Arrangement Reports

[Chicago41]

https://www.seeking.com/member/9ffdb...6-268ae3f5ef2e

Can't decide if this one is a scam or not. Bolt on's look fun of course, definitely looks older than 26. Reached out 3 days ago with no response. Last night out of the blue she replies back sending very explicit messages back, talking about her throbbing pussy and needing to cum, and wanting to see me right then at her hotel. Gave her the cell to text in private but she didn't go for it. Apparently staying at a downtown hotel. No talk of allowance on the site.

Anyone have any recent experiences with this one?? Seems to be some red flags. Obviously a pro but scammer as well?

She's been on there since 2015, very unlikely to be a scammer. Probably a pro.

[Tela1980]

Tranny vibe there as well.

I'm still surprised how many can't notice that Tranny look. Oh well, guess experience counts.

[JHobby]

Ok, let's hear the consensus. Do you ppm when the meeting is just an afternoon out? Or only compensate for times where there is something sexual going on? I have not been paying but am wondering what the norm is.

This is discussed endlessly over at SLF reddit but the consensus among SDs at least is that ppm only when intimacy starts. Some would go on an initial platonic m&g then give travel cost gifts at the least, and if they feel good about the girl, give a fraction of the usual ppm as a GIFT. And I must reiterate this, do not ever agree on paying a ppm to a girl for an initial platonic m&g because 1) that reinforces rinsing behavior and 2) you give a signal to the girl that you're willing to be put in a disadvantageous position. Remember that this is a transaction no matter how much others insist that it's like a vanilla relationship or girls that argue they're not escorts and therefore should be paid for dates. These girls ARE sex workers and both of you are engaged in a transaction.

You have to understand that SA is filled with professional rinsers / scammers who would try their best to get sugar from you with no sugar in return. So do not encourage rinsing behaviors, there are already enough youtuber professional scammers teaching that bullshit, you don't have to play into their scheme too. The more men who adhere to this principle the leas likely will these scammers thrive in SA and their numbers will drop. You have to remember too that SBs greatly outnumber SDs, so we dictate the demand. With that in mind remember that how another SD pays affects the rest of those in the market. So you start paying for platonic dates then these girls start expecting it from the next SD. Don't be that guy.

[BeNewAgain]

I saw her twice. She was tough to hook up with, but both of us had scheduling issues. She was fun. Not really interested in hanging out for too long the times we met but wasn't hurried either.

What was the allowance? Details on what you did sexually? She has a nice phat ass. Anything bare?

[ItsHowdyDoody]

Ok, let's hear the consensus. Do you ppm when the meeting is just an afternoon out? Or only compensate for times where there is something sexual going on? I have not been paying but am wondering what the norm is.

Normally meet for free at first. However, some girls who you look at and wonder how in the heck are they on the site, check all the normal boxes as far as going to college, seem decent, etc. I have started with some small donation with expectation I will just lose that money. It does seem to work on ocassion, but I derive more pleasure converting the platonic ones into something intimate, rather than banging the scank stripper being passed around.

The above are the type if you share that, they will just vanish. Smart, looks into their stuff, tries to stay relatively utr and anonymous.

I'd categorize the girls into three levels. The ones everyone can pass around, pros to semi pros type, the sort of middle ground of selective semi pros, and the only wants platonic, long shot.

[ItsHowdyDoody]

Better fish in the ocean. This one is sure to end in dissapointment. How do I know? Read the shit she put on her bio:

Some of you are a complete waste of my time, I know what I want and I know MY WORTH. I can't stand the younger SDs because you guys play too many games because you think because you're young you don't have to bring more to the table, you do.

This screams of GPS and a shitty attitude if you do see her.

Fake tits, fake lips, fake ass. I'd recommend passing.

Tranny vibe there as well.

[Rileym]

https://www.seeking.com/member/9ffdb...6-268ae3f5ef2e

Can't decide if this one is a scam or not. Bolt on's look fun of course, definitely looks older than 26. Reached out 3 days ago with no response. Last night out of the blue she replies back sending very explicit messages back, talking about her throbbing pussy and needing to cum, and wanting to see me right then at her hotel. Gave her the cell to text in private but she didn't go for it. Apparently staying at a downtown hotel. No talk of allowance on the site.

Anyone have any recent experiences with this one?? Seems to be some red flags. Obviously a pro but scammer as well?

[Flipper12]

https://www.seeking.com/member/a30e1...8-8dea614d47a1

Someone asked about her before but no replies. She's not cheap but holy moley that body!! Any info?

Better fish in the ocean. This one is sure to end in dissapointment. How do I know? Read the shit she put on her bio:

Some of you are a complete waste of my time, I know what I want and I know MY WORTH. I can't stand the younger SDs because you guys play too many games because you think because you're young you don't have to bring more to the table, you do.

This screams of GPS and a shitty attitude if you do see her.

Fake tits, fake lips, fake ass. I'd recommend passing.

[Flipper12]

That stripper really stayed for 3 hrs? The other review mentioned she only stayed for one round.

I have the same question. I got her number and she was ready to come out to me if I paid uber fee and hotel and 600. I'd do $800 which would be the total damage but not for one rushed pop. For 3 hours hell yeah, sign me up. She might be the hottest girl I've seen on SA.

[SGlider]

I know this one's been discussed before on here. Met up with her recently and the pictures are very old and about 100 lbs ago. Definitely take a pass on this one fellas unless deceiving pics and big girls are your thing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2441f...d-91d383ac8247

This one has caught my eye recently but haven't reached out yet. Anyone have any experience?

https://www.seeking.com/member/dd50d...b-aed42777fe40

Thanks,

[Aman123]

This one came over says she from Taiwan good english pretty in person small and petite first round bbj 2nd round coulda had BBFS at last second took the head put and said should I get a condom so i did

https://www.seeking.com/member/411228ef-94de-4645-bd33-39cbc2bef601

This one came over for three hours bbj cim multiple rounds no BBFS.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8286a...9-25fc8fa04311

This one cool sexy came over for a few hours bare everything.

https://www.seeking.com/member/74019...f-780839474bd4

This one supposed to come over well see.

https://www.seeking.com/member/44515...0-8b81ac1c384a

This one said one nut for 500 no thanks.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...b-4a22a9d1616b

This one 2 rounds bbj bbfs

https://www.seeking.com/member/3456e385-d9e0-485a-a21a-19905231534f

That stripper really stayed for 3 hrs? The other review mentioned she only stayed for one round.

[DrTravel2015]

Ok, let's hear the consensus. Do you ppm when the meeting is just an afternoon out? Or only compensate for times where there is something sexual going on? I have not been paying but am wondering what the norm is.

Some SBs ask for it (I had one wanting $100 today, but I declined). I'm willing to consider covering cab fare, baby sitting, or something like that, but no cash just for meeting per se. Yes, her time is valuable, but so is mine. If she doesn't agree, I politely move on. It seems that some women want cash to meet and don't want to go any further. They pick up $100 or so, for an hour of convo and minimal effort. For others, cash for meeting means that the allowance for intimacy will be beyond my budget. If they want $200 for a platonic meet, they likely will ask $600 for intimacy, for example.

[Chicago41]

Do you generally just cut to the chase or do most of these women want to go through a process, like a date or dinner? Thanks.

I've never met any for dinner, they just came to my place. I haven't been active in a while, though.

When I first signed up there was a hot redhead who wanted to meet someplace public first, so I recommended a Starbucks. She was bitchy about it and wanted a full dinner at some $$$ restaurant. Fuck that! I said no thanks and blocked her when she started bitching more.

[Dr StrangeLust]

https://www.seeking.com/member/a30e1...8-8dea614d47a1

Someone asked about her before but no replies. She's not cheap but holy moley that body!! Any info?

[FafaFooey]

Ok, let's hear the consensus. Do you ppm when the meeting is just an afternoon out? Or only compensate for times where there is something sexual going on? I have not been paying but am wondering what the norm is.

Almost never. The 'meet' in pay per meet should be intimate. Only rare exceptions for me were times when I'd been seeing someone on a repeat basis and we couldn't go through with a bcd day because of my own schedule changes. There were a few times like that where I advanced a girl some funds when I knew the need was legitimate, but there was some real long term familiarity in those arrangements. I would never ever do it on a first meet or for someone I'd only seen a few times casually. If most of these girls catch even a whiff of that kind of free money, you'll never get them near a bed again.