The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Ral613** · 12-06-19 09:37

Yes I know, I'm paranoid. But now anytime a see a mugshot of someone busted for extortion, I start thinking the pic looks familiar.

**ArtImperial** · 12-04-19 00:23

Anyone have any luck with this one? Messaged her a bit and seems legit, but I'd welcome any feedback.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9fbf...9-7f7c0cac1a12

**Svt4628** · 12-01-19 22:00

Originally Posted by XxJohnJohnXx [View Original Post]

JEEZZZ I had a text out of the blue today this morning around 7 am to be exact and it was Alejandra she is been reviewed here, I had gotten in touch with her before but we never matched our schedules it was cold and raining Perfect weather to be plowing some P, and Ale texted me saying she wanted to meet I got up took a shower headed to Raleigh where I got a room next thing you know. Radio silence idk what happened and I don't know if she did that on purpose but it was kinda messed up to get me all exited room was paid already so I texted every single baby I had on my phone luckily I found a rebound I already got a room might as well use it, don't know what happened with Alejandra we have never met before nor pissed her off in any way my guessing she either texted a regular that gave her more $$ or something came up But I never heard back from her oh well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/20739...9-f25a805bba8a

I have not talked to her lately but I've been to her place near Crabtree. I got the feeling that she's semi pro based on two iPhones and the setup in her place. Nice apartment building with minimal but nice furniture in main room. Her room is a mattress and tv on the floor and her "roomie" had a big air mattress. She claimed she had never met anyone but me but we all know that story.

**XxJohnJohnXx** · 12-01-19 15:59

JEEZZZ I had a text out of the blue today this morning around 7 am to be exact and it was Alejandra she is been reviewed here, I had gotten in touch with her before but we never matched our schedules it was cold and raining Perfect weather to be plowing some P, and Ale texted me saying she wanted to meet I got up took a shower headed to Raleigh where I got a room next thing you know. Radio silence idk what happened and I don't know if she did that on purpose but it was kinda messed up to get me all exited room was paid already so I texted every single baby I had on my phone luckily I found a rebound I already got a room might as well use it, don't know what happened with Alejandra we have never met before nor pissed her off in any way my guessing she either texted a regular that gave her more $$ or something came up But I never heard back from her oh well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/20739...9-f25a805bba8a

**Dash** · 12-01-19 14:09

I'm bored so here are two cents; I am lurking from California, I was in S. Florida for about 5 years and had a hot sugar baby ($100) a "sugar chubby ($50) and a hot UTR ($100) These were all free style or introductions from other females (the best way).

The young females do prefer to meet you first because it's a big step for some of them to fuck a stranger for money.

However, I think dinner is unreasonable and would not agree to it for a meet and greet, and I have not done so.

My success in Florida was related to the rumor being spread by females that I had enough dough to spend to make life fun for any girl who hung around me.

It started with my first date with a wild drunk girl but she talked to her coworkers at Home Depot and she bragged; magically two of them started to text me.

I had a gym trainer female for a while and she also spread the rumor to the Jamaican girl who did facials or something. I got her for nothing.

The trick therefore is to let them know that you have money but do not actually part with it; I guess it is a con.

The girls are running a con on you if they promise pussy later "after I get to know you" and you spend $100 on fuckin sushi or in a steak house or similar.

Snowflakes think they are unique; the truth is there are innumerable females selling pussy for $100-$150 . A pussy is about worth what the female could make working at a McJob for a day or two.

**Pubb69** · 12-01-19 12:20

Originally Posted by XxJohnJohnXx [View Original Post]

I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.

The point is that if they want your money with a promise of something later than it's never going to happen in the first place. As if paying for someone's meal isn't enough and to be so stupid and or desperate to pay someone beyond that tests the bounds of insanity. Word always gets around on campus about easy money so it doesn't surprise me they are out there trying to get it from suckers.

**Saronnie** · 11-30-19 23:45

Originally Posted by XxJohnJohnXx [View Original Post]

I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.

This is exactly why I like the MILF types. They generally don't have time for those kind of games. I have had great luck in that category.

**XxJohnJohnXx** · 11-30-19 20:42

I'm seeing an increment of Rinsers on SA have talked to several babies on the past week they all communicate pretty well but when it comes down to meeting they want to meet on a dinner date or movie date and want to get paid $$ just to sit down and have dinner with you LMAO, this is getting ridiculous BUT the sad part of the story is that they keep doing this cause they are acctually scamming people out there I bet there is people paying ridiculous amount of money to these scammers just to sit down and have dinner without even getting physical, that's NOT an arrangement and I certanly wouldn't paid these girls to just come get paid to eat like I can invite my father or someone more meaningful witch I enjoy their company to eat and they would come for free and not some random brat that thinks that she is entitled to get paid just to go out to eat at a restaurant LOL what kind of millennial shit is this seriously the bowl is getting pretty bad I admit it could be really fun if you find the light at the end of the tunnel or you could step on a mine and get blown quick.

**ArtImperial** · 11-29-19 12:10

So true. Wouldn't be there if I didn't at least enjoy the girl's company. They're fun.

The trick is to keep both her motivation and your motivation in mind at all times.

Happy sugaring.

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

Sir, we ALL catch feelings.

So do the SBs.

That is part of being in the sugar bowl.

Once you master that part of the game, you will do well.

Understand that you are going to make a bunch of mistakes in the bowl. Learn from them, and move on.

**VincentCor74** · 11-26-19 15:22

Originally Posted by ADreamer [View Original Post]

For greater good.

That's her friend. I don't know this particular girls' handle. They run together.

**ADreamer** · 11-26-19 14:55

Originally Posted by VincentCor74 [View Original Post]

To the SD meeting his potential new SB at the Starbucks on Falls just now - 1230 ish Tuesday- you need to DM me ASAP.

She's not who she says she is. And her and her friend try to run an extortion scam.

You've been warned.

Run away. And I hope you didn't give her any identifying info.

For greater good.

**VincentCor74** · 11-26-19 13:21

To the SD meeting his potential new SB at the Starbucks on Falls just now - 1230 ish Tuesday- you need to DM me ASAP.

She's not who she says she is. And her and her friend try to run an extortion scam.

You've been warned.

Run away. And I hope you didn't give her any identifying info.

**Truncated** · 11-24-19 07:44

Originally Posted by Pubb69 [View Original Post]

There are many on S. A. Most can be figured out easily. What bothers me are the younger ones under 20 who are on that site because they really need money and it's a last resort and the last thing they would want is to have sex with guys older than their father. I really feel S. A. Is exploiting these girls and could really screw up their lives.

I don't become involved with the ones who aren't old enough to legally drink.

But so many of the 'last resort' SBs, of any age, are on the site not because they cannot pay their rent, but because they want the newest purse, shoes, phone. Or to pay their CC bill because they already bought those things.

I feel as bad for them as I do a problem gambler or alcoholic.

I don't take advantage of them, but I also didn't cause their problems. So it's not my problem.

**Pubb69** · 11-23-19 17:57

There are many on S. A. Most can be figured out easily. What bothers me are the younger ones under 20 who are on that site because they really need money and it's a last resort and the last thing they would want is to have sex with guys older than their father. I really feel S. A. Is exploiting these girls and could really screw up their lives.

**DP1234** · 11-22-19 20:03

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

What do you mean by "turned into a rinser"?

Are you giving her $ but getting nothing in return? If so, stop doing that and the problem will self-resolve.

If she is into you and likes $ in exchange for the P, be open and clear with her about your expectations. Let her know what you are willing to provide, and what you expect in return. Don't mince words.

If she doesn't want to give up the P for $, move on. There are 1,000 other girls in the area who are up for that transaction.

A Rinser is a girl that charms the guy to get gifts. But doesn't return the favor. So a girl that you first start talking to that will not put out at first. "I have to get to know you or so many paid meets first" might be a red flag.