WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**RegularJoe1985** · 09-14-19 16:55

Originally Posted by Sufuyuyg8 [View Original Post]

She has no intention of meeting you. She wants money up front for "babysitting".

Feel free to give her money without meeting first. Maybe she might see you. Report back if you do.

Have never given any amount before meeting first, am sure not going to start now.

**CoolDaddy07** · 09-14-19 15:20

Good Day Gents, new to this and wanted to hear from you seniors about Ashley Madison website? I know most like SA & WYP but just curious about Ashley as that site been out there for a while.

**Sufuyuyg8** · 09-14-19 11:37

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/994e3...0-e921bf662f38

Thanks.

She has no intention of meeting you. She wants money up front for "babysitting".

Feel free to give her money without meeting first. Maybe she might see you. Report back if you do.

**SteveStone123** · 09-14-19 06:40

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

How do you guys find these women on social media?

Some girls use their real numbers while posting ads. Search with that number in social media like fb and if you are lucky you will get their profiles.

**BuffBill75** · 09-14-19 06:27

How do you guys find these women on social media?

**Telcova** · 09-13-19 21:29

https://www.seeking.com/member/eef48...1-3d85979af219

So I finally met her. Started with a lunch, no fee. Didn't think she even liked me. Very shy, very awkward. Told me she felt comfortable with an arrangement with me. She had said previously that she was a virgin but has since revised that. I don't think she was ever a virgin. She has since texted me for a third meeting but she is very awkward and not socially adept.

The first officially compensated meeting (second meeting) at $250 was at a hotel. She can't host. Started with DATY then came up for FS and she said "I thought you didn't want to do this the first time"? I said, is it ok? And she simply said "yeah". Boom. The bad: no BBBJ, no DFK. Didn't really feel like repeating (third visit) but she texted me but I haven't followed up and haven't heard from her since. YMMV.

**SamTam** · 09-13-19 20:06

Originally Posted by LostSoul [View Original Post]

Based on her social media, it looks like she is at UMD. But upfront $$ with no intimacy on first date, screams for scam. No thanks!

FWIW. I'm seeing quite a bit of them lately on female lawyers and law students. Don't know anything on this one, but its been an interesting transition to where its acceptable now.

**RegularJoe1985** · 09-13-19 19:15

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/994e3...0-e921bf662f38

Thanks.

**Telcova** · 09-13-19 18:20

Originally Posted by Pats4653 [View Original Post]

So has anyone met with this Ashley? Been texting with her offline and she is ready to meet. I saw her posting on SA and saw that someone had seen her but cannot find the post for the life of me. Can't remember what the damage was but currently at $$ and everything on the table. Started at $$$ but she talked her down but I think I could have gone lower.

I was texting her and was supposed to see her but changed my mind after seeing additional photos that she send another fellow SD. She also has a bunch of kids and I can't imagine that pussy is very tight after all of them came out. She might be worth $200 but that lower pic looks much worse than the ones that I've seen. It makes me justify my decision after all.

**Telcova** · 09-13-19 18:16

Originally Posted by FunForDevils [View Original Post]

Yes, pictures matches her profile and she looks way better in person if that helps. I will repeat her soon but I have other flowers to pluck as its the blooming season right now. LOL.

Happy plucking.

--FFD.

I'm trying to communicate with her but she's gone dark with me and I'm not sure why. I'll keep trying. Thanks for the info.

**Jim Alovera** · 09-13-19 14:18

Originally Posted by FunForDevils [View Original Post]

Yes, pictures matches her profile and she looks way better in person if that helps. I will repeat her soon but I have other flowers to pluck as its the blooming season right now. LOL.
Happy plucking.
--FFD.

Whats the damage. Given that she hosts?

**FunGuy570** · 09-13-19 13:36

Originally Posted by FunForDevils [View Original Post]

Here is how I deal with this question. I just be openly honest and say I am looking for f buddy if I feel that the girl is DTF based on profile description.

Else I use word like physical intimacy and romance. Who cares if you intend to go for PPM in the later conversation. They know what we are looking except new SBs to this scene.

If they ghost on me I don't give an F. There are plenty of butterflies out there. I also mention that I don't want to waster time of anyone and its okay to disagree on terms and depart without any hard feelings.

This does play important mind game, it elevates your impression on good felow for SB and gives them sense of safety and no BS game.

Yea conversation I had shared from an SD friend recently.

SB: I really need money right now, I'm broke from school expenses.

SD: So it seems your an experienced SB. How does the relationship usually work for you?

SB: I like to get to know the guys first. I have self respect and want to feel respected. I'm not desperate for money? I would like to develop trust, I know my self worth.

SD: Ok so what does that mean? How often are your dates usually, how do you get your allowance, what's your expectation?

SB: They're normal dates. I'm not sure why your so confused. I take Venmo and Cashapp. I want someone who respects me and understands I don't put out right away. I don't have sex with non SA guys on first dates. I've never had a one night stand.

SD: I've had SB's before. I like to go on dates and if you don't want to get intimate until your comfortable that's fine. I will cover the cost of everything on the date. I don't compensate though until we reach the level of comfort we need to take it further and discuss how its going to work in detail going forward.

SB: So you mean no allowance until we have sex.

SD: Yes, sex is small part of the type of arrangement I am looking for. However I do want to be friends and the possibilities are endless in regards to what we can do. I want to enjoy time together not just inside a hotel or bedroom. As I said I am willing to take time to build that bond but no compensation until I get to a point where it is mutually beneficial.

SB: I don't think that's fair that money is being held over my head until intimacy becomes part of the relationship. I hate that expectation people off this site have. I prefer things to be natural and unforced.

SD: Well if someone is giving you money to spend time with them and your not exclusive or pushing towards something greater long term it not ever going to be a fully natural relationship. Thats why its called an arrangement and the website we met on exists. You both communicate your expectations and come to and agreement that way its mutually beneficial. I'm all about natural relationships but in a Natural relationship money is not exchanged via venmo or cashapp as you say. It is not good to blue lines between a real natural relationship and sugar. That protects both parties from feeling like they are being ripped off and having hurt feelings. I have had several arrangements and a few of them have actually turned into all kinds of things including real relationships but it is all about communication.

SB: i can give you sometime next week depending on my work schedule but money is my priority right now so i'm going to put working and guys that can offer financial assistants without intamacy first

Pretty much this girl wants to get paid for doing nothing. No wonder she has been on this site for months and is complaining she is broke. I find the best time are when I meet a new potential SB and no expectations are discussed prior. We just meet and have fun together. Then when the time is right after comfort is established we can discuss the expectations and business aspects. I make it clear in my profile what I am looking for, still end up in these conversations.

**FunForDevils** · 09-13-19 13:30

Originally Posted by Telcova [View Original Post]

Thanks for the great detail on your session with her. Would you repeat? I'm supposed to see her next week. Does she look more like her locked profile pics or the ones she sends via txt. The profile pics look much nicer. TIA.

Yes, pictures matches her profile and she looks way better in person if that helps. I will repeat her soon but I have other flowers to pluck as its the blooming season right now. LOL.

Happy plucking.

--FFD.

**FunForDevils** · 09-13-19 13:07

Originally Posted by FunGuy570 [View Original Post]

The worst part of the sugar dating experience is the "what are you looking fo"are part. Unless they are pros they won't tell you. You will then have to throw out a guess and offer. They will usually smile, nod, ghost and dissapeer if they don't agree. Very rarily any counter. Anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this part?

Here is how I deal with this question. I just be openly honest and say I am looking for f buddy if I feel that the girl is DTF based on profile description.

Else I use word like physical intimacy and romance. Who cares if you intend to go for PPM in the later conversation. They know what we are looking except new SBs to this scene.

If they ghost on me I don't give an F. There are plenty of butterflies out there. I also mention that I don't want to waster time of anyone and its okay to disagree on terms and depart without any hard feelings.

This does play important mind game, it elevates your impression on good felow for SB and gives them sense of safety and no BS game.

**Lost Soul** · 09-13-19 10:42

Based on her social media, it looks like she is at UMD. But upfront $$ with no intimacy on first date, screams for scam. No thanks!

Originally Posted by FunGuy570 [View Original Post]

This one claims to be a law student local in town but after speaking to her I have my doubts. She looks like a chunky junkie in her pics and is more than likely making up a story. Not many law students have large upper arm tats. Wants money upfront and does not provide intimacy on the first date and says she will not compromise on that. Likely a scam. She talks like a pro or pro scammer.

She says she has these rules because she has slept with guys off the site who did not come through with her allowance. Anyone find anything different?

https://www.seeking.com/member/676f3...1-4ffc9ca5278e