The worst part of the sugar dating experience is the "what are you looking fo"are part. Unless they are pros they won't tell you. You will then have to throw out a guess and offer. They will usually smile, nod, ghost and dissapeer if they don't agree. Very rarily any counter. Anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this part?
I have no sympathy for either mongers or SBs who try to physically harm the other party.
In this case, I have no issues if folks set meets with her, make her drive long distances (seems she is willing to drive) and.
- either meet and say no.
OR.
- be a no-show.
That's the best way I think to get her to change her ways. Else she'll be getting some one or the other for her scam.
I read the long post and warning.
This woman had this all set up to scam. It's probably the worst case scenario because you are in her turf and her violence and threats have one intention. To get the guy to give up the $. I have been a victim of a giving the cash up front and them dashing but never something like the poster described with physical battery and threats with a knife. I think an even worse scenario would have been her boyfriend or pimp being in the house beating you up.
I'd say to be safe a bunch of no shows. I don't think you would want to meet someone like that in person.
She's had a few different usernames, but same profile I think. Chatted a ways back and never took the plunge. Decided to message again and she was ready to meet right away. DTF for $$$ . Seems like everything was on the menu but didn't last very long myself so was pretty quick in and out. Wasn't much for chatting other than setting up 2nd visit. Not a pro, but not new either.
Stipper. Asked her if she dances. Said yes. Means she's a stripper. Mariner State Park. Not sure what's in that area. Can't host; wants $400 per meeting. Didn't ask for lower, she didn't offer. Here's the pic of her in the stripper locker room. Anyone recognize the place? LOL.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom. I tell her that I brought my own condoms and they're in my car, I will go get them. She insists that we stay there and that I use the one she has. I don't agree to that. I propose that since we don't know each other well yet (and smelling scam from the earlier request), I can pay her half now and half after. She flies off the hook and says I should just pay her the full amount because she's trusted me in having me back to her house. I tell her that I understand and appreciate that a lot because that does show a lot of trust, but she could easily walk out of the room and say she's not doing anything now after I send it to her, so I'm trying to meet her half way. I'll skip the back and forth and get to the part where she starts hitting me and grabbing my throat as I try to get my shoes on since I know this isn't happening. I am significantly bigger and stronger than her but I'm also smarter than that. When I don't respond by doing something dumb like striking her, she gets a knife and threatens to not let me leave unless I give her the money. This goes back and forth and she's totally deranged, insisting that I just pay her the money, eyes totally bugging out of her head at this point screaming at me to just pay her and she needs it (she also told me that she has a boyfriend who knows she's on the site but who doesn't know that she's having sex with guys--yeah right! So he may be some kind of pimp or addict and have some kind of hold over her where she gets money for them). I eventually get my way to the door--enduring more strikes from her, fortunately without the knife which she threw in the midst of screaming at me and trying to tackle me--and get out the slider out the rear of the house. She yells something about the front door as I walk out and then runs around to the front door, exits the house and says she's going to stand behind my car and not let me leave unless I pay her. She rants about there being guns in the house and people coming to help her and follow me and not let me leave and follow me home. She rants about ruining my life. Total freaking nutcase meltdown. True to her word, she gets behind my car and when I put it in reverse and slowly backup, she grabs the rear wiper and bends it then gets out of the way and I drive off. So yeah, total nutcase. No one in their right mind should bother with this girl who has clear mental issues. (She told me about her childhood, which wasn't good--though I was impressed with how she'd persevered despite it. She did talk about her perspective on sugarbabying given her experience on the site and the truly fucked up dudes there on it--she spoke of one experience which sounded a lot like a prior encounter described on this site and from her description sounded like she was dealing with an. Unusual person. Though she also described some totally fine experiences too.) This is what the demise of craigslist has done. There were street walkers, like this girl would otherwise be, who used craigslist as a safer way to stay off the street, and now that that's gone have pages on SA and other sites, but they're not sugarbabies, they're just hookers. Anyway, if you have any self-preservation in doing this and actually want to hook up instead of getting ripped off or threatened by knife point, don't contact her at all.
It sounds like you had a bad experience, but that's a lot of text for one paragraph. This is like trying to read Joyce or Faulkner.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom. I tell her that I brought my own condoms and they're in my car, I will go get them. She insists that we stay there and that I use the one she has. I don't agree to that. I propose that since we don't know each other well yet (and smelling scam from the earlier request), I can pay her half now and half after. She flies off the hook and says I should just pay her the full amount because she's trusted me in having me back to her house. I tell her that I understand and appreciate that a lot because that does show a lot of trust, but she could easily walk out of the room and say she's not doing anything now after I send it to her, so I'm trying to meet her half way. I'll skip the back and forth and get to the part where she starts hitting me and grabbing my throat as I try to get my shoes on since I know this isn't happening. I am significantly bigger and stronger than her but I'm also smarter than that. When I don't respond by doing something dumb like striking her, she gets a knife and threatens to not let me leave unless I give her the money. This goes back and forth and she's totally deranged, insisting that I just pay her the money, eyes totally bugging out of her head at this point screaming at me to just pay her and she needs it (she also told me that she has a boyfriend who knows she's on the site but who doesn't know that she's having sex with guys--yeah right! So he may be some kind of pimp or addict and have some kind of hold over her where she gets money for them). I eventually get my way to the door--enduring more strikes from her, fortunately without the knife which she threw in the midst of screaming at me and trying to tackle me--and get out the slider out the rear of the house. She yells something about the front door as I walk out and then runs around to the front door, exits the house and says she's going to stand behind my car and not let me leave unless I pay her. She rants about there being guns in the house and people coming to help her and follow me and not let me leave and follow me home. She rants about ruining my life. Total freaking nutcase meltdown. True to her word, she gets behind my car and when I put it in reverse and slowly backup, she grabs the rear wiper and bends it then gets out of the way and I drive off. So yeah, total nutcase. No one in their right mind should bother with this girl who has clear mental issues. (She told me about her childhood, which wasn't good--though I was impressed with how she'd persevered despite it. She did talk about her perspective on sugarbabying given her experience on the site and the truly fucked up dudes there on it--she spoke of one experience which sounded a lot like a prior encounter described on this site and from her description sounded like she was dealing with an. Unusual person. Though she also described some totally fine experiences too.) This is what the demise of craigslist has done. There were street walkers, like this girl would otherwise be, who used craigslist as a safer way to stay off the street, and now that that's gone have pages on SA and other sites, but they're not sugarbabies, they're just hookers. Anyway, if you have any self-preservation in doing this and actually want to hook up instead of getting ripped off or threatened by knife point, don't contact her at all.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom. I tell her that I brought my own condoms and they're in my car, I will go get them. She insists that we stay there and that I use the one she has. I don't agree to that. I propose that since we don't know each other well yet (and smelling scam from the earlier request), I can pay her half now and half after. She flies off the hook and says I should just pay her the full amount because she's trusted me in having me back to her house. I tell her that I understand and appreciate that a lot because that does show a lot of trust, but she could easily walk out of the room and say she's not doing anything now after I send it to her, so I'm trying to meet her half way. I'll skip the back and forth and get to the part where she starts hitting me and grabbing my throat as I try to get my shoes on since I know this isn't happening. I am significantly bigger and stronger than her but I'm also smarter than that. When I don't respond by doing something dumb like striking her, she gets a knife and threatens to not let me leave unless I give her the money. This goes back and forth and she's totally deranged, insisting that I just pay her the money, eyes totally bugging out of her head at this point screaming at me to just pay her and she needs it (she also told me that she has a boyfriend who knows she's on the site but who doesn't know that she's having sex with guys--yeah right! So he may be some kind of pimp or addict and have some kind of hold over her where she gets money for them). I eventually get my way to the door--enduring more strikes from her, fortunately without the knife which she threw in the midst of screaming at me and trying to tackle me--and get out the slider out the rear of the house. She yells something about the front door as I walk out and then runs around to the front door, exits the house and says she's going to stand behind my car and not let me leave unless I pay her. She rants about there being guns in the house and people coming to help her and follow me and not let me leave and follow me home. She rants about ruining my life. Total freaking nutcase meltdown. True to her word, she gets behind my car and when I put it in reverse and slowly backup, she grabs the rear wiper and bends it then gets out of the way and I drive off. So yeah, total nutcase. No one in their right mind should bother with this girl who has clear mental issues. (She told me about her childhood, which wasn't good--though I was impressed with how she'd persevered despite it. She did talk about her perspective on sugarbabying given her experience on the site and the truly fucked up dudes there on it--she spoke of one experience which sounded a lot like a prior encounter described on this site and from her description sounded like she was dealing with an. Unusual person. Though she also described some totally fine experiences too.) This is what the demise of craigslist has done. There were street walkers, like this girl would otherwise be, who used craigslist as a safer way to stay off the street, and now that that's gone have pages on SA and other sites, but they're not sugarbabies, they're just hookers. Anyway, if you have any self-preservation in doing this and actually want to hook up instead of getting ripped off or threatened by knife point, don't contact her at all.
This is the craziest story I've read on this forum -- and I've been a member since 2008. HunnyLove has since disabled her SA profile. She was from the Columbia area, last I checked. She'll probably resurface under a different name, so if anyone sees her (or kept the pics) let us know. I'm from this area and I'd know what I'd have done if I was being chased with a knife.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). ...........
Am sorry that this happened. There is a reason why it makes sense to heed advice from Seniors.
Based on the info I'd gotten, I'd provided a caution post earlier. There is another post I think in Columbia forum where the poster describes something very similar. Your experience just lends more credence to the fact that she is a CRAZY CRAZY B $#&*&*.
So this is another nutcase whom NO ONE should waste their time with. I promise you it will not go well at all. She's been written about in other posts, which I should have heeded instead of falling for the alluring ass and supposedly 19 year old tits (she told me that she was 23). We did a meet and greet by her place mid-way between Baltimore and Washington. Things were ok initially but the vibe got a little weird at times in the conversation as she'd occasionally get oddly insistent about irrelevant things (things had gone really well, we were on the same page about our expectations and we were trying to figure out when we could get together, she proposed tomorrow, but had said her mouth had been bothering her because she had some issues with her teeth and was going to the dentist tomorrow to get xrays and some cavities filled; I suggested that if she was getting work on her mouth, tomorrow probably wasn't a good idea, to which she replied that I needed to respect her, she'd been to the dentist many times before in her life and she knows what to expect and there's nothing that would be a problem and I should go along with what she was telling me. "Danger Will Robinson! Danger! After eventually figuring out that tomorrow would not work, she moved an afternoon service appointment for her car for later and said we could go back to her place for an hour or so. We get there, and things are going ok just laying on the bed fully clothed chatting, and she sends me a payment request through cash app. She also makes an odd request--she has about $260 in cash in her car and can she give me the cash and I send her the same amount via cash app to save her a trip to the bank. That shouts classic scam. Now I'm thinking this has gone sideways, as I recall the reviews of her scamming others. I politely tell her, I won't be doing that. She then asks that I pay her the full amount on cash app and whether I have a condom. I tell her that I brought my own condoms and they're in my car, I will go get them. She insists that we stay there and that I use the one she has. I don't agree to that. I propose that since we don't know each other well yet (and smelling scam from the earlier request), I can pay her half now and half after. She flies off the hook and says I should just pay her the full amount because she's trusted me in having me back to her house. I tell her that I understand and appreciate that a lot because that does show a lot of trust, but she could easily walk out of the room and say she's not doing anything now after I send it to her, so I'm trying to meet her half way. I'll skip the back and forth and get to the part where she starts hitting me and grabbing my throat as I try to get my shoes on since I know this isn't happening. I am significantly bigger and stronger than her but I'm also smarter than that. When I don't respond by doing something dumb like striking her, she gets a knife and threatens to not let me leave unless I give her the money. This goes back and forth and she's totally deranged, insisting that I just pay her the money, eyes totally bugging out of her head at this point screaming at me to just pay her and she needs it (she also told me that she has a boyfriend who knows she's on the site but who doesn't know that she's having sex with guys--yeah right! So he may be some kind of pimp or addict and have some kind of hold over her where she gets money for them). I eventually get my way to the door--enduring more strikes from her, fortunately without the knife which she threw in the midst of screaming at me and trying to tackle me--and get out the slider out the rear of the house. She yells something about the front door as I walk out and then runs around to the front door, exits the house and says she's going to stand behind my car and not let me leave unless I pay her. She rants about there being guns in the house and people coming to help her and follow me and not let me leave and follow me home. She rants about ruining my life. Total freaking nutcase meltdown. True to her word, she gets behind my car and when I put it in reverse and slowly backup, she grabs the rear wiper and bends it then gets out of the way and I drive off. So yeah, total nutcase. No one in their right mind should bother with this girl who has clear mental issues. (She told me about her childhood, which wasn't good--though I was impressed with how she'd persevered despite it. She did talk about her perspective on sugarbabying given her experience on the site and the truly fucked up dudes there on it--she spoke of one experience which sounded a lot like a prior encounter described on this site and from her description sounded like she was dealing with an. Unusual person. Though she also described some totally fine experiences too.) This is what the demise of craigslist has done. There were street walkers, like this girl would otherwise be, who used craigslist as a safer way to stay off the street, and now that that's gone have pages on SA and other sites, but they're not sugarbabies, they're just hookers. Anyway, if you have any self-preservation in doing this and actually want to hook up instead of getting ripped off or threatened by knife point, don't contact her at all.
3 to 5 still seems the sweet spot. Only had a few request more then five and a couple of those came back for less and few weeks later.
When guys give into GPS and pay an outrages amount they usually only maintain it for a one and done or a few meets then cut it off.
I've only did 5 for one girl. She was amazing but after a month the fire dimmed and she wasnt worth it anymore to me.
I still have regulars I've been seeing for over a year and those are all 2. 5 and 3 sbs. Over time they have gotten way more then the ones I've given more and cut off.
After awhile some of the experienced ones seem to see it's better to take less for something long term, consistant, fun, and safe. Rather then meeting new guys and putting themselves at risk for a big one time payoff.
The GPS is really getting out of hand. I've been quoted ridiculous prices lately. Who is paying these women five+? I even got quotes at three plus just for the privilege of going to dinner. Are you guys seeing the same thing?
The GPS is really getting out of hand. I've been quoted ridiculous prices lately. Who is paying these women five+? I even got quotes at three plus just for the privilege of going to dinner. Are you guys seeing the same thing?
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