"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[DudeNextDoor]

Pretty much as everyone has said. She's nice enough, tiny, cute, nice body. The pic on the profile is not her. I think she's a little older than 32 as well. She has a couple higher education degrees. If you like to have a little connection and flirting like I do you're not going to find that here. I honestly don't think she's that into sex really. She comes from a conservative background. I think she's doing this because she doesn't really care about it one way or the other therefore it's easy money. We talked for a while while I rubbed her legs, thighs, etc. Trying to get some kind of response. Nothing. She just kept talking about everything and anything. Ultimately we were running out of time so it was more about getting done what we came to do. And it was fine.

So if you can get her attention and are OK with a little small talk then taking care of business then hit her up. Hint: she's no nonsense. Within the first couple messages tell her that you're interested in meeting up, when and where. She likes a plan.

She is an airhead. So she is submissive by nature. It wouldn't surprise me if she just went along with it if you stuck it in the stink instead of the pink. I think she'd actually like it cause she liked my finger in her ass. But I can't say with 100% certainty. Just bring some KY, 😂.

She cant host. She will require a hotel or if you have a house.

[SkyWalker21]

I meant to do this sooner, but I got busy and forgot. Trying to see if anyone has any experience or chatting with:

LovelyReah (She has since disabled her account or blocked). Been texting and chatting with her and due for a lunch meet-up today / tomorrow. Let me know if you have any intel on her. Assistance is always appreciated, but I will continue to vet her.

Skywalker.

[Peter Johnson]

Just in case some of our members unclear why Seeking is trying to bully members they banned. When a merchant gets a large number of charge backs is issued by MC / visa their processing costs per charge gets increased. Get enough in a short period of time, MC / visa will refuse your business. Seeking trys to avoid this with their terms of service. But FCBA (Fair Credit Bill Act) guarantees a consumer the right to challenge a charge and request a refund if unsatisfied with the service or goods when using a credit card within 60 days of getting their statement.

Yes, the chargeback requests do hurt them, even if they don't get approved and they have to pay out. I fully intend to try a chargeback now every time I get a month on the site and I encourage others to do the same. If you want to use the same account going forward, it obviously wouldn't work, but if you want to just save $100 and make a new one, then could be fine. I will just have to use some more generic pics, but I should have been doing that to begin with.

[Jims2321]

I know it sucks to be on the receiving end, but in the circumstances you mention I can see how that would be one way to get rid of scammers. No one wants to waste time connecting with someone in a foreign country that has no way to actually meet. I agree that it's heavy handed and if they are going to cancel a membership, they should give a partial prorated refund for whatever time is remaining. They should also have a way to deal with people that are traveling.

Just in case some of our members unclear why Seeking is trying to bully members they banned. When a merchant gets a large number of charge backs is issued by MC / visa their processing costs per charge gets increased. Get enough in a short period of time, MC / visa will refuse your business. Seeking trys to avoid this with their terms of service. But FCBA (Fair Credit Bill Act) guarantees a consumer the right to challenge a charge and request a refund if unsatisfied with the service or goods when using a credit card within 60 days of getting their statement.

[2me4Looking2]

I hope you follow through on your chargeback threat. These fucktards canceled my membership for no apparent reason when I checked on to the site from a foreign country. They need to be taught a lesson.

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I know it sucks to be on the receiving end, but in the circumstances you mention I can see how that would be one way to get rid of scammers. No one wants to waste time connecting with someone in a foreign country that has no way to actually meet. I agree that it's heavy handed and if they are going to cancel a membership, they should give a partial prorated refund for whatever time is remaining. They should also have a way to deal with people that are traveling.

[Peter Johnson]

I hope you follow through on your chargeback threat. These fucktards canceled my membership for no apparent reason when I checked on to the site from a foreign country. They need to be taught a lesson.

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I fully plan to follow through, and if it works, I will do this every time I get a membership for a month, just to teach them a lesson, as you point out.

[Sgt Soros]

I hope you follow through on your chargeback threat. These fucktards canceled my membership for no apparent reason when I checked on to the site from a foreign country. They need to be taught a lesson.

Not a surprise, but it's funny how they threaten me with sending my account to collections if I do a chargeback. I didn't use my real name, and I used a prepaid mastercard. And I always log in from a VPN. So they might find that to be somewhat challenging.

Their Terms of Service say they can cancel your account and take your money for any reason. Ok that's great and we I am definitely going to initiate a chargeback. It may or may not work, but clearly that's the right course of action here.

"As stated clearly in our Terms of Use, FAQ, and before checking out with our payment provider, we do not offer refunds on membership payments for any reason. We especially do not refund in the case of a suspension and / or permanent ban from SeekingArrangement. At this time, we are unable to offer you a refund.

3. Term.

This Agreement will remain in full force and effect while you use the Website and / or are a Member. You may terminate your membership at any time, for any reason by following the instructions on the Deactivate Account section in Account Settings, or upon receipt by SeekingArrangement.com of your written or email notice of termination. SeekingArrangement.com may terminate your membership for any reason, effective upon sending notice to you at the email address you provide in your application for membership, or such other email address as you may later provide to SeekingArrangement.com. If SeekingArrangement.com terminates your membership in the Service because it believes you have breached the Agreement, you will not be entitled to any refund of unused subscription fees or unused credits.

Please note that should you decide to issue a chargeback on this purchase, we will be forced to send your account to collections. Furthermore, any accounts created in the future will NOT be refunded.

Let me know if you need anything else!

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

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[TechSticles]

Not a surprise, but it's funny how they threaten me with sending my account to collections if I do a chargeback. I didn't use my real name, and I used a prepaid mastercard. And I always log in from a VPN. So they might find that to be somewhat challenging.

Their Terms of Service say they can cancel your account and take your money for any reason. Ok that's great and we I am definitely going to initiate a chargeback. It may or may not work, but clearly that's the right course of action here.

"As stated clearly in our Terms of Use, FAQ, and before checking out with our payment provider, we do not offer refunds on membership payments for any reason. We especially do not refund in the case of a suspension and / or permanent ban from SeekingArrangement. At this time, we are unable to offer you a refund.

3. Term.

This Agreement will remain in full force and effect while you use the Website and / or are a Member. You may terminate your membership at any time, for any reason by following the instructions on the Deactivate Account section in Account Settings, or upon receipt by SeekingArrangement.com of your written or email notice of termination. SeekingArrangement.com may terminate your membership for any reason, effective upon sending notice to you at the email address you provide in your application for membership, or such other email address as you may later provide to SeekingArrangement.com. If SeekingArrangement.com terminates your membership in the Service because it believes you have breached the Agreement, you will not be entitled to any refund of unused subscription fees or unused credits.

Please note that should you decide to issue a chargeback on this purchase, we will be forced to send your account to collections. Furthermore, any accounts created in the future will not be refunded.

Let me know if you need anything else!

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

I've done a chargeback on those assholes. Know what happens? You get your money back and they fuck off. That's it.

[Kpd14]

I have received some good info from this forum, so time to offer some back. You'll have to be judge of whether it is good.

https://www.seeking.com/member/94b83...2-80885615da66

A little chubby but definitely "curvy" and not "full" like most girls who put curvy really are. DTF (covered). Will meet first if that's what you want, but I'm guessing a combo M&G / first sex date would be possible. Didn't ask if she would host. Not shy about negotiating, so offer 150 and shouldn't have to go more than 200. Sex was good, but kinda standoffish. I like a little more connection, but easy to schedule with when in the mood.

[Peter Johnson]

Not a surprise, but it's funny how they threaten me with sending my account to collections if I do a chargeback. I didn't use my real name, and I used a prepaid mastercard. And I always log in from a VPN. So they might find that to be somewhat challenging.

Their Terms of Service say they can cancel your account and take your money for any reason. Ok that's great and we I am definitely going to initiate a chargeback. It may or may not work, but clearly that's the right course of action here.

"As stated clearly in our Terms of Use, FAQ, and before checking out with our payment provider, we do not offer refunds on membership payments for any reason. We especially do not refund in the case of a suspension and / or permanent ban from SeekingArrangement. At this time, we are unable to offer you a refund.

3. Term.

This Agreement will remain in full force and effect while you use the Website and / or are a Member. You may terminate your membership at any time, for any reason by following the instructions on the Deactivate Account section in Account Settings, or upon receipt by SeekingArrangement.com of your written or email notice of termination. SeekingArrangement.com may terminate your membership for any reason, effective upon sending notice to you at the email address you provide in your application for membership, or such other email address as you may later provide to SeekingArrangement.com. If SeekingArrangement.com terminates your membership in the Service because it believes you have breached the Agreement, you will not be entitled to any refund of unused subscription fees or unused credits.

Please note that should you decide to issue a chargeback on this purchase, we will be forced to send your account to collections. Furthermore, any accounts created in the future will NOT be refunded.

Let me know if you need anything else!

Respectfully,

Yvonne.

SeekingArrangement Support".

[CoveyLeader43]

Anyone hit this? She seems stuck up and GPS syndrome to me. Wanted to see if anyone had tapped it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/efcfb...1-a7db9a913db1

[CoveyLeader43]

Yea, I have had her number for 6 months. Sounded like she wanted to meet and crickets, then she starts responding again ghosts again. Time waster imo.

Yeah she is a total time waster and will ghost you in a heartbeat. I had a couple of these girls try to get me to send them money for pictures, LOL. I told them I can watch porn for free.

[CoveyLeader43]

All the discussion of fingers in ass has me wondering Is she open to anal?

Also, do you know if she can host?

She is an airhead. So she is submissive by nature. It wouldn't surprise me if she just went along with it if you stuck it in the stink instead of the pink. I think she'd actually like it cause she liked my finger in her ass. But I can't say with 100% certainty. Just bring some KY, 😂.

She can’t host. She will require a hotel or if you have a house.

[Tartus100]

I eventually got to text and she quoted me $400 per and I offered $250, then crickets.

I met her for a coffee and was able to get her down to 300 . I couldn't go get anywhere after that partly due to being busy and personally I didn't like her much.

[Tartus100]

All the discussion of fingers in ass has me wondering Is she open to anal?

Also, do you know if she can host?

She will not host. I met her once and yes she has terrible oral skills. Didn't want to repeat with those skills.