Seeking Arrangements

**Aardvarks** · 01-19-20 17:25

Originally Posted by Amppro95 [View Original Post]

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

If you plan to see them once keep it vague. If you are looking for more of a long term thing most of this stuff will come out at some point so reveal it when you feel it's to your advantage. I tell all of them I am married, I have kids, and in general where I live. Any psycho vibes I block them immediately and move on. There are way too many girls on SA and WYP to get hung up on one. And because of the absolute sheer number I believe there is something for everyone's desire and dollar amount.

Don't use a personal phone, buy a burner. Don't use personal credit cards, buy Visa or Amex gift cards. Create a fake Venmo account with funds in it from a secret credit card. Don't share real social media profiles with them (I know a guy who friended a baby on Facebook and he literally got so screwed). Deal in cash whenever you can. Anyone who really wants to dig into your details is suspect in my book.

Good luck!

**GlennDoyle91** · 01-19-20 10:23

Originally Posted by Amppro95 [View Original Post]

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

I like the seeking relationships because it's really up to y'all. Reveal as much as you're comfortable. That money kinda allows girls to gloss over things that would normally be taboo. It really is up to why'all to make the rules. Be vague. Or not. If they get too close, you can talk to them. If they're being bad. Just cut them off. No money, no sugar. No sugar, no money.

**Newbie1961** · 01-19-20 08:17

If your time is very limited. And you require an immediate sure thing (usually) payoff, then yes SA is not for you. Listcrawler, Eros etc. Will be more productive / rewarding for you. I will say that when I compare young, fresh, clean college sorority girls that I am fucking off SA, they usually exceed any quality of girl I can see off Listcrawler. Just my preference, just my opinion.

Originally Posted by MaxDaDesi [View Original Post]

Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.

**Amppro95** · 01-19-20 07:47

My question applies to any of these sugar sites, for those of you that have had success with a sugar baby relationship, are you honest with the girl as to being married, kids, what you do for work, town you live in? That type of stuff or do you lie, or just keep it completely vague? I got together with one girl a year ago and she was a fucking nut job, I thought I was going to have to end up taking her fishing, after that I got off the site for awhile but still browse, every once and awhile if there is a girl that peaks my interest I'll favorite her, had no bites at all until last week, I've been messaging this girl and it's seeming like the perfect situation, I'm just thinking before too much longer she will start asking those important questions?

**MaxDaDesi** · 01-18-20 19:52

Seeking is asuch a failed site. The management is block trigger happy I was blocked twice. For asking for 100 $ dates. And mst of the girls on there expect money when those botches look straight ugly af. Female entitlement. Listcrawler is like 1000% better than seeking.

**Big Stu** · 01-18-20 13:37

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

So based off this post I offered 400 and she said yes (so 350 could be on the table). When I 1st signed up for SA Paid like 18 days ago she was one of the 1st girls I messaged but she ignored me. Slim lighter hair ladies with a butt are my thing. But I saw your post & thought lets give this a go. She's not at the top of my list to see but when I get around to seeing her I'll post. Also who knows if it will get past the meet & greet stage, I am picky with what I want but usually if they agree to a meet & greet I get what I want. She did change her profile some in the past 15 days so maybe she's realizing she priced herself out of the market.

So like I always say slim ladies are my thing. Well those pics are of Mandy but very out of date. She is much bigger now. She carries it well, she's not sloppy fat, I'd say chunky. She said if a guy asks for photos she will send them more recent photos showing that she is bigger. For all those guys that like young, fresh faced chunky ladies she is probably a good fit. We met for drinks, she's very nice, although I explained to her early on that I was expecting someone very different looking. I will say this she's very sensual. We talked for awhile, though not my type she was fun to talk with. We talked about her prices being so high. She said she use to get 500 in NYC. I explained to her that's NYC and she needs to understand what the market will bear & set prices accordingly. After more discussion she said maybe she should be at 350. When we were getting close to leaving she said I could see her for 250 that night. So a big difference from earlier in the week telling PaulRew 500 to going to 250, although I think the drinking helped loosen her up, she had 4 drinks in 1. 5 hrs.

My take away, if you like young cute chunky chicks meet her for drinks and she'll probably lower the price.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2f1b5...e-e4d4c5db999b

**Lily1234** · 01-18-20 06:58

Originally Posted by Oscar13 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f5be...1-20eef03fb93b

Stay away. 15 messages between us, moved to text, within 3 texts a threat to contact my daughter if I didn't send $250 within an hour. I didn't, no email, but still would have had me worried if my daughter didn't already know about my membership. Guess it's time to get a burner phone or text app.

Send her a wikilink url for the definition of extortion. I only use a texting app with these girls.

**Jaristas** · 01-17-20 21:40

I got banned from this stupid site.

**PaulRew** · 01-17-20 20:14

I'll stop! LOL.

Seems like I am just talking to myself here! Anyway, best of luck gents I will take my leave from this thread.

**PaulRew** · 01-17-20 19:05

15 messages in and she finally comes clean with "I am only interested in non intimate arrangements".

Strawbbun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62d28...a-64a0a4d7d020

**Oscar13** · 01-17-20 18:57

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f5be...1-20eef03fb93b

Stay away. 15 messages between us, moved to text, within 3 texts a threat to contact my daughter if I didn't send $250 within an hour. I didn't, no email, but still would have had me worried if my daughter didn't already know about my membership. Guess it's time to get a burner phone or text app.

**PaulRew** · 01-16-20 17:23

Handle is apple011122.

https://www.seeking.com/member/30bf4...6-4c0e0df9c9e5

Been texting with her today. Finally got her to send a pic and not even close to what's on site but still attractive. Lists age at 34 but must be dyslexic, pic indicates maybe 43.

Agreed to meet at a hotel so I offered $250 for a couple hours and I pickup the room. "Too Cheap" So I ask what she is looking for and she responds "$300 for 1 hour" I tell her I can live with that but no condoms and she says no way. For shits I offer $500 for no condom and she rejects that too. Really sounds like a AAMP girl working the Seeking system.

**HounDog3** · 01-16-20 10:42

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

I should've included the links. But it they were 2 separate posts about 2 separate women.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2f1b5...e-e4d4c5db999b

That one is the one that I offered 400.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea544...1-387cac0667e3

This one is the one that quote 400 and I countered with 300.

If you don't believe me hit the "View Original Post" button on the posts and follow the thread & you'll see I was discussing 2 separate women from 2 different threads.

My bad. I should have seen that. Apologies. Thanks for the clarification.

**Big Stu** · 01-16-20 10:36

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Am I the only one confused here? First post says HE OFFERED 400 and she said yes. Second post says SHE QUOTED 400 and he countered with 300 which she accepted. Hey Big Stu, I call BS.

I should've included the links. But it they were 2 separate posts about 2 separate women.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2f1b5...e-e4d4c5db999b

That one is the one that I offered 400.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea544...1-387cac0667e3

This one is the one that quote 400 and I countered with 300.

If you don't believe me hit the "View Original Post" button on the posts and follow the thread & you'll see I was discussing 2 separate women from 2 different threads.