"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[DogBert77]

With the Hoidays fast approaching, I am ready to sign back up to SA again.

What's the prepaid card that works with SA the most? Any specific instructions on registering it and using it?

Thanks.

Gee, this question has been asked and answered so many times it should get a prize for Most FAQ! It's not hard, don't make it hard:

1. Get a OneVanilla gift card. They have Visa and MasterCard versions, sold at CVS, Walmart and probably lots of other places. They all work just fine. Get the kind you add value to once when you buy it, not the loadable ones.

2. Go to OneVanilla website and register a zip code for the card. Any zip code.

3. Use on SA to pay your dues. Use same zip code you registered.

4. Any leftover value you can use for gas or just about anything. With the Visa or MasterCard logo they are good just about everywhere. Gas is good because you can use the unround number value left over down to the cent.

5. You are in charge of answering the question for the next guy, which should happen in about 15 minutes.

[TopGun9]

With the Hoidays fast approaching, I am ready to sign back up to SA again.

What's the prepaid card that works with SA the most? Any specific instructions on registering it and using it?

Thanks.

[Geechie Dan]

Been talking with her, she is sporadic in returning text, and goes balistic if you don't respond immediately.

She got a little impatient with me once when I didn't return a text soon enough, then I told her I was busy at work and she was ok after that. IMHO she seems desperate for the cash and I tend to leave those ones alone. There's much better to be had out there, and I don't plan on repeating.

[GolfMan57]

She got a ride to my place tonight. The good is that she looks like her pics, and maybe a little slimmer. Mid to late 20's. The pussy is very tight, so if you got girth take it easy. The head game was ok, but she seems willing to please.

The bad s that she talks a lot. Keep her focused on the task at hand or she'll go off on a tangent.

Honestly she does not come across as your typical SB although her conversation says she wants something ongoing. Really not sure if I'll repeat, but as I sit here thinking about how tight she was, it will be hard not to repeat. My overall opinion is that she was just ok.

Been talking with her, she is sporadic in returning text, and goes balistic if you don't respond immediately.

[DogBert77]

We hadn't discussed an allowance at all, which is usually a good sign. As we were dressing and getting ready to leave, I handed her an envelope (as I usually do), and she actually seemed legitimately confused by that. This was the weird part: she said something about "I thought that didn't happen until like the third or fourth meeting". I kinda went "huh? And told her that no, we'd actually met up and spent time together, so I was happy to help out.

We've all talked to girls that expected a gift at the M&G (which of course goes against standard protocol). I don't think I've ever talked to anyone before this who was happy to get together and fuck, but not actually get any allowance until a few meetings later.

Anyone ever had a similar experience?

I had one similar experience. Very nice looking girl, great body, but probably the craziest I have encountered. Talked non-stop too. No mention of payment but she kept talking about her rich friends, former boyfriend who paid her bills, etc. Had a couple drinks followed by a great romp, she was extremely submissive and liked it a little rough. Sometimes crazy has its advantages. Afterwards when I slipped her the envelope, she said "what's this?" and seemed genuinely surprised. I suppose I could have skipped that step and she wouldn't have even noticed. Too crazy for me to repeat!

[Ernest Ll]

We hadn't discussed an allowance at all, which is usually a good sign. As we were dressing and getting ready to leave, I handed her an envelope (as I usually do), and she actually seemed legitimately confused by that. This was the weird part: she said something about "I thought that didn't happen until like the third or fourth meeting". I kinda went "huh? And told her that no, we'd actually met up and spent time together, so I was happy to help out.

Anyone ever had a similar experience?

I've had college POTs find $200 for no holes barred to be like a gift from the gods, but never one who thought test drives were needed before $$.

[BStreet]

About the YMMV, went to Text, wanted to meet for a drink, she was agreeable, not sure what your magic was, but she wanted 100 to just meet, yeah. No,

Just a brief thumbs up on this one. An employed young gal who enjoys after work drinks at a hotel bar. YMMV but very fun up in the room as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ba575...7-b93f0479ac3b

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[Zcochran00]

Had a fun first encounter this evening, with one surprising bit of discussion at the end.

I'd been contacted a few days ago by a college girl outside my usual area (still driveable, but definitely further than I'd normally consider). We seemed to click over messaging and text, and I drove out to meet her this evening. We talked for a good couple hours before either of us made a move to get down to business. A couple of her text comments had indicated that she was new to sugaring, and that she knew sex was on the table but might need to feel comfortable with me first. After talking with her in person, though, she made a comment about putting on "a bit of an innocent act". In any case, we had a couple very enthusiastically fun rounds once we got going.

We hadn't discussed an allowance at all, which is usually a good sign. As we were dressing and getting ready to leave, I handed her an envelope (as I usually do), and she actually seemed legitimately confused by that. This was the weird part: she said something about "I thought that didn't happen until like the third or fourth meeting". I kinda went "huh? And told her that no, we'd actually met up and spent time together, so I was happy to help out.

We've all talked to girls that expected a gift at the M&G (which of course goes against standard protocol). I don't think I've ever talked to anyone before this who was happy to get together and fuck, but not actually get any allowance until a few meetings later.

Anyone ever had a similar experience?

[Zcochran00]

Many here use GV for contact w / SBs, it's the safe way to go, you can always ghost and it is hard for them to track you down. I have received multiple calls to my GV # in the past few days from 800 #s, each leaves a voicemail saying stuff like my SSN has been blocked, I need to call in to get this addressed. Obviously, this is a scam, IDK how / why my GV# is being targeted. It seems like this could be a strategy they are using generally.

I've been getting a bunch of those to my real cell number lately, so it seems to be a widespread scam, yeah.

[FarFarAway]

Many here use GV for contact w / SBs, it's the safe way to go, you can always ghost and it is hard for them to track you down. I have received multiple calls to my GV # in the past few days from 800 #s, each leaves a voicemail saying stuff like my SSN has been blocked, I need to call in to get this addressed. Obviously, this is a scam, IDK how / why my GV# is being targeted. It seems like this could be a strategy they are using generally.

[Ernest Ll]

Just a brief thumbs up on this one. An employed young gal who enjoys after work drinks at a hotel bar. YMMV but very fun up in the room as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ba575...7-b93f0479ac3b

Like the general look but always wonder about imipacts of preganancy, and whe she prefers not to say how many kids, I'm thinking at least 2. Trying to avoid the "punched lasagna" or too much tummy softness.

[RVASpider]

She got a ride to my place tonight. The good is that she looks like her pics, and maybe a little slimmer. Mid to late 20's. The pussy is very tight, so if you got girth take it easy. The head game was ok, but she seems willing to please.

The bad s that she talks a lot. Keep her focused on the task at hand or she'll go off on a tangent.

Honestly she does not come across as your typical SB although her conversation says she wants something ongoing. Really not sure if I'll repeat, but as I sit here thinking about how tight she was, it will be hard not to repeat. My overall opinion is that she was just ok.

Thanks for the report. I may hang out once just because of the tightness.

[JustLonely]

Just a brief thumbs up on this one. An employed young gal who enjoys after work drinks at a hotel bar. YMMV but very fun up in the room as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ba575...7-b93f0479ac3b

[TomDickNHarry]

Ok guys, I'm in the midwest but you guys rock the sugar world. I'm in a relatively small (think 100 k) city so there's not a ton of options but enough to keep a guy satisfied. I've had two dinner dates with my latest prospect. She's open to everything. The next date should seal the deal. Last date we discussed the allowance. She said when she studied abroad in Korea she was paid 400,000 which is the USD equivalent about 350 ppm. I'm used to 100 - maybe 150. I pay more in Vegas for one and done, and remember this is small city rates. This girl is a hot little latina and wants (or so she says) an exclusive arrangement. She has expensive tastes, although I picked the restaurants. Dinner was 150 each date. I don't provide any gift until the drilling begins. I didn't give her an amount but she's hinting at 3. 3 per week simply is not in my budget. Typically I'm at 100 plus an occasional small bonus plus dinners plus a vacation together (think Vegas). She doesn't have a car and has 5 roommates so her options are a bit limited as well. I'd like to retain this one if possible (and if the bedroom activity is good). How would you guys approach this for a guy on a limited budget but willing to spend on mutual fun in addition to a modest allowance?

First of all, as has been mentioned in this thread a lot, who knows what she got in the past or if she did it at all. Even if it's true, it's probably not as much as she says (they always embellish) and Korea has no applicability to here anyway. But "what I got last time" is a very common negotiating tactic that they can read about on forums and reddit that helps frame the price. You just need to decide what you want to give her and make the offer. Honestly, I wouldn't do even do a 3rd dinner without a negotiation to make sure it's going somewhere at an allowance you can do. Sounds like you're going to nice places, and are going to be in for almost 500 bucks without any clothes coming off? I've been patient like that with some that say they need to get comfortable but I don't spend a lot of money in the process, that way I know they're not rinsers and are really just trying to get comfortable. And heck, it it were regular dating I expect physical things to be happening by date 2 or 3. If you do want to make your offer in person, change the plan to meeting for a cocktail or meeting at a hip coffee shop and save 100+ in case it goes nowhere. If she balks at that, she's a rinser and / or is not likely to accept your offer anyway. As far as amount, 200 in my town has become the bare minimum. If you really like her and can swing it, that's probably what I'd offer, and I'd frame it as she did, "In the past I've done 100 to 150 but I really like you and want to make this work and would do 200 a date for you, but that's the best I can do, especially with your living situation and transportation issues. " Good luck brother.

[Geechie Dan]

Please do. I've been texting with her but haven't been able to find time that works for me. Are you going to her place?

She got a ride to my place tonight. The good is that she looks like her pics, and maybe a little slimmer. Mid to late 20's. The pussy is very tight, so if you got girth take it easy. The head game was ok, but she seems willing to please.

The bad s that she talks a lot. Keep her focused on the task at hand or she'll go off on a tangent.

Honestly she does not come across as your typical SB although her conversation says she wants something ongoing. Really not sure if I'll repeat, but as I sit here thinking about how tight she was, it will be hard not to repeat. My overall opinion is that she was just ok.