"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-13-19 08:34

Originally Posted by EBob1111 [View Original Post]

. . Conducted themselves like UTRs right from the get-go so I'm sure it's happened to them many times before. The younger the girl the more diplomatic you have to be, the older ones seem able to roll with it and not make any waves.

Yes, it's definitely a case by case basis. I've ran into a few utr's in the past few months and if they are bad at hiding it I just bail. If they are attractive and at least appear to be low volume I'll hit it once and then disappear. One thing utr's seem to have in common is that they are open to hosting so I've learned to avoid any girl that offers to host our meeting. The only problem with that is I'm sure I've missed out on some great legitimate sb pussy because of this. One of my favorites so far was the hot new school teacher in South Hill and she let me fuck her all around her apartment the first time we met. She's one of the ones I caught feelings for so I've had to distance myself.

**Sterling44** · 12-13-19 06:32

Has anyone seen a blonde with the profile name Kindercare? I'm supposed to be meeting her near Chesterfield towne center today. Hopefully, she'll show up.

**Kwagmire** · 12-13-19 05:59

Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]

As we all know, the period is not your friend. This is simply further proof.

I see what you did there, but I will have to respectfully disagree. When the amusement park ride is down for maintenance, I breathe a sigh of relief no matter how careful I've been as a rider in the past month. 4 days of monthly maintenance is WAY better than "monthly maintenance" for 18 years. Period.

**Roadie1** · 12-12-19 19:55

Originally Posted by FanRat [View Original Post]

Her profile is still up and she texted me today.

She is more pro. Quoted 400 for everything but anal straight to the FC with no meet and greet. Its a bit more than I'm trying to spend so I haven't taken her up on it. But her picture does look damn hot so I haven't said no yet either.

I got her down to 350.

**FanRat** · 12-12-19 19:26

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Yes I do see that she closed her profile. Luckily I did take a screen shot.

Her profile is still up and she texted me today.

She is more pro. Quoted 400 for everything but anal straight to the FC with no meet and greet. Its a bit more than I'm trying to spend so I haven't taken her up on it. But her picture does look damn hot so I haven't said no yet either.

**Hal1957** · 12-12-19 15:07

There is a ". " period at the end of your link. The link will work if you remove the period.

Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]

She already took her profile down (or she's randomly blocked both my profiles). That seems "pro" to me.

**EBob1111** · 12-12-19 15:04

Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]

If I'm dropping her after 2 or 3 trips to the FC I've always liked "you're a (insert complementary adjective) girl and amazing in bed, but I'm just not feeling enough connection (taps chest for dramatic effect). I think we both deserve that. " That way she doesn't question it when she sees I'm still active on the site. I'm simply still looking for that great connection.

. . Conducted themselves like UTRs right from the get-go so I'm sure it's happened to them many times before. The younger the girl the more diplomatic you have to be, the older ones seem able to roll with it and not make any waves.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 12-12-19 15:03

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

I think she blocked you because her profile comes up for me.

I can see her profile again. Maybe it was just temporary.

**FeelGoodMd** · 12-12-19 14:21

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I repeat at least twice with most of the girls unless I just cant stomach a second meeting.... I always spend the time to text most of them to tell them how amazing they were. Blah blah blah. What pisses them off is when you pump and dump because that's when they know they were deceived and their pride gets hurt. That's when you have to watch out. Hell has no fury!

This isn't rocket science. It's all just a game and if you play it right there isn't much to worry about.

If I'm dropping her after 2 or 3 trips to the FC I've always liked "you're a (insert complementary adjective) girl and amazing in bed, but I'm just not feeling enough connection (taps chest for dramatic effect). I think we both deserve that. " That way she doesn't question it when she sees I'm still active on the site. I'm simply still looking for that great connection.

**Dash** · 12-12-19 14:12

"All's fair in love and war" is correct; however discretion is the better part of valor is also correct.

Information is power; give it away and now someone can damage you sometimes. Do you trust females that much?

I believe in being discreet and not provoking a girl who will turn against me somehow.

I have told girls about my net worth rising lately and it's not a lie; they imagine I will loosen my purse strings for them, which is a lie they tell themselves. I won't pay over market price no matter what my net worth is.

Hot girls will do anything for the hope of some future gain. I have seen it over and over.

I won't claim to be something I am not except lie about my age; my genes are lucky and I appear younger than my age. This impressed some girls in S. Florida more; they thought I was a young retired who are richer than those who wait till age 62 or 66 to get social security money.

"I never cheated an honest man; they always expected something for nothing; I gave them nothing for something. ".

The trick is having tact and not saying that anyone physically disgusts you; I screwed a beautiful Jamaican girl who had a nasty pussy and breath so what did I tell her? I said I was going back to California which I eventually did.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-12-19 13:25

Originally Posted by DCSeeker [View Original Post]

You said that you tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms so that they don't get your personal info from the front desk guy, but you also said that you lie and tell them anything to get their panties off. Don't they get mad when they realize you lied? That's when I would worry about them going back and telling the front desk some sob story to get your info.

I guess youre correct in that by lying to them I am not treating them with respect. I guess I should have said Im good at making them feel respected even though my only interest is exploring their sexy little bodies although I have felt myself catching feelings for a few of them because they were actually great at what they do.

With that being said, zero of them have found out that anything I told them is a lie. I repeat at least twice with most of the girls unless I just cant stomach a second meeting and when I'm not interested in fucking them anymore I just start distancing myself. I never just fuck a girl and go dark aside from one 19yo VCU girl that I fucked in her apartment. She was horrible. The most unenthusiastic pussy Ive ever had. I told her as soon as I left that she was horrible but I had nothing to worry about because we fucked at her apartment and not a hotel. I always spend the time to text most of them to tell them how amazing they were. Blah blah blah. What pisses them off is when you pump and dump because that's when they know they were deceived and their pride gets hurt. That's when you have to watch out. Hell has no fury. !

This isn't rocket science. It's all just a game and if you play it right there isn't much to worry about.

**DCSeeker** · 12-12-19 12:32

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

It wouldn't be hard for one of these petite little babies to get my information from some dumb ass guy at the front desk of the hotels if they wanted. So far I haven't had any try. I tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms.

You said that you tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms so that they don't get your personal info from the front desk guy, but you also said that you lie and tell them anything to get their panties off. Don't they get mad when they realize you lied? That's when I would worry about them going back and telling the front desk some sob story to get your info.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-12-19 11:43

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

Most girls on the site know the score and figure automatically that your married. The longer term arrangement s where one tends to start thinking bf / gf and promising to leave the SO or other outrageous promise's are where you get into this crap. Then there is just the rotten apple who will try to cause problems, that's luck of draw. If your a high turnover monger the odds increase.

Which is exactly why I have a completely false backstory that each of these girls get. My potential Achilles heel is the FC. While I am not married I can not take these girls back to my house. I just won't do that. It wouldn't be hard for one of these petite little babies to get my information from some dumb ass guy at the front desk of the hotels if they wanted. So far I haven't had any try. I tend to treat these girls with a ton of respect and always leave on good terms.

**John HandCock** · 12-12-19 10:30

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Pretty much this. Anyone telling these hustlers they are married is asking for trouble.

Most girls on the site know the score and figure automatically that your married. The longer term arrangement s where one tends to start thinking bf / gf and promising to leave the SO or other outrageous promise's are where you get into this crap. Then there is just the rotten apple who will try to cause problems, that's luck of draw. If your a high turnover monger the odds increase.

**Truncated** · 12-12-19 09:36

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I only found out her real first name towards the end when she showed up to the FC with Starbucks and it had her first name on it.

That's one good way to find out a girl's real name. Take them to Starbucks and let them order.

Another is to take them to a place like Sephora and go shopping. When it's time to check out, make sure to be at the counter, with cash. The cashier will push to get her email and name for the rewards points. Few girls will lie when it comes to Sephora points. Even fewer are quick enough to lie on the fly at a checkout counter.