Non Pro's

**Twister100** · 05-05-19 16:53

Originally Posted by CreamPieGuy543 [View Original Post]

I've noticed something similar. I blame it on GPS and the increase in the amount of SD's willing to pay for GPS.

Unless you're putting your offer in your initial message, it would seem irrelevant as to whether she's a GPS or not as to why she would or wouldn't respond to an initial message. When I was active on SA, it seemed only half the ladies I contacted even read my message and of those only about a 1/3 responded so it's really a numbers game. If you look at it from a marketing perspective, for your average direct mail marketing campaigns, you're doing pretty good if you get a 2% response rate.

**CreamPieGuy543** · 05-05-19 15:40

I've noticed something similar. I blame it on GPS and the increase in the amount of SD's willing to pay for GPS.

Originally Posted by Toomgis [View Original Post]

I've been on SA awhile and had good luck last year, but this year is a complete drought. My problem lately is not getting responses to my initial messages. So I'm wondering what works. I think mine might be too lengthy.

**Twister100** · 05-05-19 10:52

Originally Posted by Toomgis [View Original Post]

I've been on SA awhile and had good luck last year, but this year is a complete drought. My problem lately is not getting responses to my initial messages. So I'm wondering what works. I think mine might be too lengthy.

The SB's are generally inundated with messages so keep it short, to the point, and tactful. I would save the your backstory and specifics for follow up conversations.

**Toomgis** · 05-04-19 22:24

I've been on SA awhile and had good luck last year, but this year is a complete drought. My problem lately is not getting responses to my initial messages. So I'm wondering what works. I think mine might be too lengthy.

**Twister100** · 05-04-19 20:31

Originally Posted by AK6571 [View Original Post]

Brothers,

I have been on the forum for a while, but pretty new to SA. I have had absolutely no luck finding any girls willing to meet. I have exchanged texts with a few of them and it has not really gone anywhere.

A lot of you guys seem to have had quite a bit of fun with the women in SA. I would appreciate suggestions on specific girls you have seen. For context, I am big on greek and open to BB Greek though BB is not a must. I would prefer girls 18-32 (I am in that age range).

Would greatly appreciate any suggestions from you fine gentlemen (or lack thereof).

Where would you say your primary failure is? SB's aren't responding to your initial message on SA or not following up to your texts?

**Michael1967** · 05-04-19 14:28

Originally Posted by AK6571 [View Original Post]

Brothers,

I have been on the forum for a while, but pretty new to SA. I have had absolutely no luck finding any girls willing to meet. I have exchanged texts with a few of them and it has not really gone anywhere.

A lot of you guys seem to have had quite a bit of fun with the women in SA. I would appreciate suggestions on specific girls you have seen. For context, I am big on greek and open to BB Greek though BB is not a must. I would prefer girls 18-32 (I am in that age range).

Would greatly appreciate any suggestions from you fine gentlemen (or lack thereof).

I'm in my early 50's (already in shape) and have done well with on SA 23-35 YO. I have been texting daily with an 18 YO and have been on the fence about meeting her (18 is a little young for me). She did text some pictures over to me today that pretty much has changed my mind. Once my big head takes over again, I'll probably be back on the fence.

I won't give you names (I'm assuming some of them want their privacy and I want to keep that aren't actually escorts to myself), but I'm confused on why you're having trouble. Unless you are dealing with an escort, you really do have to strike up a conversation. The quickest way to turn off a lady is to start talking about meeting right away and asking how much they want. I've never discussed a sex act with anyone on SA, so if you're doing that, it may be the problem. Generally, after the first meet and greet, it's assumed that I will give her the allowance she wants and she will put out. If we get together and we're not compatible, I move on. It's always worked that way, but if I did give an allowance and she didn't do it, it would be last she'd hear from me. Other than that, I'm simply dumbfounded at why you are not having any success. If I truly had the time or money to meet everyone, I'd be busy at least 4 or 5 days per week. I can only guess it may be your age. Old men will take a bunch of shit off of a hot 22 YO to keep her. A 32 YO, not as much. Maybe they know that.

At far as the butt sex, I can't help you there. I'm not really into it. It seems when I've done it (in non pay for play), it was mainly with younger people and we were drunk. The other guy on here said to look for it with older women, which makes sense.

**DrtyHarry** · 05-04-19 11:23

I think I met her on SA a while back but never met in person. Here is a pic. Can someone I'd her, did anyone see her? What was the experience like?

**TravelPooner** · 05-04-19 09:22

Originally Posted by AK6571 [View Original Post]

Brothers,

I have been on the forum for a while, but pretty new to SA. I have had absolutely no luck finding any girls willing to meet. I have exchanged texts with a few of them and it has not really gone anywhere.

A lot of you guys seem to have had quite a bit of fun with the women in SA. I would appreciate suggestions on specific girls you have seen. For context, I am big on greek and open to BB Greek though BB is not a must. I would prefer girls 18-32 (I am in that age range).

Would greatly appreciate any suggestions from you fine gentlemen (or lack thereof).

I am in my early 40's, have gotten back in shape and have been doing very well with the 25-35 crowd on SA. In discussions with these ladies they almost all want older guys as a change from men their age. Might be part of the issue but you never know.

My experience with Greek has been much better with the 35-45 age group. As they are more experienced with sex and know what they want vs the 18-20 somethings.

You could always hit up Emily or sub whatever her name is if you want some submissive bb Greek. She is at the top end of your range but her ass is open for whatever you want.

Otherwise you need to spend a little time finding a kinky gal who is up for Greek which may take some time or you need to ease her into it. If you are good in bed and give them enough good times they tend to let you try new things after a bit.

Just my experience. Good luck!

**DelToro** · 05-02-19 21:12

I agree with IrishGuy.

I too got the three months deal with SDM and in those three months I got a third of the interactions I get in a month on SA.

I did manage to fuck a couple of women from SDM. Both were good, I repeated with one. I wanted to repeat with the other one but she went silent.

Overall even being a third of the price, SDM is not worth it compared to SA.

**AK6571** · 05-02-19 18:44

Brothers,

I have been on the forum for a while, but pretty new to SA. I have had absolutely no luck finding any girls willing to meet. I have exchanged texts with a few of them and it has not really gone anywhere.

A lot of you guys seem to have had quite a bit of fun with the women in SA. I would appreciate suggestions on specific girls you have seen. For context, I am big on greek and open to BB Greek though BB is not a must. I would prefer girls 18-32 (I am in that age range).

Would greatly appreciate any suggestions from you fine gentlemen (or lack thereof).

**IrishGuy1977** · 05-02-19 16:25

I know many on here have noted success on SDM. I tried both for 3 months. I followed the same tactics that I have found successful on SA, however, did not have one successful meet from SDM. I did find a lot of GPS, let's meet right now, and time wasters types. That is when you could get a timely response. Overall I think caliber and variety of women on SDM fails in comparison to SA. I also like the prefer the SA user interface to SDM's. The proximity search really needs to be dialed in on SDM. The smallest distance is 100 miles. One thing I would like SA to implement is a User I'd search similar to SDM.

Just my humble opinion after a true side by side comparison is that spending the extra money on SA is well worth it.

Interested in hearing from anyone who has had a different or more successful result from SDM. If so, did you approach things differently between the two sites?

**SeattleSilver1** · 05-02-19 09:47

Originally Posted by NewHere27 [View Original Post]

Any info on her? Inclined on contacting her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5ac19...c-15c55b28c900

We had a coffee-type first date. Nice girl, and very attractive, but not enough chemistry between the two of us for a second date.

**DelToro** · 05-01-19 12:10

Originally Posted by Martinh [View Original Post]

Ok. I'm going in and see if it works. Especially since Little Panda sent me a message.

Little panda is a pro.

The real gems in SA, require work. Very rarely they will reach to you.

You need to be proactive. Write an interesting profile with some photos. You can use some unidentifiable pictures of you or find a pic online that is somewhat close to how you look. Tune your message, hint longer term with pay per meet to start.

And that if you match you expect sex on the first date.

Then write some messages. Many would not reply, but 25-35 % of them would. And if your approach is straight forward enough then those are good potential women to fuck

In my opinion the sweet spot are late 20s to early 40s hot milfs that need financial help and attention.

**Michael1967** · 05-01-19 11:32

Originally Posted by Martinh [View Original Post]

Ok. I'm going in and see if it works. Especially since Little Panda sent me a message.

Use the magnet option (9. 99) it will put you on the front page for 24 hours. You'll get at least 20 messages right from the start. It will be a good way to start off. You have to buy the magnet and then activate it (nothing on the site tells you that).