Non Pro's

[RawDogger]

Set up a meet and greet, I was there slightly ahead of time. Texted her I was there when the top of the hour hit and then at 20 min after the appt texted again to ask if she was coming. No response from her at all. Next.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ed62d...e-91dd066e6177

[Twister100]

I don't know who this poster is but I call BS on this WeChat app! This is a marketing ploy to get you guys to spend money to talk to Chinese girls. After you move from SA to the WeChat app, the potential SB all of a sudden "doesn't speak/write good English" anymore and needs you to buy a translator to chat with.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

From wiki:

WeChat operates from China under Chinese law, which includes strong censorship provisions and interception protocols. WeChat can access and expose the text messages, contact books, and location histories of its users. Due to WeChat's popularity, the Chinese government uses WeChat as a data source to conduct mass surveillance in China.

[RawDogger]

Sure, WeChat is what you use. If you're in China. That part is true. It's also true it gives the Chinese government hooks into your phone.

But this post is pure spam, reported.

Downloaded the Chinese messaging system where you can make voice and video calls. But best of all, you can shake your phone and see all the people who are also shaking their phones. You can also turn on the people nearby feature and see others who also who have turned on this feature and send the ones you like a greeting. I sent a greeting and received a response. She wanted me to pick her up after work, and show her my home. The next day she showed me her home and told me she wanted to go slow if we had a relationship. The next day I took her to my house where she said she was tired from working and wanted to lay down on my bed. She proceeded to take off her clothes and climbed into my bed. Guess this is going SLOW. Whenever I want sex, I am suppose to call her. She likes Americans. She does not like Chinese men because they are "small". Consider WeChat. It's a great way to meet Chinese girls.

[RWarNmsn69]

Downloaded the Chinese messaging system where you can make voice and video calls. But best of all, you can shake your phone and see all the people who are also shaking their phones. You can also turn on the people nearby feature and see others who also who have turned on this feature and send the ones you like a greeting. I sent a greeting and received a response. She wanted me to pick her up after work, and show her my home. The next day she showed me her home and told me she wanted to go slow if we had a relationship. The next day I took her to my house where she said she was tired from working and wanted to lay down on my bed. She proceeded to take off her clothes and climbed into my bed. Guess this is going SLOW. Whenever I want sex, I am suppose to call her. She likes Americans. She does not like Chinese men because they are "small". Consider WeChat. It's a great way to meet Chinese girls.

I don't know who this poster is but I call BS on this WeChat app! This is a marketing ploy to get you guys to spend money to talk to Chinese girls. After you move from SA to the WeChat app, the potential SB all of a sudden "doesn't speak/write good English" anymore and needs you to buy a translator to chat with.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[Twister100]

Yup, I'm sure they would all be much happier if you just showed up, handed them cash, and walked away. Better yet send it electronically so they don't even have to work up a fake smile.

There are a few exceptions, I really think sarcasticfungirl enjoys the hell out of what she does. We had great conversation and she really acted like she was having fun during the physical portion of the evening. If that was an act, it was a damned good one.

Seems like there are a lot fewer women like saracasticfungirl on SA these days.

[Marko Ramius]

I generally agree with your statements but I would amend this statement to be "Remember that she is trying to make a good impression on you so you will give her money" While they may understand it's pay for play and they might even be attracted to you but never forget the real reason they are there "so you will give them money".

If you give one of these chicks money and don't f**k her then that's on you, not her. 99 percent of the girls on these sites know what the score is, and if you make it easy for them then they will give themselves to you.

[RawDogger]

Yup, I'm sure they would all be much happier if you just showed up, handed them cash, and walked away. Better yet send it electronically so they don't even have to work up a fake smile.

There are a few exceptions, I really think sarcasticfungirl enjoys the hell out of what she does. We had great conversation and she really acted like she was having fun during the physical portion of the evening. If that was an act, it was a damned good one.

I generally agree with your statements but I would amend this statement to be "Remember that she is trying to make a good impression on you so you will give her money" While they may understand it's pay for play and they might even be attracted to you but never forget the real reason they are there "so you will give them money".

[Twister100]

Remember that she is trying to make a good impression on you so you will f**k her and give her money.

I generally agree with your statements but I would amend this statement to be "Remember that she is trying to make a good impression on you so you will give her money" While they may understand it's pay for play and they might even be attracted to you but never forget the real reason they are there "so you will give them money".

[RawDogger]

Also paying attention to case, spaces, etc in names. 'firstlast' is not the same username as 'first last' I've gotten frustrated with that quite a few times, having to try different combinations to try and find the right one.

I completely agree and I will try to remember to always do this.

[Marko Ramius]

Pro Tip: Every meet-and-greet should end in action.

Every single meet-and-greet I've done has ended in action. In one case, I got us a hotel room. But yes, every single one. In "very intimate" action.

I get it if she's overpriced or fugly, but otherwise, you smile, you chat, you compliment, you touch, you stroke and you listen. You get her in your car to go somewhere "more private". And then to her place.
....

Well, yes and no.

I really much prefer either talking on the phone (or Skype or FaceTime) for ten or fifteen minutes before meeting her. If she can't or won't do that I offer a M&G at a Starbuck's or Cheesecake Factory. If she won't do that I move on to some other girl.

The biggest reason I dropped that Dupont lady (and I also suspected she wasn't really in Dupont) was the she wouldn't do any of those things.

For an M&G I think it best to go in with the attitude that you aren't getting laid today, at least not with her. A lot of these girls are really f**ked up and if you get bad vibes it will be easiest to just block her and move on. If you are thinking with your schlong it is a lot tougher (for me at least) to be critical and pick up on the small cues. Remember that she is trying to make a good impression on you so you will f**k her and give her money. So even if she is a serious nut job the clues are likely subtle. And if you have a stiffy you probably can't do subtle well.

I usually don't offer anything for an M&G, except for the latte and snack.

[EagleStar]

Downloaded the Chinese messaging system where you can make voice and video calls. But best of all, you can shake your phone and see all the people who are also shaking their phones. You can also turn on the people nearby feature and see others who also who have turned on this feature and send the ones you like a greeting. I sent a greeting and received a response. She wanted me to pick her up after work, and show her my home. The next day she showed me her home and told me she wanted to go slow if we had a relationship. The next day I took her to my house where she said she was tired from working and wanted to lay down on my bed. She proceeded to take off her clothes and climbed into my bed. Guess this is going SLOW. Whenever I want sex, I am suppose to call her. She likes Americans. She does not like Chinese men because they are "small". Consider WeChat. It's a great way to meet Chinese girls.

[BuckNaked123]

While we are on the subject of challenges searching for someone, and thus the value in including a link to her profile, I'd like to add a request that whenever someone posts about a particular girl, even in response to another post, please include her name in the headline, or at least in the body of the message. If someone posts about SexySugarBabe with her name only in the headline, and someone else responds with valuable information but does not include her name in their headline or the body of their response, then when I search on here for SexySugarBabe, I will not see that response. Including the name somewhere means your post will show up when someone searches about that girl.

I completely agree and I will try to remember to always do this.

[SeattleSilver1]

While we are on the subject of challenges searching for someone, and thus the value in including a link to her profile, I'd like to add a request that whenever someone posts about a particular girl, even in response to another post, please include her name in the headline, or at least in the body of the message. If someone posts about SexySugarBabe with her name only in the headline, and someone else responds with valuable information but does not include her name in their headline or the body of their response, then when I search on here for SexySugarBabe, I will not see that response. Including the name somewhere means your post will show up when someone searches about that girl.

[Twister100]

For a site as large as SA that is trying to link people together, it is embarrassing how bad the search feature is on that site!

So, with a supposed SA user name (jb2468), age (34) and city (Des Moines, WA), I was unable to find the profile for JB2468, who apparently likes to fuck bare for $200.

A filter of ages 31-36 (the slider wouldn't get any narrower for me) within 50 miles of Seattle, it turned up 262 "Sugar Babies," none of whom were JB2468.

Tiny, can you post a link to her profile, please?

Thanks! Rock Chalk.

Search on SA is horrible which is why I think best practice is to provide a link if you're going to post something. However, what seems to work for me when searching SA for a name is to use the "reset all" first, then leave the default distance range to about 100 miles for Seattle or the particular major city you are looking for. The search is very sensitive to spelling so usually I'll start with a copy paste of the name reported here making sure to not include any periods etc. Then I try variations of capitalization and shortening the name.

[Aegean45]

For a site as large as SA that is trying to link people together, it is embarrassing how bad the search feature is on that site!

So, with a supposed SA user name (jb2468), age (34) and city (Des Moines, WA), I was unable to find the profile for JB2468, who apparently likes to fuck bare for $200.

A filter of ages 31-36 (the slider wouldn't get any narrower for me) within 50 miles of Seattle, it turned up 262 "Sugar Babies," none of whom were JB2468.

Tiny, can you post a link to her profile, please?

Thanks! Rock Chalk.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5a952...5-300a38d5b27e