Seeking Arrangements

**PaulRew** · 05-12-19 13:32

First off I apologize that I don't have pics or a link but things happened fast last night and she blocked and threatened me with lightning speed.

Handle is Slip2 and from the Framingham area. So she messages last night and we move to text quickly, almost too quickly. Small talk leads to normal questions, location, availability, prior arrangements etc. And then I ask, like we all probably do, if she has the ability to host. The shit hits the fan! Tells me I am treating her like a prostitute, do I expect to fuuck her, do I like paying for sex etc.

And says she has posted all my info, handle / pics / phone on a predator site. Anyway I suggest you steer clear and if a kind SA brother could screenshot her profile, link and pics you would be doing the community here a solid.

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-11-19 14:52

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

If it's more than once a week I usually go to a monthly allowance because the economics are in my favor. When I'm local I have seen multiple over the course of a month but I try to find one good one and stick with it. Too much effort to keep flirting and texting. Once you find something good do what you can to hold onto it is my advice. Then you can let your SA membership lapse and save yourself $90 per month until you need to get back in the game.

Also SA has worked great when I travel. I've gotten company in most major cities like Chicago, Las Vegas, San Diego, Miami, etc. I just send a batch message stating I'm in town for a few days and see what my fishing catches. I'm actually kind of amazed I've been able to keep a loverofile going for almost 3 years without a ban.

Yeah. SA's been good to me. I see what I like, and I can be picky. Unlike STG or some other sites. Like I've said, I don't mind paying more for what I want, but this is a community, and I'm sure out there, they're banding together and fixing prices, and I support our SD union here. Besides; this is one of the first places that pops up on a search, and why'all are pretty active. Reddit doesn't allow the talk of "value" on the site, and the info they have there is 2 years old. So. Here we are. https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/ (for those curious).

**Aardvarks** · 05-11-19 13:04

Originally Posted by ThatGuy23 [View Original Post]

Curious, how often do the girls expect to see you with that allowance? How often do the expect to see them, or are you seeing multiple at a time?

If it's more than once a week I usually go to a monthly allowance because the economics are in my favor. When I'm local I have seen multiple over the course of a month but I try to find one good one and stick with it. Too much effort to keep flirting and texting. Once you find something good do what you can to hold onto it is my advice. Then you can let your SA membership lapse and save yourself $90 per month until you need to get back in the game.

Also SA has worked great when I travel. I've gotten company in most major cities like Chicago, Las Vegas, San Diego, Miami, etc. I just send a batch message stating I'm in town for a few days and see what my fishing catches. I'm actually kind of amazed I've been able to keep a loverofile going for almost 3 years without a ban.

**ThatGuy23** · 05-11-19 12:48

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Really depends on what you're looking for. I've paid on average anywhere from $200-300. One girl wanted $350 and I did that a couple of times but then stopped as it wasn't worth it. Another one wanted $400 for first date and then $250 after. That was totally worth it but she moved away. I can usually tell at the first meet up if it's worth it and if I sense it's not I give them a gift and leave (I usually bring a gift card to Amazon or Walgreens or something like that).

Key is to discuss pricing via text or Kik and not on SA messaging. If you have to get a hotel then that eats into the amount too. If you can get a date with intimacy for $150, more power to you my friend. I think $200 is probably the floor though for a lot of them.

Also it's a numbers game so don't get hung up on one. If they want something crazy like 600 or more then kindly thank them and move on.

Curious, how often do the girls expect to see you with that allowance? How often do the expect to see them, or are you seeing multiple at a time?

**Aardvarks** · 05-11-19 12:34

Originally Posted by GlennDoyle91 [View Original Post]

I'm still relatively new to this. I don't mind paying more for what I want, but at the same time, I don't want to OVERPAY and be "that guy" that ruins it for everyone else. I'm reading reddit posts about ppm, and they suggest $300. I've read on here that $150 is the number. HALP!

Really depends on what you're looking for. I've paid on average anywhere from $200-300. One girl wanted $350 and I did that a couple of times but then stopped as it wasn't worth it. Another one wanted $400 for first date and then $250 after. That was totally worth it but she moved away. I can usually tell at the first meet up if it's worth it and if I sense it's not I give them a gift and leave (I usually bring a gift card to Amazon or Walgreens or something like that).

Key is to discuss pricing via text or Kik and not on SA messaging. If you have to get a hotel then that eats into the amount too. If you can get a date with intimacy for $150, more power to you my friend. I think $200 is probably the floor though for a lot of them.

Also it's a numbers game so don't get hung up on one. If they want something crazy like 600 or more then kindly thank them and move on.

**Aardvarks** · 05-11-19 11:52

https://www.seeking.com/member/3fdc8...8-756d671e2926

This one is insane. Run away.

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-11-19 08:34

I'm still relatively new to this. I don't mind paying more for what I want, but at the same time, I don't want to OVERPAY and be "that guy" that ruins it for everyone else. I'm reading reddit posts about ppm, and they suggest $300. I've read on here that $150 is the number. HALP!

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-10-19 23:21

Here's a good girl. Wants 300, but will do it for 200. She's a clock watcher, so heads up. She will do car dates. She was high when we did the meet up. Some talk, then gets down to business. Her alarm goes off, I mean her sister calls her, and she's all she has to go now. Didn't finish. Ugh. I don't mind limits; wish I had know it. I would have spent less time talking.

https://www.seeking.com/member/274a6...1-126bf08053c2

**Aardvarks** · 05-10-19 18:48

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

This one is a piece of work, she asked for my number, I give it to work and.

Then my phone started blowing up. Needs $120 for a book. Now. Wants to know do I have cash app? Do I have PayPal, do I have Venmo. Anyway I would stay away gentlemen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/40d71...3-1d9a3d3c697f

Thanks for the heads up! Sounds really crazy!!

**PaulRew** · 05-10-19 14:03

This one is a piece of work, she asked for my number, I give it to work and.

Then my phone started blowing up. Needs $120 for a book. Now. Wants to know do I have cash app? Do I have PayPal, do I have Venmo. Anyway I would stay away gentlemen.

https://www.seeking.com/member/40d71...3-1d9a3d3c697f

**Tdg222** · 05-10-19 11:16

Can someone tell me why I can not get on the seeking arrangements web site it just comes up as a blank white page any way to fix this thanks.

**Aardvarks** · 05-09-19 18:43

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I know this is a longshot, guys, but I am going to be in Boston in a couple of weeks on business, and I will have at least one evening free to play. I was hoping to find a girl to have dinner with (either at a restaurant or room service) and then play afterwards. I've found that when traveling, I have a hard time meeting the kind of person I would want to spend the evening with. There are a lot of young, semi-pros that would be fine for the playing but would not be very good dinner companions, and the ones who would be good dinner companions are usually ones who are looking for something more long-term / regular than a one-off meet with an out-of-towner.

I could just look for someone to warm the bed for a couple of hours, but at home I can only meet people discreetly during the day, and it would be nice to be able to actually have a "dinner date" with a high likelihood of ending up back at my hotel.

If anyone has any ideas, either for particular girls or for promising strategies, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.

I just did what you are trying to do in Vegas and for whatever reason my strategy worked. I picked 20 girls on SA and sent them this message:

"Hi I read your profile and am interested. I'm only in town for a few nights. But if you read my profile and are interested let's talk. I know this isn't everyone's cup of tea but we could have some fun. If you're not interested I totally respect that and wish you luck on the site. ".

Got laid 3 out for 4 nights.

**LoVecchio** · 05-09-19 09:21

I know this is a longshot, guys, but I am going to be in Boston in a couple of weeks on business, and I will have at least one evening free to play. I was hoping to find a girl to have dinner with (either at a restaurant or room service) and then play afterwards. I've found that when traveling, I have a hard time meeting the kind of person I would want to spend the evening with. There are a lot of young, semi-pros that would be fine for the playing but would not be very good dinner companions, and the ones who would be good dinner companions are usually ones who are looking for something more long-term / regular than a one-off meet with an out-of-towner.

I could just look for someone to warm the bed for a couple of hours, but at home I can only meet people discreetly during the day, and it would be nice to be able to actually have a "dinner date" with a high likelihood of ending up back at my hotel.

If anyone has any ideas, either for particular girls or for promising strategies, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.

**Aardvarks** · 05-08-19 18:53

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.

Yeah I get it. But hottest girl I've met off SA. I show up at her place and she's wearing nothing. She's a stripper and we now do it at her club too (for free). We've actually gone out and picked up women at bars and had threesomes so I think it was worth the wait.

**EvilTmp** · 05-08-19 00:15

Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]

Thanks for the heads up on her. In my experience you have to make sure early on you're going to get what you want. I've described my technique of giving half the allowance or PPM until we're having regular sex. I always have the money on me and show it to them. Kind of like an incentive. ****My most recent I went six months at the half rate ***** (but I was getting some action just not FS). She finally caved recently and I now give her the full amount and the sex is nuts.

Using this technique if you're at date 2 or 3 and she flakes out at least you're only down a little bit.

Good luck!

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.