"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**DWinthrop** · 12-12-19 09:24

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

If you're only planning to see these girls a time or two why do they even know you're married? I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.

Pretty much this. Anyone telling these hustlers they are married is asking for trouble.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-12-19 09:16

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

What post below are you referring to? If you're talking about my post where I said that I say whatever I need to say in order to get the panties on the ground I don't see what's wrong with that in the least. 90% of these girls are evil young amateur prostitutes that will do anything for 2-3 Benjamin's and not think twice about it. They all lie and cheat to get what they want and couldn't care less about our privacy. Out of all the girls I've met in the past few months there has been one that I'd consider a true sb that was focused on my happiness more than the money. She was the most sensual woman I've ever been with in my life. I saw her several times and every time it was about me and my wants and needs. She actually taught me a lot about my sexuality. She was also very focused on discretion. I only found out her real first name towards the end when she showed up to the FC with Starbucks and it had her first name on it.

**Sterling44** · 12-12-19 09:12

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

You're absolutely right. I've had 3 SBs ask me right away if I'm a young guy pretending to be an old SD. These young guys are making the girls think that we're all fake. I think there was a guy on here that posted that he got blocked immediately because of his age. Hopefully, the girls will weed these guys out. A lot of the girls may be young and dumb, but I'm sure they have enough common sense to know that there aren't fifty 29 year old, wealthy Sugardaddies here in little olde Richmond, Va.

**FeelGoodMd** · 12-12-19 09:08

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

I think she blocked you because her profile comes up for me.

I wondered about this because her profile came up for me when I looked back at our conversation. The problem is the link. TheHobbyLobby put a period after the link and it was read as part of the web address for the profile. Here's the link, with no period.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a612d...a-fbd184169ddc

As we all know, the period is not your friend. This is simply further proof.

**BookerTNelson** · 12-12-19 08:55

Originally Posted by Sage3 [View Original Post]

I spend half my time in Richmond and 1/2 of my time in another city. Most of the girls on seeking that I have talked to want long term support. How many of you flat out lie and tell them that you're going to see them once a week when you know you're definitely not? Is it better to be completely honest and tell them that I might fuck them once or twice and move on? The girls only lower their prices if I tell them that they're going to make a bunch of money off of me every month. And then I'm dealing with irate girls once they realized that I lied to get their panties off. Some of them threaten to tell my wife.

Idk how else to say this but you need some game. You're struggling with minor hurdles in this SA game.

**BigOne73** · 12-12-19 07:39

The Tictoc finDom fiasco not only brought loads of platonic under-age girls to SA, but it also brought teenage boys and 20-32 yr old young men to SA. These guys are what the sugarbabies complain to me about the most when they are crying about SA. These kids are doing exactly what's in the post below to the girls in large numbers and it's ruining the site. That's why there are no "real" sugar babies anymore. Any teenage boy can scrounge up a measly $200 for pussy. The Chipotle drive-thru pays $15/ hour now.

**DCSeeker** · 12-12-19 05:39

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.

So your saying that the girls on seeking are angry and bitter every time I talk to them because you've already seen them first? LOL! I saw your stats in previous reports. It looks like you've sleep with every girl on there! Do you think you could leave some for us? Just kidding! Happy hunting!

**Geechie Dan** · 12-11-19 22:29

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Yes I do see that she closed her profile. Luckily I did take a screen shot.

I think she blocked you because her profile comes up for me.

**MineTooTell** · 12-11-19 21:44

Not sure if I posted about this one. Pics are her but lots of filters used. Not as attractive as the pics would show. Also, lot heavier than you think. Super sweet girl. Once we started chatting it took about 2 minutes to find her on FB. After 2 days of texting, she drove to me, 40 minutes from her. FS was good and she really got into it. Damage was 250 and that's with her driving to my place. If you have questions you can PM, but I won't give out her real name.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d6bef...d-fc2064062a65

**TheHobbyLobby** · 12-11-19 21:24

Originally Posted by FeelGoodMd [View Original Post]

She already took her profile down (or she's randomly blocked both my profiles). That seems "pro" to me.

Yes I do see that she closed her profile. Luckily I did take a screen shot.

**ItsAHobby45** · 12-11-19 19:18

Originally Posted by Sage3 [View Original Post]

I spend half my time in Richmond and 1/2 of my time in another city. Most of the girls on seeking that I have talked to want long term support. How many of you flat out lie and tell them that you're going to see them once a week when you know you're definitely not? Is it better to be completely honest and tell them that I might fuck them once or twice and move on? The girls only lower their prices if I tell them that they're going to make a bunch of money off of me every month. And then I'm dealing with irate girls once they realized that I lied to get their panties off. Some of them threaten to tell my wife.

If you're only planning to see these girls a time or two why do they even know you're married? I tell these girls whatever I have to tell them to get them to the FC with their panties off. The only thing I don't lie to them about is how much I'm going to pay them for their time. Everything else is a completely made up life that doesn't exist. These girls live life on the edge with all the information they share with me. I research every potential prior to meeting them and have been successful in find their social media accounts easily. All it's going to take is these girls pissing off the wrong guy and their biological Daddy is going to get pics / vids / news that he doesn't want to hear about his sweet innocent daughter. The only way I'd ever do something like that is if one of them tried to mess with my personal life. Short of that I have no desire to negatively impact these girls.

**FanRat** · 12-11-19 18:57

Originally Posted by Tidad [View Original Post]

I'm sure you don't need my advice but I'm going to remind you of some things: this site isn't a secret. There is no reason "someone" had to tell her that she had been the subject of a posting here. It's easily possible that she checks in every day, just to take a look. A smart girl will set Google alerts for her screen names across whatever websites and let Google do the work for her; she'll get a notification any time a screen name of hers hits the internet. This is why I almost never post w exact screen names. Just saying.

I met a girl on SA a couple years ago and had lunch and kept in contact for a few months but never got schedules straight to hook up. She is older than my preference but very sexy and was very cool to talk to. (Although she does seem to have a TON of family drama going on.) And she is more UTR or even pro than SB.

Anyway, both of us had different profiles then and I don't remember what hers was but her current one is - https://www.seeking.com/member/e6efe...5-f5923716dfd1.

After I set up my SA account less than a month ago I got a message from her that sounded like we had met but I didn't recognize her right off the bat. I asked a fellow Monger here if he had seen her and he reminded me of her name. We started texting again and were going to set up a date (finally!) and then all of a sudden I get a text from her with screen shots of some of my posts on the Escort and Streetwalker forums and that was it. She won't respond to me now. She has no idea of the context behind those posts and that really sucks.

I don't know if she has an account here and lurks or if a fellow monger shows her posts maybe trying to keep her to himself but either way it is pretty fucked up. Youd like to think that posts here are between mongers. I do know many of that the non SB types know of this site and have accounts but they tend to ignore shit posted here bc many of them have a monkey dragging them along.

My 2 cents.

Be safe!

**FeelGoodMd** · 12-11-19 18:16

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

Anyone had the pleasure of meeting this baby https://www.seeking.com/member/a612d...-fbd184169ddc. She seemed very eager to meet so I smell a pro.

The best time I have had was when I met three SB and we fucked for no money. It was a real coonection and I hope to find that again this around. However, that is a long shot.

She already took her profile down (or she's randomly blocked both my profiles). That seems "pro" to me.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 12-11-19 18:01

Anyone had the pleasure of meeting this baby https://www.seeking.com/member/a612d...-fbd184169ddc. She seemed very eager to meet so I smell a pro.

The best time I have had was when I met three SB and we fucked for no money. It was a real coonection and I hope to find that again this around. However, that is a long shot.