Seeking Arrangements

[LoVecchio]

I know this is a longshot, guys, but I am going to be in Boston in a couple of weeks on business, and I will have at least one evening free to play. I was hoping to find a girl to have dinner with (either at a restaurant or room service) and then play afterwards. I've found that when traveling, I have a hard time meeting the kind of person I would want to spend the evening with. There are a lot of young, semi-pros that would be fine for the playing but would not be very good dinner companions, and the ones who would be good dinner companions are usually ones who are looking for something more long-term / regular than a one-off meet with an out-of-towner.

I could just look for someone to warm the bed for a couple of hours, but at home I can only meet people discreetly during the day, and it would be nice to be able to actually have a "dinner date" with a high likelihood of ending up back at my hotel.

If anyone has any ideas, either for particular girls or for promising strategies, I'd love to hear them. Thanks.

[Aardvarks]

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.

Yeah I get it. But hottest girl I've met off SA. I show up at her place and she's wearing nothing. She's a stripper and we now do it at her club too (for free). We've actually gone out and picked up women at bars and had threesomes so I think it was worth the wait.

[EvilTmp]

Thanks for the heads up on her. In my experience you have to make sure early on you're going to get what you want. I've described my technique of giving half the allowance or PPM until we're having regular sex. I always have the money on me and show it to them. Kind of like an incentive. ****My most recent I went six months at the half rate ***** (but I was getting some action just not FS). She finally caved recently and I now give her the full amount and the sex is nuts.

Using this technique if you're at date 2 or 3 and she flakes out at least you're only down a little bit.

Good luck!

Six months? You're a patient man Aardvaks, a very patient man. Seriously, I used to bolt after 2, maybe 3 dates if I don't get the full package.

[PaulRew]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cf218...0-2b4adb89e4da

Tried using the "can I get gas money" sent via cashapp or venmo. I told her, hey, we can meet irl, I'll hand over the money. Communication went dark. Avoid this one.

She also has an escort profile linked to her number. Not sure if she blocked me or she quit. Got booted but I can not see her profile any longer. Oh, and I got the gas line by message 3.

https://escortindex.com/ad/washingto...5906/5/1918615

[Aardvarks]

I believe there is a space for a win-win. It's not about "doing my bidding. " its about getting what I want through what they want. My wants / needs isn't higher than theirs. I may pay more for something like that, but I have more fun that way. Otherwise, it's just simply putting meat stick in meat hole (to each their own, right? And I got strung along because this was done. *in person* after I knew where they lived, after I had met the person, they were like, hey, I need the money now, promise you tomorrow. You know where I live. I had agreed to $200. They were asking half, and the only reason to cancel was a family emergency. And they were all apologetic about it. Next day, we had a date planned. Oh, then it got cut short. Huh. Like honestly, the only reason why I gave in was because I had said it. My word is my bond and all that shit.

This scam is new to me. Like, if I wanted to, I really know where she lives. But I'm not about that. Chalk it up as lesson learned.

I like this money arrangement, because I eventually get bored, and I don't have to maintain pleasantries like I do irl. I like this fantasy I can craft, and in this case, I got caught up in it. I'll be more careful next time.

Thanks for the heads up on her. In my experience you have to make sure early on you're going to get what you want. I've described my technique of giving half the allowance or PPM until we're having regular sex. I always have the money on me and show it to them. Kind of like an incentive. My most recent I went six months at the half rate (but I was getting some action just not FS). She finally caved recently and I now give her the full amount and the sex is nuts.

Using this technique if you're at date 2 or 3 and she flakes out at least you're only down a little bit.

Good luck!

[Ernest Ll]

Young, blonde, attractive fit. Texts a good game.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f22eafe9-42ee-463d-a6f7-46d87d1f8f44

Anyone else get anywhere with her?

[GlennDoyle91]

A sugar baby does your bidding because you are paying, eh, I mean gifting her money.

I believe there is a space for a win-win. It's not about "doing my bidding. " its about getting what I want through what they want. My wants / needs isn't higher than theirs. I may pay more for something like that, but I have more fun that way. Otherwise, it's just simply putting meat stick in meat hole (to each their own, right? And I got strung along because this was done. *in person* after I knew where they lived, after I had met the person, they were like, hey, I need the money now, promise you tomorrow. You know where I live. I had agreed to $200. They were asking half, and the only reason to cancel was a family emergency. And they were all apologetic about it. Next day, we had a date planned. Oh, then it got cut short. Huh. Like honestly, the only reason why I gave in was because I had said it. My word is my bond and all that shit.

This scam is new to me. Like, if I wanted to, I really know where she lives. But I'm not about that. Chalk it up as lesson learned.

I like this money arrangement, because I eventually get bored, and I don't have to maintain pleasantries like I do irl. I like this fantasy I can craft, and in this case, I got caught up in it. I'll be more careful next time.

[Longjblues]

GD, you are a very patient man. I think you may be on the wrong board. Your post suggest that perhaps you are looking for a real girlfriend to "date", rather than a sugar baby. A girlfriend that you don't mind being strung along by, with nothing to show for your money and time.

As soon as she asked for money the first time, you should have walked away, IMHO. The fact that you paid her more money a second time for nothing but the pleasure of her talking to you is simply amazing.

Then you post the most incredible statement I have ever read on this board, "I really don't care if that's what she wanted to do today, but she felt the need to lie." Second most incredible "No flirting, no asking how my day was." Please tell me you were kidding.

You need intervention! A sugar baby shows you "affection" and does your bidding because you are paying, eh, I mean gifting her money. I just hope I misread your post, and you were being sarcastic, and I misinterpreted your sarcasm. Please tell me you were being sarcastic?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5365...7-dab33d8bd255

TLDR; spent money, time, gas, did not even get a little doting from SB.

Talked to this girl for a little while. Made and arrangement, pfp. $200. We were going to meet at her college, then go on a date. She's kinda cute. Not exactly my type, but cute. Then there was a family emergency. Still wanted $120 to get some braids, or something or other. Okay, whatever. Strike 1. Made the drive up the next day. This day, I drove her around, so she could do her shopping, gave her another $180 pick up supplies for her braids and a pay for some items on lay away. Our date got cut short because her appointment got moved up early. Strike 2. Promised that we'd have the whole day together the next day. I call to confirm (it's an hour drive, and I'm noticing a pattern) she says "she's too depressed to get out of bed. " later on, on snapchat (I'm on her snapchat) I see her going out with friends, etc. I really don't care if that's what she wanted to do today, but she felt the need to lie. Ugh. Then she has the gall to ask me to get her an uber, so she can get food, because they won't deliver for less than 10 dollars. Wut. The only time she communicated was to secure payment or ask for stuff. No flirting, no asking how my day was. No intimacy. Strike 3.

[GlennDoyle91]

That 90/ mo is worth it. Most of people on there are relatively responsive and very nice.

No one wants to be treated like a *****: put that terminology away. Don't ask for "bb" or "FS" or "msog" (unless they bring it up).

Be flirty, not crude. Talk AROUND sex, not about it.

Ask about their needs. See if they'll quantify it as $$. And that's your in.

At this point, the narrative is, you saw a need, provided for it, and the sb was so grateful for it, and let the natural course of human emotions take its course.

[GlennDoyle91]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5365...7-dab33d8bd255

TLDR; spent money, time, gas, did not even get a little doting from SB.

Talked to this girl for a little while. Made and arrangement, pfp. $200. We were going to meet at her college, then go on a date. She's kinda cute. Not exactly my type, but cute. Then there was a family emergency. Still wanted $120 to get some braids, or something or other. Okay, whatever. Strike 1. Made the drive up the next day. This day, I drove her around, so she could do her shopping, gave her another $180 pick up supplies for her braids and a pay for some items on lay away. Our date got cut short because her appointment got moved up early. Strike 2. Promised that we'd have the whole day together the next day. I call to confirm (it's an hour drive, and I'm noticing a pattern) she says "she's too depressed to get out of bed. " later on, on snapchat (I'm on her snapchat) I see her going out with friends, etc. I really don't care if that's what she wanted to do today, but she felt the need to lie. Ugh. Then she has the gall to ask me to get her an uber, so she can get food, because they won't deliver for less than 10 dollars. Wut. The only time she communicated was to secure payment or ask for stuff. No flirting, no asking how my day was. No intimacy. Strike 3.

[Deleted by Admin] here's a picture of her, since you can't see her face on the seeking profile.

You might want to think about why I deleted that.

Here's a hint, "since you can't see her fave on the seeking profile"

A2

[GlennDoyle91]

She has you figured out. She dangles the promise of a little something and you start dancing to her tune. It's obvious here that your needs and what you want come wayyyyyy down the list in this story. You need to maintain your frame better.

Lesson DEFINITELY learned. There was just enough elements of truth to keep me going. I WANT to believe them.

[EvilTmp]

She has you figured out. She dangles the promise of a little something and you start dancing to her tune. It's obvious here that your needs and what you want come wayyyyyy down the list in this story. You need to maintain your frame better.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5365...7-dab33d8bd255

TLDR; spent money, time, gas, did not even get a little doting from SB.

Talked to this girl for a little while. Made and arrangement, pfp. $200. We were going to meet at her college, then go on a date. She's kinda cute. Not exactly my type, but cute. Then there was a family emergency. Still wanted $120 to get some braids, or something or other. Okay, whatever. Strike 1. Made the drive up the next day. This day, I drove her around, so she could do her shopping, gave her another $180 pick up supplies for her braids and a pay for some items on lay away. Our date got cut short because her appointment got moved up early. Strike 2. Promised that we'd have the whole day together the next day. I call to confirm (it's an hour drive, and I'm noticing a pattern) she says "she's too depressed to get out of bed. " later on, on snapchat (I'm on her snapchat) I see her going out with friends, etc. I really don't care if that's what she wanted to do today, but she felt the need to lie. Ugh. Then she has the gall to ask me to get her an uber, so she can get food, because they won't deliver for less than 10 dollars. Wut. The only time she communicated was to secure payment or ask for stuff. No flirting, no asking how my day was. No intimacy. Strike 3.

[GlennDoyle91]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cf218...0-2b4adb89e4da

Tried using the "can I get gas money" sent via cashapp or venmo. I told her, hey, we can meet irl, I'll hand over the money. Communication went dark. Avoid this one.

[GlennDoyle91]

I have found with SA one must be patient and willing to invest / waste time in order to meet some of the girls. They are also asking outrageous amounts $300, I had one yesterday asking for 500-800. So it is hit or miss and as long as you don't mind patiently waiting for the right one to bite you can do OK but it takes a fair amount of time. If your willing to pay top dollar you may be more successful but I set my limit at 300. Others here have stated they have had tremendous luck so it's either embellished or they are just so damn good looking that the girls can't stay away?? LOL. I may depend on YMMV, age, body, wallet, etc?

I don't think time is "wasted" per se. This was though. It's one thing to build relationship, trust, etc. It's another thing to just be taken for granted. Like, at least when I'm there, I kinda expect a thank you (never once). Only contacted if she wanted something. No holding, small affection. I mean, it's like paying to get friend zoned. WTF.

[Joe1223]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b5365...7-dab33d8bd255

TLDR; spent money, time, gas, did not even get a little doting from SB.

Talked to this girl for a little while. Made and arrangement, pfp. $200. We were going to meet at her college, then go on a date. She's kinda cute. Not exactly my type, but cute. Then there was a family emergency. Still wanted $120 to get some braids, or something or other. Okay, whatever. Strike 1. Made the drive up the next day. This day, I drove her around, so she could do her shopping, gave her another $180 pick up supplies for her braids and a pay for some items on lay away. Our date got cut short because her appointment got moved up early. Strike 2. Promised that we'd have the whole day together the next day. I call to confirm (it's an hour drive, and I'm noticing a pattern) she says "she's too depressed to get out of bed. " later on, on snapchat (I'm on her snapchat) I see her going out with friends, etc. I really don't care if that's what she wanted to do today, but she felt the need to lie. Ugh. Then she has the gall to ask me to get her an uber, so she can get food, because they won't deliver for less than 10 dollars. Wut. The only time she communicated was to secure payment or ask for stuff. No flirting, no asking how my day was. No intimacy. Strike 3.

I have found with SA one must be patient and willing to invest / waste time in order to meet some of the girls. They are also asking outrageous amounts $300, I had one yesterday asking for 500-800. So it is hit or miss and as long as you don't mind patiently waiting for the right one to bite you can do OK but it takes a fair amount of time. If your willing to pay top dollar you may be more successful but I set my limit at 300. Others here have stated they have had tremendous luck so it's either embellished or they are just so damn good looking that the girls can't stay away?? LOL. I may depend on YMMV, age, body, wallet, etc?