"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**YayaGogo** · 05-17-19 15:49

With school finishing many many college girls are flooding SA as they move back home for the summer. This week I've had initial M&G's with not one but TWO different 18 year old girls (one by a matter of weeks) brand new to the site that claim that they are virgins. I'm very cynical of such claims and am wondering if anyone on here is getting the same line on recent meets?

They're both very attractive and claim they want to 'get it out of the way' with someone experienced (and no pressure to perform well) so they can enjoy sex like other girls their age do when they go back to school. Normally I wouldn't believe the possibility considering this is SA but the first has already closed her account after only one week and we've made plans to do the deed next week WITHOUT any allowance and the other is eager to meet next week as well (possible no allowance as well as she doesn't want her first time to feel transactional).

Am I finding legitimate unicorns here or is this a new technique posted on SB sites. Anyone else seeing this? I wouldn't believe it normally but they are both giddy about the prospect and are saying no allowance needed. Just a nice lunch and good vibes are enough for now and we can start an arrangement afterwards.

Yaya.

**DogBert77** · 05-15-19 16:51

Originally Posted by DogBert77 [View Original Post]

Got this notice from SA:

"Unusual activity detected!

Your account is currently under review by a team of fraud specialists. We have detected some unusual activity on this account. Your permissions have been altered while the investigation lasts.

During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services. If you feel that this is a mistake, or if you have any information to add regarding this process, please contact us at customer support.

If you have any other questions please review our Frequently Asked Questions. ".

I log in from a different IP address every time because I use a VPN. I also pay with a different gift card every month. Other than that, not sure what "unusual activity" there is. They asked me to change my password about a month ago. Anyone have any thoughts?

I'm back on SA! Very strange, got a form email this morning telling me my suspension has been ended. "Keep in mind that additional violations could result in permanent suspension of your account. " Never a clue as to what my suspicious activity or violations might have been.

**DogBert77** · 05-14-19 18:50

Got this notice from SA:

"Unusual activity detected!

Your account is currently under review by a team of fraud specialists. We have detected some unusual activity on this account. Your permissions have been altered while the investigation lasts.

During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services. If you feel that this is a mistake, or if you have any information to add regarding this process, please contact us at customer support.

If you have any other questions please review our Frequently Asked Questions. ".

I log in from a different IP address every time because I use a VPN. I also pay with a different gift card every month. Other than that, not sure what "unusual activity" there is. They asked me to change my password about a month ago. Anyone have any thoughts?

**S2568** · 05-14-19 18:13

Hey anyone communicating with this one and any response from yet.

She looks real and hot but not sure if she is just there checking things out any info appreciated, PM if you need to.

Found her social media page too.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a321...1-07282cd056ce

**DWinthrop** · 05-14-19 12:27

Anyone ever enjoy this sweetie? She seems DTF but insists on cover. Trying to get our schedules to align has been tough. PM or post if you have any previous experience. I asked if she's done this before and her answer was "Many times".

https://www.seeking.com/member/80c9c...7-93dc79430522

**EvilTmp** · 05-13-19 16:50

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

If you're getting a lot of ghosts and blocks, it's because the girls have figured out you're a VET. I've had 12 girls this week ask me if I'm a vet in the first few sentences of messaging. They keep track of us through a list of some kind. They read this usasex forum daily and update each other on their list. They notify each other when we change our profiles. Sometimes they pretend that they don't know we're vets just to compile information on us. Most of the girls on SA know who I am by now, so I don't even try to pretend I'm someone else. It's all the same girls over and over anyways.

My take on this is that these girls are players and they know that newbies are more easily hoodwinked than experienced guys. They can claim they always get $800 per meet without the guy bursting into laughter. Newbies are more likely to go along with the bs.

**BookerTNelson** · 05-13-19 15:29

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

That's possible, I suppose, although I am upfront about the fact that I am a vet. I tell them (truthfully) in my first or second message that I've had a number of long-term arrangements, lasting as long as two years. My rationale is that many of them are concerned that guys are just looking for "one and done" rather than the ongoing arrangements that many of them want (and that keep them from feeling like they are pros). If they were turned off by the fact that I had experience, I would have expected them to ghost me much earlier.

Just as that bit of info calms those that fear you only want a one time things, hearing "Two years" can also turn off those who look at that as something that isn't NSA and more along the lines of long term situation. You have to keep in mind that 99.9% of the prospects I meet claim that a man has tried to make them a long term option or creeped them out by how serious he was trying to get. I personally don't mention my past SB's unless they ask and at that point I'll share pieces of info as appropriate.

**LoVecchio** · 05-13-19 10:13

Originally Posted by BigOne73 [View Original Post]

If you're getting a lot of ghosts and blocks, it's because the girls have figured out you're a VET. I've had 12 girls this week ask me if I'm a vet in the first few sentences of messaging. They keep track of us through a list of some kind. They read this usasex forum daily and update each other on their list. They notify each other when we change our profiles. Sometimes they pretend that they don't know we're vets just to compile information on us. Most of the girls on SA know who I am by now, so I don't even try to pretend I'm someone else. It's all the same girls over and over anyways.

That's possible, I suppose, although I am upfront about the fact that I am a vet. I tell them (truthfully) in my first or second message that I've had a number of long-term arrangements, lasting as long as two years. My rationale is that many of them are concerned that guys are just looking for "one and done" rather than the ongoing arrangements that many of them want (and that keep them from feeling like they are pros). If they were turned off by the fact that I had experience, I would have expected them to ghost me much earlier.

**Bill Cullen** · 05-13-19 08:27

Originally Posted by NavenRJohnson [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experience with this one? Seems like a pro.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d8cfd...5-901b51f42e1c

Agree with your conclusion. I haven't decided if I'm going to meet her or not.

**ErkTheOne** · 05-13-19 07:48

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I met a girl today for a M&G who is stationed at a Military base about 15 miles from me. According to her, she is attached to a technology unit, not a combat unit. She is asking for full discretion and possibly hanging out at my place or at a hotel. The other restriction is that she has to get back to base by midnight. She is a nice looking girl, and DTF. I have a feeling she would be great in the sack. She mentioned about financial help, but didn't try to negotiate any amounts. I am really interested in her and planning on a date later this week. My question to you guys- any additional potential risk with a military SB than a civilian SB? Anyone out there who had experience with a military SB?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I communicated with someone a while back who claimed to be in a similar situation. After getting into some details about setting up a meeting, then started to claim that they needed money to get approval papers to leave base etc. Long story short, it was clearly a scam and I moved on. Just another reminder to never send anything ahead of time.

**JustLonely** · 05-13-19 07:01

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I met a girl today for a M&G who is stationed at a Military base about 15 miles from me. According to her, she is attached to a technology unit, not a combat unit. She is asking for full discretion and possibly hanging out at my place or at a hotel. The other restriction is that she has to get back to base by midnight. She is a nice looking girl, and DTF. I have a feeling she would be great in the sack. She mentioned about financial help, but didn't try to negotiate any amounts. I am really interested in her and planning on a date later this week. My question to you guys- any additional potential risk with a military SB than a civilian SB? Anyone out there who had experience with a military SB?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

On the up side with military personnel is some are tired of being around high testosterone me all the time. The one SB I had that served on an aircraft carrier a few year back was all perfume and lace off base. I told her I was closer to the guy at Best Buy doing tech support than guys loading armament on planes. She said all wanted was a normal guy that opened doors for her and brought her flowers.

She was into extended foreplay on both our parts and eager to please in everyway. Being in top physical condition, she handled reverse cowgirl without tiring one bit. Usually even the pros are slowing down by the time I am ready to let my load go. Wish I could find another military babe. Sure was a lot of fun until she deployed. Plus none of the constantly asking for money that so many do.

**BookerTNelson** · 05-13-19 05:04

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I met a girl today for a M&G who is stationed at a Military base about 15 miles from me. According to her, she is attached to a technology unit, not a combat unit. She is asking for full discretion and possibly hanging out at my place or at a hotel. The other restriction is that she has to get back to base by midnight. She is a nice looking girl, and DTF. I have a feeling she would be great in the sack. She mentioned about financial help, but didn't try to negotiate any amounts. I am really interested in her and planning on a date later this week. My question to you guys- any additional potential risk with a military SB than a civilian SB? Anyone out there who had experience with a military SB?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I had a military SB in Hampton Roads area last year. Similar restrictions but she was a ton of fun. She simply wanted something outside of what her direct choice of men got her, she wasn't in a tech unit though and I was sure to take an extra bit of precaution where necessary. I'd say have fun with her.

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**DrSummer** · 05-12-19 20:12

I met a girl today for a M&G who is stationed at a Military base about 15 miles from me. According to her, she is attached to a technology unit, not a combat unit. She is asking for full discretion and possibly hanging out at my place or at a hotel. The other restriction is that she has to get back to base by midnight. She is a nice looking girl, and DTF. I have a feeling she would be great in the sack. She mentioned about financial help, but didn't try to negotiate any amounts. I am really interested in her and planning on a date later this week. My question to you guys- any additional potential risk with a military SB than a civilian SB? Anyone out there who had experience with a military SB?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.