"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**PeteMc** · 05-01-19 07:26

I'm posting to Richmond because of the relatively high activity of this thread even though it's not a regional topic. In various city threads, I've seen reviews of girls I've had for the 150-250 range being reviewed at the 300-400 mark (or at least that was their ask). You don't have to pay these amounts, and you shouldn't unless it is an overnight or weekend stay, or there is some other special circumstance.

I suspect the over-paying might be happening because we get impatient when we think with our secondary heads. The way to win at sugaring is to play the long game and use timing to your advantage. It's not an auction and it's not like buying a home. With a house, you stand the risk of losing the opportunity to own the house if someone bids slightly higher. This is not the case with girls. I low ball offer girls all the time and I'm surprised at how many say yes initially. More often, they suddenly go silent with the low ball offer. I let it simmer, then later they contact me later with acceptance. Patience pays off! They don't always reach out again, but once a large enough network is built, it doesn't matter that some get away. Sometimes girls who wanted 800 text me 2-3 weeks later with a change of heart once reality set in. Meanwhile there is always some poor chump out there somewhere who probably paid 500 and thought he got a deal. Don't be the chump!

**HawkJock** · 04-30-19 10:09

Gents. ,

I will be in your town this week and will have an entire day off to explore. Will try to dabble in the sugar bowl (entire day date with adventures, exploring, dinners, food, etc.) but if that falls thru, do you recommend a massage parlor? Looking for a legit 60-90 minute massage with an unrushed HE. Or if I do find a SB, a massage parlor that will do a couple's massage, erotic style? Think 60-90 minute, one provider that does massage on both, while me and SB massage one another's private parts. No erotic participation by provider, just massage and willing to be creative while me and SB work out the real kinks.

**RVASpider** · 04-29-19 22:48

Neither are new members and have been on the site for a while. I had great conversations with both by text, got pics that seemed to be real, and set up specific days to meet. The day of the meetings for both of them they go silent and I haven't heard from them since. Anyone else have similar experiences or actually get to meet them?

**EasyeOne** · 04-29-19 22:46

Originally Posted by WaterBoi [View Original Post]

There aren't that many in Richmond on the site. I'm sure we're all messaging the same ones. Let's share info.

Pic seller. Online / text only. https://www.seeking.com/member/d47b6...5-1e69fc9790a7.

Meet and greet only. Takes your cash and then ghosts you: https://www.seeking.com/member/4a4a6...f-c38b58f62005.

Not sure about this one. We were texting a bit and then she just blocked me. Didn't say anything graphic. Just chatting about art and game of thrones. https://www.seeking.com/member/de446...c-89c7595a8860.

Horrible mic skills and can't math. Just an overall poor experience. https://www.seeking.com/member/ab538...5-d28b40617c76.

Has anyone met up with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/44537...8-e151df05254e.

Seems down for almost everything but haven't been able to meet.

Never met up with her since I did not agree to pay for a M&G, but she offered pics / videos. Her reddit profile is more honest, online only and you can buy her panties: https://i.redd.it/zbfgzgqab4s21.jpg or https://www.reddit.com/r/usedpanties...es_i_have_all/.

**Mark User** · 04-29-19 08:56

I checked the site and after clicking on a profile, noticed that I had sent a message that I did not send:

"You caught my attention. Are you interested in an arrangement. ".

And there was a response!

"Yes I am thank you for looking at my profile. ".

This was the exact same 2 messages for 3 different persons!

**Cabsauv1997** · 04-28-19 22:56

Originally Posted by Truncated [View Original Post]

That profile is a scam.

Oh, I'm sure you're right, but man, on some level you kind of have to admire the artistry there.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-27-19 18:58

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

She sent me a Hello out of the blue. I did not found her pictures attractive. Needs some eyebrows. Like so many women do me, I ignored her message.

That's exactly what she did to me. She reached out and for some reason her pics looked familiar.

**JustLonely** · 04-27-19 12:09

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her. Seems like a pro.

Tiffany - https://www.seeking.com/member/e52cb...6-9a3c2e8be42b.

Thanks,

She sent me a Hello out of the blue. I did not found her pictures attractive. Needs some eyebrows. Like so many women do me, I ignored her message.

**DWinthrop** · 04-27-19 11:19

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Respond to PMs, give out phone numbers etc.

But when you check their profile, it indicates that they have not seen your profile.

Is that normal or should I ignore those SBs since this could indicate that they are flakes.

Totally normal, these girls, at least the younger hot ones, get 100's of messages a day. They often spend most of the time clearing out their inbox. If they read your PM but don't click through to your profile it won't show.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-27-19 11:14

Respond to PMs, give out phone numbers etc.

But when you check their profile, it indicates that they have not seen your profile.

Is that normal or should I ignore those SBs since this could indicate that they are flakes.

**RegularJoe1985** · 04-27-19 08:39

Anyone seen her. Seems like a pro.

Tiffany - https://www.seeking.com/member/e52cb...6-9a3c2e8be42b.

Thanks,

**Hal1957** · 04-26-19 19:24

She found SA a little too late in the year. 2017, two years ago. She's been perfecting the pitch ever since then. Would love to see a first hand account.

Originally Posted by Cabsauv1997 [View Original Post]

If this is on the level, it's amazing:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c8b5c...9-6d8121cab164

**Truncated** · 04-26-19 17:50

Originally Posted by Cabsauv1997 [View Original Post]

If this is on the level, it's amazing:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c8b5c...9-6d8121cab164

That profile is a scam.

Notice how she conveniently won't be available until fall? How unlucky that you found her just at the end of the school year.

She will promise to do all that kinky stuff with you this fall. In the meantime, she'll need a summer's worth of money PayPal'ed to her.

No 20 year old writes like this: "Daddy will meet me once or twice a month; use and abuse me fiercely, and send me home quivering and whimpering from pleasure and exhaustion. ".

**BookerTNelson** · 04-26-19 16:26

Originally Posted by RVASpider [View Original Post]

Do you delete it or change your profile name? I just changed my profile name but am considering creating a new profile. I guess I lose all my blocks and messages though if I do it that way. The site is blowing up with new girls now that school is winding up.

Completely delete.

**TomDickNHarry** · 04-26-19 10:37

Originally Posted by RVASpider [View Original Post]

I'm texting with her. Her profile just changed to show her city as Charlotte. I'm not sure what to think about her at this point.

That's always a red flag. I've noticed a few lately that change from my city to another, and then another even in same day. When they show up as in my city, I've gotten messages back from them that usually say something like "I'm actually in Minnesota" or the like. At that point I'm done but often the city keeps changing. They're trolling for suckers for some kind of online scam, travel money or selling pics or something like that. Pros will also do that to set up a bunch of dates in a city they go visit for a few days. But the only legit reason for a true SB to change cities is going on a trip or moving.