USA and then a msg. Asking for money for live chat / videos or pics.

Lately getting "favorited me" from girls locally. Location would be state, state. Will start with nice chat and agree to meet and allowance later. But then would say she is 8 hours from me and needs gas money that I can send through various apps. Usually would be a nominal amount. Like 25-30. Happy and safe seeking.

Sorry no link because all 3 blocked me after I called their bluff and I might be wrong.

**Hal1957** · 02-28-20 19:14

I think Bernie's more of a "something for nothing" guy, he's more likely to support pre-pays for m / g.

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

I noticed Bernie was in your fair city yesterday. Did anyone ask him if he could guarantee a Sugar Baby in every bed? Sex is a human right after all, correct?