Seeking Arrangements

**CrazyDragon** · 01-20-20 11:13

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

Any ideas on how to pay for a hotel without a credit card??

Thanks CM.

Let me know if you figure this problem out. Could be helpful to all of us.

**Amppro95** · 01-20-20 07:08

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

I'd second all of this except the burner phone. Almost impossible to explain away a second phone to the SO. An app that allows a second, private, number to be added to your phone may be a preferable option. Check out Google Voice. Gives you a second phone number on the same phone. Hides your original number on both incoming and outgoing calls. All you need is a Google email account also hidden from callers (in and out). No service fees for the app and calls are free in the US. Great for texting as well, again, hides your actual number and email from texts. Only the Google Voice number is exposed which is what you want them to see.

WeChat may offer comparable features. It's not clear from their website and I've yet to try it.

Thanks for all the info guys, especially houndog, that's brilliant!! First meet is tomorrow morning so I'll post an update, she says that she is polyamorus, which is my only concern that I could catch something through oral or DFK?? I'll obviously wrap it up for sex, cool thing is she wants to have a 3-way with another girl and so she is trying to set that up. Fingers crossed!!

**HounDog3** · 01-20-20 00:37

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.

Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.

Good luck!

I'd second all of this except the burner phone. Almost impossible to explain away a second phone to the SO. An app that allows a second, private, number to be added to your phone may be a preferable option. Check out Google Voice. Gives you a second phone number on the same phone. Hides your original number on both incoming and outgoing calls. All you need is a Google email account also hidden from callers (in and out). No service fees for the app and calls are free in the US. Great for texting as well, again, hides your actual number and email from texts. Only the Google Voice number is exposed which is what you want them to see.

WeChat may offer comparable features. It's not clear from their website and I've yet to try it.

**CandyMan555** · 01-19-20 19:54

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.

Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.

Good luck!

Any ideas on how to pay for a hotel without a credit card??

Thanks CM.

**Aardvarks** · 01-19-20 17:25

Originally Posted by Amppro95 [View Original Post]

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.

Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.

Good luck!

**GlennDoyle91** · 01-19-20 10:23

Originally Posted by Amppro95 [View Original Post]

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

I like the seeking relationships because it's really up to y'all. Reveal as much as you're comfortable. That money kinda allows girls to gloss over things that would normally be taboo. It really is up to why'all to make the rules. Be vague. Or not. If they get too close, you can talk to them. If they're being bad. Just cut them off. No money, no sugar. No sugar, no money.

**Newbie1961** · 01-19-20 08:17

If your time is very limited. And you require an immediate sure thing (usually) payoff, then yes SA is not for you. Listcrawler, Eros etc. Will be more productive / rewarding for you. I will say that when I compare young, fresh, clean college sorority girls that I am fucking off SA, they usually exceed any quality of girl I can see off Listcrawler. Just my preference, just my opinion.

Originally Posted by MaxDaDesi [View Original Post]

Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.

**Amppro95** · 01-19-20 07:47

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

**MaxDaDesi** · 01-18-20 19:52

Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.

**Big Stu** · 01-18-20 13:37

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

So based off this post I offered 400 and she said yes (so 350 could be on the table). When I 1st signed up for SA Paid like 18 days ago she was one of the 1st girls I messaged but she ignored me. Slim lighter hair ladies with a butt are my thing. But I saw your post & thought lets give this a go. She's not at the top of my list to see but when I get around to seeing her I'll post. Also who knows if it will get past the meet & greet stage, I am picky with what I want but usually if they agree to a meet & greet I get what I want. She did change her profile some in the past 15 days so maybe she's realizing she priced herself out of the market.

So like I always say slim ladies are my thing. Well those pics are of Mandy but very out of date. She is much bigger now. She carries it well, she's not sloppy fat, I'd say chunky. She said if a guy asks for photos she will send them more recent photos showing that she is bigger. For all those guys that like young, fresh faced chunky ladies she is probably a good fit. We met for drinks, she's very nice, although I explained to her early on that I was expecting someone very different looking. I will say this she's very sensual. We talked for awhile, though not my type she was fun to talk with. We talked about her prices being so high. She said she use to get 500 in NYC. I explained to her that's NYC and she needs to understand what the market will bear & set prices accordingly. After more discussion she said maybe she should be at 350. When we were getting close to leaving she said I could see her for 250 that night. So a big difference from earlier in the week telling PaulRew 500 to going to 250, although I think the drinking helped loosen her up, she had 4 drinks in 1. 5 hrs.

My take away, if you like young cute chunky chicks meet her for drinks and she'll probably lower the price.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2f1b5...e-e4d4c5db999b

**Lily1234** · 01-18-20 06:58

Originally Posted by Oscar13 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f5be...1-20eef03fb93b

Stay away. 15 messages between us, moved to text, within 3 texts a threat to contact my daughter if I didn't send $250 within an hour. I didn't, no email, but still would have had me worried if my daughter didn't already know about my membership. Guess it's time to get a burner phone or text app.

Send her a wikilink url for the definition of extortion. I only use a texting app with these girls.

**Jaristas** · 01-17-20 21:40

I got banned from this stupid site.

**PaulRew** · 01-17-20 20:14

I'll stop! LOL.

Seems like I am just talking to myself here! Anyway, best of luck gents I will take my leave from this thread.

**PaulRew** · 01-17-20 19:05

15 messages in and she finally comes clean with "I am only interested in non intimate arrangements".

Strawbbun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62d28...a-64a0a4d7d020

**Oscar13** · 01-17-20 18:57

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f5be...1-20eef03fb93b

Stay away. 15 messages between us, moved to text, within 3 texts a threat to contact my daughter if I didn't send $250 within an hour. I didn't, no email, but still would have had me worried if my daughter didn't already know about my membership. Guess it's time to get a burner phone or text app.