"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Geechie Dan]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca75d...3-be9c67dccd5f

Does this one seem tempting to anyone?

I'm just mad that I can't unsee that!

[Geechie Dan]

https://www.seeking.com/member/369df...d-69aeaaad9228

Profile reads like GPS, but in person she is a sweetheart, and as fun as they come. Down to earth personality, amazing body, and really loves sex. Really.

M&G first, then right to FC (hotel, she will not host). BBBJ, CFS, MSOG possible. I know this one is more than what some of you like to pay, but sometimes if you want genuine fun and a quality personality, maybe it's worth it. For me, anyway. Seen her twice, will repeat. Damage was $$ + hotel.

I've seen her before and I'm hoping to get with her again, soon. She's a Great time!

[ArtImperial]

https://www.seeking.com/member/369df...d-69aeaaad9228

Profile reads like GPS, but in person she is a sweetheart, and as fun as they come. Down to earth personality, amazing body, and really loves sex. Really.

M&G first, then right to FC (hotel, she will not host). BBBJ, CFS, MSOG possible. I know this one is more than what some of you like to pay, but sometimes if you want genuine fun and a quality personality, maybe it's worth it. For me, anyway. Seen her twice, will repeat. Damage was $$ + hotel.

[EvilTmp]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca75d...3-be9c67dccd5f

Does this one seem tempting to anyone?

Please, please Ebob, TOFTT and report back.

[EBob1111]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ca75d...3-be9c67dccd5f

Does this one seem tempting to anyone?

[MulchMan]

I guarantee most SB's don't realize the ratio of them to us is almost 5:1. They have the demand and we have the supply, so don't overpay!

Great point. VCU and the surrounding community colleges provide plenty of supply and will hopefully take care of any GPS issues.

[EBob1111]

Oh my God, this is 500% true. To a tee, with the exception of one girl who was totally normal, just liked money and sex, and was going to community college and lived with her parents who were both still together, 100% of the best girls I've ever been with in this hobby have been adopted.

If a girl is in this game and it's not for drug money, there is a very, very high chance she's adopted, and a neat little ball of abandonment and daddy issues which somehow makes them awesome SBs when you manage them well.

The flip side of this coin is that if you're thinking of being a good samaritan and adopting, don't adopt a girl. I've personal experience (not directly, but family) and had long term relationships with adopted SBs and have seen and heard the stories of what happens and what they do to their adoptive family. They'll ruin your life and drain you broke. Just don't do it.

As morbid as this sounds, girls who's father died or abandoned the family when they were kids / teens also seem to be guaranteed freaks. Any girl I knew in college who's father had died was a total.

[Kwagmire]

If you ever find a girl who says she was adopted, run, don't walk, to get to her. They have issues in spades.

Oh my God, this is 500% true. To a tee, with the exception of one girl who was totally normal, just liked money and sex, and was going to community college and lived with her parents who were both still together, 100% of the best girls I've ever been with in this hobby have been adopted.

If a girl is in this game and it's not for drug money, there is a very, very high chance she's adopted, and a neat little ball of abandonment and daddy issues which somehow makes them awesome SBs when you manage them well.

The flip side of this coin is that if you're thinking of being a good samaritan and adopting, don't adopt a girl. I've personal experience (not directly, but family) and had long term relationships with adopted SBs and have seen and heard the stories of what happens and what they do to their adoptive family. They'll ruin your life and drain you broke. Just don't do it.

[DrYellow]

Can't help but chime in on this one. Although I'm new to the web versions of sugaring, I've been lucky enough in the past to be with a few younger girls. You can't help but sympathize at times.

One girl I was with tended to break down into an ugly cry anytime I was a bit firm with my words, like when I would catch her in a lie. Although I found that a complete turn-off, I often found myself being more of a mentor to these girls. Needless to say, I got tired of that, but now I'm coming across a more evolved girl, one who's almost completely shut down. Sure I'd bang, but I'm still hoping to find a keeper.

Delusional right?

Not sure the point you're trying to make here but in my experience every single girl on SA is fundamentally and undeniably broken. Every. Single. One. It's a melting pot of aberrations. It ranges from girls being dead inside and having a complete lack of empathy (think natural scammers and grifters) to being on serious psychotropic meds, to clearly having personality disorders (BPD is rampant on SA). Generously sprinkle rampant depression, anxiety, and recreational drugs and you have a good description of your average SA college girl. And the lying. Don't forget massive amounts of lying about anything and everything. Having said that, don't be an ahole to these girls (except the dead inside scammer, fuck'them and waste their time any chance you get). The poor lost college girls deserve to be treated with some care and we should leave them better than we found them. Always remember that you're dealing with a seriously flawed individual and proceed accordingly!

[FeelGoodMd]

VCU was in the top 10 last year but has dropped down a few slots. I was lucky enough to spend 11 enjoyable months with a nice VCU SB before she graduated and moved away. Lots of nice memories and solid documentation to relive the memories.

https://www.seeking.com/p/sugar-baby...sity-2020/usa/

I guarantee most SB's don't realize the ratio of them to us is almost 5:1. They have the demand and we have the supply, so don't overpay!

[EvilTmp]

It's too bad that's been your experience. There are two factors at work. One is that people get the sugarbowl they are looking for. If you are seeking a certain type of SB, one who is really not very different than a escort (UTR), or even a streetwalker, well, I can believe that is true. There are others who operate at a very different level, and I have not ever been concerned about such issues when dealing with them (my interest in POTs). Then there is the matter of geography. Keep in mind that this Richmond thread has become the de facto national thread for sugaring, people from all over read it. It could apply to those girls you guys are targeting in the Richmond area, if that's where you are from. Again, it doesn't apply to southern CA where I am. That's not to say I haven't ever had issues w / girls that are clearly having difficulty 'adjusting to adult life' as the mental health professionals say. Heck, sometimes those who have security / abandonment issues (absent daddy) make the best SBs. They are really into the older guys as a result. As I am beyond 60, this is what I need to get into a teenager's pants. If you ever find a girl who says she was adopted, run, don't walk, to get to her. They have these issues in spades.

Not to make too much of this but I only seek college girls that are genuinely attracted to older guys and block any girl with a whiff of being a pro or utr. I think you're confusing what makes a good SB with her being well-adjusted. We are talking about the same cohort here. You go on to talk about security and absent daddy and those are your girls with daddy issues. Those are exactly the girls that are on medicinal cocktails for depression and anxiety plus therapy. Abandonment issues is a core criteria for BPD women. I'm sorry to break it to you but the girls you are seeking are the ones that are completely messed up. It has nothing to do with geography. Just because we all like them doesn't make them unbroken people.

Long ago I started asking what pills they take everyday and if you do you'll soon see they are all on something. Go in with eyes open. Don't be an ahole. Don't get attached. And try to help them in little ways as much as you can.

[MulchMan]

VCU was in the top 10 last year but has dropped down a few slots. I was lucky enough to spend 11 enjoyable months with a nice VCU SB before she graduated and moved away. Lots of nice memories and solid documentation to relive the memories.

https://www.seeking.com/p/sugar-baby...sity-2020/usa/

[JohnCakes]

Anyone seen Daisy recently?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e76fb...a-323e1c3d8c7a

Any updates on this one?

[FarFarAway]

What EvilTmp said. I just signed back up after a few months lapse and he is exactly right. Some are actually in therapy, some take drugs for the mental ailments, the rest need to do both. It does make it more difficult for an old guy like me to deal with these seemingly modern mental health issues but if we want to play this game, we have to.

It's too bad that's been your experience. There are two factors at work. One is that people get the sugarbowl they are looking for. If you are seeking a certain type of SB, one who is really not very different than a escort (UTR), or even a streetwalker, well, I can believe that is true. There are others who operate at a very different level, and I have not ever been concerned about such issues when dealing with them (my interest in POTs). Then there is the matter of geography. Keep in mind that this Richmond thread has become the de facto national thread for sugaring, people from all over read it. It could apply to those girls you guys are targeting in the Richmond area, if that's where you are from. Again, it doesn't apply to southern CA where I am. That's not to say I haven't ever had issues w / girls that are clearly having difficulty 'adjusting to adult life' as the mental health professionals say. Heck, sometimes those who have security / abandonment issues (absent daddy) make the best SBs. They are really into the older guys as a result. As I am beyond 60, this is what I need to get into a teenager's pants. If you ever find a girl who says she was adopted, run, don't walk, to get to her. They have these issues in spades.

[Magic Rat]

Not sure the point you're trying to make here but in my experience every single girl on SA is fundamentally and undeniably broken. Every. Single. One. It's a melting pot of aberrations. It ranges from girls being dead inside and having a complete lack of empathy (think natural scammers and grifters) to being on serious psychotropic meds, to clearly having personality disorders (BPD is rampant on SA). Generously sprinkle rampant depression, anxiety, and recreational drugs and you have a good description of your average SA college girl. And the lying. Don't forget massive amounts of lying about anything and everything. Having said that, don't be an ahole to these girls (except the dead inside scammer, fuck'them and waste their time any chance you get). The poor lost college girls deserve to be treated with some care and we should leave them better than we found them. Always remember that you're dealing with a seriously flawed individual and proceed accordingly!

What EvilTmp said. I just signed back up after a few months lapse and he is exactly right. Some are actually in therapy, some take drugs for the mental ailments, the rest need to do both. It does make it more difficult for an old guy like me to deal with these seemingly modern mental health issues but if we want to play this game, we have to.