"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[ItsAHobby45]

Again. There's a difference in finding one that is LOOKING for a SD and turning one that is curious or on the fence about even trying it.

This is definitely the case. The girls on Tinder that say they are looking for a sd are the ones that read about it in a magazine or website that makes it seem like they will live this glamorous life if they find a sd so they are expecting $1000 just to be your arm candy for the evening. It's not hard to spot the Tinder girls that have gps. They will typically be wearing a tight long dress and have 1/4" of makeup on their face. Avoid them as it's a waste of time much like seeking. For me, there is no way I'm ever paying these girls enough to change their life. I get bored with them after fucking them 2/3 times anyway so there is no opportunity of consistency with me.

For Tinder you just have to cast a wide net. With the 19 yo Tinder hottie I'm meeting with this evening I matched with her and messaged her some hilarious pickup line I stole from someone else and she ate it up. The pickup line was a mix of funny, mildly sexual but very tasteful so it seems to weed out the prude ones that wouldn't be down for something like that anyway. After a few minutes of chatting I throw out the whole idea of being a sb to them in a half joking way and that's it. You'd be surprised at how many respond with mild interest so you know they are at least open to the possibility. At that point just sell them on the benefits and they are yours.

I was in Delaware last week on business and used this exact method on an 18 yo half white half Latina girl I matched with on Tinder. She was clueless to anything sugar dating but had a clear interest in the money and was open to meeting me. I asked her about money thinking she'd come back with some unrealistic number but after saying she really didn't know what she should ask for I continued to press her and she said $75. She said she would meet me that night but unfortunately I was an hour and a half away so I found something else but I'm back up there the first week of January and I'll be seeing her.

[Rvaexec60]

I have a FC set up with this lady called May. Can someone let me know if you can share your experience with her?

[Cabsauv1997]

I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

Okay, so say more about this. This is where so much of the game is won and lost.

[Truncated]

Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

If I had my 30's to do over, I would have gotten a vasectomy and then hung out at the local church looking for a nice girl with whom I could have babies.

LOL.

[BookerTNelson]

How much sugar did you end up offering to each of them? Did you have to negotiate what activities they would do for that or did it just happen naturally?

I took care of a phone bill for one (85 $? The others were shopping for less than $150 each. I don't negotiate activities LOL, these aren't escorts and the last thing I want to do is feel like I'm negotiating each stroke. I tell them this will feel like a fwb situation that theyre used to but theyll get other benefits besides the orgasms that theyre missing.

[BookerTNelson]

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

Again. There's a difference in finding one that is LOOKING for a SD and turning one that is curious or on the fence about even trying it.

[BookerTNelson]

Maybe you're not married but hopefully someone here is and can advise. Are you able to set up a profile with no pic / blurred pic, or make them private like you can on SA?

Yes, I'm married. I use the same generic pic that I use on Seeking. I try not to send ANY pic and when I absolutely have to, I send it on Snapchat. That way if they screenshot it, I back away instantly and move on.

[HappyHunter44]

I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

Yep!! None of my SBs even remotely think I need them. I make sure that I come off that way from the beginning. Want them, sure - I make them feel hot and wanted. Need them, never - and they know it. And interestingly enough they seem to get a kick out of the fact that I actually want to bang them.

[ItsAHobby45]

Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

You've got me all wrong. I do look younger than my actual age but I'm not the guy in the picture you paint. I'm in shape but more on the thin side. I'm just very ordinary really. I wish my dick worked like you said. I've been fucking hotter girls the past few months than I ever did in my life and I still struggle sometimes to get where I need to be but I blame that on nerves and not something medically. I just sell myself really well. I'd rate myself a 7. 5-8 on a scare as far as looks but I'm great at convincing most of these girls that they need me more than I need them. If you can do that they are usually quick to drop their panties.

[DCSeeker]

That hasn't been my experience so far with Tinder. Out of all the girls I've talked to only one had unrealistic expectations when I brought up sugar dating but her profile pictures just screamed high maintenance anyway so it was expected and not my type anyway.

My current best candidate is a 19 yo gorgeous girl next door type. She's home in Richmond for holiday break with her parents right now. She was completely naive to anything sugar related but is very open to it as long as things stay very discreet and likes the idea of having guaranteed money every time she comes to visit her family.

Aren't you 31 or 32 and single? I'm sure you're young and fit. With all of the girl's you bang, you must have a young guy's stamina. You're probably walking around with a raging hard-on all day. You're the type of guy that most young girls are looking for on all dating apps. They'll fuck your brains out for free if you make them think they'll get a ring and a bunch of babies out of it. We might not all have your same experience.

[ItsAHobby45]

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

That hasn't been my experience so far with Tinder. Out of all the girls I've talked to only one had unrealistic expectations when I brought up sugar dating but her profile pictures just screamed high maintenance anyway so it was expected and not my type anyway.

My current best candidate is a 19 yo gorgeous girl next door type. She's home in Richmond for holiday break with her parents right now. She was completely naive to anything sugar related but is very open to it as long as things stay very discreet and likes the idea of having guaranteed money every time she comes to visit her family.

[EBob1111]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

How much sugar did you end up offering to each of them? Did you have to negotiate what activities they would do for that or did it just happen naturally?

[Sterling44]

I have seen a huge up tick in SB on Tinder. However, I wonder how many of them are real or serious. I chat with a few of them but they eventually go dark. I've also seen a lot of fake profiles on tinder providing their Snapchat and 9 our of 10 times when I go to SC the profile is just a porno site.

I tried Tinder after my divorce. Any girl on Tinder who says she is looking for a sugardaddy is expecting to be driving around in a sports car and living in a luxury apartment on our dime. Those girls want big presents, like $10,000 breast implants. That's their definition of Sugardaddy. At least the SA girls know the deal. I wouldn't waste too much of your money taking them to dinner for nothing.

[ItsAHobby45]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

Can you share some pictures of these girls? I only ask because I feel like I do pretty well in this game but finding and getting 3 to the FC in a weeks time just isn't something I'm capable of doing and I spend a lot of time at this. I'm wondering if I'm just being extremely picky with looks which is why I don’t have numbers like that.

I share your interest in turning the girls into sb's though. That's so much more fun than just finding a sb and getting her to the FC.

[EBob1111]

Depends on your approach honestly. I'm on there looking to turn civi's into SB's, not find SB's that are already in the game or on another site. It's kind of amazing how quickly you can turn one in a simple texting conversation. They all think about it, they're just too scared to put themselves out there.

Last week I had meet ups just from Tinder activity. 3 turned into FC action, the other is a little slower but I'm seeing her tomorrow. Ton of fake profiles but you can definitely just spot who is a real woman and who isn't.

Maybe you're not married but hopefully someone here is and can advise. Are you able to set up a profile with no pic / blurred pic, or make them private like you can on SA?