"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Rvaexec60]

Does anyone have any info on this girl called May who was on SA. Her phone number starts with a 512 area code.

[MineTooTell]

Any one seen her? Been around since May so maybe someone has met her. We just started chatted.

https://www.seeking.com/member/91787...4-7ae56b007b93

Thanks.

[BookerTNelson]

I thought about putting Sugar Daddy on them, but I know that terms creeps out some girls.

Seeking Arrangement seems to convey the message but leaves some ambiguity if I was ever confronted about the card.

Like I wrote, I never make repeated contact with any female. If I give her a card and she doesn't text, she will not hear from me again.

If she posts it on social media, all they will get it a fake name and a burner number.

If she responds positively, she will learn more about me at a M&G.

But make no mistake. The second a girl says something that leaves me with the impression that she is uncomfortable, I ghost.

Understood, we're very much on the same page. I just don't think the SA tag on the card is necessary but it's just personal preference.

[JustLonely]

I just loaded the app. Works fine but I was wondering if any users have seen any pitfalls to it? I have it logging me in via my fake Facebook account and email address. I blocked it from accessing my contact list so hope it's good to go for the long term.

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I have been banned on SA about 5 times. Tinder about 20. Same game but on Tinder no need to worry about a new payment type (the best part of it all).

New IP, VPN or cell data.

No need for a burner on Tinder, I use the TextNow app to register (they will give you a new number if needed about every 14 days).

New name, email and picture if possible. I never link to any social media.

When you are up and running hold back take it easy the first few days on what you write in you profile and pictures you add. Thats when you are scrutinized the most.

Easy into adding more on your profile till you find your sweet spot.

Thanks for the info.

I didn't know about TextNow.

For sure, never use the same photo. All the sites now seem to use pic recognition to connect profiles.

[Newbie1961]

I have been banned on SA about 5 times. Tinder about 20. Same game but on Tinder no need to worry about a new payment type (the best part of it all).

New IP, VPN or cell data.

No need for a burner on Tinder, I use the TextNow app to register (they will give you a new number if needed about every 14 days).

New name, email and picture if possible. I never link to any social media.

When you are up and running hold back take it easy the first few days on what you write in you profile and pictures you add. Thats when you are scrutinized the most.

Easy into adding more on your profile till you find your sweet spot.

Get a new burner. Do not connect it to your WiFi. Only use cell data.

Don't use any existing contact info to register the burner. Use a real address like an apartment complex.

Use a new email address. Don't use any existing contact info to register the email address.

Never use the burner for anything connected with your old / existing contact info. Never use your WiFi to connect with it.

If you do all of the above, Tinder won't link you back to your old account.

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Fair point but if that's your stance on LE then I would ditch the biz cards or at the very least take off "Seeking Arrangement". (IMO the Seeking Arrangement tag isn't necessary at all).

I thought about putting Sugar Daddy on them, but I know that terms creeps out some girls.

Seeking Arrangement seems to convey the message but leaves some ambiguity if I was ever confronted about the card.

Like I wrote, I never make repeated contact with any female. If I give her a card and she doesn't text, she will not hear from me again.

If she posts it on social media, all they will get it a fake name and a burner number.

If she responds positively, she will learn more about me at a M&G.

But make no mistake. The second a girl says something that leaves me with the impression that she is uncomfortable, I ghost.

[OliverNP]

I can have a new profile up and running on Tinder or Bumble within 8-10 hours again.

So Tinder no longer requires FB account?

[BookerTNelson]

I have business cards with only my name and burner number and "Seeking Arrangement" on them.

When I see a prospect, I hand it to them without saying anything more about intentions. Most often, it is accompanied by a tip for waiting the table, etc.

I have good success with this method. 20% of the time I will get a text.

As for LE. These days, you can end up in jail for looking at a girl the wrong way if you are in the wrong jurisdiction. All a girl needs to do is tell a judge that she felt threatened, then you're facing a DVPO. That's why I never make a second move without acceptance of a first move. Go to the local family court and listen to some of the weak stories that end up with DVPOs. Something as simple as an unwanted phone call can get you one.

Fair point but if that's your stance on LE then I would ditch the biz cards or at the very least take off "Seeking Arrangement". (IMO the Seeking Arrangement tag isn't necessary at all).

[BookerTNelson]

I always struggled with Tinder because of the photo part. I assumed the girls want to see what the guy looks like but maybe the SBs know what's up. That, and it's on my phone and I don't trust it to be discreet.

Maybe with TER coming back certain activity will migrate away from SA?

I use the same nondescript pic on Tinder that I use on SA and I've never had an issue and currently have about 45 chats open.

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Nice story, So I ALWAYS go after low. Medium wage workers. I do it mostly because that's honestly where the gold is in these situations. They're fucking anyway, they probably hate their jobs and it may be their side job they're working to make ends meet so a SD giving them some side cash for what they're already doing is a win / win for them and they may be able to quit their side job.

Always carry cash. I travel frequently for work as well but I always keep some cash for coffee, lunch, etc when I'm making a play on a potential SB. The thing with waitresses is they usually get hit on frequently so I try to build a little more rapport with them by frequenting them if I'm really interested. Other things like cashiers, Walmart workers, etc. I shoot my shot right there with a card that I have for the occasion. I find a reason to engage them, make a few jokes, ask for lunch recommendations, give them compliments and then go for the kill. 3/10 I'll get at least a text and usually 1/10 it'll go beyond that one text conversation.

Also, don't think LE would even think twice about your situation. At worst, you're a creepy guy that took a shot.

I have business cards with only my name and burner number and "Seeking Arrangement" on them.

When I see a prospect, I hand it to them without saying anything more about intentions. Most often, it is accompanied by a tip for waiting the table, etc.

I have good success with this method. 20% of the time I will get a text.

As for LE. These days, you can end up in jail for looking at a girl the wrong way if you are in the wrong jurisdiction. All a girl needs to do is tell a judge that she felt threatened, then you're facing a DVPO. That's why I never make a second move without acceptance of a first move. Go to the local family court and listen to some of the weak stories that end up with DVPOs. Something as simple as an unwanted phone call can get you one.

[Member #6951]

I always struggled with Tinder because of the photo part. I assumed the girls want to see what the guy looks like but maybe the SBs know what's up. That, and it's on my phone and I don't trust it to be discreet.

Maybe with TER coming back certain activity will migrate away from SA?

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I got banned on tinder about a year ago looking for SB's and have not been able to sign back on with a new account. Is there some way to bypass the ban? They seem to recognize the numbers I use and multiple FB accounts I try to sign back up with.

Get a new burner. Do not connect it to your WiFi. Only use cell data.

Don't use any existing contact info to register the burner. Use a real address like an apartment complex.

Use a new email address. Don't use any existing contact info to register the email address.

Never use the burner for anything connected with your old / existing contact info. Never use your WiFi to connect with it.

If you do all of the above, Tinder won't link you back to your old account.

[EBob1111]

Come on man. She's about as close as you get to a street walker without actually walking the streets. This girl is so desperate for money she's not shutting anything down.

I just think that if they wanted everyone to have their number they'd post it on STG instead of go the SB route.

[ItsAHobby45]

She texted me that her phone is blowing up with texts from numbers she doesn't know, she's probably going to shut down to make it stop. For the record I'm all for sharing intel on SBs but don't think it's good practice to give out their numbers to people they don't know. They are all easy to contact through SA and they can respond if they choose to. Passing out their number makes them feel like ******, ruins their delusion that they're not, and screws it up for the rest of us.

Come on man. She's about as close as you get to a street walker without actually walking the streets. This girl is so desperate for money she's not shutting anything down.